Thread 23178519

/bant/ is not a substitute for meaningful and fulfilling real life social interactions

yeah well what do you want me to do?

everybody is retarded

Damn nigga u over here dropping the wisdom of the ancients

Why not? Articulate instead of shitting out a one line quip.

>>23178519 (OP)
false nuke

>>23178538
a fulfilling social interaction is one in which we feel completely heard and accepted by another person. this type of interaction can only happen in a live irl physical setting because we want to be seen for what we really look like, heard for all that we have to say, and accepted for what we are. additionally, we want to share experiences with another person which cannot truly happen unless you are with them physically. with purely text and even vocal communication, there is a disconnect that leaves us longing for a deeper connection

>>23178586
>additionally, we want to share experiences with another person which cannot truly happen unless you are with them physically. with purely text and even vocal communication, there is a disconnect that leaves us longing for a deeper connection
that part is true
shared experiences very important

online interaction guarantees NO shared experience, but irl interaction DOESN'T guarantee shared experience
some people seem to get tripped up by this, and think they're destined to be alone or have shallow friendships
people be having irl discord calls basically, where they sit in their house and eat and talk
you gotta do urban exploration or go actually do shit with your friends in order to build the bonds everyone yearns for

>>23178586
There's no need to feel 'completely heard' or 'accepted'. This is like a blind comment box where you speak your mind, fold the paper in half and drop it in. The papers are spread out and read aloud to everybody except it happens all at once in real time.

>>23178601
truke - you need to have meaningful experiences. you can do that at home too so long as you are both actively engaged with an experience like cooking, building something, or whatever

>>23178616
I think there is a human need to be heard and be accepted

>>23178616
just because you're too somple to understand it does not mean it doesn't happen
2neuron ameoba

>>23178637
very true

>>23178519 (OP)
banters are usually nice and that's enough

>>23178519 (OP)
>meaningful and fulfilling
What year is it?

>>23178586
This is a very good projection of what you believe to be important and fulfilling in a social interaction. Different people have different needs, wants and opinions therefore a single blanket statement of x, y and z are the only ways to effectively socialize is inappropriate. My question was rhetorical and a form of a litmus test. You're guilty of the one true Scotsman fallacy claiming that social interaction can't happen online with real people because a true social interaction can only happen face to face. This is the pitfall of your hypothesis. Your designation is not all encompassing nor is it empirical.
The equivalent argument would be "all real life social interactions are better than online interactions" which again is relative and a broad statement. Would you say being berated by your boss is better than talking shit online?
I hope you see the folly of your stance and how foolish it makes you look.
>oh yeah well what's your argument smart guy
You can't designate worth for everyone on any one thing. It's why we have multiple religions, why flat earth is still a thing and why some people go to therapy and others don't.
Fulfillment, worth and meaning are all subjective.

>>23178926
kys

>>23178523
uhhhh yeah well uhh your mom actually lol *dabs*

>>23179341
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v841cz6DUaQ

>>23178523
damn just like real life

>>23179430
it's not supposed to be this way

One day we will all be dead. Think about that.

>>23179447
I'm drinking child blood to live forever

>>23179543
Would you recommend it?

>>23179447
memento mori

>>23179561
Is being aware of your own mortality considered onions behavior now?

>>23178519 (OP)
rich people avoid the masses

Its hot outside thoughwhatever and I don't want to do random things with people that require leaving my house on my days off.

>>23179574
no i didn't mean it that way
i meant it with no layers of sarcasm
the onions pointing guy saying "memento mori" is me when someone reminds of mortality

>>23178586

Me laughing at my posts is meaningful and fulfilling.

>>23179740
I sometimes laugh at my own posts days later

>>23179589
Oh yeah you didn't use a meme arrow. My bad I'm just used to cynicism.

>>23179799
i get it man
it's fucked up

true but ever since I moved no one around me irl shares my interests, and I'm absolutely terrible at making friends online.

>>23178519 (OP)
Wish it was at least like the old /b/