>>23579895 (OP)
it sounds like you have some kind of... I want to put this as nicely as possible so that you don't get defensive, because I want you to consider what I'm saying with an open mind... I think you have some 'deep sexual hangups'
I'm hoping that doesn't come across as judgemental or disrespectful in any way, because that's not my intent
were you ever ritually mutilated as a child?
i.e. has anyone ever damaged and hurt your penis with a sharp object, against your will, and possibly without any kind of painkiller?
obviously that could easily produce a LOT of associated trauma when it comes to seeing penises, which might explain why you have an aversion to something which is actually pretty mundane
I think, for most men, in parts of the world where ritual penis mutilation doesn't happen, it's not really as big a deal at all
in communal showers, dressing rooms, even things like saunas and nude beaches
it's just very mundane, and I think it IS unusual to care so much about other men's penises—if you weren't American, it might even suggest to me that you were a latent homosexual; even in porn which features a man's penis, it's generally not what I would expect you to focus on, unless you were gay, or had suffered a horrible trauma or abuse
do you care about the man's nipples? probably not
might you care more if somebody had YOUR nipples to excruciating torture? possibly
do you see my logic?
that being said, everybody has different preferences, and it's perfectly normal to prefer solo female porn, it's just the reasoning behind your preference which strikes me as unusual
it's not actually that you prefer solo porn, it's that you have an active aversion to seeing penises, and it doesn't seem that that comes from a worry about it "being gay" (as we would expect with a latent homosexual)