>>149719793 (OP)
Someone else said it: Comic book writers have such terrible experiences with love that it's physically impossible for most of them to imagine a compelling romance.
One of the best comic book romances I remember was between Lucifer Morningstar, the actual DEVIL of DC, and Mazikeen. An actual spawn of Lilith. It still ended with her slashing him in the face (as far as I'm concerned the sequel series and the reboot can be ignored) but up until that point it was legitimately a healthier relationship than every capeshitter one I can think of. Which is frankly astonishing given the power imbalance between the characters.
Also Sinestro and Lyssa Drak are a better representation of love than the Star Sapphires were in their heyday, despite also fully embracing being supervillains.
>>149721997
Unironically don't bother with capeshit for that, just watch a magical girl show or something. Capeshit is so bad at handling powers like that in a benign way that you have to start rooting for guys like fucking Takion as examples. Well, that or Ma-Ti from Captain Planet.