>>149711639>You're not ENM material because you're husband material.Within the context of the show it's not meant that Connie is saying "oh I'd like you for a husband but I wouldn't want to have sex with you". It's basically saying that Bobby is simply not the type of person who could have an ENM relationship without getting too attached to the girl. He's too nice and sentimental. We see this happen with the first girl he has sex with in the season when he gets all disappointed to find out it was just a one night stand.
It is explicitly spelled out in the season at least twice in the very dialogue that ENM relationships are a way to have sex with other people and not have emotional baggage or worry about jealousy. Someone who knows Bobbie as much as Connie would know he's not the type who could do such a thing without getting attached.
Later in the season we see Connie can't be in an ENM relationship either because when she's feeling all shitty at her parent's fake anniversary her boyfriend ends up wanting to leave her instead of comfort her. He is like "hey this wasn't supposed to require any emotional expectations from my side". She gets pissed at how selfish he is and immediately breaks up with him because it's clear he doesn't actually care about her. The season is showing how faulty the idea of ENM is and if you think it's promoting it instead you're instinctually getting offended without even bothering to figure out the super basics of what the show is laying out in front of you.