>>11331443
The sadist element I find interesting is more or less:
"Oh no, what should I do? I'm ruined!"
or "Th-this is embarrassing."
but it gets skipped over quite often.
and yet, a lot of transformations do have some touches of this.
the rape template is boring yeah...
I think this template exists as part of the "I'm beautiful" narrative.
I feel that a lot of people who self insert and want to be transformed into a woman, don't actually want to be a woman at all. Instead, womanhood is a tool used to achieve being accepted as weak, fragile, emotional, beautiful, powerful, endaring, in control of a strong man and things like that.
Some of them wish they could be played with by a man, like a woman would, or maybe experience similar sensations, but most of the time it's really about being the popular girl in high school, an idol, or at the very least someone who can get away with things simply because they are pretty and is protected because they are seen as fragile and innocent.
So it feels like a bit of an omnipotence-like desire, or a narcissistic one since they want to be validated and protected by others, others whom they also control to an extend since they need the strong admiration from them.
The fantasy empowers the self inserter, rather than puts them into an awkward situation. This is why it feels wrong to me.
The only thing I can compare it to is a bully.
I also noticed a lot of GenderBender self-insert food actually has some elements of bullying in them, and--
I don't have that level of psychopathy. I mean, watching some character bully another character. The sadism elements I enjoy are mainly schadenfreude and psychological sadistic events, and mainly unmanipulated, so basically a character struggling while simply being themselves.