Thread 23131173

I spent my entire life not speaking to people and it has damaged me forever

>>23131173 (OP)
yeah, i feel you..
it's fucking scary having no connections or place in the world, especially as you get older

>>23131173 (OP)
>>23131181
do you just loose friends as you mature?

>>23131191
often yeah, but i don't think it's normal to lose all of them
you should have atleast one or two friends at all times, or atleast that's how it was in the past

some friends are just shallow/petty, and you find out because you change while they don't
happens in higshcool sometimes
sometimes you both change alot, but you still hang out, kinda like siblings
i think for strong bonds it's best to have alot of shared experiences together
i hear people meet up with friends, but it's just like an IRL discord call basically
you gotta go break into public pools at night with friends, and do memorable shit like that

>>23131173 (OP)
never to late to start

>>23131223
I have nothing to say. What people say to others is built and learned from past experiences and I have none of that

>>23131258
everyone has SOME similar experiencesfrom life
that's the whole point of "breaking the ice"
it can be awkward at first but you can find people you get along with, and you can have enough past experience after a few weeks to be comfortable with that person
maybe

what sort of past experience do you think you lack? or is it just a general feeling?

i sound like a retard, i don't know man

>>23131265
>everyone has SOME similar experiencesfrom life
I have done literally nothing from birth to present day and I have nothing in common with anyone. I don't listen to the same music as anyone, I didn't play the same video games as anyone, I didn't use the same websites as anyone, I literally do not relate to anyone in any possible way

>>23131258
if you can just get them to start talking about what THEY want to talk about, they will talk to you and they will enjoy it

>>23131304
I guess it's worth keeping that in mind

>needing to speak to people
time to level up anon

goes without saying since you still post wojaks in 2025

>>23131304
>>23131318
true

>>23131289
you eat food and drink food and sleep and do recreational stuff like everyone else
it's a retarded example but you use 4chan, and post wojaks
hundreds of thousands of people have done that, or atleast know about it
i'm just saying you're not even trying if that's your response
it might not work to do icebreakers or whatever with people, but still, you gotta atleast have the outlook that these are people just like you
otherwise nothing will change

>drink food
i need to sleep
you get it though

>>23131289
>I didn't use the same websites as anyone
you're literally on mainstream website with thousands of daily active users and most of them live in the us

nobody wants to hangout with you because you're dumb

I just manifested my friends.