Thread 60761877

Getting married is the most important financial decision you will ever make, risking 50% of your net worth if you divorce. Would you still get married, while knowing your wife will stop having sex with you after just a few years?

>>60761877 (OP)
Well shit is about to hit the fan in pretty much the entire western world/world entirely, so that'll be like a kind of natural reset to this clownshow.

Good luck everybody and remember that inflation is a kick in the nuts!

>>60761877 (OP)
marriage is a contract with the government

i have le autism and wont even need to worry about getting married but i appreciate your concern

>>60761877 (OP)
yees yes, stay single, don't have children and just consoooom, be a good goy.

>>60761877 (OP)
>1PBTID

You should have seen the shit my wife and I just did, dork. Verification isn't required.

>>60761992
Okay so you and your wife have large bowel movements, so what?

>>60761924
kek

>>60761877 (OP)
Sex is overrated.

>>60761877 (OP)
Married women losing their sex drive is probably a combination of
>being fat
>poor diet and lifestyle
>relationship won't result in children
>husband being fat/beta

>>60761877 (OP)
For me to get married in the US would mean I am:
1. Somehow fell "in love" ignoring all my natural instincts and feelings about women being untrustworthy
2. Found a woman to have sex with me that I actually find attractive enough to cloud my judgement.

For most people this is easy for me it's a very high bar and unlikely to happen.

>>60761877 (OP)
6 years and 3 kids in and we still sex nearly every night. I found the right one.

>>60761877 (OP)
im never getting married.

>>60761877 (OP)
>will stop having sex with you after just a few years?
Just put in the effort faggot. Did you read the image?

The purpose of sex is to produce a child, doesn't matter much if it is fun or not and I could care less if I have zero sex after my 10 children are born

>>60763122
what if they take after their father and all 10 of them are gay?

>>60763122
Man protestants are so weird sometimes. Here's a brotip, Catholics also have the most babies.

>>60761877 (OP)
>1pbtid
how's the weather in langley? or is it tel aviv?

>>60761877 (OP)
i used to work as a quant for UHNWI (8+ figs) guys, and whenever we did any market scenario analysis for their portfolio we always checked whether they were married or not - any market scenario pales in comparison to a -50% divorce scenario.

typically it was only after 9 figs these guys used to have a prenup. below, no one had.

>>60762886
THIS
99% of my idiot buddies that got married had their wives become grossly obese within 1-2 years after the wedding. All they do now is whine how their sex life completely sucks. They are all in debt and the stress suppresses any hormones since they have to wage chump change.

stone cold incel so sorry can't relate

>>60761877 (OP)
Only happens to white women who don't marry Black men.

>>60761877 (OP)
the secret to a happy marriage is to marry a bisexual woman and have regular ffm threesomes (ideally in a different city than where you live so no potential to run into them irl).
not only does this satisfy the male desire to inseminate many women but it also will keep your wife from getting fat and checking out of your marriage sexually as she will literally watch you fuck other women and will feel the very basic primal desire to compete with them over you.

>>60761924
Women have sex before marriage, there's literally zero point to get married. It really only benefits women.

>>60762923
Congrats finding a unicorn.

>>60761992
>wife.
nasty. idk why you marrycels try to show off your wives for validation. like you can go in public or on wife sharing pics and can see wives are always disgusting looking.

>>60761877 (OP)
>long before
'Far ahead' would have been a better phrase; 'long after' makes a lot more sense than 'long before.' These people get paid to write? Jesus.

>>60764304
>esl detected
long before is a standard and often used phrase in english, at least in the usa

>>60761877 (OP)
Getting married is how I became well-off.
- Living costs shared
-2 incomes
-plan strategy together
-help each other.
You really shouldn't read any threads about women on this site.

>>60763189
I’m a protestant and love sex. There’s a lot of porn addicted incels here who have no idea how real sex works.

My fiancee refuses to lose weight and keeps making excuses. What should I do?

>>60764569
Ask yourself, why can’t you chance her for someone better? There’s an endless amount of women out there.

>>60764569
start looking for another woman. if your girl catches on to this and gets her act together, great. otherwise, you move on.

men really pump their wives for 2 minutes and cum then wonder why they get cheated on lol

>>60764569
YOU go to the gym every day and get jacked. She'll start going to keep up out of spousal competitiveness. My wife did exactly that when she got tense about me being too built.

>>60761877 (OP)
i've been married ten years,. we average slightly more than twice a week. that's not bad i think.

>>60761877 (OP)
Choke her a bit
This is financial advice.

>>60763189
Catholic Church position on sex is that it is exclusively for procreation, retard. It's why they're against birth control, because sex isn't supposed to be recreational.
No idea what protestants believe though.

>>60763583
Prenup only covers assets going into the marriage so if you entered with 300k and left at 2M net worth you’re still getting screwed even with a prenup

The risk of divorce sucks but consider the alternative of not marrying and dying with nobody. Either scenario is shitty

>>60764569
Take her to the gym with you and guilt trip her when she makes bad food choices (easier to control if she's financially dependent on you).

My gf dropped from 130 down to 124 pounds in 2 months after moving in with me. We go to my condo's gym 4-5 days a week for moderate lifting and cardio. Junk food and general snacking throughout the whole day is forbidden.

For me i stopped having sex with my gf of 10 years. She's getting kinda old and fat and im very stressed.
Nowadays couples have go work a lot and after a long day you barely even want to think about sex, you just want to lay down and relax for those few precious hours at night.
All women age like shit.
This seems to be universal, once you pass the honeymoon phase you sort of just become friends / roommates. Theres something called the 7 year itch in relationships, it starts to die after 7 years.
People in the past just tolerated eachother for the kids.
Monogamy seems unnatural and forced.

To the incels who have an idealized fantasy of women and sex, just know that its not as good as you think it is, the grass is not greener on the other side. At best you'll enjoy the first two years when you're in love, but after that those chemicals fade, and your once hot sexy early 20s gf will slowly turn into an old nagging hag, you'll start to notice her flaws when she's no longer a mysterious idealized goddess.
Married men with kids can mostly be summed up as just pure tired. They all tell us this wisdom but we never listen, just like the guy who warned you to never start smoking as a kid, you failed to listen to him and now you find yourself in his shoes, warning the youngins not to smoke and end up in your situation.

>>60764563
>- Living costs shared
>-2 incomes

This, these are the two most important aspects. Everyone whines and complains that their wife is trash while they pay 100% of living expenses thinking their wife will submit. Split everything 50/50, even before marriage.

>>60764569
Be the cook, moron.

>shared living costs
>modern women work so two incomes
>min/max your strengths and weaknesses

I'm really disorganized and messy, which impedes my ability to make good decisions. My wife is very organized but not very brainy and scared of risks. So we figured out that if she does all my paperwork and forces me to stay on top of all of my shit it frees up my mental space to hussle and make money for us. Works great for us.

>>60766586
Prots are are just a branch of RC. Two sides of same coin. You can tell because the KJV sends both of them into feminine hysterics.
>t. Baptist

>>60766631
I guess i’m lucky in the sense that i’ve always been bit of a milf guy. I’ve never found young girls especially arousing. It’s not like i don’t find them hot but i often find women aged 25-40 hotter. Still agree though that’s monogamy is unnatural and we all got scammed into it in ancient times when there was less information available.

>>60761877 (OP)

If you marry a cumdump...
she is STILL a cumdump!

>>60766819
This story would have had a great ending if alex killed everyone then left, he ended up better than most by just leaving though.

I've lost all interest in relationships and can barely even get motivated to jerk off any more.

Depression? Yes probably. But with the way the world is going that is rational.

>>60761877 (OP)

I'm never getting married, but I do want a few kids, so I'm screwed anyways.

>>60761933
/based and AUTISMpilled

>>60767093
The world has always been shit if that’s how you want to look at it. Doomers are retarded.

>>60761946
no fault divorce has made getting married worse than a fools errand. why do it when the govt will actively collude with the person breaking the contract?
in what world does rewarding a contract breaker make sense??

>>60766819
kek i havent thought about this game in a hot minute. takes me back.

>>60766586
Wrong, you just need to always be open to the possibility of procreation. So no rubbers. It's the prots that get all weird about it and think fun shouldn't be allowed.

>>60761877 (OP)
What’s the point of dying wealthy if you never got to experience marriage and kids? Would you rather die with $20M and no descendants or $10M with 3 kids and many grandkids?

If you die alone with a ton of money it will go to the state to be dispersed to brown immigrants, or at best some ungrateful relative who barely knew you and never gave a shit about you.

And good luck finding any woman worth having kids with without a marriage contract.

My advice is to marry a good woman (virgin/no tats/no debt), have many kids, and become wealthy enough that even getting rugged and losing 50% you will still have plenty left for yourself.

>>60768614
Just sire a bunch of bastards and leave your fortune to the one you like the most, EZ PZ

>>60767072

The guy that drugged her and turned her into a cumdump had NOTHING bad happen to him.
After the drugs wore off she did not dedicate her life to destroying him, instead she just continued to be a cumdump. When Alex and her got together and Alex learned the truth, he did NOTHING to the guy that drugged her.
In fact the guy that drugged her just moved on to drugging other women.

Mid-40s.
Never been legally married but lived with my child's mother for 10 years. House in my name only. I paid the mortgage myself. When she met some divorced girlfriend at a bar, that girlfriend convinced her that she was unhappy and should leave the relationship. She did. I tried to get her to stay but she was steadfast. The day before she finally moved out, she looked at me and said, "You're so lucky we didn't get married, because if we had, you'd be FUCKED! I'd get the house AND alimony". But we didnt get married. And she didnt get anything from me except a wry smile. It was very validating.

Now I have a gf who idolizes me but lives a couple of hours away. I get free time and solitude while also being made to feel like I'm a King.

I have a rotation of 4-6 slam pigs who all know their role in my world...so I never go more than a few days without getting my cock drained enthusiastically.

Crypto folio is swole. Bank account fat. Loads of time to work on side hustles, golf and play in my garden.

Comfy.

TL/DR: Never get married.

>>60763897
Im 30 at the end of the month. None of the guys I know who are married seem better off or happier from it. A few have told me themselves. Seen 2 divorces already too and what they become after getting fleeced and humiliated.

>>60768752
>You're so lucky we didn't get married, because if we had, you'd be FUCKED! I'd get the house AND alimony".

Lol things that never happened.

>impregnate girl and make her raise your kid
>demand 10 years of her prime while offering nothing in return
>she finally wakes up one day and realizes you waste her entire life

Hurr muh heckin slut ex left me! Marriage is for cucks! (Even though this entire fantasy situation could have been avoided by literally marrying her and treating her like an equal worthy of raising a kid with). But yeah bro she's good enough to be the mother of your child and raise kids but not be listed on some worthless kike mortgage that gives her even the slightest security that she matters and now your kid will be fucked.

>>60768752
And then everyone started clapping

>>60767136
Tradcucks have no answer to this. They have fully aligned themselves to the feminist cause.

>>60761877 (OP)

Marry a woman who WANTS to marry you.

>>60768895
Money is important but structuring your entire life around maximizing and protecting net worth won’t lead to happiness.

>>60768842
>bro just keep paying the mortgage on a house your ex wife kicked you out of so she can fuck some dirtbag in your old bed while you live in a shithole studio apartment surrounded by niggers, that's the based and trad move for real men

>>60762923
And then you woke up

>>60768614
The woman you describe is one in a million maybe.

>>60761877 (OP)
Causation vs correlation. Like other anons said

>>60768975
If you stay in America sure

>>60761877 (OP)
My parents are over 70yrs old and still fuck on the regular.
My dad still runs + works out to this day and looks great for 76yrs old.
Keep your body good looking and women will still want to have sex with you

>>60768842
Where exactly did you get that greentext from? Where did that anon claim any of this? You're filling in these details as if you're some true crime podcast devotee.

The first line of your greentext makes it sound like the anon forced her into having a kid or something. The second line ignores that the guy just said he paid for the house himself - is getting housed "getting nothing in return" to you? What exactly do you mean that he "demanded 10 years of her"? Did I skip over the part where he said he was trying to force her to stay?

I'm not claiming that anon is prince charming or anything based on how he writes (especially this shit about cheating on his current gf), but you sure seem certain about the first relationship based on details you don't know.

>>60768614
You can get married when you’re like 43. Until then, enjoy different kinds of hot women until you get bored.

>>60768752
I wonder if the woman is more happy too. We humans just aren’t made for monogamy.

>>60768842
You incels are so pathetic. And the saddest thing is, you don’t realise how wrong you are.