Thread 76269185 - /fit/ [Archived: 886 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/17/2025, 4:19:14 AM No.76269185
1689624025928150
1689624025928150
md5: a9557b58769732bea739fe1efe7dfcca🔍
How do I get a fitness reset going in a relationship? I'm with a good girl but ive let myself go hard and I dont know why but its harder than its ever been to get back into shape, and she's not fat or anything herself but has like, absolutely zero interest in anything gym or diet related, so she gets in the way of me achieving those goals.

For instance, she expects me to go the gym on a specific routine, no harm in that, so she knows when we'll sit on the couch and cuddle or whatever, but honestly sometimes I don't feel like going to the gym in the morning, at lunch, or right after, sometimes I feel like going at 8pm which is when she expects to be cuddling after dinner, and anytime I make that change she rolls her eyes and gets a crappy attitude, but if stuck to an autistic specific schedule, id only end up going 3 times a week instead of the 5-6 that I want to go

Additionally, ive gotten fat and need to lose weight, and she thinks im such a fag for caring about macros or doing fasting or whatever; she doesn't call me a fag, but if I say "yeah I feel like fasting today, my will power is high" she'll roll her eyes and get moody for the rest of the day because we wont eat dinner together or whatever. She's not clingy, she's not trying to sabotage me, she just doesn't give a shit about the struggles of fitness, and I never struggled like this with my physique when I was single.

Anyone on /fit/ deal with this? How did you fix it? And jannies please dont delete or move this thread man, this is a very /fit/ question that I wanna know how my bros keep up a good physique in a relationship
Replies: >>76269188 >>76269207 >>76269246 >>76269302 >>76269337 >>76269408 >>76269408 >>76269445 >>76269818 >>76269830 >>76269962 >>76270504 >>76270543 >>76270766 >>76270791 >>76270812 >>76271851 >>76271944 >>76272280 >>76273319 >>76274326 >>76274867 >>76274885 >>76275021 >>76275522 >>76276212 >>76276400 >>76276707 >>76277243 >>76277974 >>76278637 >>76278891
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 4:21:55 AM No.76269188
>>76269185 (OP)
>I don't feel like going to the gym
So you like being fat then, simple as that.
Motivation is never enough.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 4:33:18 AM No.76269207
>>76269185 (OP)
>let myself go
theres your answer. take accountability
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:06:52 AM No.76269246
>>76269185 (OP)
she's probably worried that you will meet some young cardio bunny at the gym and also she's a woman so she doesn't want to eat alone at dinner time. why not lift weights at home? better yet, use her body as the weight for your bench press like you see in mobster movies. she'll love that (or not..). do pushups and crunches in front of her while she's watching tv. she might just change her mind about your fitness goals if she can actually smell your sweat. it calms them down for some reason.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:45:15 AM No.76269291
1747393253400033
1747393253400033
md5: 3fb9eaa6f5e4e04bcfb6a5992096f2aa🔍
Replies: >>76269408 >>76269818
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:49:36 AM No.76269302
1714671387160507
1714671387160507
md5: 4f9c6340a025a0f1aac2bcfc373fd950🔍
>>76269185 (OP)
Replies: >>76269408 >>76269818 >>76277243
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 6:04:05 AM No.76269337
>>76269185 (OP)
>stressful day of yoga
isn't yoga supposed to be the opposite of stressful? even the physically intense stuff is supposed to be about mentally accepting discomfort and pain, right?
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 6:53:27 AM No.76269408
>>76269185 (OP)
Sounds to me like shes a manipulative bitch and you should leave her asap. Been plenty of times in those kinds of relationships, it never ends well. They eventually go full psycho. If you wanna fix things, just tell her you want to get fit and it is what it is, she will try to sabotage you hard because this is the kind of woman who wants you to be a depressed piece of shit so you become dependent of her
>>76269185 (OP)
>>76269291
>>76269302
This >artist should be bullied way way way more
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 6:58:20 AM No.76269418
1663877682514
1663877682514
md5: 738a67b9b3dd7699b23ba4041574f9dc🔍
Poor bastard husband
Replies: >>76269428 >>76269443 >>76269818 >>76269846 >>76270504 >>76270937 >>76271695 >>76271715 >>76273274 >>76274200 >>76274889 >>76277243 >>76278257 >>76278763 >>76279132
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:03:07 AM No.76269428
>>76269418
It’s a shitpost, no?
Replies: >>76269443
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:08:07 AM No.76269443
IMG_2288
IMG_2288
md5: f0f88c30d05fa6e2a49a7537c32772e9🔍
>>76269418
>>76269428
Scratch that thought these edits were all originals, figured it was some parody account doing faux normie content with nonsense punchlines (which is not a bad idea for a comic run actually)
Replies: >>76271983
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:09:15 AM No.76269445
>>76269185 (OP)
Nothing makes you fatter than being in a relationship
>free time spent with them
>have to discuss and compromise on meals
>unless you live in a big city with things to do, date night usually means eating at a restaurant

Sorry OP. It can be hard to be in good shape while in a relationship. I'm single now but when i was with my ex for 6 years, we thankfully were both pretty healthy so we went for walks and to the gym together, cooked healthy but fancy meals like salmon, would go hiking and swimming at state parks... but it's also easy to order pizza and play video games together too often, too.

Right now I know a few attached guys who stay in shape and they make it known to their gf/wives that gym time is non-negotiable, and they also eat most of their meals during the day while they are at work so they have some autonomy there.

Ideally you'd get your girl interested in fitness, too. Maybe take her to the gym with you or suggest going for a walk in the evenings.

If your girl is rolling her eyes, etc you need to have a talk with her. Tell her that she's being really disrespectful to you and dismissive of your goals. If she's a retarded liberal, use their buzzwords against her.... going to the gym is you living your truth, you are engaging in body positivity and want to celebrate the body you live in by moving it around and feeding it nourishing foods, and so on.

Good luck nigga
Replies: >>76270452 >>76273913
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:02:39 AM No.76269818
>>76269418
>>76269302
>>76269291
>>76269185 (OP)
I guess the point is that the female(?) is retarded and the male(?) is also retarded and a cuck too
>these kind of relationships produce the most miserable good-for-nothing taygetus-positive social garbage stowaways
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:09:49 AM No.76269830
>>76269185 (OP)
You think you do, but you don't.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:15:25 AM No.76269846
>>76269418
>just because you have a full time job while I only do three hours a week of teaching yoga it doesn't mean that I should do slightly more house chores. You don't want to oppress me, do you?
>now go and prepare dinner while I make one a comic in which I slander you for being useless (don't worry I'll say that you are a great guy in the addendum that nobody reads)
Poor Ben
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 12:10:12 PM No.76269962
>>76269185 (OP)
>I make that change she rolls her eyes and gets a crappy attitude
>she'll roll her eyes and get moody for the rest of the day because we wont eat dinner together or whatever.

You should really watch this. The rolling of the eyes is a disgust response and when people in marriage show that response when talking to each other there is 94% chance they will divorce each other. If your partner is showing that to you that is really bad.
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ArBiUZYptfI
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IRnywVpQqBQ
Replies: >>76271993 >>76274899 >>76275479
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 3:24:33 PM No.76270452
>>76269445
why did you and ur gf break up
Replies: >>76270758
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 3:41:36 PM No.76270504
>>76269185 (OP)
>>76269418
How do you avoid your wife turning into whatever this creature is? This is the sort of stuff that keeps me up at night when I think about what our marriage will be like ten or twenty years from now.
Replies: >>76270969 >>76272024 >>76273286 >>76274890 >>76275016 >>76275561
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 3:52:02 PM No.76270543
>>76269185 (OP)
>abloo abloo how do I solve my fitness?
Easy, go to the gym.
>but, but, but...
Shut the fuck up retard.

>"yeah I feel like fasting today, my will power is high"
Who talks like this? Just tell her you're fasting and do it instead of crying like a baby.
Replies: >>76270600
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 4:12:34 PM No.76270600
>>76270543
you've never had a gf mr tough guy
Replies: >>76270737 >>76279137
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:04:22 PM No.76270737
grafics
grafics
md5: f17232bb895ffd255d7a3d7ba790ce9a🔍
>>76270600
>but, but, but...
To the contrary, we've been together for 9 years this September. Another tip, if your gf doesn't support you in your quite valid endeavours she's probably not a "good girl".
Replies: >>76278298
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:09:05 PM No.76270758
>>76270452
There's a lot of reasons. The easy answer is they left me for someone else. It was about 2.5 years ago and I am still not ready to actually try a relationship again. I have casual sex, some friends with benefits, and that may be where I'm at for the foreseeable future. I can't imagine trusting someone else like that again only to get my ass handed to me again.
The good news is that I'm in the best shape of my life because depression is a hell of a diet pill
Replies: >>76271602
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:11:17 PM No.76270766
>>76269185 (OP)
>she rolls her eyes and gets a crappy attitude
That's all women, all of the time, since the begining of mankind. I have a female flatmate that acts exactly like this when I talk about eating meat.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:18:30 PM No.76270791
>>76269185 (OP)
>refuses to do cardio and full body 3x a week
>is fat
???
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:20:21 PM No.76270798
OP you are pussywhipped by a manipulative bitch (like every woman amirite)
You can't fix a relationship like that, if you try to man up at this point she's gonna have bitchfits most likely
So the only real solution for you is to harden your resolve and adjust your training/diet no matter how much you don't like it
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:23:42 PM No.76270812
>>76269185 (OP)
She is giving you attitude because deep down she knows you have no idea what you are doing so it just seems like everything you do is annoying and pointless. She is most likely right. Its going to get even more annoying for her when your small attempts leads to 0 gains.
Dont skip out on meals, just eat lesser portion or choose healthier options off the menu. You refusing to do any exercise is even more annoying when all you are doing is something that leads to no results.
Replies: >>76270896
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:25:11 PM No.76270821
anon. you clearly have ADHD. you are a nightmare to live with. a consistent schedule will help you. and exercise will lessen your disability.
so stop being a bitch and just go to the gym 6 times a week at the same time.
Replies: >>76270896
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:43:38 PM No.76270896
>>76270812
>>76270821
ive been fit before, how do you think I got her? telling me i dont know what im doing s m h, getting and maintaining a good physique is hard, hence why most people don't do it, and when i did it, it wasn't by adhering to an autistic regimen, it was by working out when i wanted, fasting when i wanted, eating when i wanted, going for runs when i wanted, etc. i don't have to explain the "why" of these decisions to fucking anyone, and pressuring a guy to do what YOU want, when you want, on whatever routine you think makes most sense is a good recipe for making me feel like im on a leash or in a cell, fuck that
Replies: >>76270916 >>76270956 >>76270965 >>76270970 >>76273835 >>76275027
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:50:17 PM No.76270916
>>76270896
and there's the RSD butthurt.
you're not successful because you don't want to be successful.
you already have a gf so you don't have the motivation to work out.
this time around you're gonna have to work out, not because you want to, but through sacrifice and discipline.
which are really hard concepts for someone ADHD mind broken like you.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:56:11 PM No.76270937
>>76269418
lol
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 6:03:43 PM No.76270956
>>76270896
you were able to get fit once but now your environment has changed and clearly your approach has to change too, or you can do nothing and bemoan the good old days when your lack of responsibilities would let you do whatever you wanted. Very few people have the luxury to lead a successful adult life without leashing themselves into an orderly routine, sorry but you'll have to compromise this time
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 6:07:08 PM No.76270965
>>76270896
Keep trying to convince yourself you are right but deep down both you and your wife knows you have absolutely no idea what you are doing. Your wife is annoyed since you show 0 results after all the annoying attempts.
And you don't know what you are doing otherwise what the fuck are you doing here?
Replies: >>76279140
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 6:08:28 PM No.76270969
>>76270504
Have your mom bully her.
If your mom comes over and happily watches kids/cooks/cleans it'll freak your wife out and remind her to not be a bitch about normal enjoyable wife things.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 6:08:40 PM No.76270970
1447797520764
1447797520764
md5: f6cb1218d0f13c521eace63a96cd6adc🔍
>>76270896
>i worked out whenever and whatever i wanted
>i was fit
this is by far the most dyel thing you could have said to argue against us. you also sound like a manchild
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 9:34:12 PM No.76271602
>>76270758
were there red flags that in retrospect were obvious but you ignored? share em pls
Replies: >>76273256
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 10:03:40 PM No.76271695
>>76269418
I hate women but I like their bodies
Replies: >>76274765
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 10:09:05 PM No.76271715
IMG_1203
IMG_1203
md5: 7a1986a7d3e194b90e04f383ac0ee26c🔍
>>76269418
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 10:11:33 PM No.76271726
these kind of threads are so blackpilling to me because i'm considering getting married with a girl i met in January this year and it's been great since then but she is 30. Yeah she is hot and all but /fit/ says that anything over 25 is a death sentence for a man. On the other hand i got myself in this situation. What do?
Replies: >>76271744 >>76271912 >>76271924 >>76273332 >>76274128 >>76274168 >>76274178 >>76274342
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 10:16:14 PM No.76271744
>>76271726
It's not what you want to hear, but you don't want to make important life choices based off what anons on this bolivian arthropod forum say. Figure out the consequences for marrying this older woman or leaving her for newer model (that may not be there).
Replies: >>76271758
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 10:21:09 PM No.76271758
>>76271744
>older woman
she is only 30 anon lmao
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 10:48:42 PM No.76271851
>>76269185 (OP)
Bro, I wish I had someone to cuddle with.
Just stick to a schedule and problem solved.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:06:58 PM No.76271912
>>76271726
The older a woman is the more sane she is. My wife was not very stable back when she was 20 and we'd have shitshows and drama because I broke spaghetti in half or somesuch.

Now she's 35 and is actually stable and nice to be around and I can trust her to not have a meltdown over some tiny thing. But that's probably in part because we earned each others trust along the way.
Replies: >>76271937
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:10:32 PM No.76271924
>>76271726
Key detail missing: how old are you? There are objective factors when considering a woman’s age, but there are more relative factors, and your answer will differ depending on this.
Replies: >>76272151
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:16:17 PM No.76271937
>>76271912
>The older a woman is the more sane she is
I rather think they have a "window of sanity" and that's where she is right now. In about five years she'll be crazy again, only it'll be different kind of crazy.
Also fuck you anon for making me remember the time when my wife was 35 and normal.
Replies: >>76273709
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:20:07 PM No.76271944
>>76269185 (OP)
Grow a spine, buddy
Replies: >>76271963
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:27:06 PM No.76271963
>>76271944
Always hate this advice desu its so vague, what do you mean exactly in this case? Do what you want no matter what the gf says or thinks?
Replies: >>76272007 >>76277028
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:33:43 PM No.76271983
IMG_5253
IMG_5253
md5: 7510313257d8304e24531b2f764afa0f🔍
>>76269443
Holy fuck… these aren’t satire?! Dear God please let me go back to believing they were. I can’t cope with this
Replies: >>76272198
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:38:55 PM No.76271993
>>76269962
Yup. Dudes tolerating some serious disrespect and a nasty attitude while thinking she’s “a good girl”. That’s how normalized being treated like shit by a gf/wife is in western cultures.
>oh boy! She only treats me like shit sometimes! This one is amazing!
Guys get themselves into these situations by either not even knowing what a good woman who behaves properly looks like (and by extension have zero self respect as they have been abused their whole lives) or let shit slide too often. The moment your girl cops an attitude you check that shit immediately so the small things don’t become big things later on
Replies: >>76277018 >>76278290
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:44:30 PM No.76272007
>>76271963
Uh yeah? As long as you’re not mistreating her in accordance to you beliefs (this is why not being a godless degenerate is useful as it give clear rules) and you are a man who deserves being followed (rare these days) then she better follow your authority. If she doesn’t then she’ll be gone and you find one that will. Pretty simple. It’s called having an “abundance mindset” as those. Redpill grifters like to spam. That shit is actually true even if you have little to no women to choose from act as if you do and choose to be alone rather than with a disrespectful bitch. It leaves you open to better opportunities down the road and it keeps your dignity in tact which is a massive benefit in life
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:52:09 PM No.76272024
1750197069332
1750197069332
md5: 251b40834c39d951e187a0fdbec502c3🔍
>>76270504
>How do you avoid your wife turning into whatever this creature is?
Being attractive and low key flirting with other women. Keep her in line by reminding her that you have options.
Replies: >>76272247 >>76273286 >>76273328
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 12:32:18 AM No.76272151
>>76271924
I’m 32
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 12:45:53 AM No.76272198
>>76271983
Sorry ducky.
You've just discovered a real piece of shit.
A real smelly piece of doodoo.
You won't ever get they the taste or if your mouth.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 1:05:59 AM No.76272247
>>76272024
Whats the joke? That there trading vitamins like pills?
Replies: >>76272266
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 1:11:43 AM No.76272266
>>76272247
It's only funny because a fat piece of shit wrote it self inserting as a muscular woman rejecting another fat piece of shit's sexual advances.

I promise you fellow autistic anon, if people think something is funny they're thinking about sex.
Replies: >>76272287
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 1:16:33 AM No.76272280
>>76269185 (OP)
Women and relationships are major gainz goblins anon, you just have to accept that.

It's (relatively) easy to autistically /fit/max when you're a bachelor. Women don't really understand putting this sort of effort into something though, since they've never really had to try at things the way that men do. They assume that a good male physique is mostly due to genetic luck with maybe a few hours of gym time per week while also going out with her to happy hour or brunch multiple times per week.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 1:19:52 AM No.76272287
>>76272266
Oh. Shitty comic then. Thanks.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:07:42 AM No.76273256
>>76271602
Sometimes things just don't work out, anon. It was generally a very good relationship and I don't regret it.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:16:34 AM No.76273274
christopher-watts-website-mug
christopher-watts-website-mug
md5: af5a3f79400e696e76f7ca373318521c🔍
>>76269418
Wait a minute... the silhouette of the husband...
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:24:18 AM No.76273286
>>76270504
>How do you avoid your wife turning into whatever this creature is?
She was always that creature. But a practical tip would be to take a look at her mother. Women always turn into their mothers eventually.
>>76272024
>Being attractive and low key flirting with other women. Keep her in line by reminding her that you have options.
This is also solid advice.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:30:06 AM No.76273294
>fruit-pilled peachcel
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:30:36 AM No.76273297
1709436879313806
1709436879313806
md5: e970be940397667ba2f108f76385ee8c🔍
Who's in the wrong here?
Replies: >>76273323 >>76274911 >>76275583 >>76277823 >>76278801
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:40:50 AM No.76273319
>>76269185 (OP)
You should smash her face in with a hammer. Regardless of the consequences you will be happier long term if you take my advice. Remember this post.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:42:34 AM No.76273323
>>76273297
>Be stay at home mom that grabs juice boxes for her kids 34 times a day, fuck out of the house for 3 hours a week to smoke weed in front of your yoga class
>Kids depend on you because they're incapable of getting their own juice boxes

>Be father that works full time job, cooks, goes grocery shopping, and does yard work and watches the kids for 3 hours a week
>Kids don't ask him for shit because the concept of money is meaningless to children and time spent with them is everything

It's not the ideal situation, but the ideal situation where both parents are around to teach the children about life and how to live it, like how to get milk from the fridge.

But I hate them both and they and their children should kill themselves.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:45:52 AM No.76273328
>>76272024
How do you toe the line between "reminding her" and keeping her in a semi-permanent state of jealous, insecure paranoia?
Replies: >>76274139 >>76274209 >>76274343
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:48:45 AM No.76273332
>>76271726
I'm married.
If you find the right woman you will have a wonderful life together
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 12:13:27 PM No.76273709
>>76271937
I really hope it's not the case because I am getting used to sane wife.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 1:09:35 PM No.76273835
>>76270896
i don't think you sound mature enough for a relationship
all i'm reading is ME ME ME
Replies: >>76274174
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 1:35:59 PM No.76273886
1747811026895294
1747811026895294
md5: 2ca9a19571b1a9c9569bedcdad8eddfb🔍
Replies: >>76279164
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 1:47:44 PM No.76273913
>>76269445
>use their [...] against her
just because she is toxic doesnt mean you have to become toxic. just leave that miserable relationship and stay yourself.
Replies: >>76274392
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:10:00 PM No.76274128
buff_nietzsche
buff_nietzsche
md5: d9c596b9fb7899935652b990b7e1205b🔍
>>76271726
I'm very happy with my girlfriend, been together 2 years and we're in our 30s. Girls in their 20s are like toddlers, if she's chill now you're good. That being said, 6 months is not enough time for the crazies to come out. Do NOT marry her for another couple years. What the fuck is the hurry?
Replies: >>76278325
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:13:28 PM No.76274139
>>76273328
Don't take this anon's advice at face value
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:24:53 PM No.76274168
>>76271726
>blah blah blah but /fit/ says blah blah
jesus christ we are hopeless
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:27:48 PM No.76274174
>>76273835
my life is about me loser, you about to tell me you love sacrificing your own happiness for other people?
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:30:57 PM No.76274178
>>76271726
Met in January? You are type c, she is type b. Guaranteed.
Replies: >>76274778
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:43:32 PM No.76274200
>>76269418
>imagine finding your wifes secret comics where she pretends youre a bad husband for eating peaches you paid for
easy fix for this is to control all the money and not let her do shit. she depends on Ben and he needs to keep her inline
Replies: >>76274379 >>76274414
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:45:48 PM No.76274209
>>76273328
you do it whenever she gets uppity only
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:21:55 PM No.76274326
>>76269185 (OP)
don't know your woman, but mine started getting into it when I wouldn't shut up about it
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:26:27 PM No.76274342
>>76271726
Holy fuck these normies are giving you the worst possible advice.
Are you planning on having kids?
If yes then 30 is too old.
If no and you’re not religious either then why the fuck are you planning on getting married? Outside of having children and religion marriage is just a scam pushed by corporations to make money off of normies that think they have to spend $30k on a wedding.
Also women who are 30 and single have serious underlying issues 90% of the time hence why they are 30 and single.
With the odds of a successful marriage already being very low it’s just a bad idea to intentionally stack even more against you. When it comes to looking for a wife you need to know what to even look for (most men are raised in degenerate and broken families and don’t even know what a healthy relationship looks like) and you need to stop thinking with your dick and start thinking with your brain. You have to get to the point where you will reject an otherwise great woman purely because she’s too old and not feel any way about it. Nothing personal. Set very clear standards that are practical that have to be met or else you look elsewhere. That’s how I met my wife. I was dating around and rejecting tons of women if they didn’t make the cut until I found one that did. Getting oneitis or believing in soulmate bs will ruin you btw.
Replies: >>76274420 >>76274706 >>76274919 >>76278325 >>76278384
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:26:47 PM No.76274343
>>76273328
by fucking her brains out
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:35:36 PM No.76274379
1730847278770851
1730847278770851
md5: 6558ecc7b9d458d3ebb3beabd693116a🔍
>>76274200
My crazy ex used to get very upset if I took the last of anything on a tray. She tried to divorce rape me, but then went full psychosis and skipped out on the court process.
The moral of the story is controlling the money doesn't do shit. If she doesn't respect you, leave immediately.
Replies: >>76274471 >>76275265 >>76277773
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:39:08 PM No.76274392
>>76273913
Exactly. Don't stoop to her level. It's not worth it.
Just terminate the relationship. It's not worth maintaining if you have to become manipulative and toxic yourself.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:45:05 PM No.76274414
>>76274200
“Controlling your woman” is an archaic meme that died over a century ago.
In the civilized world, women are (preferentially) afforded so many judicial privileges that, beyond a candid conversation, any kind of husband-on-wife behavioral correction attempt is not worth the risk. If you don’t share children you need to pack and leg it at the first sign of faggotry on her end. If you do share a child, enjoy the rest of your miserable existence.
Replies: >>76278279
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:47:42 PM No.76274420
>>76274342
>Getting oneitis or believing in soulmate bs will ruin you btw.
Why
Replies: >>76274433 >>76274480 >>76277024
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:52:37 PM No.76274433
>>76274420
Leave the Disney shit to girls. Life aint all sunshine and rainbows nigga.
Replies: >>76274480
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 5:01:57 PM No.76274471
27f553d6bdbc88dd74723f3f18efdc54-1157196261
27f553d6bdbc88dd74723f3f18efdc54-1157196261
md5: 2f9abf87e2e95da24211fb3652c222a0🔍
>>76274379
>left link
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 5:04:41 PM No.76274480
>>76274420
What >>76274433 said
Plus you will get emotionally attached to bad women, especially if you are broken like most men are and have some form of masochism. That kind of fairytail bullshit that people believe due to consooming endless fiction is insanly damaging to their lives, especially men. The fact that this has to be explained to you tells me everything I need to know.
Women find it revolting when men believe in soulmates and all that bullshit. They like the idea of it and think it’s cute, but when a man actually behaves in that manner it’s a massive turn off and makes him look like a bitch
Replies: >>76274867
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:04:58 PM No.76274706
>>76274342
You sound like the normie. Autistic people can't do what you do.
Replies: >>76274966
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:24:51 PM No.76274765
>>76271695
If I could choose to be gay I would in a heartbeat. I hate dealing with women so much it is unreal.
Replies: >>76278270
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:29:34 PM No.76274778
>>76274178
>You are type c, she is type b
wtf is that?
Replies: >>76278137
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:50:55 PM No.76274867
>>76274480
You can still feel in love as a man, it just has to be more grounded and you still need to be ready to leave at any moment.

>>76269185 (OP)
I didn't read

Just be /fit/ for yourself. Is she comes along, perfect, if not, decide whether that's a dealbreaker or not.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:54:10 PM No.76274885
>>76269185 (OP)
Honestly it’s your fault, not hers. This is a classic thing in relationships. Drive dips down. Even this “obstacle” is not an obstacle at all. Tell her you’re going to the gym. She might not like it at first, but she’ll adjust. If she doesn’t, that’s a major red flag.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:55:28 PM No.76274889
>>76269418
Unappreciative women are the worst form of cancer. Choose wisely fellas
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:55:31 PM No.76274890
>>76270504
I just went to SEA and got a virgin wife raised in a normal family with a father and mother who raised her right. I can tell by her personality if she was raised in the west she would have been just like the women in the comic. But she is kept in line by her upbringing and societal expectations she was raised with.
Replies: >>76278261
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:57:05 PM No.76274899
>>76269962
I rolled my eyes at my gf several times… we broke up…
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:59:04 PM No.76274911
>>76273297
is she asking ben to watch the children so she can MASTURBATE?
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 7:00:57 PM No.76274919
>>76274342
Yes, 30 is old and weird that she is single at this age BUT here are tons of green flags
>cooks for me
>buys me shit
>hot and thin
>religious
>unvaxxed
>lawyer
>no premarital sex
>only had 3 partners

And the biggest green flag of all is that she is commited to orthodoxy (does fast,confess etc etc)
Replies: >>76274947 >>76275584 >>76278828
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 7:08:34 PM No.76274947
>>76274919
>>lawyer
Red flag.
>>no premarital sex
Gay.
>>only had 3 partners
Doubt.

But if you're happy, I'm happy, anon.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 7:12:53 PM No.76274966
>>76274706
Worst b8 I’ve ever seen
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 7:30:45 PM No.76275016
>>76270504
Beatings worked for millenia.
Replies: >>76275297
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 7:32:12 PM No.76275021
>>76269185 (OP)
fallin for the gain goblin meme kek
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 7:34:01 PM No.76275027
>>76270896
youre a joke nigga
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:44:58 PM No.76275265
WHAT
WHAT
md5: 2971090d5c6a5f8edeeeda183ab68b72🔍
>>76274379
>find black the rapist dot com
huh?
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:54:44 PM No.76275297
>>76275016
Ok, thanks for your input, Jamal
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:58:26 PM No.76275479
>>76269962
>taking advice from a grifting pill head who crys about mean tweets
Pathetic. Get back to your containment board robot pussy
Replies: >>76275484
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:00:01 PM No.76275484
>>76275479
Thanks. Have a good day anon.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:15:31 PM No.76275522
>>76269185 (OP)
This happened to me during my first three years of relationship, but with diet, with the wife. The solution was just starting doing all that stuff and ignoring her distaste for dieting and counting macros etc. But leaving two or one cheat meals per week to satisfy the wifey.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:28:51 PM No.76275561
>>76270504
She was always like that. The test is to say no to her for something minor and stick to it.

>No, I'm not going to change my shoes. I like these shoes.

If she just accepts it and moves on, she's a good girl. If she throws a tantrum, you don't want her in your life.
Replies: >>76275582
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:35:11 PM No.76275582
>>76275561
There are plenty of stories, though, about submissive and eager to please ideal wives becoming like the woman in that comic once they lose respect for their husband because he became unattractive, weak, or sexually lacking.

Women are only as good as they feel like they need to be to keep their man around. Once they smell blood in the water, it's over for you.
Replies: >>76277010
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:35:11 PM No.76275583
>>76273297
Ah so she is the
>Everyone's entire world falls apart within seconds when I take a break from controlling everything
type of narcissist.
Replies: >>76276214
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:35:12 PM No.76275584
>>76274919
>no premarital sex
>only had 3 partners

I‘ve never seen anybody tally chaste relationships but I really hope for your sake that‘s what I‘m supposed to take from this
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:08:27 AM No.76276212
nevergofullretardreaction
nevergofullretardreaction
md5: a6052a89c79a21c1f8deab5dd91dfc17🔍
>>76269185 (OP)
>she's not trying to sabotage me
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:10:03 AM No.76276214
>>76275583
and her kids became spoiled shitbrats as a consequence
truly a horrible household
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:38:43 AM No.76276400
>>76269185 (OP)
Three gym sessions a week is enough if they're intense enough. Unless you're trying to be a body builder, a push/pull/legs or 3x full body will put you in the top 10% of the population.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:59:43 AM No.76276707
>>76269185 (OP)
Just stop giving a fuck what she says and stick to your goals.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 8:36:01 AM No.76277010
>>76275582
yeah these guys are thinking about women as if they're men with their own internal boundaries and consistency. women behave when they're kept in line, afraid to lose you or see you as far and away their best option, simple as. the same woman who simps for chad will treat a beta husband like shit. it's nothing to do with who she is.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 8:39:00 AM No.76277018
>>76271993
>Yup. Dudes tolerating some serious disrespect and a nasty attitude while thinking she’s “a good girl”. That’s how normalized being treated like shit by a gf/wife is in western cultures.
>>oh boy! She only treats me like shit sometimes! This one is amazing!
it's absolutely insane. not only are a sizeable portion of men born simps, all of society is geared towards training men to be simps.
Replies: >>76277022
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 8:40:45 AM No.76277022
>>76277018
That's what artificial scarcity does to a motherfucker
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 8:41:53 AM No.76277024
>>76274420
women have a pragmatic view of relationships that YOU don't, it's hardwired into them to treat it like the way you treat a job: get the best job you can but if a better one comes along of course you take it. there is no such thing as a loyal woman, if you drop off, become unsuccessful, show weakness, etc, her attraction will dry up and she'll only stay if you remain her best option (i.e. she's obese)
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 8:43:53 AM No.76277028
>>76271963
jesus christ, you need steps on growing a spine? it means stop living for her approval, do what works for you without needing her to clap about it like she's your mother, set the tone of what you will and won't accept, punish her by withdrawing attention if she displeases you, give yourself approval to do things without her, etc, etc.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 9:18:27 AM No.76277073
Fuck this gay thread, post more peach edits.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:59:08 AM No.76277243
1714670845739709
1714670845739709
md5: 6099b5c09b65f10d22444b2681ee1fed🔍
>>76269185 (OP)
>>76269302
>>76269418
Replies: >>76277794
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:39:28 PM No.76277773
>>76274379

>findblacktherapist

Srsly...
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:50:00 PM No.76277794
>>76277243
this shit never fails to make me laugh
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:53:22 PM No.76277805
These women are terrible yes but it's also the guys fault for looking at his wife like his mom.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:59:39 PM No.76277823
>>76273297
her mistake was trying that shit with the kids in front of her. kek
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:47:29 PM No.76277951
rape-everyone-and-leave-shirt-tshirt
rape-everyone-and-leave-shirt-tshirt
md5: daa8d5951033a581a0674daf8ff8b534🔍
>niggas will stop doing what they like to please women
That's peak retardation and being a beta, chad doesn't do that, he does whatever the fuck he wants and the girl will either adjust to it or leave, there's millions of other bitches in the world, don't be a simp.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:51:26 PM No.76277974
>>76269185 (OP)
She doesn't respect you. Man up, tell her what you're doing and if she rolls her eyes don't take that shit from her. You need to lead bro, and if she doesn't like it she can leave. That's just how it is, you'll get fit again, and find someone better then. If she's not willing to follow, then she isn't for you.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:30:30 PM No.76278114
everyone on /fit/ is such a tough guy

"do anything you want and if she doesn't like it, leave" like a guy doesn't get with a girl because he fucking likes her and likes having her around and would really rather not be single. maybe the guy tried doing all that and preferred being in a relationship even with all it's sacrifices? fucking imagine that, maybe being single isn't worth being able to be an ADHD fuck towards the person you love all the time
Replies: >>76279118
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:39:03 PM No.76278137
>>76274778
c stands for cuckold
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:10:22 PM No.76278257
>>76269418
Nigga just start locking up these hoes in the titanium burka
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:11:24 PM No.76278261
>>76274890
LMAO
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:13:01 PM No.76278270
>>76274765
Trust me you wouldn't. However annoying you think women are they don't hold a candle to gays, not to mention the complete and utter lack of hygiene.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:14:59 PM No.76278279
>>76274414
Imagine being your sorry ass not having any children bc of this bullshit lmao
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:17:32 PM No.76278290
>>76271993
Dude you think this is bad in America just go check out the hellscape of Japan, holy shit
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:18:55 PM No.76278298
>>76270737
Seriously like imagine being so utterly STARVED and lacking self respect to the point of staying with someone like that. Forget gains goblin that shits just miserable all around
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:23:46 PM No.76278325
>>76274128
>Do NOT marry her for another couple years.
Lmao what kind of bullshit nonsense is this, waiting around a couple years fucking about with fertility slipping away. She's already 30 so might as well pack it up and keep looking anyways tf kind of advice is this
>>76274342
Only other human being here
Replies: >>76278637
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:34:02 PM No.76278384
>>76274342
>Muh anything less than a highschooler is infertile poster
There's about a three day window every cycle, for the purposes of male fertility most of your payload is gonna be in whatever shoots out first in a 24 hour period.
Think of it more like a dice roll than a dimmer switch.
Ages 16-25 she's rilling a six sided die every month you fuck raw
26+ add a side per year.
If you fuck a healthy 30 year old woman, you'll almost certainly impregnate her within a year.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:51:57 PM No.76278637
>>76278325
my guy if he marries a woman he's known for 6 months he's going to end up with a wife like artist in >>76269185 (OP)
>date and be super happy for 6 months
>she starts to get shitty
>date another 6 months hoping it goes back to the way it was
>>then get married like a fucking retard instead of breaking up
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:24:42 PM No.76278763
>>76269418
Even his faceless silhouette here looks like he’s 2 seconds from slapping this bitch. You can just sense him trying his hardest to keep it together.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:34:37 PM No.76278801
>>76273297
So she briefs the whole family every time she goes to take a shower/shit/piss etc? What sort of lunatic is this? I hope this cunt doesn't actually act like this and is just looking for clicks
Replies: >>76278840
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:39:26 PM No.76278828
>>76274919
So she fucked three other guys and you have to wait til marriage or she has just had 3 prior sexless relationships and is still a virgin? Because if it's the former then gtfo of there anon
Replies: >>76278834
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:40:56 PM No.76278834
>>76278828
lmao
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:41:33 PM No.76278840
marycatherinestarr
marycatherinestarr
md5: f9e40dc80ebc3fd2d987f07d4c2c0502🔍
>>76278801
Well... this is her irl. Look into her eyes and figure that out yourself.
Replies: >>76278850 >>76278921 >>76278941 >>76279191
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:42:50 PM No.76278850
>>76278840
Shit that's rough. She has the phenotype though so I'm not surprised
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:48:59 PM No.76278891
peachcel
peachcel
md5: 79715df74d1fd1609485541056fcde81🔍
>>76269185 (OP)
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:53:57 PM No.76278921
>>76278840
I was thinking if she was an 8+ and he was sub 5 this might be a reasonable arrangement. She's decent looking I suppose
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:58:51 PM No.76278941
file
file
md5: 52f7bb0462054ce78a9b56c604dca0dc🔍
>>76278840
Replies: >>76278960 >>76278999 >>76279040 >>76279126
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 8:05:35 PM No.76278960
>>76278941
So are they like 45? Why are these bags of bones posting their lives outside of Facebook?
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 8:17:59 PM No.76278999
>>76278941
imagine basing your entire public identity on how hard it is to be around your own kids. Those kids aren't going to like her when they grow up.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 8:32:10 PM No.76279040
>>76278941
That's an extreme case of smile not reaching the eyes, he's just about to break.
I hope the kids'll be okay.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 8:58:14 PM No.76279118
>>76278114
You reek of beta.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 9:00:16 PM No.76279126
>>76278941
Looks matched
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 9:01:09 PM No.76279132
>>76269418
Do you guys not know the origin?
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 9:03:47 PM No.76279137
>>76270600
You sound like a bitch that lets someelse make choices for him cuck
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 9:04:47 PM No.76279140
>>76270965
You sound like an onlyfans simp you faggot
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 9:08:05 PM No.76279155
Bros i've been in a great relationship with a girl and yesterday we were joking on bed and i accidentaly told her that her sex drive is low compared to other girls, she told me that what i told her shows that i lack respect to her and she got up and left without saying a word and then called me a coward for letting her leave. What do? Should i try with her or is it over? Is it a red flag her leaving like this? My best friend told me to dump her
Replies: >>76279189
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 9:08:55 PM No.76279164
>>76273886
Bad edit, he was the peacher
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 9:14:31 PM No.76279189
>>76279155
My reaction would be to do nothing and let her come back if she wants. It sounds like you did nothing wrong and she's just throwing a fit for no reason.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 9:14:43 PM No.76279191
>>76278840
That WAS her, gotta correct it