Just start doing this
I see a lot of fags here that try to pull something off and they end up looking like tryhard faggots. I was guilty of this too. So I just wore a generic Slayer tshirt most of the time because I have no real personality. But get this, the more I wore it, the better it looked. The color started fading and it warped slightly to better fit my body. "Grown in" clothing is real. I honestly really look good in my faded Slayer shirt, it has acquired a very rich patina and I don't look like a fag trying too hard when I wear it now. It's become a part of me. This is literally the key to looking effay, wear them, abuse them, lift weights with them on, and wash them enough times to mold them into something you look good in.