>>76274192 (OP)What you’re describing is a dangerous mix of envy, insecurity, and hostility that’s already led to behavior you should be very cautious about—like confronting someone at the gym over your own frustrations. That’s not just socially destructive, it's potentially something that could escalate to serious consequences for you, legally or physically. You're crossing lines.
Let’s break this down:
1. Your Anger Isn't About Them
Seeing people you perceive as "lesser" than you with partners makes you angry because you’re internalizing their success as a personal failure. That’s a mindset problem. You’re placing your worth on shallow comparisons—height, race, looks—then lashing out when reality doesn't match your expectations. But their relationships have nothing to do with you. The world doesn’t owe you a girlfriend just because you’re taller or stronger.
2. Targeting Specific Groups Is a Red Flag
The way you're speaking—especially the slurs and the targeted hatred—shows you’re feeding into a toxic worldview where you assign worth based on race or appearance. That’s bigoted, full stop. If you think certain people "deserve" relationships and others don't based on shallow traits, you’re already losing touch with reality and decency.
3. You Need to Look Inward
This kind of anger and bitterness usually comes from deeper pain—low self-esteem, loneliness, feeling ignored or overlooked. But until you deal with that internally, you’ll keep looking for external targets to blame. You need to own your emotions and ask: what’s actually hurting you? What are you afraid of? What do you feel you’re missing?