>>11335830
Yes, it really, really is.
On a basic level, just on the purely sub experience level, it triggers all of those super protective instincts you have for eachother, and that sense of helplessness to do anything for them.
THEN, it sets up tons of fantastic predicament stuff where both of you dig yourselves deeper for eachother, accept deals for eachother, ect. It's some pretty unique mixtures of despair, trapping, but also a kind of weird hope you tend to not get out of bdsm otherwise. Your entire emotional spectrum is available as a plaything.
THEN, there's getting to see things in your partner that you don't get to see often, sometimes really impressive, attractive, or breathtaking things. I think this is especially true for getting to see other sides of your partner's sexuality you otherwise wouldn't get to see, it's really beautiful. And then the added bonus of getting to fully experience them going through all of these things. There's really, really intimate lines of communication that go on like this, like them recognizing a particular thing you're really not good with, so taking it, or you recognizing something they think is hot to watch, so taking that. You both get to experience that drop-build up cycle over and over during it, and have some moments of beautiful contrast. And, through it all, I think it's almost impossible to not end up way, way, WAY more intimate and close with them afterwards.
Plus, since, y'know, usually niether of you are probably super good at toppy, dommy stuff if you're doing this, you also both get rare treats as a cherry on top, and get to give eachother aftercare for things you would probably never be able to do for eachother otherwise. And then, afterwards, you get WEEKS of super hot sex and romance around it.
It's really intense, as nice as it is, I can't see wanting to do it constantly, maybe once every couple months, maybe a year or so, but, it's such a wild emotional experience.
