Thread 23108461

My fantasies about sex were better than the real thing in some ways, namely the actual sex act itself and me having a huge hard penis that is hard during the entire encounter and I successfully climax, and the girl doesn't say or do anything un-sexy during the act.

Afterword though, cuddling and hugging and kissing and holding and rubbing and slapping and spanking the girl (my wife) while she whispers how much she loves me and how much fun she had is awesome, and I never even fantasied about that part.

So overall, it's a mixed bag. I think I will enjoy sex more the more I do it and get better at it though.

>>23108461 (OP)
Skill issue

i will kill myself

i dunno
>>23108461 (OP)
>Afterword though, cuddling and hugging and kissing and holding and rubbing and slapping and spanking the girl (my wife) while she whispers how much she loves me and how much fun she had is awesome, and I never even fantasied about that part.
everyone seems to say this
it always surprises me how that's not something any guys fantasize about

it seems retarded
i will kill myself

>>23108698
Don't commit suicide you won't be able to play Half-Life 3.

>>23108952
it won't happen i tell yaf

I feel the same way. I used to be on 200mg SSRIs/day and when I went to lose my virginity I struggled to keep it hard and ruined the whole experience. It wasn't until I decreased my dosage and got with a woman who inspired confidence and comfort that I was able to have good satisfying sex for me and her. And I 100% agree cuddling and lovey words after is out of this world amazing and makes the whole experience so much better and satisfying

it really is only a means to cuddling, i don't know how other people don't realize this from the start