>>76283768Men are so dumb about rape fantasies.
Read an actual saucy story or romance that women like, such as 50 shades of grey (I think that it's dumb af but I like other dirty novels).
What kind of "rape" does it pictures? Being drugged and raped by an ugly incel? Someone doing whatever humiliating thing with your body, using you? Nope, that's male rape fantasy.
Female rape fantasy is being firstly claimed and protected by a powerful, smart, attractive and mysterious man.
Then after your social and physical security is assured, this man forces you to explore *your own* sexual fantasies in a way that removes guilt from you.
For example I guess that I would like to try a butt plug, but I never used any sex toys before, and god knows that I'm not going to ask my boyfriend to use one on me, and if he offers I guess I would refuse because It's just feels too dirty.
But if I was abducted by a handsome pirate, he might force it on me and rid me of the shame of wanting to try that.
Do you get it now? In all women's novels it's the same fantasy, some very attractive man acting like he forces our own fantasies on us and also is binding us by a contract / marriage / other strong claim so that we don't feel ruined and used.
This is the source of the common female rape fantasy and it's nothing like the male one about using someone else freely (unless you're into bdsm, some women are - but only a small percentage).