Thread 23286681

It's over, I don't understand, I think I'm an incel, but I don't understand it. Even women have told me that I'm attractive because I'm handsome and because I'm 1.87 meters tall, but I realized that women find me disgusting. Today at school, I asked a friend the time and in front of a friend there was a woman. We made eye contact for about 2 seconds, but it was noticeable that the woman was uncomfortable, and all women find me disgusting.

>>23286681 (OP)
why are you posting on bant?

>>23286681 (OP)
why not r9k or adv?

>>23286681 (OP)
I diagnose you with autism
>>23286683
Because /bant/ gives the best advices, obviously

>>23286697
he's not gonna reply
he will now because i said he's not going to

fucking glowies
can't have a single hospitable place

FUCK

>>23286685
people still use adv?

>>23286708
If OP doesn't come back then he's gay

>>23286714
yeah apparently
it's pretty bad the past year from what i've seen
lots of thinly veiled "best way to commit suicide, bros?" threads, tiktok videos with OP essays telling people to give up, etc
no fucking moderation

>>23286718
tsmt

Lookism/blackpill lied to you. Just because you're tall or good-looking, that doesn't mean that you'll get women.

There are some other traits that make you be seen as a man in women's eyes that have nothing to do with looks.
How dominant and confident you are, how you interact with others, your social circle and how respected you are, how you live your life, lots of small minutia about your body language that women's eyes are very keen to, etc.

Even if you're tall and good looking, if you're shy, or a complete pussy that can't talk to girls without stuttering, not assertive, or exhibit all kinds of submissive behavior you'll either never get anything with them.
Or in the case that you do, you'll be used and abused, treated like shit, disrespected and cheated on.

Picture related is the perfect example of what I'm talking about. This picture really does say more than a thousand words.

On paper, he's such an amazing catch. Tall, good-looking, looks like he goes to the gym, dresses well, apparently makes good money (new car behind him), considerate, etc.
But in reality, his behavior is needy and submissive. His eyes light like a puppy when he sees her, he's the one following her lead, jumping through all the hoops he sets for her, always hurrying to please her, kiss her ass and tell her how amazing she is.

His character is the reason he isn't taken seriously, respected, and will be discarded like a rag eventually. He LOOKS like a man but doesn't ACT and THINK like a man.
And attraction isn't purely looks-based. The #1 thing is how you make them feel. Your looks might put your feet in the door but unmasculine behavior will ick them away Every. Single. Time.

I used to avoid staring at women with their boobs out and shit like that, then I realized there was zero point to it and stare all I want now. not like I'm ever going to interact with them again living in a city.