>>23537852 (OP)
Keeping a tidy and clean home is NOT a difficult job. My house is always good. The laundry is always kept up. There are never any clothes on the floor. My dishes are done after a reasonable load becomes apparent. I try not to let those build up. My fridge is kept stocked and is always clean.. Friends who stop by know they can always get something out of my fridge. I don't leave junk on my countertops or end tables ever. That's where a lot of people begin their stumbles into having ugly disordered houses. My garage is kept clean and all tools are in their proper places.
The only thing I don't do is make my bed. I make that once a week when I wash the sheets and blankets. I'll also skimp on dusting.
What's so difficult about this for some women? I'm a single guy living in a house with a detached garage. I have no issues whatsoever with house and lawn upkeep. This isn't difficult.
Those who can't or won't keep an ordered and clean house are are revealing mental illnesses, in my opinion. Whether potential girlfriend or friend, it's a huge red flag. I've noticed that messy friends tend to be shady in some way. If they're filthy, watch out for your valuables and wallet. Those types tend to be thieves.
Just what I've noticed.