>>149077434I will put it like this:
Twinks are defined by being concious about how they look. As a result they are naturally insecure and typically have a lot of baggage. The same is true about women who keep on top of looking youthfull, but there is a big difference which makes women easier to work with than a twink. When a woman is insecure they focus on that emotional feeling. They don't care about rationalising or explaining it, what matters is that they feek it and want to feel secure. To most heterosexual men this can be a pain in the ass but it makes dealing with women easier than it sounds. You essentially just have to give a woman good vibes and warm reassurance and as they feel better emotionally their insecurity fades away.
Men don't work like that.
If a twink has an insecurity they can articulate and rationalize it. Sounds good on paper, right? You could reason with a twink why they shouldn't feel insecure and put things to rest, or at least in theory. The problem is the rationalize part. When a man is insecure and you tell them not to be they will put up a wall or bite back and twinks have very deepy seated skeletons in their closets. Once a twink has an insecurity which can be connected to you in someway, even tangently, you are going to be in for a world of emotional hurt. Twinks seldom stay in commited relationships for a reason and they only get worse as they get older in age and looks. Then there is the sex. You are fucking another guy's asshole. They need to prep in advance and there is always a chance mid fucking that you accidently go too sharp and cause pain which means you have to stop for them to recover. Then there is the lube, the mess on the sheets when you pull out and the risk of the twink having stomach/gas issues because you fucked their asshole ect ect ect.
It's not worth the trouble. Trust me. I have been there.