Thread 76260184

why do women think im always checking them out at the gym?? i swear i wish there was a men's only gym.. any tips on how to deal with this? my anxiety is getting worse by the day the more i see the women stare at me weirdly.. im seriously trying to mind my own business.

>>76260184 (OP)
just stop caring. its that easy.

>>76260208
>if you're homeless.. just buy a house???

fuck off.

If they stare at you weirdly, take that as an invitation to tell them about Warhammer lore. They just want to be your friend and hear your long rant about the Horus Heresy and the histry of Ultramar.

>>76260210
Its not that hard to not look at them

just don’t look at them nigga haha. like just close your eyes lol

>>76260184 (OP)
>wish there was a men's only gym
faggot

>>76260208
This is the answer. Women stop working out when they see me for some reason but it's their problem not mine.

>>76260210
Kek
Just Watch them and don’t fucking care

>>76260184 (OP)
>i see the women
how do you do this without looking

>>76260184 (OP)
Instead of trying to avoid staring just embrace it and start glaring at them. That way you won't feel anxious because you'll become an high t alpha male.

>>76260184 (OP)
I have the opposite problem. Its like women want me to look
>its just me and her in the gym
>she flexes in the mirror while looking at me through the mirror
>I flex back
>she smiles back and plays with her hair

Another time
>in the weight room
>girl wearing sweatshirt and sweatpants comes in
>do my exercise and leave the weight section
>do some pull ups
>go back to weight section
>shes still there
>she notices me
>suddenly stands up and takes off her sweatpants and shirt to reveal a mini bra and booty shorts
>looks at me to see if im looking at her
>duh
>she goes back to her workout

Its like they just want me to look and will even wait for me to be looking at them

>why do women think
stopped reading there i cannot read more of your lies

>>76260276
Must be nice. Women leave the gym if I so much as walk in their general direction let alone look at them.

>t.indian

>>76260208
This. If anyone bothers you tell them you are busy and to fuck off

>>76260576
Just wear deodorant bro

>>76260210
He's right tho.

>>76260210
are you brown by chance?

>>76260184 (OP)
Look at the ceiling or above the mirrors, trust me

at my 24 hr fitness it is literally always empty of whores unfortunately

>>76260576
Go back to India

Why is /fit/ so freaking gay while complaining all day about women at the gym?
I love when the gym is packed with girls, it increases my test and makes me lift heavier to mog all the men in there, it's like a alpha male competition inside my head.
I also love when I'm all pumped up and they start looking at my bulging arm veins, then they come lift next to me in a shy way awaiting for the alpha male look at them, god I might be an unlovable incel chud but I love women!

>>76260210
uhm... one of these costs a million dollars while the other is free

>>76260184 (OP)
You answered your own question with your image OP, bigly autisms pills deficiencies.

>CAPTCHA:P0WVW

>>76262218
because retard you are validating them when you look at them. They get a higher ego and the next thing you know half the gym will be women recording themselves for attention from people like you. The fact women are weightlifting in the first place is FOR attention.
its like that video of the western girl whining that japanese women look at her like a slut when she is wearing legging and a tight shirt. So she dresses like a normal person because of the embarrassment

>>76262270
Don't care, I love women, when the gym is packed with men I don't even feel like lifting, it's disgusting, I love looking at tight shorts cuties with big booties. Them being attwhores ain't my problem, I like it

Bringing my wife along has been like turning god mode on with women in the gym. Though I guess it's also like a cosmic joke that women are the most attracted to you when you are ethically forbidden from screwing them.

>>76262282
Ahhh you must not live anywhere near black people, because most the women recording themselves are obese minorities

>>76262292
Women like flirting with you when they know that you won't make a move on them. It's why grannies and jailbait will shamelessly mire you but not girls the same age as you.

>>76260184 (OP)
>fuck off cunt, don't want people looking at your tits? don't show them
If they stare/glare do it back. If they insult/threaten you do it back.

>>76260184 (OP)
They're trying to destroy what they think is a male only space.

>>76262303
I live in Brazil, my gym doesn't allow people to record themselves with those tripod things but I rarely see girls recording themselves, most girls here are mixed race aka latinas and I heckin love lifting and looking at their tight ass.

>>76262309
What happens if you make a move on those girls that don't expect you hitting back on them? Also how do I approach girls at the gym without looking like a creep? Is it just a game of building enough trust and faking it til you make it like making small talk, asking if she's using x equipment etc?

>>76262492
Remember when female-only gyms were going to be a thing? They thought males would so sad, crying in despair at having lost females to perv on.

Obviously the female-only gyms collapsed within weeks because every one of those loudly highlighting about how they would from now on be going to a female-only gym ended up cancelling and going to a male and female gym instead.

>>76262509
god damn my typing has gotten so bad i'm sounding like a pajeet.

>>76260208
This is what I did finally. I'm already at that age I just don't care anymore. I stare blatantly. I've noticed girls hold eye contact though and expect you to look away before they do.

A tatted up, septum ring ginger thot in a midriff tried smiling at me twice when we ran into each other the other day at the gym. I ignored her entirely.

Alternatively, I saw a somewhat heavier girl who looks cute and like a good investment. How do I talk to someone at gym I WANT to engage with?

always stare at the ground. never connect eye contact with anyone. wear headphones even if you are not listening to music. if a girl is still getting near you simply go away immediately to the other side of the gym

>>76262292
>his wife doesn't act as his wingwoman with other women
NGMI

>>76262218
>it increases my test and makes me lift heavier to mog all the men in there
>inside my head

>>76260184 (OP)
>Why do women think im always checking them out at the gym
I am

>>76262876
scary video
>if a girl is still getting near you simply go away immediately to the other side of the gym
yes, always keep a safety perimeter of 10meters minimum

>>76260227
>They just want to be your friend and hear your long rant about the Horus Heresy and the histry of Ultramar.
i'm currently reading the books, i don't even play with the toys

>>76260576
have you tried with your own species?

>>76260184 (OP)
He he funny freg

>>76260184 (OP)
Ill often look at myself in the mirror and get lost in the pump and a whore thinks im trying to slap her ass or something gay

>>76262528
>what the fuck are you looking at incel

>>76262505
Flirting back with grannies and jailbait will land you in horny jail you degenerate freak

>>76260184 (OP)
>why do women think im always checking them out at the gym??
how do you know they think you're checking them out? have they all said something to you like "stop checking me out"?

>>76262292
it’s not about you. it’s a competitive drive / validation seeking, testing if they can “outdo” the girlfriend/wife. they’re drawn to you when they see you’re partnered because they see it as a challenge or an ego boost, not necessarily for real interest. men fall for this and break up with their person because they think they have options but soon find out they were bamboozled. studies on mate poaching (e.g., Schmitt & Buss, 2001) suggest both men and women can engage in this behavior, often for status or self-esteem rather than long-term interest.

>>76260184 (OP)
>i swear i wish there was a men's only gym
That´s gay tho.

>>76264364
It’s kind of like how all men think a woman looking in their direction means they’re checking them out and attracted to them. Delusional narcissism runs rampant especially in gym goers

>>76260184 (OP)
What's even worse is that women, whether at the gym or at work or wherever else, will ALSO start seething about you if you *don't* check them out, and just ignore them. And I don't even mean that in a deliberate passive-aggressive "I'm giving you the silent treatment" sort of way. If you just do your own thing and don't pay any attention to them, they start getting incredibly butthurt about it

>>76262309
that's not why, it's because women are hardwired for "pre-selection" and social proof. If you have a woman, that means you must be desirable, so this makes the other woman want you too. Women don't understand concepts like honor and loyalty anyway, and certainly don't give a shit if a man is married already. Just think about how women as a general rule of thumb will prefer to get the leftover scraps of Chad rather than having a normalfag man all to herself.

>>76264412
so OP is experiencing some type of recursive narcissism, or projecting his own narcissism onto the women he sees in the gym?

>>76262876
my go to move if a girl walks in front of where I'm sitting is to just close my eyes and act like I'm meditating between sets. and I won't get up to do the next set until after she's left the space.

>>76264442
that’s bologna. Chad doesn’t need “social proof” he’s already desirable to women. needing to be seen with a woman for other women to now start finding you attractive is a bloated concept men believe in to feel good about themselves

>>76264460
all other factors equal, chad will be seen as more desirable if she thinks or knows he's with other women rather than having none.

>>76264389
No, the interest is definitely real, women really do want what other women want. It's not just an ego trip for them.

>>76264467
but that’s the point. Chad is already assumed to have many women. they don’t need to actually see it

>>76264587
It's not an either-or sort of situation. Incredibly attractive men can definitely get by without preselection, but preselection can give an absolutely ridiculous boost to your perceived value in the eyes of women.

>>76264601
alright, i agree, but it mostly benefits those that look like they don’t get pussy

>>76264607
That's silly, you're thinking in absolutes. The world is full of 6 out of 10 men who have no issue getting a partner but do have issues getting a lot of them, or getting the absolute hottest women. Not everyone is a troglodyte or a greek god in the flesh.

My gym doesn't have any women and i don't like it desu, it's good to have some women for the test boost.

>>76264601
>perceived value in the eyes of women.
My ex haven't seen me with any other girl in the past two years we broke up and she still wants me. Why is that?

>>76264643
probably because she’s your former lover

>>76264622
good. mid men should stay in their lane

>>76264622
“Getting a partner” nowadays means settling for a fat chick with mental health problems. That’s the problem.

>>76264685
And the guys that do brag about banging women left and right are doing it with average chicks with mental problems

>>76264497
No he's right, it is an ego trip for women and women are very competitive and petty with each other.

>>76264696
> women and women are very competitive and petty with each other.
This is not true, I was stopped by my ex gf and her best friend and her friend sided with her asking me random questions and asking me to get in the car with them, women love each other, I can also see it in the gym the female personal trainers always hang out together taking selfies, stop watching blackpill incel videos, women love each other for some reason

>>76264721
the interest in you isn’t real. the interest in what other women do is

>>76264696
Yeah, women have weighed in on this topic and said exactly that. Men’s explanation of this is rooted in vanity. Of course it’s more beneficial to believe you’re more desirable all of a sudden

this used to be me but now I don't care if I see a fat ass in a pink set im staring i dont give a shit if they think im weird lmao.

>>76264326
That's only an issue in the US and EU where everyone is a woke drone, here in SA you can flirt with girls just fine and they even like it

>>76264805
Did you smash?

>>76264728
so women are just herd mentality and just follow what other women do?

>>76264890
exactly

Great thread guys, makes me want to just give up on ever having a good relationship. Not that I even interact with any women ever.

>>76264966
What did he mean by this?

>>76264783
They think you are weird and you are feeding their ego so they become even more insufferable than they already are
This is why fat girls think they are the shit because chads dick them down on occasion

>>76265007
Chad gets lazy and gives in to easy pussy. The average guy has more thirst and work determination because if he didn’t take initiative he wouldn’t be getting pussy at all

>>76260227
This honestly. You be suprised how much women want to learn about warhammer.

>>76260184 (OP)
Probably used to people like me who use any opportunity when they cant see to get what is basically a toplogical view or one of those xray scanners for oil on their ass.

>>76260227
this