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Anonymous (ID: GA+zpmfM) United States No.23576586 [Report] >>23576614 >>23576734 >>23576752 >>23576857
Hey any ideas how I can come off more attractive to women, should i learn guitar or something?

I tried being gay when I was really lonely but I don't think that's for me

any other gingers deal with being mocked? girls think it's really funny for some reaosn i don't get it
Anonymous (ID: mLpA69od) United States No.23576597 [Report] >>23576641
Hello, I'm here to save your thread.And by proxy.The entire universe you're welcome.
Anonymous (ID: R8WMTmVs) Sweden No.23576614 [Report] >>23576620
>>23576586 (OP)
Just don't care about it, unless you got a decent job and a stable life you're not gonna get a normal life with a house two kids, a dog and a Volvo.
Anonymous (ID: GA+zpmfM) United States No.23576620 [Report] >>23576644
>>23576614
easier said than done dude do you think i haven't tried people just never take my seriously
Anonymous (ID: lFRkBUB3) United States No.23576641 [Report]
>>23576597
thank you so much
Anonymous (ID: R8WMTmVs) Sweden No.23576644 [Report] >>23576649
>>23576620
Try working out and get buff, I'm sure you could land some pussy.
Anonymous (ID: YgGjZGHj) United States No.23576646 [Report] >>23576652
>I tried being gay
...
Anonymous (ID: GA+zpmfM) United States No.23576649 [Report] >>23576771
>>23576644
wow thanks for the most obvious thing in the world retard
Anonymous (ID: Y9aNEP4q) United States No.23576651 [Report] >>23576751
look like my dad when he was younger
Anonymous (ID: GA+zpmfM) United States No.23576652 [Report] >>23576751
>>23576646
it was a tranny but they did have a beard i was lonely dude
Melonade !!fCIvspJ9gor (ID: i52q66xS) United States No.23576734 [Report] >>23576745
>>23576586 (OP)
I might be going out on a limb here, but it sounds like you have self-confidence issues and maybe a lack of discipline in your life. On ironically, maybe try reading or watching some of Jordan Peterson’s videos, he might be a quack but his life advice seems to have helped a lot of young men.
What makes you attractive to women is going to very from woman-to-woman. Personally I don’t get the whole ginger mocking thing like I’d be DTF both Shawn White and Ed Sheeran but that’s just me.
Anonymous (ID: GA+zpmfM) United States No.23576745 [Report] >>23576758
>>23576734
people make fun of me all the time for it i've had women laugh in my face about it you have no idea what its like, id ont even understand who cares about having orange hair people are so cruel i can't deal with it
Anonymous (ID: Y9aNEP4q) United States No.23576751 [Report]
>>23576651
>>23576652
i didn't realize you were engaging with the thread
my dad grew a beard & i think he looked better with one than without
you could try that, if you feel like it
but yeah, if you're surrounded by the kind of girls who make fun of you for being a ginger, you should probably go to different environments & not give a fuck
Anonymous (ID: VI4LEf9X) United States No.23576752 [Report]
>>23576586 (OP)
Teach twerking classes, Mints. You got some serious cake on you, boy.
Anonymous (ID: YgGjZGHj) United States No.23576756 [Report] >>23576767
>>23576703
>>23576703
>>23576703
NEW
Melonade !!fCIvspJ9gor (ID: i52q66xS) United States No.23576758 [Report] >>23576769 >>23576774
>>23576745
Sounds like you’ve been around some dickhead, have you considered changing friend groups?
You should try finding a hobby with less judgmental people, like maybe tabletop games or something.
Melonade !!fCIvspJ9gor (ID: i52q66xS) United States No.23576767 [Report] >>23576774
>>23576756
Zamm, OP looks like THAT?!
Anonymous (ID: GA+zpmfM) United States No.23576769 [Report] >>23576798
>>23576758
ive tried so many times everyone just ends up making fun of me i don't know what it is about me i think people just sniff me out as week and try to turn everyone against me so people like them more
Anonymous (ID: R8WMTmVs) Sweden No.23576771 [Report]
>>23576649
You're welcome sonny
Anonymous (ID: VI4LEf9X) United States No.23576774 [Report] >>23576778 >>23576780 >>23576786 >>23576827
>>23576758
>>23576767
It’s a person from Fishtank, you retarded tranime pedo poster. OP is larping.
Anonymous (ID: Y9aNEP4q) United States No.23576778 [Report]
>>23576774
oh is it?
you know you can just write a helpful post without the feces and pedophilia invocation
Anonymous (ID: R8WMTmVs) Sweden No.23576780 [Report]
>>23576774
>OP is larping
A lotta retards on here doing that, line 'em up I say.
Anonymous (ID: GA+zpmfM) United States No.23576785 [Report] >>23576787 >>23576790 >>23576794 >>23576827
even here people tell me im larping what the fuck am i doing wrong everyone always hates me
Anonymous (ID: UkTBPKhG) United States No.23576786 [Report]
>>23576774
Pretty sure it’s actually mints
Anonymous (ID: THbK/NJL) United States No.23576787 [Report] >>23576791
>>23576785
Post a time stamp
Anonymous (ID: R8WMTmVs) Sweden No.23576790 [Report]
>>23576785
I didn't mean you were, you perhaps seem a bit too easily discouraged. I don't know what to do about that. Maybe do some MMA or boxing I hear that makes ppl tough.
Anonymous (ID: GA+zpmfM) United States No.23576791 [Report] >>23576796 >>23576802
>>23576787
filtering your id asshole
Anonymous (ID: Y9aNEP4q) United States No.23576794 [Report] >>23576827
>>23576785
you should listen to melonades advice probably
Anonymous (ID: Y9aNEP4q) United States No.23576796 [Report] >>23576827
>>23576791
what about mine?
Anonymous (ID: Y9aNEP4q) United States No.23576797 [Report] >>23576805 >>23576827
am i fucking shadowbanned or what?
Melonade !!fCIvspJ9gor (ID: i52q66xS) United States No.23576798 [Report] >>23576815
>>23576769
I find it hard to believe unless maybe you live in a place like Russia where everyone is just a fucking dick. IDK are you sure you’re not just taking their jokes out of context? Like people give me shit all the time for being an autistic spaz at work but I just let it slide off. In fact, they’ve been giving me shit since I was a little kid now that I think about it. But yeah, don’t take that shit too seriously just treat it like a joke even if it’s genuine and people will see that you’re not easy pickings. Also works if you’re being sexually harassed, I found.
Anonymous (ID: THbK/NJL) United States No.23576802 [Report]
>>23576791
I just want to know its really you sweetie peppermint
Anonymous (ID: R8WMTmVs) Sweden No.23576805 [Report]
>>23576797
No but you're drunk
Anonymous (ID: Y9aNEP4q) United States No.23576815 [Report]
>>23576798
what the fuck am i supposed to do
Anonymous (ID: Y9aNEP4q) United States No.23576819 [Report] >>23576823
how do i get a job that isn't a warehouse job with meth addicts
Anonymous (ID: R8WMTmVs) Sweden No.23576823 [Report] >>23576828
>>23576819
Try moving out of Chicago?
Melonade !!fCIvspJ9gor (ID: i52q66xS) United States No.23576827 [Report] >>23576832
>>23576774
It was a joke, Meds now.

>>23576785
See this is kind of what I was talking about, you’re overreacting to what one schizo poster said who might be shit posting just like I was. The best thing you can learn to do is try and have fun and awkward social situations. I know it sounds weird encounter productive, but believe me it works.

>>23576794
>>23576796
>>23576797
No, we’re just all ignoring you the discord chat.
(This is a joke mods please don’t ban me. I don’t use shitcord AKA pedocord AKA groomcord AKA domestic-terrorismcord. Really they should probably ban that app it’s caused more trouble than TikTok ever could’ve but I digress.)
Anonymous (ID: Y9aNEP4q) United States No.23576828 [Report] >>23576864
>>23576823
i'm not drunk or in chicago
Anonymous (ID: GA+zpmfM) United States No.23576832 [Report] >>23576854
>>23576827
thanks your being nice I appreciate i was just nervous about asking here i'll try to think about what you said
Melonade !!fCIvspJ9gor (ID: i52q66xS) United States No.23576854 [Report] >>23576862
>>23576832
Honestly, if you think it’s severe enough, maybe you should try seeing a psychologist or mental health specialist. I’ve heard they’ve helped other people before with social problems/reading social cues. I’m particularly horrible about reading social cues so even when people are being genuinely mean, I tend to think that they’re just trying to be rambunctious and funny. And when people are being rambunctious and funny, I tend to think that they are angry with me.
Anonymous (ID: tL1mesMU) United States No.23576857 [Report] >>23576861 >>23576890
>>23576586 (OP)
Goat pussy is even better than human pussy
Melonade !!fCIvspJ9gor (ID: i52q66xS) United States No.23576861 [Report] >>23576863
>>23576857
Thank you Ahmed, very cool.
Anonymous (ID: GA+zpmfM) United States No.23576862 [Report] >>23576888 >>23576890 >>23576892
>>23576854
i got sexually abused by a psych when i was younger haven't felt able to go back since
Anonymous (ID: THbK/NJL) United States No.23576863 [Report] >>23576890
>>23576861
Be his gf
Anonymous (ID: R8WMTmVs) Sweden No.23576864 [Report]
>>23576828
I don't believe you sir
Anonymous (ID: Y9aNEP4q) United States No.23576888 [Report] >>23576890
>>23576862
that is fucked
there might be support groups for that at the very least, you could meet people who relate
Melonade !!fCIvspJ9gor (ID: i52q66xS) United States No.23576890 [Report] >>23576894 >>23576898 >>23577021
>>23576862
Oh shit… I’m sorry to hear that. I’ve never been to one before myself. Really all my advice is just stuff I’ve learned by persevering and watching others.

>>23576863
Who? This guy: >>23576857 I don’t really want a goatfucker BF but thanks anyway.

>>23576888
Also OP you could try this.
Anonymous (ID: R8WMTmVs) Sweden No.23576892 [Report]
>>23576862
Is the psycho still alive? Could always get revenge?
Anonymous (ID: THbK/NJL) United States No.23576894 [Report]
>>23576890
Be OP’s girlfriend
Anonymous (ID: Y9aNEP4q) United States No.23576898 [Report] >>23576945
>>23576890
can i ask how you got a job, if it wouldn't be doxxing yourself?
you might've already said, but my memory is shit
i'm not sure what to do
Melonade !!fCIvspJ9gor (ID: i52q66xS) United States No.23576945 [Report] >>23576958
>>23576898
My mom and dad taught me the key to getting a job, it’s kind of a multi step process, but it looks kind of like this.
To start you need:
> a well written and condensed résumé, no more than maybe three pages. There’s plenty of free advice out there on how to make a good one so there’s no reason not to have this.
> modify the resume slightly for each job, a lot more skills than you think are important in a wide field of jobs. In particular, I found people skills, (not necessarily customer service but more people service related) are generally desirable across the board since a lot of future jobs that don’t require you to interact with people will probably be cut by AI
> a decent set of clothes, you don’t need like a pantsuit or anything just good business casual works.
> a good confident, professional attitude.
And really that’s all you need. Start by sending out an application and resume digitally, then follow up in a day or two to drop off a paper packet in person, this gets the employer’s attention that you’re serious about the position and want it. Also digital applications and résumé are fucking shit. Some of these places get literally hundreds of these so you’re not likely to stand out. showing up in person makes you memorable. After that, be sure to follow up with them via phone in about three days if you don’t hear anything back. And then a week after that if they’re still inconclusive. I’d say try to do as much of it through a person as possible since that’s generally how I’ve always gotten hired, emails and automated computer shit just is not reliable.
If you bring all of the above items and follow these sets, you’re well ahead of the curb of most other people. I’ve applied for probably a dozen jobs in this manner and I’ve only been rejected from like two or three, every other place offered me a job. Never once heard back from the 10 or so places I filled out purely digital and automated applications for.
Anonymous (ID: Y9aNEP4q) United States No.23576958 [Report]
>>23576945
ty
Anonymous (ID: EVgIIeU1) United States No.23577021 [Report]
>>23576890
I was telling him that cuz he's a fag
I was fucking a goat and asked OP if he wanted any and he stuck his head in the fence next to it