>>23176556
this is generalising, but..
look at Britain's manners and extreme indirectness, or Germany's fastidiousness when it comes to adhering to rules without question—not dissimilar from Japan and other East Asian countries
there's a certain degree of formality, coldness, and distance in the red countries, balanced with an open-mindedness which we don't see quite as much in the blue countries
and the blue countries are much warmer interpersonally, but perhaps more rigidly adherent to traditions and dogma
think about how those differences might seem similar to East Asia and South America respectively from OP's perspective, rather than your perspective
the red countries just so happen to mostly align with countries which adopted Protestantism during the reformation, and mainly have languages descendant from Proto-Germanic
the blue countries lean more Orthodox and Catholic, with languages primarily rooted in Latin (the language of the Catholic church)
think about how culture and language symbiotically influence each other
what's more, the map correlates somewhat with biological differences, alongside the cultural and linguistic
why might OP see people of the Mediterranean European racial subtype as more similar to him, along a variety of axes, compared to the more alien Germanic subtype, and why might that more alien subtype seem more like the reserved and distant East Asians?
we don't wear our heart on our sleeves, and we might value politeness and harmony over directness