Thread 60796479

How do I cope with the fact that no matter how much money I have, I will never experience true love?
Every married couple I know are staying together out convenience, women are incapable of love, no matter who you are, how much money you make, they just grow tired of you.

>>60796479 (OP)
Im so downbad and lonely I have started watching vtubers almost every day this year. These autistic girls make me want to try dating again atleast. I have 10k link.

Women love me but i don’t love them.

>>60796479 (OP)
You can only experience true love when you're young. After 30 is literally impossible. Maybe even before that. I'm sorry if you didn't.

But that doesn't mean you can't have a good marriage and experience affection and companionship. Maybe even have a decent family and kids.

>>60796479 (OP)
>I will never experience true love
Most people won't. Most couples don't really love each other. You've said it yourself. Make money to live life as you please and keep your eyes open in case true love comes your way.

>>60796505
At least, in the previous generation, women had to pretend that they liked man. We don't/won't get that.

>>60796532
You will experience love from a machine. tireless, selfless love. Work with your future AI girl in mind. Work so you can have time to enjoy her companionship in the future.

>>60796514
id really like to see the physiogonomy of the ‘people’ who post stuff like this

>>60796479 (OP)
that's bullshit, you can experience love at any mature age
and you learn to live with you and to let go of what was

>>60796645
Pic related

>>60796645
It's the truth. Women in their 30s are so incredibly different to women in the early 20s that we might be talking about different species. It's biology. You gotta accept it and grow up.

>>60796479 (OP)
It's true that women are fundamentally incapable of expressing unconditional love. Even towards their children it is ultimately conditioned unfortunately. But the great thing is that you already recognize that, and you don't have to be trapped in a mimicry of their nature. Instead, you have the chance to recognize that you're built to be the polar opposite.

That is, you are capable of expressing unconditional love for the entire world. A love that carries on whether there is a reciprocation or not. A frequency that the nastiest of women are fundamentally incompatible with, causing them to eventually go to their corner of Hell and no longer be an issue. The best of women will try their hardest to mimic the love you express, to be the well to your fountain. They are built to seek that perfection, and if it slips then so too does their reflection of it. They can only act conditionally. It is your goal to embody that perfection, it is something achievable by any man, but it is something that very few manage as they continue on in the Hell of mimicking the women around them. All that said, you don't need any of them to live a fulfilled life, they will come to share that already achieved fulfillment and it is up to you to share it if you believe it to be right.

Check out TWIM from bhante vimalaramsi, the writings of Marcus Aurelius, and the resources from /loa/ on /x/.

>>60796479 (OP)
There is nothing more intense than true teenage love. I'm sorry for all the 4chan users that didn't experience it.

>>60796681
I fail to see the connection between my age being 30 and her age.

>>60796681
You gotta go outside and spend less time on the internet

>>60796695
>Go outside
>Every person is glued to their phone

Look, doesn't matter the seething and the coping, the reality is that teenage love is the purest and most intense form of love. That's why you should try to get a good gf when you're young. You gotta build the foundations early. After a certain age, going on a date it's basically having a job interview. It's about business, not love.

>>60796683
Holy based

>>60796723
It's a love you've never experienced. Just like you'll never experience what it's like to be a woman. You'll never feel like, be treated like or be seen as a woman. Yes. Everyone stares at you cause you're an obvious dude.

>>60796479 (OP)
There are sweet hearted women out there but deep down it's probably a play desu

Marry an actress so at least its believable

The only regret I have is that I can't say "I told you so" to my childhood friend that told me there's no chance I'll be single forever. She said to just be myself.

She started having sex at 14, was in that relationship up to 16, moved out at 17 into a house full of friends, got knocked up and had her first kid at 18. She was trying to set me up with her ugly fat retarded half sister and was posting on my barren social media "hey! What are you up to? Post what you're doing!". The thing was I did post on my social media what I was doing... Almost nothing, or very insignificant things nobody cared about, because my life was alone and empty. I replied something along the lines of "I don't really do anything so I don't have anything to post", which triggered her into making almost all her posts hidden from me.

I'm 39 and I've never been on a date. Just being myself didn't work. I have a body count of 36 though, just sex with self serving women using me for my body and no love.

>>60796723
One more thing. Even if you miraculously managed to slightly pass (which 99.2% of transwomen don't) You will still never be happy or feel like a woman. You'll never know what it feels like to have XX chromosomes. You'll never have a man catcall you etc.You'll never be happy with what you see in the mirror. All those videos you watch that woman upload about the things they go through as a woman, you will never know or get to experience and feel. You will be regularly called sir for the rest of your life, sir.

>>60796479 (OP)
cope thinking no one will, really. True love is a jewish lie so men get married, wife spends all their money consuming bullshit and finding new creative ways to be in debt and then divorce your ass. Men only think one thing= retiring early and beating their concubines into submission

>>60796479 (OP)
> they just grow tired of you
No, they grow tired of (You). Useless subhuman retard.

>>60796479 (OP)
Who cares. Never having to work is nicer anyway.

>>60796479 (OP)
look i'll bite. I love Lain and Texhnolyze, so how is this show?

>>60797005
It is pretty bad, honestly, they have 2 purely filler episodes, and 3 episodes in which they just lore dump on you. I have read that it has to do with the studio going bankrupt or something.
I kinda liked the theme of ego death which have shown, but after watching it, you end up with more questions with answers. I get, it is a part of the appeal, but it feels like they introduced a lot of topics without saying anything clearly.

>>60796913
How about David Beckham's ex wife? Beckham still wasn't enough?

Look, I'll give you the only answer you need. Self-love. Do not seek love from outside yourself, there is no chance you will succeed in the long term. All relationships are people seeking ego-fulfilment from each other.

>>60796683
Listen to him

>>60796723
>teenage love is the purest and most intense form of love
wrong.

>>60797036
i'll stay away, thank you anon

>>60796479 (OP)
They refuse to make anime like this anymore. EP dealt witf gnostic ideas that Evangelion only weakly referenced in the visuals. The company that created this masterpiece is bankrupt. Its all waifu bullshit and litrpg garbage now. 2008 ruined everything.

>>60797183
I mean I still enjoyed it, you just have to ready to it being a bit rushed, they clearly intend to more seasons/episodes, but couldn't, you can just skip some filler episodes.

>>60796479 (OP)
such love I feel is only found from a church woman
and guess what OP
no ones walking into the churches anymore.
I'll clarify further. My grandparents were together from age 18-20 until they both died in their 70s.
My parents were together from age 18-20 until now in their 60s.
Me?
I'm a lonely man in a room and no woman wants me, and ive tried. I'm 35 neet.
I dunno what to blame anymore. You can blame the internet or technology or feminism or whatever excuses.
Something happened beyond the previous generation of humans where love now doesn't matter most to people.
and thats sad.

Is that why men are more likely to abandon their sick wives? I watched my own father let my mom rot in a state facility while he fucked her nurse and now is married to her after her death, completely ceased meaningful connection with my brother and I, in favor of some mutt fucker. Moved on as soon as he could.

What a bunch of bitter faggots in this thread. If you're seeking butterflies the rest of your life, you're SOL pal. No matter how charmed, smitten, taken by a chick you get, the years will dull and control your horny levels. Hers too. That's why no amount of fortune and fame can save a relationship where one person tries and the other simple stops. True love is being able to tolerate the person you call family being lost, confused and mean at times. Rolling with the punches, so to speak but everyone has their limits and you watch couples hit it all the time. For all the pissing and moaning about "woMan nO lOve Monkey!!" I sure as fuck watch a lot of my fellow men get into affairs and leave not just their wife but their kids. And not just leave, I mean, completely fucking go. Abandoning young children for their new side-piece's kids.

If you think women are incapable of love, then the love you want cannot possibly be fulfilled by another human. Unfortunately, we're all fucking human. I love my spouse with all my gay heart and we are content. We've been together 18 years, married for 10. We've been broke, we've seen success. There's a lot of seasons of life you see when you stay with someone. Most women are dogshit, but so are most people. This "uwu women can't love" cope will go with you to your grave unless you go outside.

It is not fucking easy, you create love, you don't "get" it given, retard.

>>60797641
just because your father was a scumbag doesnt mean all men are.
my grandmother died young, age 40, and my grandfather was 35 at the time.
he never remarried. he never got a new woman.
he would visit her grave every fortnight until he died in his 70s.
so, even though your father was a scumbag, my grandfather stayed loyal to his woman, even when she passed away so young.
My grandfather spent half his life, age 35 till age 77 when he died, without her anymore.

>>60797665
That's my point, chief. Everyone is human, anyone can be a scumbag. My dad, your dad, my mom, your mom...but this OP shit where you write off woman as incapable of ""love"" is a pointless exercise in self-victimization. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. If all you think you see is the failure of others, that's all you'll ever find.

These fags need a hard pivot. "If I ever go looking for my heart's desire again, I won't look any further than my own backyard." Every person who secretly delights in their misery and self-fulfilling prophecies can also fix themselves, if they want. But it starts with understanding that love some mythical state you reach and stay in-forever. That's infatuation.

It takes more work than these miserable cunts are capable of doing. It's hard, so they don't start to try and then cry about it on a business board on a chinese cartoon forum. If I can slap one bitch into rethinking their shit-for-brains "conclusion" then good. It's worth a shot.

>>60796479 (OP)
i can't find a job
im not poor, but not retired fuck you money either
but
i have experrience true love and that shit was insane
wouldn't trade those two years for a few million, a billion, probably

>>60796479 (OP)
Fear is better than love anyway. Like Sonny said, it lasts longer.

>>60796479 (OP)
>>60796479 (OP)
Everyone grows tired of each other in some way or another, every individual needs their space, as stupid as it is woman want you to realise that on you’re own and most’ll probably will nvr say it while they still like you. But once you understand that making them have an emotional attachment to you depends on you either being her first/or her very best. Or just simply want more for yourself genuinely, even if you fall in love with a girl and she does it bacj, and it ends, it’s far better to experience that then just to shut off yourself from potential development entirely. The same desire you feel towards some random hot bitch is the same exact feeling that allowed you to exist.

Love comes from within, if you love yourself genuinely and spread that energy thru every aspect of yourself love will always find you eventually, even if fleeting. Is it worth it? I think so :D

I still love my high school sweetheart 25 years later. Love her like the first time I met her. She hasn't talked to me in 20 years. Pretty sure she never thinks about me at all. Love is one sided. I don't really love my wife like that. Never have never will. In life you have to settle sometimes.

>>60797957
Bitch ass nigga mindset

>>60797957
>I still love my high school sweetheart 25 years later. Love her like the first time I met her. She hasn't talked to me in 20 years.
I'm sorry, anon. Be glad that it happened. Teenage love is the purest form of love.

>>60797641
Chads move on easily because they've been with hundred of women, not our fault your mother is retarded and dated a manwhore

>>60796479 (OP)
another lameass psyop thread.
Just buy link and you'll be fine.

>>60796479 (OP)

Anon you need to give it your all, and start praying.

There is no such thing as a "laid back life" It's just a bunch of people speed running to an early demise.

>>60799079
Ok

>>60796514
This. I only ever loved one of my ex-gfs, because I was young and extremely infatuated. It didn't work out and it hurt like hell. My current gf I don't see in the same way, which is a good thing desu. Even if I get divorced someday it won't matter much as long as my finances are protected, because at this stage in the game all women are truly alike and I could always find another one or even just live alone and free.

>>60802046
Was she your first or was she special in some other way?

>>60802165
She had tight cunny

>>60796479 (OP)
> be mysognistic chudcel
>why don’t women give me free sex?
Hmm idk have u looked in the mirror?

>>60796479 (OP)
There is no true love outside of age 21.

>>60802173
>Be roastie (not capable of love btw)
>Believe that every person's value is solely based on their ability to have sex

>>60802202
Girls cannot afford to love. Age/biology.
When they are young, yeah. Over age 21, their looks declining rapidly, they cant love.

I am 31 years old and I never even kissed a girl

>>60802165
Not my first and there were multiple reasons but ultimately I was just at that time in my life where getting with a girl like her was what I cared about most. Over years it just became clear we were moving in different directions and neither of us could compromise so it ended. And yes the sex was amazing. Having experienced that just gives me a different perspective on other women, mostly negative, sort of like how women who get pumped and dumped by chads for years don't even see normal guys as human kek. I'm unlikely to have as intense an emotional connection as with my ex so I can approach women much more rationally, which is actually a good thing business and financially speaking.

>be robotic schizoid with zero desire for relationships my whole life
>neurotransmitters still yearn for the oxytocin juice so they fill my head with fantasies
>detached from civilization because I've NEETed it up for 7 years in my 20s
>now 30s and there isn't a single woman available, and even if there was, I wouldn't know what to do

I want a relationship. I don't want a relationship. I don't know what I want.

Women are fickle
the daydream is better than the reality

Women aren't real, fortunately.

>>60797747
You are a nigger who has not been outside and interacted with women in 5+ years, or underage. These days women act like fucking cartoon caricatures of the most bitter incel's deranged ramblings. It's fucking unbelievable and they weren't even like this to this extent pre-covid. Doesn't matter how young or old she is, doesn't matter what color she is or what language she speaks, she acts like she's in the fucking jungle. No amount of pompous condescending zoomerspeak will make me forget the shit I have seen over and over and over, from lovers, friends, and family, on both the 'chad' and 'cuck' side of her coin.
I challenge you to reply without using turns of phrases like 'chief', 'my guy', 'my dude', 'yikes', etc. Write like it's 1950.

>>60802279

>I was just at that time in my life where getting with a girl like her was what I cared about most.
And what kind of girl was that?

I was in love with a girl who I would've turned the whole world upside down for. Sounds gay, but it was so intense at one point that I was virtually bedridden for a week swooning 24/7 over her since I didn't get to see her very often. My parents just thought I was sick. It was unrequited and I had to gradually let it go but I think I'll always go tender whenever she pops up in my thoughts.

Never really felt this way for other women, and I am a bit nervous but resigned to the fact that its very possible I get married to a woman I don't MADLY love. I've also never had any kind of romantic relationship with any woman whatsoever at 26, somewhat of my own choice. Never had a chance to pursue the girls I'm really attracted to and didn't want to waste my time on girls I wasn't interested in. I'm disappointed about it, but not bitter, and don't mind dying a virgin if I never get a chance to have a relationship with a woman I can respect.

>>60802355
It’s you who are the incel who doesn’t have a lot of experience about the real world. Women are the same as ever, maybe even nicer because now they have to compete with all the dopamine that computers and internet releases at men, including internet porn. Anyone saying otherwise is an incel trying to enjoy incelshit. T. Actual chad

>>60796514
Yeah this is the black pill with a little bit of white lining. As a 30 year old I am upset I won’t get to experience a true pair bonding experience of losing virginity together as a teenager and becoming life long partners but there is still hope for decent companionship and working together to raise a happy and healthy family

>>60802371
Bro women aren’t that different from each other. What are the qualities you liked in them? 100% you can find them in many women. Love is just naivety, and you get less naive as you get older and get more experience of different women. I don’t mean that in an incel way, you just see that they aren’t that special and the love always starts to fade as you get used to them, like a video game that gets boring after you’ve played it enough, no matter how good it was at the start when it was still new and mysterious to you. You loved those women exactly because you couldn’t be with them, we always love what we can’t have. And love is just different form of desire.

>>60802427
>happy and healthy family
With a 50 percent divorce chance (will be higher once you get married)

>>60802427
Many high school sweethearts break up or cheat, maybe just to see what it’s like. Life long bond is a meme, it’s more like just a habit they don’t break.

>>60802427
The love fades even with high school sweethearts and they just become more like good friends.

>>60802427
>I won’t get to experience a true pair bonding experience of losing virginity together as a teenager and becoming life long partners
Neither will anyone else since culture doesn't facilitate that anymore. Ask yourself how many people you know that were highschool sweethearts you know stayed with their first, among the ones that met at any point in the 21st century. Long-term bonding isn't accidental, its very deliberate and needs a lot of social encouragement which just is no longer there. People like you and me understand this and are aware of it so we have better chances, but teenagers are completely clueless about it even if they have stronger hormones.

>>60802433
I've pined over many women who I couldn't have but I never really loved them like this one. Obviously I understand logically that there isn't necessarily something objectively special about her but my lizard brain doesn't care. Maybe its because I was around her during puberty that my mind just imprinted on her. Whatever it is, I can't fight it.

>>60802450
Wow it’s almost like true monogany isn’t very natural and needs very strong enforcement from surrounding environment to happen.

>>60796479 (OP)
true love isn't real, it was made to sell shit. florists, jewelers, chocolatiers, etc. are the main beneficiaries of this LARP.
what you think is "love" is just part of the pro-social neurologic toolkit of your brain.
i've never been in love, i only know lust, and desire.

>>60796683
This
Normies want to receive love/excellence
Enlightened gods naturally transmit it
Be a transmitter, not a receiver