Thread 23267208

I'm feeling awfully nervous because I didn't get a call back from that motherfucking HR despite getting so many signs that the interview went well. I've been waiting 4 damn days for their stupid confirmation and I still got nothing. I'm pissed off and I don't want to do anything.

>>23267208 (OP)
i think you're supposed to apply for 10,000 different jobs while waiting for the current job to get back to you

>>23267214
I'm applying to other schools but of course no one is fucking replying

the current meta is, every single person on earth applies to every single job to maximize their chances, and every HR department sifts through every single person on earth and picks someone randomly

>>23267218
i guess you could try to find ways to stand out, or maybe apply in person to certain places

I would wait until over a week
If they don't get back to you immediately then there's a high chance it's one of the HRs that schedule themselves to deal with you on a certain weekday (the same one you had the interview on)

>>23267225
why do people always tell you this?
if you go try to apply in person, some annoyed cashier is just gonna tell you to go to their indeed page.

we're past this.

>>23267208 (OP)
It really sucks to look for a job
A great reminder that nobody cares about or respects you

>>23267225
I stood out all the time, she asked me lots of questions about my interests and she was laughing and smiling all the time, that's why I'm pissed off. Now okay italian schools are generally known to have godawful waiting times and bureaucracy is this country's biggest cancer but it's getting really unnerving since they said they were going to train the teachers and the schools are starting in like 6 days.
>>23267228
Yeah I'll wait until Wednesday and then get in touch again.

>>23267236
that's exactly why i'm not doin' it.

they give me nothing but shit my entire childhood, and tell me that i'll start being treated like a person when i'm an adult, and then the treatment gets worse.

btw I had to fake my experience otherwise I'd never get noticed. I have some experience and the best certification out there. I'm confident I'm better than many other teachers but they still asked me why I quit working in the other school and I had to tell them that the contract expired lmao
job hunting is as grim as trying to date girls on an app

>>23267230
Yeah that's more than half of how it turns out but at least you aren't gambling with some HR ladies that don't even know how the website works
If you both apply online and go in person, your chances of at least being talked to are a whole lot higher

>>23138513
Never heard back from this "interview" and it pisses me off. Can't even get confirmation that a human is hiring you these days.

>>23267236
yeah, they're supposed to care about how much money you can make them, that's the whole point
if you're looking for a job that "cares about you" that's retarded

>>23267243
sorry that happened
>that's exactly why i'm not doin' it.
then why give advice like this >>23267230? has it happened to you?

Like when I get into this mood I want to distract myself with some nostalgiaslop and I want to try out obscure old visual novels but I get demotivated immediately after downloading the games and I feel like bedrotting all day. It sucks.

>>23267208 (OP)
>didn't get a call back from that motherfucking HR
that's "ghosting"
it means they decided against you, or if it's external HR, their client is dragging their feet.
either way, there is nothing you can do.
learn to expect NOTHING after an interview.

>>23267288
you could watch old playthroughs of htem maybe
i like watching yogscast videos, and old lets plays of RPGmaker horror games

>>23267300
>that's "ghosting"
They asked me to stay in touch and contact them by Wednesday evening. I texted them on that day and they told me they were waiting for the confirmation from the client. Also they asked me to send them a proof that my degree can verify my C2 level.

>>23267307
So just keep waiting and stay in touch

>>23267300
>>23267317
>dragging their feet.
Yeah i'm thinking that's what's happening right now. They said they'd contact me as soon as I get new information but I didn't want to ask them whether they were hiring me because that would've been rude. I'm just annoyed bc there is a slight chance they might have held my hopes up only to lie and ghost me.

>>23267329
good luck

>job i actually want to do
>conflicts with sabbath
>only job that wants me is soul sucking amazon
what did God mean by this...

>>23267343
maybe he meant you should start your own business

>>23267345
my dad had his own business. it's competitor was amazon.

>>23267362
oh shit

>>23267365
yeah idk...

>>23267343
He means for you to suffer
I don't know what your suffering is supposed to teach you, but it's always there to help you grow into a better person

>>23267376
i realize things are fucked right now, so idk
it seems like the US still has more opportunity than alot of other countries
if you can find any weird opportunities unique to your situation, it's best to take them
like maybe there's a family friend who would pay you $200 to transfer his VHS tapes to digital media, or do some photography or something
maybe there's some sort of niche in your town, or you could get a job at a local business
i don't know really

>>23267380
idk...

>>23267380
i'm not so sure

>>23267390
i wish... anything is better than this.

>>23267285
It's not the company's responsibility to do that, obviously
I'm talking about the individuals in the company
It's their responsibility to do things in a way that's beneficial for the company, obviously. But they also ought to be respectful and recognize you as an actual person not just a resume

>>23267419
that is true, or atleast there's no reason it should be any other way
it's not too much to expect to have decent coworkers, and it seems kinda random from job-to-job whether the coworkers are good or not

>>23267329
>there is a slight chance they might have held my hopes up only to lie and ghost me.
there is a 100% chance all of them are doing that to every candidate.
the chorus in your head should be "bullshit bullshit bullshit" over everything they say.
in fact, that should be your thoughts of anyone saying anything in the corporate world.

>>23267842
>there is a 100% chance all of them are doing that to every candidate.
i got hired twice so it can't always be the case

>>23267214
yeah this is what i did i applied for about 5-10 jobs every day for a month until i got one
95% of them never respond to you

this was pre-AI shit though, companies now filter through applications with AI so i wouldn't doubt it's worse now. thankfully been stable in my job for the past 5 years

>>23267921
i see, that is good
i dropped out of highschool and have never had a job, i'm 21

>>23267286
YES.
which is why,
i'm not doin' it.

it wasn't even advice, it was just a statement. that's literally just true.

>>23267952
>>23267947
"this is what's gonna happen. we're past this."
pretty gay statement

i've tripped on a rock 3 times
next time you go outside, you WILL trip on a rock, this is literally just true
every time you go outside in fact

>>23267907
they have days when they're less evil than usual

>>23268040
eheheh

>>23267980
are you in favor of lynching HR? or are you one of them?

>>23268049
neither
i think some fucking deadmachine worshippers who think they're archons of this world created HR teams & made this paradigm exist
the social tension shit just makes everyone weaker

"just one more lynching bro just one more blood feud bro just let us stone this guy bro utopia will finally emerge"
that's not how things got good
my whole god damned life the same shit

look, anger is there to stop boundaries from being violated, and you're right to feel like your boundaries are violated
i don't know what you should do but not that

>>23267971
too fucking bad, because that's the reality of the situation. there is no applying in person, that concept was invented by old people.

>>23268059
>"just one more lynching bro just one more blood feud bro just let us stone this guy bro utopia will finally emerge"
you are really bad at analogies.

>>23268061
it works with local businesses, for example

>>23268068
help me

>>23267208 (OP)
Usually if an interview actually goes well you'll get confirmation that you got the job during the interview itself, or be called right the next one.

Never wait out for an interviewer to call you back. Contact multiple companies, go to multiple interviews, have more options.
By not banking all your hopes on one specific company you will be more confident in each interview and care less about rejection, which will make you more likely to succeed.

The same strategy also applies to dating bTw.

>>23268135
>The same strategy also applies to dating bTw.
nOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

FUCK

>>23268135
>you'll get confirmation that you got the job
They're working with schools so I need to wait their confirmation. They asked me to send them something that would prove my level and said I should contact them by Wednesday so I thought they were going to hire me.

human beings aren't gonna be capable of raising children at this rate

>>23268144
they already aren't, look at declining birth rates and how many young kids stare at ipads 24/7

>>23268144
Population collapse is inevitable at this point. Happened many times before in history and it happened just like it's happening now.
Seriously, we're far past the tipping point where fertility rates can recover to maintain this civilization.

>>23268202
i'm just saying, africans don't give their kids ipads to stare at, they don't use dating apps & "keep their options open" perpetually into their 30s & go without commitments, etc
you say this like it's all of humanity but it's not, it's only a certain class

>you say this like...
you didn't, but that's almost always the implication when people bring this up

Maybe sharing some spaghetti with other anons will help?
Its not till tomorrow but may give u something to look forward to :)
>>23268257

>>23268276
maybe, but you don't have to contribute to that personally
i'm not saying this because you have some responsibility to help society or whateverthefuck
i'm saying it because things will go better for you personally if you make commitments & don't give into this anxious bullshit "keep your options open" thing

>>23268295
:O

They say embracing the Lotus Sutra can liberate you from your suffering, but you have to expiate all your negative karma from your previous lives first.