>>21490652It's how I was taught by my American mother. She had gone to an etiquette school or something when she was young. Old money from the South. She told me to always put down the knife (quietly on the edge of the plate) after cutting something and put my fork back into my right hand to eat the bite.
Under no circumstances were you ever to cut everything before hand, but each time you wanted a bite. It really slowed down eating, as dinner was supposed to be for polite conversation.
If you put your elbows on the table she'd smack you.