Thread 60816166

I need to make it to live with the love of my life. She is in another coutry and will go to uni there and she does not think it would work if she had to stay there for 5+ more years. So I have to move to her. I have around $30k what should I buy so I can have $1.5-2m at the end of this bull run? I am willing to take a big risk life without her would just worthless.

>>60816166 (OP)
SIMP ALERT!
SIMP ALERT!

>>60816166 (OP)
just meet another online gf that's closer

>>60816166 (OP)
In my opinion you best bet is LINK, but the best you can get in the next few months out of your 30k is around 500k and only if the conditions are absolutely optimal and you time the absolute top.

Can't you just find a job when you join her? With 30k you could probably start some humble business.

>>60816166 (OP)
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>>60816203
I don't want to she is is my soul mate. Nobody else understands me as she does.
>>60816204
Please link won't do anything and I can't just move to her like that and start a bussines. I can only get a visa but I would not be allowed to work there. The only way would be to get a job there and then get a job visa and I was thinking about this but I am not sure.
>>60816217
Why would I reply to posts that mock me?

>>60816247
She's cheating on you and once you find out you'll be devastated

>>60816166 (OP)
I hope you don't talk to her like this?

Anytime you tell a woman **your the love of my life** they lose a lot of attraction for you, even if it's not immediate, it plays on them. They prefer to be ignored/you be distant & some even out right abusive partners (call them names ect belittle them).
They feel safer this way, it's a natural defence built into them to weed out weak, needy guys. I always found that it works best with my girlfriend and exes in the past. Anytime I show my emotions, I am rudely punished in due time.

Basically, focus on your life, stop caring, you will be better off & she will love you alot more for that.

>>60816302
She already said it would be better if we would go seperate ways and I find someone who lives close by. But I don't care about other women. So if I do that she will simply find someone else at some point. I need to make it so I can move to her.

>>60816166 (OP)
she will betray you anon if she isnt already

>>60816338
You don't get it, and you're not going to get it until you learn the hard way.
>She already said it would be better if we would go seperate ways
Women are not direct.
What she is really saying is:
"I found someone else and I don't want to be with you anymore"

Think about it this way.
Do you think she'd say this if you were a CEO or a president?
You care about her far more than she cares about you.

Again, I already know you're going to ignore this, but when she ultimately breaks your heart, remember this thread.

>>60816338
Nigga you dumb as shit. Either that or you're baiting.

>>60816338
It feels bad to be mean to you for the sake of it, so dont' take my comments as contracending anon. But move on from her, she isn't that interested & likely never was. Thats women.

Women should never be your main focus of anything; the only things which should take first place focus on are yourself or your Kids. Never a woman.

Get on with your life, find another girl. You will find other women you connect to. I know what you're thinking, cause all anons have been there.

>>60816166 (OP)
Take a minute to breath, deeply. Take a few steps back, and realize that its over and never will begin. All these delusions will never manifest. It doesnt matter how bad you want it most of these things happen on a whim and spontaneously. Thats the bitter pill to swallow. Dont say i didnt warn ya.

>>60816166 (OP)
You are a young fool, but that’s ok. Have fun.

>>60816166 (OP)
>the love of my life
>she does not think it would work
Ngmi.

>>60816338
She has tried in the nice way to let you go. Maybe she did like you and bond with you but now you're clingy and dependent and you both have a lot of growing up to do. Focus on yourself.

>>60816166 (OP)

OP, what country are you and her from, and what country is she studying in? Tell us so we can get a better picture of why you need so much money to make it and what you're trying to do

>>60816543
Exactly, I actually feel bad for OP. He must be young, I think we have all acted like this in some way. Head over heels for first love ect ect.

Anyway OP, please before your humilate yourself. Take a step back, read the replies here & swallow it. You will be fine, bro. Everybody has this happen. It's just some people make a big fool of themselves by getting too emotional, don't do that. Keep your dignit,y I beg you.

God speed friend

>>60816166 (OP)
I'm in almost the exact situation, fren.
But the truth is that if she would really love you, she'd be already with you.

Mine went crazy shortly after I left. I have been working myself up and improving myself while she went on drugs and hit rock bottom. She rather did that than come to me because we had some words. It has been like that for 2 years now.
I then met a girl here. Not the greatest, but alright. I don't feel for her, though.

That's women for you.
They rather destroy themselves than admit to themselves they were wrong.
So now I send her pics of the nice stuff I eat and the fancy buildings I reside in, almost daily.

>>60816166 (OP)
>love of my life
>will go to uni
>does not think it would work

How old are you?

OP have you actually met this person in person

>>60816338
Ah...kid, she's telling you to fuck off. I'd tell you to spare yourself the pain and drop her now, because if you don't, it's going to hurt a lot more, but I know you won't listen. Most men have to learn this lesson themselves by experiencing it.

I'm very glad all the guys in here are saying the same thing, makes me have hope for the future generations.

OP - all men start out as hopeless romantics
Then comes a time in every man's life where they realize how women really are - and it's not pretty.

Guys either become:
- Dejected and learn how to use women and become players
- Dejected and reclusive and give up on women
- Dejected and despise/hate women

But hopefully you:
- Accept it, move on, and cultivate your own life

>love of my life

Bro there is nothing special about her. She was simply the first of many. If you had more women, you would notice that she wasn’t that special and there are all kinds of interesting women going around.

>>60816166 (OP)
Just vacation there. Get her pregnant and then leave.

There is a reason that men of greatness, the great movers, makers and shapers of civilization from all walks of life over the course of thousands of years of recorded human history all emphatically state that letting women off of their leash will invariably drag your civilization back into the stone age.

The sooner humanity can decouple itself from its dependency on females for reproduction, the better. The man who invents and perfects android GFs will unironically save our species from the jaws of the void.

>>60816769
>he doesn't know it's already almost waifu time

>>60816804
Elon needs to stop fucking around with the Mars shit for the time being. If we don't get an alternative to women that we don't have to constantly supervise and keep under control so they don't destroy civilization, we're not going to last long enough to get off of Earth in any meaningful way.

>>60816574
I am from germany and she is from the uk. I simply want to live in the city she studies. I know I am delusional and that this most likely will not work out but I am heart broken.
>>60816669
That does not sound like a good live why being with someone you don't feel anything for? I don't think I can feel anything for anyone else after her.
>>60816676
No we wanted to in a few months but I did video call with her a lot.
>>60816723
I wish this would be true but I think this isn't the case. I don't want to talk about this my feelings are simply this way at least I have to try or else I will regret it forever.

>>60816166 (OP)
Everyone takes risks during bullruns, anon. If that makes you feel any better, which I may not. MY personal risk is betting big on ETH, Useless, and Doge. If it all goes well I'd take all my gain money, buy as much Bitcoin as I can whenever a good opportunity window presents itself for me.
>>60816338
Though... I'm no expert and context/tone obviously gets lost on plain text but she doesn't seem to want you anymore, OP.

>>60817089
All of this token are already way too high to make enough money with them. I need a 50x at least. I know this is very unlikely to catch but it is the only way I can be with her.
Well she kind of said it that way, I know what she means I don't have enough money to give her a happy live long term and I need to change that.

>>60816338
anon's first heart break

>>60816889
also anon i dont want to give ou fake hope but UK to Germany is NOTHING in terms of long distance. I did a relationship between turkey and argentina and it worked and we are married now. so realize the world is very small and you dont have to take permanent decisions. go for a week rather than your whole life and see how it is.

>>60817205
Yeah she was my first love, I am really not made for this stuff I am too emotional. I guess you are right I can go to the uk for one week and try to convince her to keep trying. She is definitely worth it.

>>60817249
Every man is emotional in the start. It takes experience to start to visualize the reality and get so used to emotions that you don't get as emotional anymore.

>>60817249
go to the UK to see what happens, not for you to convince her man. stop trying to control her. Just see what happens. Loving someone is setting them free.

>>60817271
I don't think I can do that when I open my heart to someone. And I don't see the point in being with someone if I have to keep my heart closed.

>>60817306
I am booking the flight and the hotel right now, just not sure if I should tell her or surprise her once I am there.
Also I still need to make money regardless of that.

>>60817313
Don't worry, it's a long journey, you are still very young. Male attractiveness peaks in their 30s, can you believe that? You don't even have an idea of how young you still are.

>>60817333
I don't think this is true and this does not help me at all. I don't think I can ever find someone like her ever again. It already took me so long find her in the first place.

>>60816845
space is unironically gay and reddit tier. wish he would just shut down space-x and spend all the money on anything else.

>>60817357
Nigga you can just google it, ask chatgtp ect. It's researched information. Men peak when they're 30-40.

>>60816166 (OP)
You are putting all this effort on her and she's like "whatever, I'll just move on". Also the only way you can turn $30k into $1m is by gambling and taking a lot of risk, you are likely to end up poor and heart broken

>>60817249
If she's willing to do the reasonable thing and break up so she can be free for uni, it's probably cooked. Maybe other anons can speak to it as well but if you're more emotionally attached to your relationship than your girl is, it's gonna end poorly.

We've been there before, you have to learn the pain yourself. Either you lose all your money trying to make it big and end up with no money and no girl. Or you clutch it and it most likely end up with no girl and you're stuck in the UK lel. Remember she's not the one willing to move mountains to be with you. I don't blame her for not going to uni in Germany but if she really wanted to be with you, I'm sure you guys could have made it work.

going back to OP though, it's probably not meant to be. Don't feel too bad though. So many people, women especially aren't willing to take steps to make a LDR work. Lots of relationships are just born out of convenience.

Quick story, during lockdown I met a girl in another country, I had experience with other girls before, I had a body count of 10, but this girl really was nice to talk to online and play games with and stuff. So I thought maybe I could make it work, but I think in the end, while she liked me, she wanted me more for the convenience of getting a green card/financial reasons. It sucks, cause she was really sweet, and maybe it could have worked, but I felt she didn't like me nearly as much as I liked her. I had never really felt bad about a woman before but this one really hurt me like no other. Probably because we spent so much time together talking and had a lot of good conversations, which all the women I was with before lacked. But it made me realize there was some value beyond just sex which could be nice.

I really hope I can find another girl I like in a similar way, this girl wasn't even that hot either, she was kinda mid.Think I need to just make a more conscious effort to find someone.

>>60817126
Dude girls will stick with brokies, often actual losers. Why? Cause often they won't do shit for these girls and regularly mistreat them. They somewhat enjoy it (certain types).

Girls are not wired to have you chasing after them like some wagie trying to talk to the boss for a interview. Cut this hit already before u humiliate yourself.

You are still young, time to focus on yourself and build some future. THEN you can bring whatever bitch to suck you D (cause its all they are good for, they ruin most other things).

I'm not even like a resentful incel, I have two girlfriends currently (main, the other side who knows I have a main) I just think little of them & they LOVE that. Long as u arent' a complete cruel asshole of course.

>>60817306
>I love my dog! That's why I set him free while we go walking across the street.
>I love my young child! That's why I set him free by letting him choose what he wants to do all the time.
>I love my girlfriend! That's why I have to set her free to choose to be with me or not.
Loving someone is not "setting them free". That's irresponsible to those you cherish. Loving someone is guiding them through life so you can both live fulfilling lives.

>>60817327
If you just SHOW UP and surprise her, very dangerous if she isn't expecting it. You have no idea if this girl has been messing you around the entire time & she might freak out that she can't turn off the computer to escape.

Seriously, don't do this lol. If you are going to see her she needs to know. Oh also you will be to blame with whatever goes wrong next, even if her stupid ass was cheating/not serious YOU are the problem. (in her eyes and the law :) )

>>60817364
No young virgin girl wants some guy in his 30s or 40s that is delusional.
>>60817377
I know I am stupid but my heart is already broken the only way to fix it is to try to be with her.
>>60817401
Well she wanted to go to uni in germany in her third or 4th year so we could be togheter so I don't know why she changed her opinion on that.
I know that there is not much I can do but if I can present her facts that it can work because I can be close to her and that I have money she might change her mind.
>>60817464
Well we talked a lot about it and at first she was fine even told me how some of her family member were used to ldr etc.
>Probably because we spent so much time together talking and had a lot of good conversations, which all the women I was with before lacked.
I know and there are so many more things about her that are just great. This is what I mean there is nobody else like her in this world so I think it is worth fighting for her.

>>60817505
I am not like that and will never be like that. For me a relationship has to be like a friendship with love.
>>60817519
Okay then I am going to tell her just not sure how she reacts to it but you are right.

>>60816247
>she is is my soul mate
The relationship is already doomed. Love with a woman only works if she loves you more than you love her. That doesn't mean you have to be disinterested, but if you wanna be loveydovey, then she needs to be up in yandere-tier. Regardless, you are doing the noble thing by trying to visit in person and patch things up. I'm rooting for you to defy fate, bro.

Also I don't want to talk about it anymore I have decided what to do I just need the money. So can someone please post something that could make a 40-50x with enough liquidity?

>>60817542
Thank you I know I am a hopless romantic that is just what I am.

>>60817526
You sound like a girl, oh well I warned you. She will smell the desperation and want to be friends.
Its not too late to backout & focus on your actual life.

You have the impression of first love, and I think anons here find it almost endearing since we all think this way.

Girls do not want you chasing them, its as simple as that. I have no idea what you told this girl, but her saying we should stop talking means she isn't interested. If she knew u were going to this extent, she would be freaked out & block you most likely.

I'm just being honest lol.

>>60817526
>Well she wanted to go to uni in germany in her third or 4th year so we could be togheter so I don't know why she changed her opinion on that.
>I know that there is not much I can do but if I can present her facts that it can work because I can be close to her and that I have money she might change her mind.
kek oh no no no no

>>60817539
>I am not like that and will never be like that. For me a relationship has to be like a friendship with love.

I am this way because being any other way = no pussy in todays world. Girls do not want to be treated well, and if I am going to treat her well she's going to earn it. Thats pretty much how they like it.

As other anons said, they need to like you more than you like her, and this needs to be visible. They ENJOY this, both romantically and sexually. Because it shows you are higher value than they are. All biological.

>Okay then I am going to tell her just not sure how she reacts to it but you are right.
Yes, if u disagree with everything I said, thats fair and I can see if this is your first time why what I say is off putting. But yes please follow my advice, do not randomly show up cause its actually dangerous in my view, for yourself and her. Given the context you gave us already.

>>60817519
I disagree. Showing unannounced is very romantic, especially if he times it if it is raining and shows up with flowers and shit. Also OP should play it up and make it seems like he got on the first plane possible and didnt even have a plan or a place to stay. I think she'll dig it and it worked for me when my gf was going to break up. I almost did it again for a more recent relationship but decided against it because I'd rather put that "relationship money" I was spending into retirement.

>>60817547
You are retarded.
-sincerely, a non-virgin

>>60817564
yeah he is completely clueless.
This is exactly how every guy is before their first heartbreak.
He does not understand at all the true nature of women yet, and he is going to have to learn the hard way.

>>60817576
>I am this way because being any other way = no pussy in todays world. Girls do not want to be treated well, and if I am going to treat her well she's going to earn it. Thats pretty much how they like it.
this.

OP, true love is close to impossible to find in the modern world.
And it's not the man's fault.

>>60817578
I can only read this as ironic bait hahaha. If it truely worked for you, Bravo Vince Gilligan

>>60816889
Anon I dont want to scare you but its highly likely shes using you as an emotional sponge and will ghost you when you actually press her on meeting

>>60816166 (OP)
It's simple, you just buy PEPE.

>>60817578
I think it is the best I will tell her beforehand like the other anon said.
>>60818426
Pepe will never ever do a 40x-50x. Maybe a 5x but that is it.

>>60819466
Get on the plane friendo. All I can say about my LDR (we are now long married) is I wish I had visited her in person sooner when the relationship was new and exciting.

>>60816166 (OP)
why is he crying
someone stop her
she's hurting him

>>60816247
>Please link won't do anything
It's the only crypto that we can predict is likely to gain massively, any other choice for short term profit is just gambling.

>and I can't just move to her like that and start a bussines. I can only get a visa but I would not be allowed to work there. The only way would be to get a job there and then get a job visa and I was thinking about this but I am not sure
So you need to get a process of employment before, then apply for a work visa, then you can come? Do that then.

Alternatively you can go as a tourist and visit her every now and then. Have you ever seen her in person? Even if you get along great on the phone she might not like you anymore in person, at least check that.

>>60817552
>I am a hopless romantic

No you aren't, you are just young. That isn't your long term personality. It's just idealizing love and when you learn what it really is, you won't be a romantic anymore. It’s like saying believing in santa claus is your personality.

>in the modern world

True love has never existed. The concept was made up by poets who were inexperienced with women and wanted to find an utopia. It's natural for people to dream up these states where they will definitely forever be happy. In reality that never happens. With love it ends with the fact that all love fades with time. Then it's up to your personality if you're okay with just being roommates with sex or if you want to find a new person of interest.