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>If a woman likes you, she will pursue you.
She might do things like stand closer to you, find some reason to strike up a conversation with you, act flirty, laugh at your jokes, touch you in an "incidental" way, give you certain looks, drop hints, etc.
But she will not ever ask you out on a date, initiate a kiss, invite you back to her place for sex, or anything else that is an undeniable real move toward sex. It's the man's role in the process to do that, and if he never does so, she will eventually give up and assume that he isn't interested in her.
And if a woman is ever very direct and sexual with you, you need to be extremely wary. Pretty much the only time that happens is either when the girl is extremely drunk/high and you run a high risk of next day regret rape allegations, OR she is setting you up to go somewhere isolated where her boyfriend or pimp is waiting to rob you.
>If she doesn't, not even giving your life to her will change her mind.
You are correct. If a girl isn't interested in you, you aren't ever going to win her over by simping for you.
Which is why you should invest as little of your time, attention, emotions, effort, money, etc into any girl that you haven't already established a sexual/romantic relationship yet. You need to make a move ASAP to force a potential rejection as early as possible.
Rejections are not a bad thing. Getting a solid no early is a good thing, because now you have your answer and can move on to a different one instead of wasting your time and being a simp and then still getting rejected months down the line.
>The best move is to not move
No, absolutely not. Never making a move just guarantees that you will remain a sad, lonely, foreveralone virgin forever.
The best move is to stop trying to avoid rejections and make a move as early as possible with every girl that you are interested in.