Thread 60843368

Might come off as a cope but having no kids in my 30s is insanely comfy bros. I do whatever I want and don't have to be at the mercy of some bat shit crazy wife or some braindead kid on their ipad. Not to mention the financial benefits. Right now I'm laying cozy on my bed after spending all day outside in the outdoors and buying an amazing $40 dinner.

Anyone know this feel?

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>>60843368 (OP)
DEMORALIZATION THREAD REPORTED

Unless a young white girl if getting impregnated by a black man, there's no point in having kids. It's a lot of money and takes away all your free time. Once we're all coffee colored and intermixed racism will be destroyed

>>60843368 (OP)
I have friends like you. Mid 30s, no wife or kids. Wait until you're 40 and all the people around you have families and are too busy to hang out. You're going to be miserable and alone.

>>60843368 (OP)
32, no kids, no wife. Basically if I have to be a wageslave to sustain having those, it's not worth it to me. Either I get rich from gambling/investing and then decide to start a family, or I just don't. Working more is not an acceptable answer.

>>60843378
>>60843379
>>60843383
>seething parents

>>60843368 (OP)
34, single, net worth around $1.5m USD. About to go FIRE soon. Maximum comfy.

>>60843399
i'm 36 now and childless, but have been with my girl for 2 years and we'll probably get married soon and hopefully have children but i know i'm getting to the point where i'm too old.

i definitely understand where the other guy is coming from though, because he's right for the past few years i've lost contact with a lot of people and they're just too busy now to do anything except take care of their kids which is understandable.

no kids for me at this stage basically sees me (us if you combine my girl's net worth as a bonus) being able to buy a small house with around $1m USD leftover after that to keep invested and retire. it's so fucking tempting to go down this path.

the people around me with kids though, they most certainly are in a constant state of tiredness and seething, they legit have no money to do anything interesting and barely keep their heads above water as they typically have a big mortgage and the wife takes a lot of time off work, and they also legit get a bit envious and bitter if you say you're doing some boring shit like sleeping in on a Sunday and going for a walk, their lives seem like hell.

so in short i see both sides of the child free life. i also feel like most relationships would fall apart without kids too, for most people they're a reason to stay together.

>>60843368 (OP)
KOSHER THREAD ALERT
KOSHER THREAD ALERT

>>60843642
I didn’t have my first kid until I was 37 and my wife was 38. You’re not too old. Also before anyone makes comments about autism, downs, infertility or anything, my kid is 6 and completely healthy. No mental disorders, no physical issues, nothing.
I highly recommend getting to it already though. The toughest part of having a kid at this age is that you’re not as young as you used to be. There is a reason people used to get married and have their kids in their 20s. You’re more able for it than when you’re older. I will say though, it is the most rewarding experience I’ve had in my life. Nothing else compares. Childless people would never understand.

>>60843368 (OP)
I have no children at 33 but it's not by choice

>>60843368 (OP)
No one actually believes this. Children are always an improvement. Your mindset is 100% cope.
Personally, the only reason I don't plan to get kids is that I don't even have plans for a relationship, full stop. I just don't care about IRL women.

>>60843678
i forgot to mention too that my girl is 30 so she's not that old either, i know it's still easily possible but my concern as you mention is also the mental/physical health of the child. even though your kid is healthy, there's a lot of evidence suggesting there's a bigger chance of pretty much every health issue for the kid.

i will most likely have a child and i think my girl will be a great mother - but the thought of having to wageslave another ~10 years at least if i have a kid is utterly fucking depressing.

>>60843744
Keep in mind that despite what 4chan would have you believe, autism is more closely linked to paternal than maternal age. Also if you’re not wageslaving for your future progeny then what are you slaving for?

Not having kids is one of the best things I've ever done with my life.

The last time anyone expressed interest in me was 14 years ago. I focused on my career, and told myself it was enough. Is it though? I'll never know what it could have been like any other way.

>>60843383
>all the people around you have families and are too busy to hang out. You're going to be miserable and alone.
this happened already for me around 30

>>60843840
yeah i have "hanged out" like one time in the past 12 years or so. honestly if i get some time without some shit to do i'm probably going to want to go on a walk and take a nap more than much else

>>60843383
This. It seems the role kids fill are to have someone to hang out with when all your childhood friends are too busy to do anything. I'm mid 30s and soft-retired due to investment success (I now spend all my time working on personal projects trying to establish myself) and while I can't imagine hemorrhaging my investments to some woman and kids, it's incredibly lonely. All my friends are busy with their wagie jobs and wives and soon to be kids. Nobody has free time anymore.

>>60843866
of course it's going to seem like no one has time when they have wagie jobs and you're fucking retired. go to some community cooking classes at 2pm or something and meet some other jobless people

>>60843872
Are these people working 112 hour weeks? I had free time literally every day after work. It's their spouses that have to be babysat and get insecure if they're away for 2 hours.

>>60843368 (OP)
As a man, if your life path doesn't lead you to the place where you are mentoring young men, and being a role model for young women learning about men, you fucked up in a big way and will be a bitter, miserable old man and a useless parasite.

>>60843897
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