Thread 23598631

Apparently someone needs to explain to all of these retards that those "milestones" aren't just things that are supposed to happen automatically while you just passively sit back and do nothing to actually achieve those milestones.
Most Americans in their 30s ARE getting married, having kids, starting families, buying houses and all of that. And they are hitting those milestones because they are making an effort to go out and do whatever is necessary to get those things.
Meanwhile, all of you faggots are just sitting at home wallowing in self pity and whining about how society should just give you a free house or free girlfriend even though you haven't made even the tiniest effort to actually get those things.

NEETs often don't look at the future so I'll ask: what will you do when you'll get older?
There will be nothing for you. No social skills, no friends, no money, nothing.
The day you'll want to step outside after dozen of years of living like a hermit, a new unknown and hostile universe will swallow you and it'll frankly be hellish to adapt to this new environment.

>>23598631 (OP)
>more 1pbtid memeflag eceleb screenshot posting

>>23598631 (OP)
>Most Americans in their 30s ARE getting married, having kids, starting families, buying houses and all of that
KEK no they aren't memeflag and even if they are, the next crop of 30 year olds won't be

>>23598631 (OP)
>Most Americans in their 30s ARE getting married, having kids, starting families, buying houses and all of that
then why are birth rates so low and the average home buyer age is 61? the stats disagree with you

>>23598631 (OP)
>what will you do when you'll get older?
they will become hobos, criminals or kill themselves ruining society for you and the cucks who think they play the game right.

>>23598634
Cope or Copulate

>>23598631 (OP)
I had all those milestones and they are all overrated and gay as fuck.

>>23598637
>another memeflag
memeflags need to be banned, and you need to kill yourself

>>23598631 (OP)
>fat and wearing dirty xxxxxl sized shirt
he is hobomaxxing to avoid women

>>23598631 (OP)
What you don't understand OP, os that being am incel is based. Literally NEET life is the best life, suck it wagie.

>>23598641
So what will you do when you're older with no job experience and no savings?

>>23598642
I don't need saving the gov gives me money for doing nothing.

>>23598642
rob wagies like you kek

>>23598644
LOL based, kill and rape them too, what's the worst that'll happen? you get a comfy prison cell on the wagie taxpayer money, then once you're out just rape and kill some more

Lol

personally most of my life's problems were caused by me being a huge retard but many of my childhood friends did everything they were supposed to and still got fucked. Kind of makes me glad I blew everything off. Zoomies? Poor little broccoli headed bastards never stood a chance

>>23598631 (OP)
>Most Americans in their 30s ARE getting married, having kids, starting families
The majority of 30-39 are not married, actually.

>>23598645
prison is full of stupid niggers I'm sure you'd love it

>>23598631 (OP)
>what will you do when you get older
I will find you and I will kill you, even though you pretending you have a family and retirement to look forward to is a larp, I will make sure you never get to enjoy it. How about that shlomo? I hope you find it comforting to know there are millions of men like me and you created them. A story as old as time, but kikes always end up paying the price and this time won’t be any different, you’re getting hunted by rw death squads and no amount of kvetching will change the course we’re on. I’d tell you to maybe try not to fuck over your host and their male population in the next cycle, but there won’t be a next cycle this time, when we say total kike death we mean total kike death.

>>23598648
Source?

>>23598631 (OP)
how do i find the energy for effort?

>>23598631 (OP)
>Apparently someone needs to explain to all of these retards that those "milestones" aren't just things that are supposed to happen automatically while you just passively sit back

Only true for ugly subhumans who got left out of the natural flow of normie life

>>23598631 (OP)
>Most Americans in their 30s ARE getting married
Without thinking, which ends in a shitton of divorces
>having kids, starting families
Breeding is not an accomplishment, especially if you can't raise the kids properly
>buying houses and all of that.
By going into debt for the rest of their lives gz

>>23598654
It's still better than living alone and having no friends.

>>23598655
Prove it

>>23598655
>living alone
living alone is kino
>having no friends
there is a plethora of hobbies you can take up that put you in group environments, shit like joining a paintball team or something

>>23598656
>>23598657
You're too young to know how bad it gets. NEETdom is a cope and it doesn't get any better. Life is about having a purpose, not mindless entertaining yourself

>>23598655
I had better conversations with fags on here and on the Internet in general than I have had with normgroids while touching grass.

Also at a certain age you don't have "friends" anymore you got acquaintances and potential partners.

>>23598658
>Life is about having a purpose, not mindless entertaining yourself

This itself is a cope. What if my purpose, which brings me happiness, is just hedonism? Who decides what your purpose is but yourself?

>>23598631 (OP)
Your sentences don't run on enough. It could have been a really funny post, but instead it's just annoying.

>>23598659
Mindless hedonism never works out. Have you ever seen a serious drug addict that was genuinely happy?

>>23598653

Football faggots at my school were all sheltered and had helicopter parents that didnt let them party or get laid. I used to sell them ditch weed and they would get so mad at me for it but were too bitchmade to fight because they didn't wanna get kicked off the fagball team. Incels jerking off to the life of a football faggot is so cringe because they just assume his life is like some badass 80s movie. If they had the balls to talk to one they'd realize he's just a big pussy who likes prancing around with niggers in tights.

>>23598658
There is no purpose to life boomer.
No one is going to count your farts in heaven.

>>23598662
Soccer player detected

>>23598661
>Have you ever seen a serious drug addict that was genuinely happy?
have you ever seen an investment banker genuinely happy? I agree with you that mindless hedonism will lead to dopaminergic overload which will cause crashes and depression - this is true. The flip side is that everything is a cope. Like some internet guru telling me that his purpose is his business. What is his business? An advertisement tracking SAAS. He acts like because this made him a millionaire, hes found some purposeful enlightenment and doing things that will get him remembered after he dies. Hes not, this is cope. His business is meaningless slop and no one even fucking knows about it now let alone talking about it in 100 years. No one from this generation aside from maybe a handful of individuals will have a place in history where they are constantly talked about or referenced. Everything else is cope. You will die, everyone who's ever seen your face will die and no one will ever say your name again.

>>23598631 (OP)
>Most Americans in their 30s ARE getting married, having kids, starting families
According to his graph, gen Z marriage rates are going to be in the gutter

>>23598631 (OP)
NEETs are NEETs because they're lazy, stupid, bad people. That's a fact.

>>23598663
You're depressed.
>>23598665
You overthink everything and its never done you any good. The fact is that someone living their life, is better off than being some atomised loner who thinks he's cool for no particular reason.

>>23598658
Yep i agree.
t. 29 year old NEET

>>23598661
Well yeah, most junkies take drugs not because they're hedonists but because their lives are fucking horrible. Drugs are their escapism cope.

>>23598663
Life is a sandbox game. Just play it like you want. The fags thinking there are goals to it are retarded. There is no scoreboard, in the end you'll rot in the ground same as everyone else. Never listen to the fags going

>BRO YOU NEED TO HUSTLE AND GRIND MORE. BRO YOU NEED TO HIT THE GYM. BRO YOU NEED TO GET A WIFE AND KIDS
>And then you'll be happy!

I have met socially successful married guys who were fucking miserable, and NEETs just gooning in their basement who were happy as hell.

I'm
>30
>own company
>programmer
>200k€ yearly earnings
>aspie
And I'm a fucking virgin lmao.

>>23598642
rape you to death

>>23598631 (OP)
Theres a different between involuntary and voluntary neet. I wish I could neetmax but I need to work to take care of my aunt. But when she goes meet God I will neetmax.

>>23598670
Right and you happen to play videogames all day because you're life is going great? Like just be honest man. You're not living your best life.

>>23598631 (OP)
If you're still in the matrix at this point, you're a low IQ nigger. Simple as.

>>23598631 (OP)
here's another graph

>>23598675
>inb4 bootstrap posting

>>23598674
>I'm totally not depressed fr fr nocap

>>23598631 (OP)
Hello Moshe

>>23598631 (OP)
>"milestones" aren't just things that are supposed to happen automatically while you just passively sit back and do nothing to actually achieve those milestones.
Kinda worked that way for me desu
t. lost virginity at 17 during first week of uni when girl aggressively hit on me at house party
t. Got married at 30 after gf proposed

>>23598678
You wouldn't have replied with this if I didn't hit a nerve. Let's be real, playing videogames all day is just a cope.

>>23598679
Which came first?
The neetdom or the depression?

>>23598668
>The fact is that someone living their life, is better off than being some atomised loner who thinks he's cool for no particular reason.
again, this may be temporarily true but both of you are destined for the same fate. You will die and be forgotten. Nothing you ever did in this life will be referenced. You are gaining validation for your efforts from finite sources that will run out. Yes, you get to be the cool keeping up with the joneses go-getter that everyone respects, awesome. It is ephemeral. None of it matters. Either heaven is real and all of this means nothing anyway by comparison, or we will blackout and forever forget ourselves and everyone we've ever loved, and in turn will be forgotten.

>>23598631 (OP)
>Most Americans in their 30s ARE getting married, having kids, starting families, buying houses and all of that. And they are hitting those milestones because they are making an effort to go out and do whatever is necessary to get those things.
Anon, stop lying

>>23598671
finnbro what langauge do i learn to get into tech? i've been a NEET all my 20s and now don't know what to do. I can't go back to university to get a comp sci degree.

>>23598631 (OP)
You didn't even watch the video you posting screencap of you fucking idiot. He is not a neet.

>>23598682
Well sure I would have liked to have a community that supported me and that I felt good about giving back to.
But I dont and I don't spend my time mourning my situation.

>>23598631 (OP)
>Most Americans in their 30s ARE getting married, having kids, starting families, buying houses and all of that.
Factually untrue

Raging faggot post. Kill yourself

>>23598681
I have a similar experience. Allegedly it is not common... but... that only makes solipsism more difficult to discount.

>>23598684
You're operating on many levels of cope. What you said has no bearing on how you feel right now and how you'll feel in the future. The fact is if you had a girlfriend and a job you could tolerate or even enjoy. You would feel a lot better than you do now.

>>23598691
>You would feel a lot better than you do now.
are you fucking retarded? HOW YOU FEEL DOESNT FUCKING MATTER YOU FAGGOT FUCKING RETARD. kek, why is this so hard for you to understand? I have been miserable at every job I've ever had and in every relationship I've ever been in. Suicidally miserable. By contrast, I am on cloud 9 now.

>>23598689
Source?

>>23598688
Right but giving up isn't going to make you feel better in the long run. Like just having some stability or a relationship or just like something normal on your life. It'll be much better than just giving up and having no control over anything.

>>23598692
If you were on cloud 9 you wouldn't be on the chans right now. I mean I don't even believe you've had a relationship. You could just be talking a load of bullshit. I just don't buy it M8.

No giving up on my dreams was awful but I dont dwell on it because its over.
Best I can do is not kill myself.
I would never afflict anyone with myself.

>>23598695
>If you were on cloud 9 you wouldn't be on the chans right now
kek so you're miserable, then? Why would I take advice from some miserable fuck like you?
>I mean I don't even believe you've had a relationship
Oh yeah? Who gives a shit what you believe.

>>23598631 (OP)
Milestones? Those don't matter. Rites of passage do, but we have none in our society anymore except maybe going to prison. Note: A rite of passage is something that forces people to stop treating you like a kid and start paying you a basic amount of respect as a man. That will not return as long as women and weak men want the government to protect them from their neighbors, rather than wanting their neighbors to protect them from their government.

>>23598662
Pot dealer on 4chan is so superior to a football chad
Cope

>>23598631 (OP)
>Most Americans in their 30s ARE getting married, having kids, starting families, buying houses and all of that
You need to update your copypasta memeflaggit

>>23598644
This.

>>23598631 (OP)
money money money, need more money, consoom consoom consoom, need to consoom... more money more shekels more debt You're a loser if you don't have 4 cars and a 4k square foot house and season NFL tickets. money money money

>>23598697
Look buddy right now your seeming pretty mad. Like obviously things aren't right in your life. I'm just telling you that this coping will only make things worse. If you actually take shit on and view things in the lense of reality. You can take appropriate action, rather than being a victim.

>>23598631 (OP)
At most 30% of Boomer Parents practiced adolescence maxxing 'generational wealth' to insure grandchildren.
A wicked generation of witches wonders why it's food is concerned about demographics.

>>23598704
*Its

>>23598631 (OP)
aI'll just be homeless and shit on the side walks, i don't care anymore.

>>23598703
>Look buddy right now your seeming pretty mad.
Im completely level headed. You sound like an insufferable faggot though kek the irony here is that you're probably a much bigger loser than me while actually trying not to be a loser, thats pathetic

>>23598686
Read this.

>>23598631 (OP)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kyW6TmFxPxQ
by this video alone i can tell this faggot is a fat autistic virgin retard

>>23598631 (OP)
Here's how it looks in Estonia, for Estonians
>Low paying job, by European standards, where your boss can anally rape and you can't do anything about it (because it's the highest paying job in the country anf there's an India sized horde waiting for you to be kicked out)
>Your wife is pill addicted man jawed transoid whi thinks here degree in Oriental Studies is important and she deserved the triple 6 Chad instead of building a comfy life with Toivo the construction worker who didn't go to college because he knew that in Eesti, without connections, its means less than Jeet shit
>Families are miserable, with the man beating up his wife and raping his children at the sligthest furstration
>Everyone is up to their neck in debt, and the house owning Martti is an alcoholic because the anxiety of losing it all keep him up at night
>Your kids will get bullied by teachers and other kids based on village and economical stratification
>Your wife will divorce you the moment you lose your job or health because it threatens her lifestyle and find a better provider
>Your kids, who were inquisitive and curious and emotionally open and bright eyed at bird, will turn into rigid, muscularly armoured, inflexible in thinking and limited in emotional range Estonian kodanikud by the time they graduate from school
>There's a 90% chance you'll witness them develop an alcoholic addiction, and a 70% you'll witness them develop a drug addiction
>Everyone, your wife, your boss, your coworkers, your teachers, your friends, consumes child porn of Russian kids because they do not see a problem in it since it involves Slavic kids
>There's a 50% chance to get beaten of stabbed every time you leave your home
>Almost all the people you meet are either high or on drugs
Being a NEET in Estonia is life saving consequence. You'll live longer and healthier than the Eesti kari.

>>23598707
Having no say in your fate is the lamest gayest thing you can do. You're acting like a pathetic woman. In fact your acting like a child. Wtf bro?

>>23598662
My friend played QB for a our local uni and basically fucked every girl in the dorms. Other friend that played WR, blonde, long hair, girls lined up for him.

>>23598642
>no job experience
You just need to lie on your resume
>no savings
We will never retire and will collect until we die

>>23598631 (OP)
>Most Americans in their 30s ARE getting married, having kids, starting families, buying houses and all of that
If by 30s you mean 39, yeah, otherwise not so much
zoomers are even worse

The overproduction of losers is causing massive political destabilization. Millennials are the loser generation and they're ALL part of some political extremist cult that seeks to tear down society out of spite. These losers think they're the "hard men" of these "tough times" but really they're just creating a world of competing death cults that will destroy us all. Because they think everyone should suffer for their own shortcomings and lack of pussy.

>>23598711
what are you even talking about? I have chosen the way I live, it wasn't forced on me. I had the life you glorify and it fucked me up. It made me miserable. You're operating from a false premise that I want what you want but can't get it. No, actually read the words I type or shut the fuck up. I reject your prescription.

>>23598690
This place greatly contributes to feelings of solipsism because everyone behaves like AI bots shilling for one of like half a dozen positions

>>23598631 (OP)
>Most Americans in their 30s ARE getting married, having kids, starting families, buying houses and all of that.
That is just a straight up lie, easily disproven by real world data.

>>23598631 (OP)
>aren't just things that are supposed to happen automatically
Spoken like a true normie

>>23598632
What is the value of creating a couple of kids that don't even care about you anyways. Just make sure to leave them everything in your will, because they WILL care about that. Antinatalism is the answer. Humans are cancer, humans are evil incarnate.

>>23598631 (OP)
Most people are still living at home at 30 years old still suckin' on mommy's flapjack tits.

>>23598668
>you overthink everything
Right you are. Never live for other peoples opinion of you.

>>23598721
Source?

>>23598631 (OP)
>Most Americans in their 30s ARE getting married, having kids, starting families, buying houses and all of that
This presupposition is already flawed. MOST AMERICANS in their 30s are NOT doing those things. The average age of a home buys is now what? 43 now?America is worse in every metric from education to healthcare to home ownership to life expectancy than at any time in the last 20 to 80 years. I recently heard that we had STDs going viral for the first time in 70 years when they were almost extinct 20 years ago.

>>23598724
*buyer

>>23598716
I don't know shit about your situation, nor do I expect you to tell me the truth. My simple premise is that being a jobless incel is shit. Do anything other than that, that's all I'm saying. There's no need for you to freak out, it's just obvious that being a neet won't work in the long run.

>>23598631 (OP)
>Most Americans in their 30s ARE getting married, having kids, starting families, buying houses and all of that. And they are hitting those milestones because they are making an effort to go out and do whatever is necessary to get those things.

Or they got lucky and grew up having rich parents.

>>23598724
>The average age of a home buys is now what?
of all homebuyers? Its like 61. Of first time homebuyers, I think its mid 40s as you mentioned. Shit is fucked

>>23598726

I'd rather be a homeless vagabond than live packed to a shithole rat apartment with 4 other people. Sorry.

>>23598631 (OP)
>Apparently someone needs to explain to all of these retards that those "milestones" aren't just things that are supposed to happen automatically while you just passively sit back and do nothing to actually achieve those milestones.
that's basically how it worked for all time. you would naturally gain connections over time and get handed everything.

>>23598729
Ermm. Okay?

>>23598723
Maybe he meant Italy specifically, nothing wrong with it btw.

>>23598728
Mid 40's? What an amazing coincidence. That's the age most people are when their parents kick the bucket and leave them their inheritance.

>>23598631 (OP)
I've been to prison. I'll go back if need be, and I might even do horrifying to get there. It doesn't matter.

>>23598731

Free rent living with relatives is better than homelesness but if i didn't have a support system i'd just move to skid row and be a beach bum. California has the best weather in the country.

>>23598677
Yes, an intentionally extremely misleading chart.
The chart is based on homeownership and marriage rates at 30. However, homeownership rates have not significantly declined in younger generations when adjusted for age.
What the chart is really showing is a decrease in the percentage of people who are married at 30. And most of the "decline" is simply due to the average age of first marriage being less than 30 in the beginning of the chart and then increasing to slightly over 30 by the end of the chart.
Most people are still getting married and having kids and buying houses. The overall rates of people doing those things have declined some from the all time highs, when virtually everyone did, to now just a significant majority doing it.
But this belief that no one is buying houses or getting married or having kids is not true at all. You have been psyoped by cherry picked and twisted statistics to make you think things are very different than they really are. Incel NEETs are especially prone to taking the bait for emotional reasons: believing that their peers are also not getting married or having kids or buying houses makes them feel better about their own failure to launch in life.

>>23598631 (OP)
Dude looks like the bass player for Yo La Tengo

>>23598650
No joke, same.

>>23598735
>Free rent
Nobody said it's free

>>23598631 (OP)
>Most Americans in their 30s ARE getting married, having kids, starting families, buying houses and all of that
At least make a somewhat believable troll post
0/10

>>23598735
I've been to LA, never seen so many homeless people in my life and that was back in 2006. I can't say that the beach bum lifestyle looks that fun. It's like totally gross etc.

>>23598631 (OP)
>not happen automatically while you just passively sit back and do nothing
wtf life is not like a videogame handling you quests?? first bad people are not like avengers villains now this

>>23598741

Its warm all year round and you wont freeze to death in the northern states. Why would you stay homeless in a frozen dump.

>>23598631 (OP)
>what will you do when you'll get older?
Kill goyim like you OP

>>23598733
They left me debt I couldn't default on...

>>23598710
>and raping his children at the sligthest furstration
what?

>>23598730
this is actually what zoomer thinks lmao, or is it just what they tell themselves not to feel like a failure in life?

>>23598710
>Everyone, your wife, your boss, your coworkers, your teachers, your friends, consumes child porn of Russian kids
what? how?

>>23598708
Will do, any other tips on how to make it like you? i hate being a poor NEET

>>23598743
I think it's best to not be homeless in the first place. Even in the summertime camping is miserable, have you ever slept in a tent? It's just not comfy.

>>23598631 (OP)
the boomer thinks he can shame anybody to pay taxes to epstein pedophiles

>>23598631 (OP)
Bro I just want to earn a living wage, why don't we start with that?

>>23598740


>>23598736

>>23598750
>I think it's best to not be homeless in the first place.

I get that, but sometimes people end up homeless, no job opportunities, or expensive rent. I cant afford rent in my area and I don't like cold weather. California and Texas have warm weather that are nice all year round.

>>23598747
You're a mexican, you were born a failure

>>23598754
I mean we all have backup plans. I just think that it's probably possible for you to have a better choice than, NEET or beach bum.

>>23598667
>lazy, stupid, bad people
True
>source
me

>>23598736
>But this belief that no one is buying houses or getting married or having kids is not true at all
You're dealing in absolutes. The argument is that MOST zoomers aren't getting married, most zoomers aren't having kids and MOST zoomers won't be able to afford a house which is true. very few will be able to do this.

>>23598631 (OP)
As usual delusional faghots with no sense of reality act like it’s all men’s fault for not wanting to destroy their lives for things that are no longer milestones but goals that have become more much more difficult than ever before I have these things by the way but just barely if I was a retard normie cattle I would have had them all basically right out of high school and then most likely lost some if not all of them multiple times by now like many men I’ve known over the years

>>23598653
I was a chad light that’s been and is still compared to some of the most popular and attractive movie stars still do till this day guy said I look like Rick from the walking dead my wife has said the same thing to me many time gotten Hugh jackman Christian bale Matthew McConaughey but I definitely didn’t have any delusions about women they are idiots so I took my time getting married even though I had nothing but options

awful thread