>>149288911You just have to understand it from a woman's perspective (even though I know empathizing with other's is almost an impossible task for you). When some women see a man who's ripped, or even just skinny and fit, they think about that man wanting them to also stay in perfect shape. For the vast majority of people, that's difficult and takes a lot of hard work. When women see that a man is mostly fit, but with a little bit of stomach pudge, they know it's okay for them to not constantly be on a low calorie diet and having to exercise all the time to stay in shape.