is it too late to start practicing team sports as an adult sperg?

>>76277294 (OP)
what an incel lmao

>>76277296
yeh. fag should try another team until he finds some cunts that aren't shit cunts

>>76277294 (OP)
>none of the guys would talk to him
Either the guys are so filled with estrogen that they start emoting female behaviour or he just never made an effort to talk with them

>>76277312
he must be an obnoxious loser to have no one give a shit about him. LIkely a racist

>>76277317
or they're a pack of cliquey cunts, who knows

>>76277326
>t. fat ugly loser

>>76277294 (OP)
I have a feeling they're all half his age or 1.5x his age

pls no bulli

>>76277294 (OP)
>wife airs out your most vulnerable moments without notice to countless strangers and whoever else in your circle that knows him
is this a normal thing?

>>76277442
When women say vulnerability is sexy. Its not. Its a weapon they will use to destroy you

>>76277294 (OP)
What's really sad is this guy has no idea that his wife is using his failure to get clout on Instagram.

>>76277442
women hate you

>>76277294 (OP)
if you dont know any of the other guys on the team then yes

>>76277442
Very
Women are holes and nothing else

>>76277294 (OP)
If you have little to no history in an actually athletic sport? Yes it's too late. Get into golf or bowling or even martial arts with light sparring but no actual competition

>>76277294 (OP)
>Join 40yo boomer team
>show up to practice
>suck as its your first day
>mope on the bench
>play your first game
>strike out 3 times even during a critical bases loaded situation
>mope on the bench some more
>games over and they lost because of you
>next practice everyone hates you
>you show no drive to improve
>coach stops putting you in
>nobody talks to you
>you quit
>they win again

>>76277442
This is what caught me. I'd divorce this bitch instantly, but its obvious its not the first time its happened and he must just be an absolute King Emperor Cuck.

I don't know how old he is, but he should probably work on making a few acquaintances first so he has someone to introduce him to a group. I suspect he never really started a conversation and hoped they would just start talking to him, and when they didn't, he felt out of place. It sucks when people aren't as welcoming as you'd hope, but then it's up to you to break the ice. I learned it the hard way when I was the new guy at my first job and was hoping people would talk to me, show me around, introduce me to everyone, maybe take me to lunch, etc., but none of that happened, so I kept to myself and got fired even though I did my job. I've also been in a situation where I was in a long-term relationship and lost my old circle of friends, and when the relationship ended, I was on my own. But then I realized that I had to take action myself and reach out to people, even talk to strangers and they were all cool, with very few exceptions.

>>76277442
Women in general are addicted to exposing embarrassing information on the internet. Doesn't matter if it's about themselves, close acquaintances, family, etc. The only possible conclusion is that women are physiologically unable to feel shame. Their brain is simply wired differently.

>>76277442
On social media it is!

Team sports after college if you aren't getting paid is so fucking gay lol.

Dude should just go to a powerlifting gym bodybuilding gym or a martial arts gym instead and make friends there

>>76277600
>so I kept to myself and got fired even though I did my job
Literally my experience. I keep mostly to myself. I’m not unfriendly, but I wouldn’t say I’m “one of the guys.” When everyone’s walking back to their cars at the end of the day they don’t wait for me or joke with me. All the other guys at work are even friends with our managers. Texting them funny stuff and being buddies. I never do that. The only time I talk to them is when I have something to sort out with them. I got laid off a couple weeks ago. Guys who do way less work than I do get nothing but praise, but it’s because they’re friends with the managers. They can literally tell the managers that they only did 2 jobs today and they’d laugh because they’re friends. I don’t know why I’m like this. I haven’t always been this way.

>>76277600
>>76277683
Just get on the good side of a gullible naive powerful person in the workplace.......and you can slack off and have that guy defend you for life.

>>76277442
Classic woman

>>76277294 (OP)
Maybe he should hit the gym and join a cover band or something...and do gigs at random bars across the country ......idk

>>76277294 (OP)
no, just be willing to learn and talk to the guys

>>76277680
>Team sports after college if you aren't getting paid is so fucking gay lol.
beer leagues are based, zoomie. go back to giving your boyfriends BJs in your BBBJ gym, faggot.

>>76277442
No but social media like 4chan portrays it in a way that makes people believe this

>>76277600
Some people are just unlikeable and that's just how it is. We have a guy at work like that. He's fucking weird, everything he says could take 10 seconds to get out but turns into a 5+ minute story, never helps anyone with extra workloads and still expects to be included, not feel "left out" but it's just who he is. A loser

>>76277442
its probably fake like everything else on tiktok

>>76277779
And I'm sure you're just a shining example of awesomeness Mr I post on 4chan all day, huh
Lol fuckin cunt

>>76277294 (OP)
Who is the loser here
This guy that has a wife or me that can't maintain a relationship for more than 2 weeks at fucking 30

>>76277914
Probably you. 2 weeks is still the honeymoon phase so you really shouldn't be able to drop the ball that hard

>>76277326
Seeing how his wife made the story, its most likely a complete lie. He most likely never showed up for any practice and was a pain to be around

>>76277442
If your granma or mom never did this to you, consider yourself lucky.

>>76278013
theyd do it but thats my fucking mom and grandma and not on social media cause im not 14

>>76278010
Thank you for your input reddit tier hypotheticologist! Whatever would we do if you didn't make up hypotheticals to troon out about

>>76277316
When I was a kid I thought I hated physical activity because we’d play sports in gym class and people would throw a melty hissyfit over minor fuckups. It wasn’t until later that I found weightlifting and realized I just hate dealing with emotional cunts

>>76277294 (OP)
I never liked team sports. Too structured and social. Everyone hold hands take turns. No thanks. I'm cannonballing off the high-dive and sending the floaty kid spinning for drifting into my swim lane.

>>76278205
>My husband did nothing wrong
>The entire team and staff are the ones who are wrong
>No my husband is never annoying

>>76277294 (OP)
the fact he is shunned by a recreational club says a lot about his character. Its a casual setting where team record isn't all that serious. its like being banned from your grocery store and telling everyone grocery stores are toxic environments

>>76278855
>>76278866
Too many variables and too little information to come off with any conclusion. He could have joined a clique group that is gatekeeping to everyone, he would need to join an other league/team to see if he was truly the problem or the social environnement , but it’s wrong to assume that anything is wrong with him based on what the post is saying

>>76277294 (OP)
What dicks. I feel for the husband.

>>76278918
Probably its his fault. In every situation where a single person left some big team, its usually the individual stirring up trouble. Just a few months back some lady got fired from my place of work where she was constantly just goofing off, taking 2-3 hour lunch breaks, late all the time, getting no work done, etc etc. She tried to keep her job by telling the ceo and HR the entire team was toxic and the environment was hostile.
I know this is anecdotal but previous situations like this has always been the individual who was toxic

If he actually got fit they wouldn't act that way unless he sucked ass on the field. I don't believe this dude's wife that he's "done good" at all. Past a certain age, a man with too many participation trophies is a bad thing. Matter of fact, actual children in too many inclusivity cults is a very bad thing. Grow the fuck up. Him and the ugly chick that took the picture.

>>76277317
If he were a racist with tourettes the team would probably treat him like their mascot. So you think the whole team is a bunch of whiny liberal faggots, which means this guy is probably excluded because he wasn't sucking enough cock.

>>76277294 (OP)
What kind of cunt team was he in? Who doesn't talk to someone new ?

>>76277477
What's your deal? Penis envying dyke, or do you need a robot to open your Onions?

>>76277600
This is why it's good to drink socially, at the least. There's always going to be some other lad looking for someone to have a few at some stage, and by being their drinking buddy you're already well through the ice

>>76278974
This. It's fucking gay to try to "fit in" like this. If you don't got it just focus on yourself and hit the gym like the rest of us

>>76278950
All it takes is 1 apple to ruin your relation with a whole group, especially when you are newcomer. If i look in my experience, i started boxing, went to the same gym for 2 year, and pretty much nobody but a lesbian wanted to talk with me or do anything with me, coach completly ignoring me, they would welcome talk and be nice to a fucking retard but not me. I wondered if it was normal, if it was ME problem and decided to try an other gym and my welcome was night/day compared to my previous experience to point i switched gym and felt like my 2 previous years a was a waste of time. I moved on and i will never figure out why they treated me like shit. And remember, there are always a fucking of insecure male in any group that will want to chase away anyone who can take their place, like just fatty woman in bar with their hot friend

>>76278619
weightlifting is not a sport,it takes no skill

>>76277317
Real men are racist.

>>76277766
You are a retarded virgin. Women get off on shit like this.

>>76279057
Weightlifting is literally an Olympic sport

>>76278950
No, it's completely different in a job from a sport. In a job, absolutely everyone is hostile, and the useless bitch was probably technically right but she's the one that fucked up. Like this guy >>76279020 mentions, most sport clubs tend to be non-serious and very cliquish, in fact I've had the same exact experience as him

>>76279020
>>76279092
Never experienced it myself but if thats the case, the guy in OP's pic is being a little whiny bitch. Just switch clubs, why cry about the club you dont want to be a part of?

>>76278855
Know-it-all lmao

>>76279122
>no possible way my husband is wrong
>he is always right
>just look at him so sad

>>76279104
not in his shoes, but it might be the only league in his local area and the next one is 1hour away from him. also we are responding to a post made by wife, so we dont know any actual info and he might have lied too or she might lie,

>>76279104
I guess, but we're seeing things from the wife's perspective, my guess is he isn't "sad", and more like pissed

How many woman-hate generals does this board have right now?
Someone's gonna make the one with dead husband yoga thing that gets 300 replies every time.

>>76279150
How the fuck is this a woman-hate general?

>>76278866
It doesn't sound like he was shunned, just that he couldn't fit in, and that could be for a hundred reasons that you can't control.

>>76279150
The only men who don't hate women are the ones who have not dealt with them enougj.
Bitter incels do not count as they are not men.

>>76277442
I don't think it's malicious. Women do this all the time for themselves and it works. She probably just doesn't understand that it doesn't work for men in the same way.

>>76279172
I don't hate women but I am definitely very apprehensive about making decisions with them in mind. The amount of evil shit that I've seen them do and things that were done to me makes me very cautious

>>76279150
this is about adult sperg men, not about women

>>76279150
>How many woman-hate generals does this board have right now?
idk about that there is one CONFIRMED bleeding heart simp in here and he just got a (You) with this post

>>76279057
I said physical activity, not sports. But I started trying out ping pong and martial arts for the same reason. No emotional cunts in your team

>>76277442
if you show women weakness they will tear you apart

It's obvious none of you have played rec sports. Most guys on rec sports teams take it way too seriously and are really just assholes who are still mad they didn't make varsity in high school. I am actually pretty good at basketball so no one ever got that mad at me, but they 100% try to big dog the new guys and have no interest in helping them get better or even having fun. It's really embarrassing and I don't play rec sports anymore because it's too much of a hassle to deal with these kinds of people.

>>76279271
>join team that has ranking
>we should just have fun!
gay and weak. who gives a flying fuck about some gay team, just leave. dont cry about it you fag

>>76279283
You seem really mad.

>>76279303
sorry i held a mirror up to your face, truth hurts but the sooner you accept the happier you will be

>>76277294 (OP)
Why do amerimutts still play sports after 12 years old, ball sports are childish unless you got in some varsity program when younger and play professional

Grown men lift or do something like cycling or a combat sport

i hate women

>>76279307
Grrr.

>>76279317
Sorry you were misled in life. But grown men honestly stop playing sports at 7 years old and start posting on 4chan by age 14. The fact you lift weights shouts out how much of a spoiled little manchild you are. But its good to know later than never. I hope I helped and that you can find your way out.

>>76279321
yea sorry again. good luck tho, i have high hopes for you

>>76277683
Same thing happened to me anon, I was fairly friendly and I had lots of friends until my late 20s then idk I just don't care anymore and it shows I guess

>>76279307
>>76279324
>doesn't lift
>Doesn't do a sport even if he is a grown man
>Assuming you don't do a combat sport because you sound like a little low t bitch that types like a woman
Why are you here

>>76279341
Who said I dont lift weights and dont do sports?

>>76279344
>Grown men stop playing sports at 7 years old
>The fact that you lift weights shouts out you are a spoiled manchild

>>76279150
>dead husband yoga

The what?

Friends are a pointless time sink.

>>76279383
not if you are sinking your cock in their asses

>>76277442
Yes. 100%

>>76277294 (OP)
imagine your wife taking a photo and posting that embarrassing shit online
that's a cause for divorce

>>76279350
Are you illiterate? I never said that you absolute fag

>>76279057
weightlifting takes a ton of skill
can you snatch your bodyweight?

>>76279410
it's just brute force

>>76277442
It's about validation. Women always ask themselves; How can I make this about me?

The amount of chuds and incels in this thread, holy shit

>>76277294 (OP)
It's likely the problem is that baseball is quite possibly the hardest sport there is. And he didn't play baseball growing up so he doesn't have the skills and knowledge to keep up. Whereas the rest of the team probably played highschool ball and have 10+ years of experience playing as a kid. He also is clearly very skinny and physically frail. So not only does he lack skill, he's weak and slow.

The other guys don't want to babysit him and teach him the fundamentals of baseball everyone else learned when they were 6.

>>76279485
Its a commercial success anon

>>76279317
>or a combat sport
Why do you love groping other men so much?

>>76279497
Baseball isn't that hard, children commonly play it.
I played it until High School and I'm certain I could still play it today.

I'd argue Football is harder. You need to be way more physically fit to be good at that sport than Baseball.

>>76277294 (OP)
Join an action club.

>>76277294 (OP)
Seek out an active club.

>>76280151
>I'm certain I could still play it today.
Maybe against 12 year olds.

>>76280151
Bro, Michael Jordan got the dogshit smoked out of him in double-A baseball. He had a .200 batting average.

Just being able to throw hard and accurately from 3rd base to 1st base is difficult. And there is no room for error, you throw wild they're automatically safe or you gave them a free double. And batting is extremely difficult. At the MLB level the average batting average is .250. A 0.300 average is doing amazing. Getting a hit 1/3rd of the time is amazing. There is also 20 million rules. Football is a far, far easier sport.

>>76277442
Anything for views. Women become whores fast

>>76280183

i dont play sports, but i referee some. the worst sport i referee is girls lacrosse.

>>76277317
Most likely the opposite tbdesu. Men only get blackballed from male social spaces for *not* being racist.

Can't have some goody two shoes hall monitor cunt around, makes the boys feel like they need to look over their shoulder before they speak. Everyone already does that all day at work.

>>76280192
Anyone would get the dogshit smoked out of them if they went pro in a sport come on now. Baseball fags really think its all that

>>76278619
This. Every ball game just devolved into lil niggas scream arguing about inane shit

>>76280528
And their parents weren't any better

there's a bunch of guys that play pickup friday mornings at my gym. it's alot of manlets and indians.

>>76277294 (OP)
You're in the US, brother, build a basic league for adults that can't play but want to and people will come

There's probably a few possible scenarios:

> he joined a SERIOUS league (most likely)
People who sit at home dont know this but some of these rec leagues take themselves VERY seriously. Like if you weren't former D1 in college , they don't fucking want you. They are reliving their glory days half the time and if you can't keep up with that speed its over. Judging by the "getting fit" part, this dude was behind the curve to begin with.

> he never passes or some shit
Basically if he plays selfishly or is costing games through bad behavior , everyone is gonna hate him.

> he is deeply incompetent at the actual game
ie playing like a middle schooler against adults whove played their whole lives

> wife is asian or indian
Other whites on the team notice this, exclude him cause they don't want that shit mingling with their WASP energy.

> socioeconomic disparity
Its kinda weird cause you think technically anyone can join a rec league , but you don't realize , in north america in particular , in certain neighborhoods , certain age brackets, - rec sports are generally done by "established" males , generally are members in the community, well connected, semi-retired, etc etc. They can spot losers a mile away.

>>76280543
>create a company with billions in revenue, bro

>>76280585
Not a fucking national corporate league, you dense whore. A backyard league with some buddies then spread the word around. Soon you'll have some 4 teams to go back and forth playing each other.

>>76280500
Jordan wasn't some random dude. And yes, baseball is the most difficult sport. Cope and seethe, faggot.

>>76279317
it's called fun you sad lonely motherfucker

>>76277442
>is this a normal thing?
yes

>>76280575
he forgot the courtesy blowjob to all the team in the showers as a newcomer

>>76281182
true the guy in the tiktok probably couldn't throat it and kept using his hands and coughing and shit

I don't think I'd be able to lynch anybody

what's the appeal of baseball? Batting balls seems cool but everything else about it is odd and overly contrived

>>76277600
>work on making a few acquaintances first so he has someone to introduce him to a group.
how do you do this

>>76281197
japanese people like it a lot so i assume it's very autistic

>>76281197
>what's the appeal of baseball? Batting balls seems cool but everything else about it is odd and overly contrived
i assume it's because it's a bit like gambling, like you are playing 1 game, but depending what happens when the guy bats the ball you are suddenly in a completely different game

>>76277317
The coolest people I know are always racist somewhat

>>76277317
>posted from a cuck chair

>>76281197
You could always watch the anime One Outs! Literally its just gambling based on baseball and gets into the details of the sports that matter. One of the most down to earth anime out there funnily enough. But the main appeal of Baseball is that its like military training in a way. You have your running segments, your tossing the ball segments which is like tossing a grenade, you got the striking of the ball segment which is basically like hitting an opponent with a weapon type of a thing. Its very primitive unga bunga sport when it comes to the appeal where raw strength for the batter matters with the accuracy playing part too for hitting home runs.

>>76280528
>middle school PE
>class subhumans always team up together, get anyone they don't like (including me) on the other team then usually destroy us in football
>one day teacher brings hockey sticks, tells us to play indoor hockey
>turns out in includes more than just stamina and screaming "faggots"
>we absolutely destroy them in like a dozen games in a row
>class subhumans pack together and go to our teacher to cry about the game being bad
>we never play it again, just foodball
PTs are legit subhumans themselves
> first year of middle school
>for whatever reason we have to play football with dudes two years senior
>obviously they're faster, fitter, more coordinated so we lose like 0:12
>it keeps happening it keeps happening it keeps happening
>eventually we protest by moving off the pitch, PT is like ERM ITS THE FIGHT THAT MATTERS EVERYONE GETS A BAD MARK
>also class subhumans just went erm obviously we would win if if wasn't for the other losers (i.e. us)
I hate team sports so much it's surreal.

>>76277600
Does this mean I WILL get fired if I don't engage with my coworkers? I have nothing in common with anyone there. All I truly care about is doing sports (I work out twice a day during weekdays), while my coworkers are stereotypical IT dudes. Even when I force myself to talk to someone, the conversation goes nowhere because I don't care about their hobbies and they don't care about mine.
So now I only talk to them about work-related stuff, put up a friendly act during the conversation, and keep to myself the rest of the time.
This is my first real job and I can already tell that I absolutely HATE offices. God, please give me a work from home job in the future.

>>76277294 (OP)
What she doesn't mention is that he's a trans freak

>>76280461
Because they’re women?

>>76277683
It is OK to be like this. Most people grow into it. America is very atomized and divided

>>76277779
Chances are you're not that much cooler than him but whatever keeps you going

>>76277442
Every man's most embarrassing moment is his wife's favorite story to share with everyone. The concept of pride is different for women.

>>76277294 (OP)
Team Sports are pointless if you're asocial, competitive solo or just solo is better.

I'd rather cross country ski with the crows, deer, and bears than hang out with those assholes.

>>76279497
This is why I won't join a hockey league even though I love the sport and like ice skating. I know it's going to be a bunch of guys who were put on skates at 4 years old and played through their youth. No way am I going to be able to keep up with them.

>>76283325
You'd have to train on your own, but that might not be viable.

>>76281247
Mild racism is always fun.

>>76277294 (OP)
whether it is a small dick or the 'tism
you just make the most of whatever you got
so autistically run until you complete a marathon
autistically lift until you reach the natty limit
you will find your own ways to thrive, anon

plenty of community adult sports teams if you live in a decent sized town
take your delusions back to >>>/r9k

JUST JOIN A CLUB BROOOO

>>76277442
Women cannot conceptualize pride, honor and integrity. There's a reason why our forefathers treated them like subhumans; you can't trust someone that leads all their action with their feelings, especially someone who's feelings will swing wildly depending on the time of the month.

>>76277294 (OP)
The fact that she posted this says it all. Inch of derranged lunatics everywhere nowadays who like to showcase their shitty lives in the most psychotic manner

>>76284370
Bunch*

>>76277294 (OP)
I do buhurt. My buhurt club meets every sunday. I feel like I don't fit in yet but I'm having fun beating the shit out of people with blunt swords.

>>76277317
>don’t be racist or else we will exclude you
Who does this work on?
The Redditors who fear social ostracization are already anti-racist.
Being racist has a selective factor in itself as it requires someone to be against the grain naturally and by choice.
Racists are already anti-social, being anti-social back will if anything only reinforce their presuppositions and observations about anti-racists/non-racists.

Ostracization is also the most feminine form of social warfare. At least have the fucking balls to beat someone up over your beliefs.

>>76282031
is literally everyone on the internet in IT?

>>76277600
>>76277683
Social culture sucks and work culture is a gayer version of social culture.
Normies are retarded cattle “people” with very little interesting to say. You either shell up and wear the social mask to engage or avoid them entirely.
It’s very Machiavellian. They have psycho detectors but you will figure out how to dissimulate better.

>>76279153
I am general woman hate and this is my world.

I'm 32 and I played a lot of sports as a kid and was really good at them but then when I delayed going through puberty, everyone else got much fastr stronger and better than I was, and I was left in the dust. I stopped playing competitive sports around 13-14, and haven't really done any sort of sporting activity in at least a decade, maybe more. Like your problem, I'm a complete sperg so I don't really do activities like that with other people.

The weird thing though is that I did pick up officiating sports and I do it a lot. It's a weird feeling refereeing kids and thinking about what I missed out on, or refereeing adults who did stick with it and are good, or who are just playing recreationally and actually are doing the "playing sports to meet people" thing.

>>76279317
>cycling
riding a bicycle. Literally a kid thing to do. The amount of dyels i see cycling on the road thinking they own it makes me want to run them over.

>>76281247
If you can't be racist to your own friends then what is even the point if having them.

>>76284684
>Normies are retarded cattle “people” with very little interesting to say.
He says on 4chan.

>>76284980
oh look another /fit/ poster saying how he wants to murder people on bicycles because they make him 30 seconds later to his net red light. so original.

Turbocel here. Guys who actually fuck, you’re never supposed to be this open with a girl right?
Even though she’s being empathetic for those TikTok points, no way this level of vulnerability doesn’t make her dry up right?

>>76285227
wives usually dry up the day following the wedding

>>76281247
There is a reason why.
You think non-racist people do this in their spare time?

>>76285227
>you’re never supposed to be this open with a girl right?
Correct, always lie, even when she knows you are, just carry on telling lies. Women will always take any weakness you show and use it as a weapon against you. This would've been OK in a time when you can just slap her around and divorce is illegal, but nowadays we live in clown world so just don't ever show her your emotions ever.

>>76285227
The final pill is you can do whatever you want as long as you don't seek validation from anyone or justify your actions to anyone. So you asking that right now to us? It means you're cooked no matter what you do

>>76277442
>is this a normal thing?
No, these types of things are heavily biased because you only ever see the selfish people post others' vulnerable moments online. You never see those who have respect for other people. Stop judging literally hundreds of millions of people based on the few bad people you see on the internet.

Don't listen to these faggots. None of them have talked to a girl since elementary school.

>>76285386
>you can do whatever you want with women bro!
yeah see op, go ahead and listen to this guy, cry to her about everything and if youre lucky maybe you end up like the guy in the op pic lmao

>>76277600
>at my first job [I] was hoping people would talk to me, show me around, introduce me
>then I realized that I had to take action myself and reach out to people, even talk to strangers and they were all cool

So from other people's perspective, they get to experience the first scenario whereas you, in your own words, "have to" be the one who reaches out. Others are able to do nothing and have people (you) speak to them, introduce themselves (yourself), make conversation etc. But for you this isn't allowed.

Feel free to explain why others get away with doing nothing yet still manage to get included but you don't.

>>76284684
you'll learn as you get older that it's you that is the problem.

you are one of the people too; you aren't unique. literally been this way since the beginning of the first mutant monkey. no amount of being on 4chan and thinking you're unique will change that

>>76277779
And yet he's equal to you in your career.

>>76285457
>>76285455
Don’t samefag ok?

>>76284682
It was probably a mistake anyway. I should have pursued a career in the only field I have passion for, sports. Instead I chose the conventional way because I also always liked programming, although I never had any passion for it whatsoever.
It was probably a mistake. Not because I don't like what I'm doing now, it's a decent way to spend my time between trainings, but because I just don't fit in. I didn't fit in at university, and I still don't fit in now. And the thing is, I don't even want to fit in. Every single one of my friends, both past and present, have the same passion for sports that I do.

>>76285405
Only high iq post itt

>>76285405
>Others are able to do nothing and have people (you) speak to them, introduce themselves (yourself), make conversation etc. But for you this isn't allowed.

But if you did nothing then nothing would happen for them.

I don't get why you incels think things should just happen for you for nothing. you blame everyone else for your own personal problems and never just man up and take ownership of your life.

Do you just expect good things to fall out of the sky for you? Do you expect to just wake up in a loving 5 year relationship overnight?

You exist as an npc, a background character, a placeholder for everyone else.

But hey don't listen to me. Continue doing exactly what you're doing now (nothing) and maybe something will change (it won't).

>>76285463
sports is so broad I'm sure there's some shit you could get a job as the cashier at REI or something and be way happier

>>76285478
>anyone who goes against my normieslop opinion is an incel
Literal leftist tier argument

>>76285492
Nah if I go into sports I wanna be part of the team and directly work with the athletes. I'm honestly thinking of switching to part time and studying sports science right now.

>>76285518
you wanna be the guy that puts the names of the athletes up on the locker?

Its the best time.

>>76285390
Based and true. Lots of demoralizing jew posts here.

I'm genuinely convinced that you just simply don't make friends after graduation

>>76287037
It's harder but not impossible. Your opportunities to make friends dwindle since you're no longer forced to interact with peers your age and of likely similar interests on a day to day basis and your own free time becomes scarce as you get more responsibilities, so it becomes about indentifying the opportunities to make friends and then putting in the work to cultivate those friendships.

>>76284385
A butthurt club??

>>76287037
It's possible but extremely hard

>>76285227
unless you are terminally ill and need support, or have a serious wound or someone close to you died, never complain. if something is affecting you emotionally it is your job as a man to gut that shit and be the emotionally stable one due to the fact that the only anchors women have to stabilize themselves with are other people. you can open up about tedious shit as long as it's in a humorous manner but otherwise she will subconsciously tally each one until eventually she views you as a little bitch

>>76287037
You have to try much harder. If youre not an initiator then you'll just be lonely.

Why are women like this

>>76277317
men who use female bullying tactics like social isolation are faggots

>>76285461
>"noooo you're only allowed one comment"

fuckin loser

>>76289102
>reddit spacing even
Buddy, I think you’re done here

>>76289102

>>76277294 (OP)
I played football in teams growing up and had a similar experience.

I'm tall and it's always the manlets being bitchy faggots acting like women who try and put you down in front of everyone so everyone thinks you're shit. Everything good I did gets ignored because I missed an opportunity one time and then you get binned after he screamed at you like I his parents in front of him

>>76279382
A tiktok where a widow shows her late husband dying in hospital. She says it inspired her to start a yoga business and then shows how she's now flourishing

>>76287978
Women in the South call every man who doesn't give her his entire paycheck weak.

This mindset of be le stoic golem for muh wimminz is gay.

Guys who have screaming and boxing matches with women are never single. Women line up to fuck them and bear their children.

Do whatever you want with a woman, they are just toys and breeding objects. If she gets uppity, physically torture her in private and then rape her.

>>76289632
seems that you have absolutely no reading comprehension because I have no idea how someone could take what he said in such a weird way

>>76277442
Women don't have a soul regarding men as a mate or possibly mate

>>76277294 (OP)
LMAO

>>76277442
That's the entire point. It's to humiliate him.

>>76277294 (OP)
I just shoot hoops by myself, I don't want to play with other people.

>>76277317
he has a wife tho

>>76287037
Thats why masters and doctorates were invented

>>76288384
This 100%

>>76277294 (OP)
>team sports
jesus christ what a nightmare

as an adult sperg, "team sports" the worst of both worlds.

Just do like the rest of us adult autists and join a BJJ gym. No social drama about the "team", no boring nonsense about conventional sports and its countless rules. You can talk to people as much or las little as you want to.

Boxing and MMA as well as other martial arts and combat sports are just as valid, but BJJ really attracts the most spergs.

I guess something about having your sense nullified by a 200 lbs man choking you out is appealing to the autistic mind where you can finally stop thinking for a minute and get some sensory deprivation.

>>76277294 (OP)
Generally yes unless you have some previous experience in the sport/athletics in general. If you don't have any athletic development at all then its best that you do a more casual sport, or a solo sport where you dont have a team relying on you. Lifting and martial arts attracts a lot of guys like this, and it works great for them.

Regardless of what everyone else here says about this guy probably "not making friends" or "moping around", or about how the other guys are showing "female behavior", as someone who relates to his situation heavily i can confirm people are like this EVERYWHERE.

It's not "female behavior" its just how regularly socialized, fit, competitive men operate. They can't turn that off. They want to win, even if its a casual league. If you are getting in the way of that, they will hate you. Period. No matter how hard you try to improve, or how good of a guy you are, or if you knew someone on the team that brought you in. If you have so little athletic ability that you can't perform without significant time practicing and playing catch-up with what they have been doing their whole lives, they will hate and resent you for it.

Liberal fag men are like this, conservative hardass men are like this. Any man who is competitive enough to participate in a sport is like this.

Bottom line. If you didn't athletically develop from childhood to adolescence, you can't play any of the cool team sports ever. Sorry. Its the same way with wrestling. As a BJJ/MMA guy i wish i could do some pure greco-roman or freestyle shit but unless you did it during HS and college you just cant participate. You'll get bullied and fucked around with by everyone else. You aren't doing anything wrong, its just how it is.

>>76292803
And to be clear, it doesn't mean you can become a physical beast, or be athletic. You can go train MMA and be able to fuck all those guys up and outpace them in any cardio. Its just that nobody has the patience to watch you learn the rudimentary skills that they literally learned as young children. Kinda like riding a bike lol. I learned as an adult cause no dad. My friends who would try to "teach me" wouldnt understand how i couldnt do it. they'd lose their patience because if you learned something that young its so natural that you literally cant fathom someone not being able to do it.

>>76292744
just make sure its a good BJJ gym. Preferably no-gi and without the faggy brazilian bowing to the mat and shit culture. Honestly you're kindof a pussy if you cant handle striking so a gym with striking classes is good too.

>>76288384
they all do that. literally the most socially successful people, men or women, do that shit. They develop cliques and in groups. The people who are actually benevolent and inclusive are usually other outcasts or dudes who were once outcasts and know how it feels.

>>76292809
Nobody said not to have an in-group and out-group, but to not use social isolation as a bullying tactic.
Men directly bully each other, physically and vocally. We have hierarchy based on merit and strength. I remember a time when we would beat a faggot up if he was acting retarded, not this shit.

>>76292809
>>76292813
PS, hated a faggot at work so I asked him directly in the face after work that I will beat the living shit out of him if he fucks with me again
Another faggot I just elbowed while walking down the hallway because he always had snarky remarks and he stopped coming into work

>>76292813
That's what i mean by in group and out group though. All socially successful people use social exclusion and isolation as a way to keep people they don't like away. It's almost unheard of for anyone to directly say "we dont like you" or "dont come around anymore". They just slowly (or quickly) push you away and involve you less until you get the hint. Both men and women.

Men love to talk about their social values, conduct, and hierarchies and maybe its cause im relatively young and grew up in a time where everyones just a spiteful faggot now, but i've never seen a social group of men act with any more honor, directness, or class than the average female friend group.

>>76292817
First one based, Second one you should probably kill yourself. Why didn't you just directly say it to his face like you did the other guy? That is quite literally shit id see women do to eachother in high school.

>>76292836
Because first one had decency to insult me directly in my face which I respect. The other guy just tilted his dead back, kept interrupting me and generally made snarky remarks. He was also dressing like a woman and cared a lot about his outward appearance, nobody talked to him on the job and was generally a smug retard that taught he was the shit because he wore a cheap watch.

Aside from me respecting the first guy directly insulting me iff I did the same shit I did to the first guy he would probably retaliate and I would be in the wrong. The second guy was effeminate loser who I didn't respect and would love to kill and play with his organs.

Some people deserve different approaches and different types of communication styles. Some people respond to direct approaches, some people respond to covert attacks.

>>76292832
>It's almost unheard of for anyone to directly say "we dont like you" or "dont come around anymore".
Just because it isn't common that doesn't mean it's not good. Men are direct and should be direct with each other. Men who don't do that are effeminate. Women gossip, women socially isolate, women try to and exclude others. Why? Because that is their only recourse of action. They don't have physicality to demand respect. Men respect each other out of fear of retaliation. If you don't respect me you will get punched in the face. Women bully other women with social games and innuendo.

Men who take other men aside the group and tell them "hey nigger, we don't like your kind around here, skeedadle" are the best men. Men who just gossip and socially exclude do that out of effeminized ways of handling things or fear of the police.

>but i've never seen a social group of men act with any more honor, directness, or class than the average female friend group.
Jesus what fucking country are you in?

>>76292846
fair enough i guess. i can't think of anyone who has ever pissed me off to that degree so i guess i wouldn't get it lol. also i feel like it could be a quick way to get fired, although it probably depends on the industry. i feel like a faggy effeminate dude would probably just report that shit to HR.

i guess thats kinda the main reason i dont ever fuck with people i hate. theres so many penalties in society for guarding your space and taking any aggressive or masculine action to keep fags and retards out.

>>76277779
>everything he says could take 10 seconds to get out but turns into a 5+ minute story, never helps anyone with extra workloads
People don't call that a loser, people call that a manager.

>>76292862
>muh consequences
When you realize most of the "consequences" are not real and only imagined is when it gets most fun. See, there are countless crime FBI TV shows where they solve shit nobody else would but ultimately the real FBI statistics are like that 60 to 70% of any killing goes unsolved. The TSA? Fails its own inspections of counter-terrorism safety.

I mean on and on, it's all safety theatre for the masses. The house of cards is literally balanced by the hopes of nobody questioning the programming of their cultural values that have made us come to this place of dysfunctional society.

Me? I just directly lied to my boss and HR about it and said I don't know what happened and that if he has an issue with me to tell me directly like a man. I smiled a couple of times his way and he stopped doing his snarky behavior to me. I don't respect HR and boss enough to tell them directly.

See the out-group in men are lied to, they're exploited, they're taken advantage of, they're bullied. But ostracizing is for women. We men pillage and beat people up. I still remember 20 years ago when I was a kid I would see people get out of their cars brawl out their road rage, handshake and go about their way. Now? I see people try to escalate a road rage into a homicide, and its always "oh im ragebaiting you and you can't do shit to me because.... WELL YOU JUST CANT"

>>76292856
You dont understand what i was saying. I know that being direct like that is good, i was saying its unheard of because i never see men actually doing that ever. they all act and behave exactly like women, by indirectly fucking with them, isolating, gossiping, shit talking to eachother.

I live in the US. Every male friend group I see act like children to eachother. The faggy liberal type dudes gossip like women, nit pick eachother on social media or block eachother to solve conflicts. The more masculine and aggressive men act more like you'd expect a man to, but are still honorless pieces of shit even to their own friends. Fucking their friends crushes/girlfriends/wives, making everything about impressing women, putting their friends down in front of women.

Its the same exact dichotomy with socially passive and aggressive women too. Some are nitpicky little faggots while some aggressively fuck with everyone around them and try to steal all male attention.

I just dont see this unique honor, class, or structure that men treat eachother with. Ever. Even dudes who on the surface look like stand up, masculine, role model men always have some fucked up piece of shit behavior behind closed doors. Bottom line. Can't trust anyone. Not men or women.

>>76292862
>>76292877
PS the aggressive and sexual energies have been capped by societal norms too hard nowadays that the venting is either porn or MMA fights, which are both unsatisfactory cuck behaviors where we watch someone else do the shit we want to do.

Instead we should strive towards being proactive members of society and building the world we want to see. Indulging into your own "bad" behaviors works better at making you realize what is good/bad than any type of therapy or meditation ever could.

>>76292877
I'd love to agree with you but I've personally seen people get fired for the type of shit you're referring to.

And I have no issue with there being an "out-group" if the individual gets put there by the merit of their own actions IE being a faggy retard or a piece of shit. But most of the time I see someone get put in the out-group for no reason other than "they dont seem cool enough" or like the guy in the OP, he isn't athletic enough despite the fact he is trying.

That's the shit that really pisses me off. probably because i've seen it a lot. dudes getting ostracized and picked on and placed at the bottom of the hierarchy for shit they cant control, or even shit they are actively trying to change. I rarely see an asshole get his due, but i always see someone down on their luck or earnestly trying to improve/socialize get fucked with or isolated.

>>76292881
>The more masculine and aggressive men act more like you'd expect a man to, but are still honorless pieces of shit even to their own friends
What is the benefit of being masculine and aggressive in todays society? What is the benefit of being a honor based society that treats women with dignity and others with class and hierarchy? Do you sincerely think "it's not my business" came out of nowhere?
Whenever I am I am seen as a threat, not an asset. So masculine and aggressive men become hyper individualistic pieces of shit. In the past these men would be used to deter the out-group of parasites and horrible people. In todays time whenever someone is jacked and masculine he is automatically a target for shitty behavior by both men and women.

I have a tight night group, but I was burned before. I stopped fights on the street. I stopped creeps harassing women. I bullied social retards into their place. What did I get for return? Seen as someone who is unhinged and a problem. Someone "who can do it to them if he wants" instead of someone who kept up social order. And on first sign of "you're not needed anymore" I am discarded.

>>76292889
>But most of the time I see someone get put in the out-group for no reason other than "they dont seem cool enough" or like the guy in the OP, he isn't athletic enough despite the fact he is trying.
Retarded US, im from the balkans.
I give people 3 chances. First time I might have miss understood. Second time people make mistakes. Third time it's intentional and malicious. Tilting of the head while listening to me? Okay, that might have been misinterpreted. Interrupting me while I speak? He might be anxious and excited to tell me something. But when he makes snarky comments to me on meetings? When he laughs at me and puts me down? When he ignores me saying "good morning" to the whole room (everyone said it back at least once in past month, he never did)?

>"they dont seem cool enough"
And you never will be. Whenever you try to get someones attention and respect by appeasing them then you're already playing the female-male power dynamics

>>76292889
>>76292920
PS it's 8 AM here and my gf didn't sleep well the whole weekend, my neighbor upstairs was making noise so I went up to ask them to please be a little bit less noisy. (activity I bet most americans would be scared to do)

A granny that was angry at us smoking in the house is actively making noise in the morning because she hates us, but is actually just lonely and wants company. I don't want to be a caretaker and that granny is lonely because he is a piece of shit to everyone around her, thats why nobody visits her. She lives out of spite. Even though she denied it was her, the clanking and hitting of the floor stopped.

>>76292907
I completely agree with you on all of that. I suppose the only point I was making is that I rarely see hyper masculine men do good even within their tight knit friend groups. I agree that society has cast out masculine men as social watchdogs and replaced them with the state and the police. You can't even have a proper fucking fight or intimidate some crackhead away from people without getting a charge. Believe me, where I live "it's not my business" is the like the word of fucking god. people just walking around with their eyes to the floor ignoring each other and the fucked up shit happening around them.

For some reason, I've just never met a real proper masculine dude I felt like I could truly trust. At some point or another I always felt like they were either gonna get one in over on me, try to emasculate me, or use their sexual aggression to fuck with my circle. Type of dude I'd never leave my girl alone around. Not like I prefer full on faggot retards, but I've never seen a hyper masculine dude NOT try to dominate and control his friends/social circle/social dynamics for his gain. I'm not talking about whether or not a dude fucks with randos or the greater society, i dont give a fuck about that. I mean dudes fucking with or betraying people that actually trust them, that they are supposed to care about. Just my experience with that type.

As for me, I'm definitely less confrontational. I'm also pretty young so I'm still figuring this shit out. I definitely don't take shit anymore like I used to. Lifting and MMA is helping to make me feel more capable. I don't want to be the faggot little pushover, but I also don't want to turn into a domineering dickhead like I've seen some people I used to trust turn into.

>>76292920
I'm not talking about someone who is trying to appease others. Not everyone who makes any social effort or joins a club is trying to appease others. This guy just joined a baseball club and played. Was cast out for not being good enough, thats it. I feel like people who didn't get socially outcast as a kid don't get it. Some people do get fucked with for actually no reason, not for being a suckup pushover, but literally just for not being a certain way.

>Tilting of the head while listening to me?
>Interrupting me while I speak?
Only leaving these up to one chance each is crazy to me. I would never even think about the first one. People have all sorts of mannerisms that don't mean anything. If someone got mad at me because I tilted my head too many times while talking to them, I'd think they are unhinged. People don't like to be overanalyzed like that. Interrupting I get, but its depends on the context. Like you said maybe they are excited. I don't like being interrupted but I wouldn't think of it as a "strike" if they did it once or twice.

The other shit is all valid though.

>>76292907
>what is the benefit
Do you realise how many passive men are out there?
Simply not caring about consequences and being aggressive will help you get what you want

>>76292929
>I rarely see hyper masculine men do good even within their tight knit friend groups.
5 friend groups I got burned on before I made this one. And even then I keep this one at a distance and not rely on them too much. I just know deep down that I can't depend on someone on the street, my friend group or even my family 100% nowadays and have contingency plans.

>As for me, I'm definitely less confrontational. I'm also pretty young so I'm still figuring this shit out. I definitely don't take shit anymore like I used to. Lifting and MMA is helping to make me feel more capable. I don't want to be the faggot little pushover, but I also don't want to turn into a domineering dickhead like I've seen some people I used to trust turn into.
People who are masculine that you define most probably do it as a coping mechanism. They fear admiration and social hierarchy so they lash out whenever someone gives them respect. They come out of households of constant aggression and violence. Respect and admiration is alien to them. Also you have to realize that most masculine men have no real desire for a man to man discussion or bonding as women do. In fact, that sort of bonding is left for a father-son relationship, which sounds to me you are lacking and seeking in that parasocial weird authority seeking of masculinity.

Most masculine men have a mission. Other men can help them and be an ally or be a hindrance and enemy. You being their cheerleader and wanting to be next to them is a hindrance, and they will try to exploit you for it.

Find some goal you want to achieve. Find people that have the same goal. Keep that group small and trust each other for help.

>>76292944
I do and I do get what I want. I have no issue with confrontation or criminal activity either.

The issue is at wanting what is worthwhile

>>76292946
Most of the masculine men I'm referring to don't seem to have a mission that isn't related to social validation. All the dudes I'm thinking of did it for pussy or at least looking like they get pussy. They'd exploit the people around them so that they could feel like a big dick gigachad.

>In fact, that sort of bonding is left for a father-son relationship, which sounds to me you are lacking and seeking in that parasocial weird authority seeking of masculinity.
You are correct in that I never had a father in my life. Still not sure you are correct about masculine men with good fathers not needing friends or seeking mutual friendship not entirely based on mutual goal seeking.

>Most masculine men have a mission.
I'm going to sound very retarded here, but what do you mean by mission? What goal or mission could a man have that isn't connect to status or validation? Especially if society has cast out the masculine male archetype, because that erases goals or missions based on helping others/society, which is the only non-status based goal I could think of a man to have: "make the world a better place". "save lives", "protect others". None of these make sense when theres nothing to protect or better, and society doesnt want your help anyways.

That just leaves the typical, "make money" "get bitches" type of goal that is clearly not what you are referring to.

>Find some goal you want to achieve. Find people that have the same goal. Keep that group small and trust each other for help.
If our allyship is only based on our utility to each other in the current moment I don't see how I could ever trust them. I think that's exactly the type of thing I hate about this type of man. And of course my mentality is rooted in the feminine "I should be innately loved/valued/appreciated" sort of thing, but I don't know how to shake it. I don't like the idea of being cast aside, fucked with, or betrayed just cause my goals changed or I'm no longer useful.

>>76292975
I suppose that doesn't matter though cause men like that don't care about the morality of hurting or abandoning someone, they care only ultimately about getting what they want. Which is kinda where my fundamental issue comes from. I have certain morals for treating others that I'll never overstep, especially for treating other man (who I have some level of respect for) even if it holds me back from my goals. I gotta find another way to them putting more pain into the world.

>>76292975
>All the dudes I'm thinking of did it for pussy or at least looking like they get pussy
that is the goal, right? to have a lot of children and fuck a lot of women? people have just twisted it into hedonism nowadays. I get it because I tried every drug under the sun and had my fill of the puss in my early 20s, but it gets boring after a while.

>Still not sure you are correct about masculine men with good fathers not needing friends or seeking mutual friendship not entirely based on mutual goal seeking.
I don't seek "friends" today per say. Just a group of highly skillful dependable people who I can rely on and they can rely on me. We can build together. Men talk to each other shoulder to shoulder while doing something together. Women face to face. This also goes to the subconscious physicallity aspect of male relationships.

>None of these make sense when theres nothing to protect or better, and society doesnt want your help anyways.
You want my help and you want to become better, don't you think I didn't talk to plenty other youngings before you that just snarked at me and pushed me aside?

>I don't see how I could ever trust them
If I call you at 3 in the morning for help and you come to help me but call me an idiot in the process I think of you as a better "friend" than all those "sending prayers and good vibes" people who will make a sad face and "aww" at me. US is filled to brim with these face superficial people its absurd. (I worked for a tech startup in california once)

>but I don't know how to shake it
By loving yourself. Do something hard and uneasy every day. Get out of your comfort zone for betterment of yourself. Approach a girl or a man for friendship and relationships. Try out new friend groups, new hobbies, new goals and skillsets. Teach younger generations. Build on backs of giants something new.

>>76292975
>>76293027
>I don't like the idea of being cast aside, fucked with, or betrayed just cause my goals changed or I'm no longer useful.
my last suggestion will ground you in your own self worth enough that you will not be dependable on outside validation

>>76292985
Hope dies last anon, there are still good people out there in the world. Don't overleverage yourself and give yourself out for free, or give whole of yourself to toxic people who will just use you, but don't be afraid to help others

>>76293027
>that is the goal, right? to have a lot of children and fuck a lot of women?
I guess, I just figured there was something more.
>Men talk to each other shoulder to shoulder while doing something together. Women face to face.
Fair enough. I never do shit with anyone unless there is an activity/work to be done. I just don't ONLY relegate that to work.
>don't you think I didn't talk to plenty other youngings before you that just snarked at me and pushed me aside?
You don't understand, that statement wasn't me saying that I agree that society should cast out men like you, I was just saying that society IS casting out men like you, which must make it hard to have goals that help society, since they dont want men like you anymore. I'm not saying that in a snarky way, I'm appealing to the reality you live in to say "it's must be hard".
>If I call you at 3 in the morning for help and you come to help me but call me an idiot in the process I think of you as a better "friend" than all those "sending prayers and good vibes" people who will make a sad face and "aww" at me.
All true. I guess when I think of guys like you who I knew in the past, they wouldn't have ever come to help unless they had something to score from it. Maybe those men weren't actually anything like you though. I guess now I am left with lots of people lost in inaction. Can't think of anyone I could call to come and fuck some shit up if I needed help. I'd probably just get a "ahh dude its too late man" or "ahhh dude my girl would be mad" all while I'd be there in 10 minutes.
> Approach a girl or a man for friendship and relationships. Try out new friend groups, new hobbies, new goals and skillsets.
This seems contradictory. Why seek friendships and relationships if they wont help me with my mission? Isn't trying out new friend groups and things just more validation seeking?

>>76293030
I guess this just seems difficult. I've been trying to do that my whole life. But when I've never received an ounce of positive validation from anyone, it seems hard to stop chasing it. To go and better myself and bust my fucking ass every day to be a better man and not have a single person even notice, let alone say they're proud of me.

In any case thanks for the advice. Hope you didn't take any of my shit the wrong way. I kinda wrote some word salads in there.

>>76293091
Disregard the middle statement I misread your sentence.

>>76293091
>I just figured there was something more
There is, self creation and self manifestation
> I never do shit with anyone unless there is an activity/work to be done
I see it in a plenty 1 to 1 chat as well. Men talking to each other in a gym for instance will always be off center looking at each other, or at a gym equipment shoulder to shoulder for instance. Or while sitting at a caffee here in the balkans.
>I was just saying that society IS casting out men like you, which must make it hard to have goals that help society, since they dont want men like you anymore
I know, and here I am showing you, not telling you, that I carved my own path beyond the "society" trying to box me in.
>Can't think of anyone I could call to come and fuck some shit up if I needed help. I'd probably just get a "ahh dude its too late man" or "ahhh dude my girl would be mad" all while I'd be there in 10 minutes
You build these kind of circles. I don't let anyone else in who isn't a dependable man who has his shit in order. I don't need or want a cheerleader or a kissass. I know how much I have done and my self esteem and self worth isn't built on emotional exchange. I want skillful men around me. So try and be skillful man that other men can depend on. Be on time, say what you mean, dont break a promise, learn how to set up a boundary with others, expect others to be as honorable as you. You will get burnt but you will learn from that.
>Why seek friendships and relationships if they wont help me with my mission?
Because they will help you with your mission. You never know from where help will come, and you never know if this new "friendship" will be of use. I am cordial with all, but most are not my friends. I will open up to new "friendships" and new experiences, and if I see we are not "fit" then no hard feelings, everyone has their own path.

>>76293096
>To go and better myself and bust my fucking ass every day to be a better man and not have a single person even notice, let alone say they're proud of me.
Well if it means anything, I am proud of you anon. I hear your struggles and see how hard you're trying to get better, even to get the most out of this conversation to push yourself to get better and not feel lonely. This is quite a noble characteristic that not many have, I will tell you that. You're on a right path if you have this mentality.

My last advice to you on this would be to make yourself mindful of your successes as a practice. Don't compare to others, just your own hurdles you did achieve to overcome. You are a guy worthy of love, start with self love and the world will reflect that energy back to you. People are standofish to people desperate of love, be comftorable with loving yourself.

>In any case thanks for the advice
Don't mention it, I am glad I could help someone

>Hope you didn't take any of my shit the wrong way
Your fears tell me that most people IRL missinterpreted your words due to mismatch in nonverbal communication (which is 80% of coms btw), be confident in what you say and who you are anon :)

>I kinda wrote some word salads in there
People who don't understand you never wanted to :)

Quitters never win and winners never quit. Dude should just keep trying if he actually cares

>>76277779
>>76282389
>>76285457
I'm gonna agree with the first guy and say yes, some people are just unlikeable.
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>>76277683
Same, I talk to managers like they're my teachers in school, minus addressing them as 'sir', I'm just not bantery. I'm likely a bit autistic so whatever.

>>76279548
It’s fun to throw them on the ground

>>76293125
>>76293133
Thank you anon, I genuinely appreciate it. You've painted a very different picture of yourself than I initially had to be honest. My only actual point that started this conversation was simply that the type of guy that would socially isolate and indirectly spite people like the guy in OP definitely exists, and much more commonly than people think.

>Your fears tell me that most people IRL missinterpreted your words due to mismatch in nonverbal communication
surprisingly this actually isn't true, im a pretty good communicator especially in person. i just tend to make little qualifications like that at the end because i like to be very precise, not due to anything thats happened in the past.

I'll take everything you said to heart. best of luck anon.

>>76277294 (OP)
So waht the fuck happened, what's the story with this shit

>>76277294 (OP)
Lol, just lol

>>76278974
I think this is the most likely thing, he was terrible on the field and got teased for it and he just took it the wrong way because he was in it for the social aspect more

>>76278619
I have a memory in elementary school during recess playing soccer and some kid a year ahead of me scolded me for something I did wrong, then later on he fucks up a shot that he should've gotten and he was fucking pissed. He was murmuring to himself after the bell rang, actually crazy to see a 9 year old with MJ tier competitiveness and none of the talent to back it up. Maybe in a little league game but a fucking random recess is crazy.

>>76280484
Anyone who’s ever played sports before knows that this is the actual truth. It’s probably not so much that they were being vehemently racist and he wouldn’t join in or anything so extreme but the general vibe of any locker room is pretty dudebro-ish. I can remember playing high school football and the guys in the locker room were snorting K2 off the bathroom sink and showing each other the nudes they’d received from the girls at school. I can remember one such occasion where we were riding home from a game and one of the guys had convinced a girl to send him a video of her fucking herself with a hairbrush handle and he, sitting at the front of the bus, held up the video in the air and let everyone watch; the entire bus erupted into violent laughter and it was referenced as a joke for months thereafter. You can’t have a goody two shoes telling on the what the fellas get into when no one else is around. That being mostly drugs, stories of sexual conquest, more drugs, and occasionally violence.

>>76277294 (OP)
>none of the guy would talk to him
how close to trooning out is her husband?
men are much less judgmental of spergs, especially in team sports.
as long as you do not actively sabotage or piss everyone off, you can tag along and will be treated as part of the group.

>>76277442
whatever you tell a woman, she will immediately tell everyone else.
you trusted her enough to tell her, which means she is ranking high in your social hierarchy, and she immediately has to let everyone know.
they can't see the irony either.

sometimes they are also just cunts and love humiliating people.

>>76277442
dont let your bitch on social media you queers, mine knows better.

>>76277683
your brain will slowly fall apart without a lot of social interaction, most of its function is made for this. Its fun and feels good, bur you have to want good things in your life first i guess.

>>76279020
>there are always a fucking of insecure male in any group.

maybe they should be fucked, teach them a lesson. But you are right. If youre tall and 7+ in looks it gets weird when youre surrounded by grumpy midges