Sometimes I feel bad about only deadlifting 140kg max, and only being able to do 1/2/3/4,or being bad at social interactions, and haven't had intercourse with a woman in 3 years, not being enough of a man or whatever, but then I remember this guy:

"I’m 24, a forever alone type guy, with ADHD and bad social skills. So several months ago I lost my virginity to a prostitute (she is also the first girl I ever kissed), but it was a struggle, I could not relax, my erection was going away and returning several times. 50min and I still didn’t cum, so she tried a handjob, but the poor girl got tired, so I took matters into my own super trained hand and finished the deed in around 30 seconds. This was not the best decision of my life, so I try to not think about that. Well... recently I found out that I got a nice souvenir in the form of herpes, obviously from her, since I didn’t have sex after that.

What makes this even more pathetic is that you cannot tell from outside, I’m tall, go to the gym and have I good paying job, so the doctor was telling me with a smirk on her face that it’s better to have a girlfriend than having hookups.

Also it was expensive…

I did not break the law and she is independent.

TL;DR: Lost virginity to a prostitute, not my best decision, kind of regret it. As a souvenir for life got herpes."

>>76297654 (OP)
That's the way she goes sometimes.

>>76297654 (OP)
I've also only fucked whores as of now and I am 32. Superficially you'd probably think it insane that I can't get any pussy at all unless I pay upfront, but actually the idea of just transacting for sex is growing more and more on me. Women in the west aren't worth the hassle. It's much more fun and convenient to just look up decent whores and honestly: It really IS cheaper compared to having a gf depending on how much you have to "change" into what women find attractive aka a walking money or more accurately "lifestyle-dispenser".

Hang out with the cool muscular guys from your gym, maybe you can from a party crew or something

140kg is not 4 plates, tho, it's just 3

>>76297686
>>76297711

What's the point? You're going out there risking running into her pimp, or getting an STD, I can understand risking it for a pornstar you've always dreamed of that you know for a fact would be careful and wouldn't give you an STD (like Skin Diamond for example, she's a chill girl) or you have a gf who isn't a virgin somehow, but otherwise, why would you knowingly risk a virus entering your body when you're on the /fit/ board? HSV although Harmless is still a virus with stigma surrounding it

I thank the gods i never caught anything because I also did this twice, none of the times were the same as getting it for free, they were so much worse, I couldn't even cum the 2nd time, I would argue that the less you as a man out upfront, the more enjoyable sex is. Like I've never manages to get laid after paying for dinner, but every girl who had a genuine interest in me I just took to the park and then we fucked at my house

If she doesn't want to sleep with you then she's just not that into you or she's not ovulating. Simple as.
What if you want to get a nice girl who's a virgin when you're 38 or 40, would you really risk giving her HSV, what did she do to deserve that?

Overall lifting and escorts don't mix together. Why do you need a vagina so badly, what benefits does it give you? I am against cooming as well, but it is remarkably much safer and more enjoyable than giving away your money like a paying. In my country you can fuck a top tier baddie for 85 dollars and I still refuse it, because she just lies down like a dead corpse, it's so transactional, room filled with cigarette smoke, just disgusting

>>76297728
Hey sorry yeah meant to write 160 my bad

>>76297742
... You're not really lifting at all, are you?

>>76297742
160 isn't 4 plates either though. 4 plates is 180... very suspicious

>>76297739
>In my country you can fuck a top tier baddie for 85 dollars and I still refuse it, because she just lies down like a dead corpse, it's so transactional, room filled with cigarette smoke, just disgusting
The risk of herpes is low, if there isn't a visible outbreak and I agree with you that sex with used up old whores who receive you in such an atmosphere is fucking disgusting. Premium sex costs a lot more, but I've never fucked a whore who just lies down like a dead corpse. The once I saw were always very engaged and you could have very intimate sex with them in a nice atmosphere like their apartment. One of them even put on a playlist that contained literal anime openings. Shit was so fucking comfy.

>>76297654 (OP)
>it's better to have a girlfriend than hookups
Anon, that doc was asking you out.

Imagine letting a bunch of internet weirdos who would be too shy to even make eye contact with you in real life let you decide how or what you do in the gym

I dont squat, deadlift or bench press, I do other lifts, but i look good, am lean, 6 pack, have good muscle mass, veins, sexy af

Think i give a nigger shit about muh big 3? kek

I could just post body and claim 2/3/4/5 for reps and you'd all believe it anyway

>>76297739
so you hired shit whores so you swore off whores. OK.
I tell you what. I've hired a bad electrician before. still hire electricians to do electrical work.

>>76297767
Nope, she's a hottie in town who is a former sports girl, super athletic. When I asked her if I could take her clothes off for her, she said no and took them on her own. Then she just lied down naked. Not allowed to touch her pussy either. Kissing her neck made her giggle so I wasn't allowed to do that either. Looking her in the eyes was weird too and made her laugh as well apparently. So I couldn't even put it in. She gave a great bj when I was stroking her hair but I was still so tense. Sex with an escort is 3/10, meanwhile girls who are ovulating are 10/10 but I'm bad at pulling like I said

I am only saying this because I was considering visiting her again today but I know it's gonna be the exact same shit with her, really beautiful so it's a shame, it also saddened me she seemed to be doing this when she obviously hates it

>>76297756
>>76297761
Can we get back to the original point and stop bickering? I do lift and I did mean to write 180 but I can only do it with a mixed grip and belt (both of which DO count)

>>76297739
>it's so transactional
Btw, read Orion Taraban's "The Value of Others: Understanding the Economic Model of Relationships to Get (and Keep) More of What You Want in the Sexual Marketplace"

It's a transactional world, you just get to decide how obfuscated you want your transaction to be.

>>76297798
>Can we get back to the original point and stop bickering? I do lift and I did mean to write 180 but I can only do it with a mixed
the fuck are you on about.
we're talking about whores.

>>76297786
Even when the experience was amazing with a girl, it was still transactional. I would rather stay at home if I can't have a girl really raping me because her clit is so big and she wants me

Maybe I'm too old, maybe I aged too much on 4 years. I had a model who was down to fuck at a club 4 months ago, we were kissing really deep, then she asked me if I knew what Travis Scott had done this week and if I heard the news..I said no? She said ick and walked away. Apparently now it's a requirement I need to know everything about Travis Scott.

>>76297812
For me it has never been transactional. Literally these girls would come to my place watch a movie and fuck. What were they getting out of it? The less I pay as a man the more they are attracted, it makes it more valuable to me

>>76297821
You seem to offer some compelling attraction factors that makes women very willing to offer you sex in hope of securing a relationship with you which they would later on use to keep transacting sex for whatever it is they want. You have to keep in mind relationships are used to transact unequal goods of similar value. So you listening to a women's complains and acknowledging her bullshit is also a way of transacting.

Sex is ultimately quite cheap as it can just be bought with money whereas the "commitment" most women are looking for is as expensive as it can get, so it's logical that women will throw sex at men whose commitment they want to secure. So as I initially stated you must have some strong attraction factors that speak to your local girls, but regardless of what a man has to offer, some of us are just in the wrong place at the wrong time. Without that attraction it quickly becomes more convenient to just buy sex.

>>76297838
I think they were just ovulating and were hyper feminine maybe with high test that gave them high libido? Honestly bro I just got lucky a few times, the girls were all without dads though and would sleep with pretty much anyone, the common thing is their dads had left them all at an early age