Thread 23261473

>go touch grass incell!!
went for an evening walk and saw nothing but people my age having fun in groups or walking hand in hand with their partners
if anything im now more depressed and radicalized

I take massive walks in a populated downtown area and it's nice to be around people enjoying their lives and loving each other etc and I get to go home and not deal with any of the negative hidden aspects that you don't see. Remember at least some of those women will die by the hand of the guys you see. Some of those guys will kill themselves over her. Some will end up just like you.. a wanderer.

>>23261473 (OP)
find somewhere isolated to walk
or maybe try talking to them, perhaps in more approachable scenarios like a starbucks or something

>>23261496
that is... kind of a good philosophy?
>Remember at least some of those women will die by the hand of the guys you see. Some of those guys will kill themselves over her. Some will end up just like you.. a wanderer.
this can help keep things in perspective and avoid envy, but ideally you shouldn't take pleasure/satisfaction in the thought of them losing what they have

the reality, is that they're just as lonely, or even afraid of being lonely as you are, and the relationships they cultivate are ultimately a vain attempt to fulfill this end of avoiding that pain of being lonely, rather than trying to cultivate meaningful connection with eachother. as long as they can show others that they are not "lonely", then they themselves can believe that they are not lonely, when they actually are.

>>23261510
Oh for sure. It's because I've been on the bad side of things that I choose to not engage in that anymore but prefer to observe it instead. Those happy moments are precious and I absolutely hope they continue to be so. Sad fact is they probably won't and that's not something that makes me happy. The fleeting moments do for sure.

good luck everyone

>>23261506
>maybe try talking to them
LMAO you’re the most retarded fucking poster here
>>23261534
Everyone is lonely, true

>>23261565
this is a fat guy who orders doordash, talks about bussy & rape, and brags about grooming, for the record
>LMAO you’re the most retarded fucking poster here
it really works, you know
especially if there's some shared experience you have with the people in the starbucks, like maybe a homeless guy comes in & does something crazy, you can make small talk and laugh about that with them

>>23261473 (OP)
Touch grass doesn't mean you actually have to touch grass, it means you should spend time off the internet.
But the fact that you immediately came back here means it didn't work.

>>23261611
Yeah sure, people like op who might have never been able to make friends even in group settings which FORCE you to make friends like school, waging etc can easily have the confidence and the capability to make small talk with normalniggers in fucking starbucks

>>23261640
there's nothing magical or forceful about those situations which leads to relationships more than other places
if first impressions in those groups are good, it's easy
if not, you can be locked out forever
making small talk has nothing to do with ability or confidence, it's just gambling and opportunism and using good judgment and clearing your head

someone with the best charisma & ability & judgment might make good small talk in public like 33% of the time, while someone with none might make good small talk 10% of the time
it's not that big of a difference, and like i said, it has more to do with opportunism and riffing on shared experience than anything

>>23261653
>there's nothing magical or forceful about those situations which leads to relationships more than other places
Yes there literally is, you meet the same people at school or work all the time, you do the same things, you are always in close proximity and sometimes forced to talk to them.
Do you think more people make friends in school or randomly on the fucking street?
>making small talk has nothing to do with ability or confidence
Some people are simply not able to talk to people they meet regularly, how do you expect such people to make small talk to strangers they just met
You’re repeating the most normie tier stupid advice
>yeah vro just talk to people in starbucks and stuff

>>23261676
>someone with the best charisma & ability & judgment might make good small talk in public like 33% of the time, while someone with none might make good small talk 10%
And someone who is genuinely socially retarded and autistic will make good small talk 0% of the time

>>23261691
>Yes there literally is, you meet the same people at school or work all the time, you do the same things, you are always in close proximity and sometimes forced to talk to them.
>Do you think more people make friends in school or randomly on the fucking street?
yeah i guess you're right, and there's more shared experiences & stuff
but like i said, if you make a bad first impression with those groups, you can be locked out forever
it doesn't necessarily mean "if he can't make friends in THOSE scenarios, he'll NEVER make friends in any other harder scenario", it could just be bad luck
>You’re repeating the most normie tier stupid advice
>>yeah vro just talk to people in starbucks and stuff
none of what we're talking about is advice on what to do
we're talking about whether OP should give up or whether he should not, you snake

>>23261496
>Remember at least some of those women will die by the hand of the guys you see. Some of those guys will kill themselves over her
i pray for nothing less

>>23261699
>And someone who is genuinely socially retarded and autistic will make good small talk 0% of the time
i've done it in the past
you know those people often have D&D groups and shit like that?
it has to do with whether you have good intentions, moreso than awkwardness
most people are shallow and care only about charisma vs awkwardness
a smaller percentage cares more about good intentions and meaningful relationships
social awkwardness can lock you out of relationships with that majority of shallow people, but the ones worth being friends with end up being the ones in the latter category, whether the shallow group likes you or not

>>23261721
you could pray for much better things lol

it's spit in the face of your own imagination and faculties
"i pray for my enemies to boil in shit forever for their transgressions, and for everyone to get what they deserve"
you could pray for them all to stop doing things which make them deserve to boil in shit, or for any other number of good things