>>149079487A lot of the 'mommy' fetishized body types (tall, buff, et cetera) are typically insecure about it because they ultimately want conventional relationships. So like, when the guys into them are wanting to be held and nuzzle into their breasts and shit, it just makes them more insecure because they wanted to be the ones getting held.
The internet, current pop culture, and just the absolute decay of traditional parenting has basically raised a generation of men whose sexual tastes and preferences are so un-traditional while girls have largely been raised to have the same preferences they always did.