>>76280921 (OP)I actually took the pill and here is what it did to me:
1. Best birth control ever as I became asexual, I physically couldn't get aroused anymore no matter what bf did
2. Gained 5 kg out of nowhere (was underweight before and after that)
3. Felt gross and unattractive no matter how clean and well dressed I got
4. Was tired all the time
I stopped taking it after breaking up with bf, immediately got my libido and energy back, then 2 months after started feeling bad, no period, I freaked out because I couldn't be pregnant as I broke up with bf but I didn't get it for 2 months. Turns out I got an ovarian cyst the size of an apple which was pushing on my organs. I was going to have surgery to remove it but somehow my body handled it on it's own, the doctor saw that it was slowly shrinking so they gave it time to heal. I got better, dropped the weight and felt better, but 4 months after got it again, this time smaller, but I didn't get my period for 2 months again.
It happened 3 times overall in the 1.5 years after I stopped the pill and now it's been a few years and I didn't get it again. Birth control is poison.
Later on my next bf asked me to put in and IUD so that he can stop using condoms, I straight up told him that if he wants to he can tie up his own tubes or insert whatever he wants into his dick or take any pill. I'm not doing anything like that to my body.
If a man asks his woman to do anything like that to herself only so that he can coom without a condom, dump him