>ywn experience love as pure as this
Why even fucking live, bros?

>>149296567 (OP)
This is a work of fiction.
You need to stop idolizing what isn't possible
You're hurting yourself

>>149296567 (OP)
>>149296586
Women are completely incapable of genuine romantic love and it hurts my soul.

>>149296703
How do you know? You haven't met all the girls in the world.
I doubt you even met one single girl meaningfully(your mother does not count)
>>149296567 (OP)
Never say "never" dude!
Unless you're on your deathbed then it's not that late to find someone... but maybe you need to grow up a little and learn to mingle with yourself before you're able to mingle with someone else
90% of the time these kinds of problem are simply a self-worth issue

>>149296586
Yeah. It's unrealistic to expect women to care about you.

>>149296703
>hates women
>wonders why women don't like him

>>149296952
But if a woman hates men, that's just normal?

>>149296982
Were you just living under a rock for the past like 10 years?
If a woman hates men then people just make fun of her for hating men.
All those "feminist gets owned" type videos and memes didn't spawned out of nowhere
they came into existance to make fun of women who hated men
Just how all the incel memes you see today all exist to make fun of men who hate women
The moral of the story is to stop hating on any of the sexes and just grow up

>>149296982
If you understand why women hating all men is unfair, you should understand the reverse. I get why women may have a general distrust or fear of men though.

>>149297084
If you didn't condone it, you wouldn't defend it.
>>149297093
There isn't any fairness in women with 10+ exes saying they hate men.

>>149296567 (OP)
Why did this movie have so much fucking SOVL?

>>149296567 (OP)
>>149296703
>>149296910
you all suffer from a puer aeternis complex, you are to focused on the futures that could be to act on the world as it is and make the future
true love isn't found, its built

Again, I see this kind of thing as a mix of self-worth issues and pride used as some sort of defense.
Despite being the common denominator, it's always the same;
>"I can't be the problem, it's them who are all evil and mean"
>"It's not me, they only go for this specific type."
Sometimes it's just
>"Well I don't need them so I'll make sure to get that point across whenever I can to show them just how much I don't need them."
It all goes back to a problem with the self.
Anybody can get romance, love, and happiness, but in order to properly deal with those things you first need to learn to deal with yourself.

>>149296567 (OP)
>Why even fucking live, bros?
To see what happens next.

>>149297120
I'm not defending nor condoning anything
I'm openly dissing both lol

Foids can't experience true emotions, they are low iq demonscum who take pleasure in toying with the hearts of men. Fucking selfish, stupid cunts.

Also, why don't women like me? It's so unfair bros.

>>149297253
Switch men and women, and that becomes an acceptable statement by today's standards.

>>149297136
Nice fortune cookie post but true love or care involves luck and reciprocation that often doesn't happen regardless of effort put in

>>149297328
It doesn't but it feels like it does to YOU
It's like YOU see it like that and thus YOU believe it works like that and everyone would think they same
You don't gotta think for others
Maybe if you'd let go of that thought and just tried to not generalize any of the two
You'd be happier! (ofc not over night)

>>149297176
>Anybody can get romance, love, and happiness
Not the way people usually want or need which is why most relationships fail. What people call love is usually shallow and lacking in meaning.

>>149297354
Relationships are built not scored.

>>149297354
Well have you even attempted?

>>149297382
It doesn't matter if you build when it's one sided
>>149297383
Yeah but I wouldn't have to to point out what I did

>>149296982
it seems more normal when you realize almost all rapists are men and almost all rape victims are women.

>>149297404
Is there any possibility that ethnicity can be included in this discussion?

>>149297409
Rapes even out when you adjust for poverty vs race. There's just more poor minorities.

>>149297392
So THAT'S what happened!
you were led on by someone or then felt "infatuation" and not "love" for someone.
It's fine, anon.
if you got hurt then it's fair you feel like this but it's not gonna get you anywhere

>>149296767
Fucking kek finding someone in practice is irrelevant because the someones you can find are all busted and won't care about themselves or you. If you're like OP and you want reciprocated affection without meme ideology, muh childhood trauma/grooming or exes getting in the way you're not getting that. You're getting garbage and the goalpost moving will be to accept that garbage while wearing yourself down for nothing over decades. Fake meme reality only offers fake meme romance not the simple meaningful type someone might want.

>>149297427
Explain what love is then you can start to pretend you know anything

>>149297426
Do you honestly mean to tell me that being poor is a good justification for rape?

>>149297430
Hey man, it's really not that bad. There are plenty of level headed people out there just trying to get by same as you.

>>149297448
They can be level headed enough and that doesn't matter much when it comes to sex and relationships. Them "trying to get by" is one of many excuses for mistreatment.

>incel thread
>or gay thread?

>>149297444
No anon, I'm saying being poor is a greater indicator for rape.

>>149297460
What kind of mistreatment?

>>149297463
The only gayness you'll usually get is if they're into fictional traps or futa because actual men are simultaneously uglier and more promiscuous than women.

Blogshit threads are cancer and against >>>/co/rules/1
OP is a faggot.
Fulfill your civic duty to help purge this board of anarchistic, sociopathic, intellectually regressive youtube/reddit/twitter immigrant subhumans like him who are under the delusion that all of 4chan (instead of just the designated shitposting playpens like /b/, /trash/, /bant/, etc.) is a toilet by reporting this thread en masse.
Here's a link so you don't have to scroll up to the top of the page.
https://sys.4chan.org/co/imgboard.php?mode=report&no=149296567

>>149297472
Snapping over petty things, indefinitely refusing to have sex, seeing other people etc.

>>149297463
>>149297481
Meaning if you have a list of reasons to hate women then actual gay men will probably offer an even worse experience. Women now even copy gay men so.

>>149297437
Love is complex and a deep feeling of tenderness and caring.
Infatuation can turn to love but the line is hyper blurry and sometimes you think you love someone but you actually just love the concept of it
I can't KNOW what you feel but I can assume based off what you're saying
Why do you feel all relationships are one-sided if not for a personal reason?

>>149297511
Real love very simply in this context is a mix of physical/mentally attraction or compatibility and care for each others wellbeing. In practice you never or rarely see this happen and last.

>>149297549
well then I guess there's nothing to be done! you'll just die alone and sad we just have to deal with it! or not.

>>149297549
It's also built on familiarity.

>>149297511
>>149297549
>sometimes you think you love someone but you actually just love the concept of it
This is ironically very accurate and it's not just sometimes. You can have an idea of love that's good or healthy but in practice the relationship will lack care and attraction from the start or at some point later. Reality is garbage for many reasons so it's not just the unreasonable expectations or fantasies that it will fail to provide. Things that people can easily do will be left undone to your detriment for any or no reason.

Half of you sound like this guy.

>>149297562
What can be done is limited because you rely on reciprocation for a relationship to work. And there's a long list of reasons to be denied reciprocation regardless of your efforts.
>>149297564
If it doesn't involve what I listed then the familiarity is only keeping you in a bad situation

I guess today we learn that these things are black and white and that everyone seems to have their own ideas of "love" and relationships.
The best thing to do is to just try to grow
I still subscribe to the belief that if you're able to produce love from within you won't be so reliant on it coming from others

>>149297217
Oh right, you aren't defending women who say men should die. You're just bringing something else up as a way to lessen how bad it is.
My mistake.

>>149297605
holy shitt

>>149297620
Explain what's wrong about true love simply being true care, attraction and reciprocation. What's ironic about you mentioning self love is if you truly love or care about your own well-being you will avoid these relationships because they lack these simple things for so many reasons.

I used to think this way until I found the love of my life. She is not real (in the reality) but I often fantasize about our life together. Honestly, it makes me tear up, even something as simple as taking a walk with her fills me with joy. I’d do anything for her.

>>149297617
From a purely biological point of view, mental and physical attraction develops and strengthens overtime. That is why a lot of long term friendships end up as productive relationships and why it is always reccomended. You fall in love, you don't pursue it. But you need to actually socialize beyond your peer group and without ulterior motive to succeed which means having a goal other than finding a gf.

>>149297661
But yet in actual practice mental and physical attraction along with the care for well-being that has to be involved in true love is almost non-existent despite the time together and familiarity. You still mostly have all these dead bedrooms, cheating and or people who can't stand each other or straight up break up.

>>149297661
Saying attraction "develops overtime" is an empty promise. Women don't have any inherent attraction towards men.
They see us as pigs, and rarely develop beyond that perception.

comics and cartoons?

>>149297713
uhhh so... whats your guys' favourite cartoon couple? I'm a fan of Belle and the Beast!

>>149297702
>hook up with someone with the goal of a relationship without pre-existing chemistry or bond
>shocked that 5 years down the line why that hasn't developed yet
Familarity comes first. You don't enter a relationship hoping for those things to happen, it should already be there
>>149297704
>heres a graph from a dating site which mechanically is designed around the total opposite of what you talking about
How are you shocked that dating sites have these statistics? It's like arguing how men are statistically are all financially irresponsible with money by showing statistics from a gambling site

>>149297771
You can have pre existing chemistry and still get divorced, cheated on, neglected or mistreated. I really don't know what you're on about.

>>149297789
Because half of the time when I hear that talking point it is applied to relationships with the criteria I listed. When cheating happens in long term relationships it is often due to a prolongued absence in intimacy or time spent together which makes it rarer than non-longterm relationships

>>149297713
The subject is what was used as inspiration for the cartoon movie WALL-E. I would be talking more about how much I enjoyed it myself but I understand the frustration of being reminded of not being allowed to have this irl and "people" pretending it's like expecting to have superman powers. It's as doable or possible as exercise and yet still indefinitely out of reach because people don't give a fuck and they keep choosing not to give a fuck.

https://youtu.be/B0C8sL89YYo?si=UQkLk2j3n73FGy-T

>>149297813
But the point is you're acting like this specific bond you're talking about stops the issues I'm talking about from happening when it doesn't. They can have familiarity and these failures still happen because people are easily manipulated and can change their minds at your expense regardless.

>>149297844
Yes, but that is like saying there is no point of eating healthy if a man eating lard gets a heary attack at 50 while a healthy man dies of one at 50 by 1 in every 10 of people eating lard related deaths. There is always a possibility, but the odds are far more remote with one compared to the other.

>>149297886
>heart attack*

>>149297886
Let me re-word it as:
>man dies of heart attack in his 50s due to unhealthy diet
>a man who dies of one at the same age is 1/10 times less likely than the unhealthy one
>this does not mean it is pointless to eat a healthy diet

>>149297886
The bond thing you're talking about is common though. Guess what's still common? Things like mistreatment, cheating and break ups. You're making a false equivalence and exaggerating the effect of knowing someone before fucking them and trying for worth a shit romance.

>>149297912
Yeah it's not the same as what you're talking about. If anything spending time with someone or having a bond before the relationship often contributes to being sick of each other later on. You really think changing your mind in these situations is rare.

>>149297929
If you think the relationship I am describing is common place today you have a twisted view on what reality actually is. But go ahead, keeping justifying your own hopeless view on human nature to cope with your own, it's pointless talking at this point

>>149297949
If you have contempt in a relationship you likely did not spend enough time before hand to realize that and to work on that. Contempt is not an unfixable thing or mitigate loving someone

>>149297963
What you're describing is people knowing each other or getting along before officially dating which really isn't that rare. You're just pretending it is. It's pointless talking because you're fucking dumb and don't understand that even in your little scenario people change their mind. If the hope you're trying to spread is based on easily disproven bullshit there's no reason to accept it or appreciate it as some great service. You're doing a long frustrated le sigh as if you offered something profound and it was rejected for nothing. Annoying bitches.

>>149297977
Contempt isn't fixable if one part of the pair isn't working on it. That's what you're not understanding. This is all dependent on random whim not just you individually working hard or loving yourself. Fucking stupid.

The fat people in this were so lame.

>>149297176
In order to find love, you need to be at least physically attractive enough to arouse your partner. You don't have to be an absolute chad, but your partner should want to fug you based on looks alone. It always bothered me that whenever love or relationships are brought up, this aspect is always ignored.

>>149297991
>What you're describing is people knowing each other or getting along before officially dating which really isn't that rare.
Yeah, for a few months at most maybe
>It's pointless talking because you're fucking dumb
You accuse me of me being dumb and fitting things in one scenario but you do the exact same fucking thing in how realtionships are seemingly doomed to fail without acknowledging the reasons why
>easily disproven bullshit
What, from your own perception of reality built to cope and justify shit to yourself?
>profound
There is nothing profound about it, you unitentionally think it is because it is counter to your own world building.

Enjoying being a misanthropinc retard.

>>149298015
You're not loved cause you're hot
You're hot cause you're loved
Love is blind after all tho ofc its all preference i suppose

>*WALL-E thread*
>r9k coming through!

>>149298074
>*WALL-E thread*
I wish it was.

>>149296567 (OP)
But I do

Right now she's snoring as I'm up on my phone posting

>>149298052
>You're not loved cause you're hot
That's not quite accurate. Your looks don't guarantee love, but without (some) looks you'll never get a chance at love. It's like the lottery. Even if you get a ticket, there's no guarantee you'll win. But if you don't have a ticket, you'll never win.

Looks + Character = Love. Without looks, you can't achieve love. It's as shrimple as that.

Killer aero waifu

>>149298132
No I agree (somewhat) all I said is that love is "blind"
Beauty isn’t the cause of love, but the effect of it.
If you love someone you'll think they're pretty even if others(or even themselves) think they're not.

>>149298162
>If you love someone you'll think they're pretty even if others(or even themselves) think they're not.
Yes, but even before you love them you'll think they're pretty. Getting to know them just makes you appreciate them more.

>>149298026
Even people who knew each other for years have this bad shit happen. And you're putting an arbitrary number on your fake and gay theory as if people don't ever bond better with people they knew for less time than people they knew for more time. If you want people to like and join you maybe you should start by not lying and being annoying.

>Rewatch film recently, reminded how much I fucking love EVE
>See this thread, ready to EVE post
>Open thread
You niggas is gay

if Wall-E came out today pixar would make eve a guy and made it a gay love story

>>149298764
You know what, I can't dispute that

>>149296767
>Unless you're on your deathbed then it's not that late to find someone...
If you can't find anyone before 40 you will have no chance.
>90% of the time these kinds of problem are simply a self-worth issue
No. In more than 10% of the cases it is your net worth issue. Women are rather cold blooded about this and I was credic checked several times. Several of them got blind drunk and babbled about it. Not that it helops my self-worth exactly but they said it was a crucial lack of wealth.

>>149296567 (OP)
I often ask myself this question. Then I realize, should it have ended already, I would have not seen yet another great piece of art, good movie or an otherwise wonderful experience that then instill, just a little better than the last, what I cannot attain.
The pain is exquisite.

>>149296952
NTA
Women hated me first. My hate is righteous and of justice, womens is of malice and bigotry.

>>149297492
You will NEVER be a janny

pathetic thread

>>149296567 (OP)
Love this movie to death