Thread 60857435

>1.3m net worth
>virgin in my 30s, never kissed a girl or even been on a date

Money is literally worthless without a woman. What even is there to buy as a single male? I would give it all up to wage slave my whole life for a woman.

I got my first GF at 30 and now we've been together almost 2 years, women are overrated brother. It was great at first now I wish I would have just had the fantasy of the perfect relationship. We still have sex every week and all that but she's lazy, fat, and the honeymoon phase is over so she's reverted into the person she was for the years before she met me and she doesn't really contribute much.

I had a plan to use her as a practice GF while I got in better shape but the problem is since she was my first I caught feelings for her now I don't really want to dump her yet, I probably will in a few months though under the guise of moving to a different state

>>60857435 (OP)
>What even is there to buy as a single male?
Nice clothes, nice car, and the free time to pursue women.

If you had a gf you would just be yearning for the next thing, ask me how I know

>>60857435 (OP)
>Money is literally worthless
Give it to me, then

>>60857435 (OP)
Just pay women to pee on you.
That's what they really want anyway

>>60858734
yeah both ways to be precise
so much fun

>and it pays off financially

every 5 minutes a new demoralized broken tired "it's over" wojak thread is being created, what is going on?

>>60857435 (OP)
All women are whores, anon. They look nice and smell nice and all that, but at the end of the day it's just a warm hole attached to a smol brain that thinks like a child. Pay the hooker and don't worry you're missing out; you're not. Get a dog for company

>>60858757
anon is correct
1 house keeper
2 ""companion"" for an hour or two
3 a dog

>dont over complicate things

>>60857486
why dont u just ask her to hit the gym

>>60857435 (OP)
Could be worse, you could have $0 net worth and 0 pussy.
1.3m is enough to retire comfortably in most of the country as well, so you don't even have to wage at this point.

>>60857435 (OP)
take lsd

>>60859224
Good way to one shot your mental health and end up taking antipsychotics for the rest of your life and/or blowing your brains out

>>60857435 (OP)
HIT THE GYM
THE GYM HIT
GYM HIT THE

I’m 31 and at about $650K. Obviously not much compared to you but in the same boat. I know that it will never happen at this point. I’d give up all of it and take on maxed out credit cards to have a wife or some kind of active social life.

>>60857486
>waah waah I'm over her
>but I caught feelings
>but I'm going to dump her
You sound like a woman.

>>60857435 (OP)
Use $50,000 on a matchmaker service in the country of your choice. 10K on service, $25,000 marriage bonus, (15K prenup lawyer)

>>60857435 (OP)
Copers will tell you to fuck prostitute, but you're correct. Getting money is pointless if you're not building a family with your formerly virgin White bride.

>>60859417
Oops just to add I am in the gym 5X a week and have no issues. My brother is an autistic programmer, so I may also be doing the matchmaker thing for him. Obviously I have to do extensive homework, then get a PI to investigate further. Or maybe find him a nice rural Christian girl.

>>60857435 (OP)
>scrolling dextools, see green candles that look like a ladder
>buy instantly
>immediately goes higher
>only coin i ever sold for profit without overthinking
>dextools my beloved

>>60858757
Why do you smell so... brown?

>>60857435 (OP)
Pay me to couch you to get laid.
>t. I will hire a hooker and make her pretend she or I don't know each other. Then I'll tell you to hit on her. this will all be filmed after you sign the fineprint for the consent to make the whole thing legal and unsue-able.

>>60857435 (OP)
I got my first GF at 31yrs old anon.
If I can do it, anyone can.
Shit isn't over until you are dead.

>>60859224
insane ID get

>>60857435 (OP)
Just get a sugar baby

>>60857435 (OP)
Can you spare $30k?

Went through a bunch of no good luck until 33 when she asked me out when I met her at a nerdy event. It helped having a common interest with said event. I asked if we can be friends first and we were for a month before going steady. Reduced the pressure for both of us.

Five years later and we are getting married.

It's not often exciting but it's stable and we have solid fun and are respectful of each other. Not as much sexual intimacy as I like (ten times a year) but everything else is on point. When we do, it's generally extremely enjoyable for both of us and she is pretty open.

She is also financially responsible which is wonderful.

We're closing on our first house soon and planning for kids in about a year since we've been living at our respective parents' houses to save up money and want to just have the two of us for a bit. We also get along very well with our respective families.

We're also respectively transparent. We share our concerns, needs, and wants, but not every negative thing in our heads. We also don't fully agree politically but share core values.

One thing that helped me was practicing socializing. I was terrified to go ourself. Ended up forcing myself to say hello to one person at a person, then two and worked my way up. If they didn't say hi they typically had earbuds in I didn't notice and/or were likely super anxious as they felt the world terrified them almost like it did to me.

As you know, money definitely doesn't buy happiness. It can buy exciting stimulation that in excessive is stress to the brain. I know someone with a net worth of $500+ million. They chase after the only person in their circle who doesn't always tell them "yes" to get things off of them. They're often anxious and worried. I wish they were. I make a bit above $60k/year in a medium-low cost of living area. My career path may lead to $90k to $120k (2025 money) long term. Not rich myself but there's stability.

Best of luck to all anons our there!

i'll help chadify you for a price nigga

>>60857435 (OP)
You're literally living the dream

>>60857435 (OP)
>>60859346
Dont get me wrong im an incel, but atleast i have basic pattern recognition. A WIFE? Are you retards foreal? Even boomers used to complain about their wives 60 fucking years ago when it was trad. Now it would be 10 times worse. Holy shit wake up.

>>60857435 (OP)
having a good woman is pretty much the best thing you could get in life, best of luck anon

>>60857435 (OP)
NPC

>>60858757
Don't forget the wall. I should've never gotten married

>>60859428
>do whatever the fuck you want whenever
Vs
>wage slaving and dying alone

My guy, I can offer you gf counseling for a low price. Let me know if you're interested.

For some weekly ETH or whatever, I'll coach you until you get a nice kind cute gf.

pooper.porcupine322@passinbox.com

>>60860391
>seems legit

>>60860391
Broke ass scam nigga

bumperino

im 30, have 30k and will be an amazon wagie for the rest of my life most likely. if you have more than 100k you made it

>>60860146
What kind of event?

>>60860203
You’re probably young. Once you hit 30, you realize how nice it must be to have someone to come home to. Life is crushingly lonely as you get older and don’t have a gf/wife or social life. I’d absolutely give up my net worth to have that.

>7 fig net worth
>too autistic to know how to dress or what haircut to get
>literally go to hair dresser and ask for advice, they give me some retarded child's haircut
>just wear tshirt and jeans because I don't know what else to do

>>60860146
beautiful

Steady personal growth is the path to happiness and discipline is the vehicle. Physical fitness (diet and exercise), mental fitness (meditation, literature, stoicism), skills (musical instrument, foreign language, shooting, handcraft), travel, etc. Not only will this give you purpose and vitality, it will level up your circle of friends. This includes women.

The more you develop your own character, the better the quality of the women that appear in your life. If you spend all your time sitting around on your fat ass, vaping, gambling on crypto, playing vidya, popping ssri, and eating goy slop, what kind of woman do you expect to appear?

Aspire to peak masculinity and peak femininity will arise around you. It is the natural course of things.

>>60860965
Did you go to Great Clips or Fantastic Sam's?

yall just want to fuck a warm pussy

>>60857435 (OP)

You're using porn. that's why you haven't found a woman

Get off the porn and your hormones will demand interaction with a woman. it'll overwhelm any sense of fear of rejection or social anxiety you have

>>60857435 (OP)
>Money is literally worthless without a woman
Only people who have never been poor say shit like that
Women make money more fun

>>60861077
>yall just want money
>yall just want offspring
>yall just don't want to be lonely
Why do anything?

>>60857435 (OP)
you can go fuck top-shelf prostitutes right now retard. these threads are so fucking stupid.
people like you do not deserve your wealth, whether or not it was earned.

>>60860218
i'm 39 and the last woman i dated was a fat women who smoked and had a borderline autistic soon in his late teens who played videogames all day. upside was she had a taste pussy.
it's over for me, i am resigned to the life of a monk. i don't have 1.3m net worth to spend on whores. i have 50k nw and i put it into the stock market.

>>60861080
quitting has been difficult. alcohol was easier to drop. that easy dopamine hit, feel like a lab mouse.

>>60861163
jesus christ nigga stop looking at porn it's that simple. how fucking brainrotted are you.

>>60861110
exactly, everything is fake and gay
do what you actually enjoy instead of desperately trying to fit in

>>60861163

I can relate. It's hard. Especially if you're into more niche porn like I am

Nonetheless I try to think about it in the sense of what was available in the 1970s. If it's online, if it's a video, if it's novelty that I can easily access I don't view it

My hormones don't go away though so the effect I've noticed is that I strongly strongly STRONGLY desire women now. Like I go out of my way to talk with any girl I'm attracted to whereas before I wouldn't have even thought of approaching a girl

>>60860606
Not sure if new ID since I posted yesterday.

It was a Japanese Culture event with a mochi making demonstration/full moon viewing event.

I had given up on dating completely that day. Went there solo which turned out very well. Friends from my club didn't have time. I saw her from a distance and thought she was cute. Lost her in the crowd as we shuffled out.

I was talking with the building director about Japanese attire (kimonos, yukatas,and jinbeis) outside in the dark. She walked up to us and joined us in conversation. The director walked away and she and I talked.

She was new to the area and asked for my number (never have had that happen) since she wanted to meet new people and then asked if I wanted to go to a bar. I had never been approached like that. We went and had maybe two drinks if that.

The crazy part is that I learned later she tended to not approach people. Very much outside of her usual behavior. She said the conversation the director and I had was interesting since she likes Japanese culture (and not just anime though she enjoys that).

I later learned that while she had some social media accounts they were dormant (and still are). Her entertainment is mostly reading.

Shared events can be a good gateway into relationships from what it seems. I do like the friend route first. Helps you get to know who they are.

She wasn't sexually experienced so we went very slow there. I hadn't been in probably eight years. No kisses for maybe 4 or 5 months and then we slowly worked our way up. Maybe 1.5 years before anything really beyond that. I didn't like that at first but it was nice to really get to know her.

>>60857486
> I had a plan to use her as a practice GF while I got in better shape but the problem is since she was my first I caught feelings for her now I don't really want to dump her yet, I probably will in a few months though under the guise of moving to a different state
Nigger why don't you give her some notice? Tell upfront you're going to break. It would be much better that way.

>>60861618
>>60860606

A friend of mine would hook up with girls. Had one relationship in which within 30 days they had non-stop sex with a lot of alcohol involved. I told him my story and he said he wished he had that. After 30 days of fun (and mirrored in other hook ups be did) they didn't have any deeper connection and didn't really know anything about the other person. I at times did envy his fun times but they weren't deep and had high risk.

One question I ask currently or formerly married people is what drew them to their partner and a lot of divorced people have said, "he/she/they were a lot of fun". Seems to be code for a lot of partying. Using alcohol and drugs not as a social lubricant in smaller amounts but as crutch to feel good often many times a week or weekly. Fun stimulation is as much stress to the brain as working. Some is alright but too much of both can lead to burnout.

We have disagreements but don't fight by yelling and/or physically fighting. If we feel really upset then we give a 20 minute break or so from each other and then go and talk it out. We both have veto powers so we can cancel doing something and that's okay. It took my ADHD brain some time to adapt due to the emotional dysregulation that comes with it and rejection sensitive dysphoria (actual or perceived rejection of something makes my brain go crazy). Going for a walk helps, deep breathing, or resting my brain for 15 min helps.

We're also transparent. I am still friends with many of my exes who are great but it didn't click. She has met several and has befriended some. We're transparent even with phones. She knows my code so when I'm driving she can respond to text messages or handle other tasks so I can focus on driving. I like to drive and she prefers me to drive but also has a car and drives and goes to work.

We also have a "look but don't touch" policy where we can appreciate others we find attractive and get our appetite elsewhere but bring it home (so to speak).

>>60857435 (OP)
Are you approaching women, or do you just expect them to come to you? Women will NEVER approach you unless you look like chris evans or something like that. Women don't find men that sexy, they just want money. Even if a woman is slightly attracted to you, they will never admit it because then it gives you some power in the relationship, and they want a man simp who feels worthless compared to the woman and worships her.

You need to go out to bars or clubs or whatever and start chatting them up. Yes, modern women are disgusting and a lot of them will complain about the creep that bothered them, but then you are the one with the money, and they are the ones that will have dried up 40 year old pussies and crying why they could never have a family.

>>60858820
It's the food not the lack of exercise. Fat people are a waste of time, they can very rarely overcome the modern food addictions they have and they become angry if you try to encourage them to eat naturally. It's not normal to be fat and it's definitely not normal to have sex with fat women despite what society tells men. Best to stay single and maintain some standards rather than to lower oneself to plapping.

>>60860606
>>60861651
I am a fan of the Gottman Institute. Neat YouTube videos and information online. I have linked a few videos (between 2 to 6 minutes each - the first is something I keep in mind in particular).

https://youtu.be/ib7Ain2aVR0

https://youtu.be/q-isa2lp4Bg

https://youtu.be/1o30Ps-_8is

A big thing is for everyone in anything relationship to be able to lower their ego at times (not all the time - being a constant doormat doesn't work) and admitting when we are wrong to our partner and those around us.

I knew some people on the chans may automatically reject Gottman because of the Jewish name. That doesn't bother me none. I judge people by their words and more so by their actions. Plus, even if you don't agree with a larger group, they can still be truthful.

I won't disagree with the statement someone tells me "the sky looks blue" on a sunny day.

>>60860992
Thank you very much anon!

>>60861012
I'd say a lot of this is solid advice overall though you can mix some masculine and feminine traits. I also find that pursing things you enjoy and things that will help you even if single helps a lot. Hard for me to do at times but you have take care of yourself in a sustainable way before you can take care of others.

Not all those are available to everyone especially ideas like travel as it's usually thought of as "travel abroad". Simply "traveling" to local events can help out a lot. The further out you travel, the better it may be. Even traveling to your neighbor's and saying something as simple as hello can be huge.

I know people who do nothing but provide constant amounts of stimulation and feel uncomfortable without it. Too many drugs/alcohol and too much unhealthy food, gaming, and gambling.

The highs are (or at least feel higher) and the lows are lower. When gaming they'll go from feeling on top of the world to crashing out when something goes wrong. Repeats multiple times a day.

Also anons, it's closing day on our first house!

>>60857435 (OP)
>38, $7.5 mn net worth
>fucking prosties once or twice a week
>going to south america for 2 months sex vacation once a year
>otherwise just travelling

Life is good. Stop being a cuck. Get more money, fuck more bitches. I NEVER want to have a nagging annoying GF again, i just want to cum in their mouth and be done with it for the day.

why didn’t you buy whores yet?
Sex is boring and gross
Women are horrible to be around

You’re not missing out on anything. Sex as the most important thing in life is Jewish propaganda to make goys hypercompetitive over something that results in enormous resources expenditure of nonchads