Friends, parties, social experiences, sexual experiences with women my age, all the things a normal, developing brain needs. I wasted all 4 years of high school and college hiding from everyone, now my chances are gone. People my age are getting married, I have no outlets to meet women or even make friends. My life is over, I wasted it. Every single day is the same, I work, sometimes go to the gym, come home to browse the computer and rot alone. I wasted my life.

Are those girls supposed to be attractive? Bodies look like 12-year olds.

demoralizing jew thread

>>76336163 (OP)
i started banging hookers at 30 and its been very enjoyable

>>76336184
Its not he same if you have to pay for it and they don't give it out willingly

>>76336163 (OP)
Middle girl looks 30. Right looks decently attractive from a side profile

>>76336170
Good.

>>76336163 (OP)
I dunno my son is pretty cool. As is being able to afford to go wherever I want

>>76336184
Std status?

IDK, I know people in medical school in their mid 20s in the same social situation as you. They at least have money and status to look forward to.

>>76336163 (OP)
Well lucky me. 20 years old with a girlfriend I fuck most nights and a good thing going in school. Should've learned how to contain your autism, bud.
>>76336192
Sex with a woman who loves you is way better than some vapid one time thing--paid or not.

>>76336192
i disagree
>>76336222
clean. and ive banged like 15 of them without a condom. hookers are actually safer than regular women in 1st world countries, they get tested constantly

grow tf up. Ur seriously limiting yourself if you think theres nothing more to life than getting ur dick wet and trapping a poor lady into a legal obligation of companionship. Seriously get over yourself or just end it all I'm sick of whiny bitches like you making doomer threads. It's teenager shit
Read walden by Henry David thoureau hear his stressed importance of solitude and go walk some mountains idgaf

>>76336163 (OP)
Just troon out.

>>76336170

>>76336245
how viable is it to hook up with strippers from a strip club? do you have experience there?

>>76336177
It's the same guy who posts the twinkstalker shit. He spams 4chan all day every day.

>>76336266
I'm from a relatively small city (pop <200,000) and we have one strip club here. I've hooked up with a number of them and will say you're dancing with fire, I imagine it's even worse if you're from a big city. Most strippers will fuck anyone if the "money's right"

>>76336299
interesting, thanks for the advice, what exactly makes it "dancing with fire", just STDs or any other fallout possible?

>>76336184

>>76336163 (OP)
get a hobby like kickboxing, hunting, hiking. pretty much anything that requires physical exercise or has a physical or stimulating reward at the end of it. you'll feel better about life, remember life isnt even about chasing whores and doing drugs. thats just a hedonistic thing that happens for 10 years of your adult life and hasnt really been a thing for the majority of human existence. the next 40 years is about raising your offspring and making sure they succeed and prosper

>>76336170
You answered your own question, so yes.

>>76336163 (OP)
>Friends, parties, social experiences, sexual experiences with women my age, all the things a normal, developing brain needs.
Did anyone do this? Are these normal?
>People my age are getting married, I have no outlets to meet women or even make friends. My life is over, I wasted it. Every single day is the same, I work, sometimes go to the gym, come home to browse the computer and rot alone. I wasted my life.
Just hang around younger people

>>76336543
what beard oil anon said, marry an old whore and raise her kids

>>76336245
>wanting to not use a condom with prostitutes
hahaha
>>76336266
HAAHAHAHAHAHAHA

This isn't the right way

>>76336561
Kek

>>76336163 (OP)
House parties are the only part I miss desu

>>76336163 (OP)
This picture is so old they must be mums with multiple children by now

>>76336163 (OP)
>I wasted my life
Shut up bitch. I'm 48 year old virgin. I was a dyel fat psycho (real psycho) for 15 years. You don't know what wasting your life means. But now I lift, bike and run long distances. I'm still a virgin, I don't have friends, and I still am crashing down with regret but if I can lift and train and have visible abs and muscle definition at my age and with my psycho history you have no excuse.

>>76336274
He literally lives here the faggot

>>76336579
How do you advise avoiding psychosis or other time wasting traps? I don't want to waste my life.

>>76336184
I started fucking hookers at 18, cheap brazilian hoes, overall probably like 20 of them so far but always used condom. You're crazy anon.

>>76336170
>if the woman isn't obese it pedophilia bro
El americano...

>>76336192
Priorities, you pay for it either way, just as a hubby you have to pay attention and hassel yourself over minor shit

>>76336170
no 12-year old looks like this, you're mentally ill

>>76336558
>Just hang around younger people
younger people don't want to hang around weird old spergs, if they want to hang out with older people it'd be people with sociable extraverts who bring value and don't kill the vibe

>>76336663
how do you know? you wasted your life

>>76336567
what's the right way? I can't do clubs/bars

>>76336665
I have a brain and understand social hierarchies and dynamics

blackpillers need to fucking die

>>76336163 (OP)
i was a shut in during high school and college and im now 25 in the best shape of my life. turned a qt 20yo latina into my gf life is good

>>76336307
STD's are a concern for sure, also like most strippers tend to not be mentally stable people. Not all of them, but there's obviously a type that goes for stripping. It's just a bad mix, if you want to live the fantasy I recommend trying it once but I'd advise against anything beyond that

>>76336163 (OP)
>Friends, parties, social experiences, sexual experiences with women my age, all the things a normal, developing brain needs
not me. I'm on the path to wizardry

>>76336163 (OP)
i started doing all the things you mentioned at 27, not even kidding. thats when i was living with my best buds, dropped out of university and started going out and socializing more (uni was eating all my time and energies). Started drinking and smoking and taking drugs occasionally, started going to clubs, concerts and parties, started doing a lot of casual sex with girls younger than me. I am 33 now and i dont want to stop, i work in entertainment, i still go to parties, i still bang young chicks, i do sports and work out, i feel amazing. I generally dont care about having a family, a stable job or anything like that. And it took me 27 years of my life to realize this

>>76336246
how to achieve this look as a man?

>>76336962
so how do I go socialize as an old person in my late 20s to make friends and do all these things? How do you even meet women, is it just at parties and clubs or is it through friends?

>>76336943
ok that makes sense, as for "trying it once" do you mean just visiting or trying for sex? Also how do you escalate to sex with a stripper?

>>76336246
Kill yourself

>>76336973
for my studies i moved to a bigger, busier city with lot of universities and youngsters, so it was kinda natural going out and socialize. Many people were there just for that, getting wasted and vibe with each other. Also one of my flatmates worked at a bar where many girls hanged around, socializing and casual sex were encouraged. I installed tinder as well. Overall your surroundings matter a lot, you cant find all of that in a small village/city

>>76336990
OK sure, but you went there originally to study which would give you in an "in" with other students, how do you meet people when you're a wagie and there's no common connection. Also, what population count qualifies as a bigger/busier city?

>>76336979
Troon yourself

I finished my bench press sets and i walked to the lat pull down machine and there was a 19 year old doing her sets and i asked her how many sets left
>she told me just one
>smiles at me
>smile back and tell her 'don't rush'

After 5-6 mins we met again and i asked when did she join this gym and she told me like 3 days ago and her body was facing me the whole convo and after that i asked for her IG and we talked for like 10 mins more on the ab machines. I think she is into me but i'm not sure, her face kinda changed when i told her my age. Should i let it flow and wait to meet her again in the gym or just hit her up on Insta? I’m 32

>>76336163 (OP)
It's never over. I made my first real friend in my thirties. I had pretty much given up on life already but somehow I managed to become close friends with a female coworker of mine. She's married but she's the best friend I've ever had and has been healing my shattered soul and giving me hope that maybe one day I too can find love.

>>76337002
where do you live? i was in an italian 300k people city, but with a very high youngster/population ratio (lot of universities). There were venues and clubs and bars open at any time of the day all week. Lot of welcoming people as well, i just went there with a friend and socialize. Sometimes even alone. Other euro cities where i felt the same vibe are berlin, madrid and bristol but im sure there are many more

>>76337002
>>76337021
also, dating apps. If you're not a complete autist, they work fine for meeting new people and get laid

>>76336163 (OP)
there's a lot of social shit that you can show up to without even rsvping in your 30s...the real loneliness is in the 60+ crowd that's given up on relationships and exerting effort socially i think

>>76336962
>I am 33 now and i dont want to stop
I'm 32 and recently broke up with my 28 gf, how do you manage the relationships with a 22 y.o for example? Do you get hate from your surroundings? Do you reveal your age to them? Share some tips

guys. if you want to meet women after college. you have to be willing to do stupid shit women like:
>tarot readings or zodiac signs
>buying overpriced coffee at starbucks 8-9am
>dance
>eating lunch at le madeline or anything french
>fragrances, food, and drugs (things that are sensory stimulus, that includes music that's too loud)
>pretending you can tell the difference between 5 different shades of blue
learn to pretend to like all that stuff. and women will think you're really special. like a hot woman that actually likes boardgames.

>>76337021
okay, Im not OP btw, I live in a city in new zealand of around ~200000 but people are pretty cold here compared to a euro country, people basically make their friendship circle from high school/uni and stick to it, I imagine its a much different culture over there. How difficult would it be to move to Italy and learn Italian?
when you said "large city" I was thinking 1 million+, there's one city like that here and a few in Australia which is the nearest places I can think of that aren't SEA.

>>76336163 (OP)
I know it's pasta and I've seen this thread before, but the thing is aside for that sex and parties these people have nothing else going for them in their lives. As soon as it's over they start moping about "MUH GOOD OLD DAYS" like a broken record. I know because I have a friend like that who went from incel to fratboy back to incel.

>>76337009
she's 19. there are 20 other men trying to bone her after you were done working out. yes hit her up on insta dude. you got a lead. close the sale.

>>76337051
>there are 20 other men trying to bone her after you were done working out
How are you so sure? No one else approached her, when do i send her a message?

>>76337036
literally never been an issue, no one has ever judge me for dating a younger girl.
Hadnt been in a long term relationship in a while though, only short term dating. Long term isnt just for me right now
>>76337039
i see, i have some friends that stayed in new zealand for a while. They praised the nature and beauty of the country but yeah, they picture the people there as very shut in and reserved, which i can respect. Here in europe we have a different mood. Also some parts of latin america i've been to (just avoid the risky ones).
I'd say go visit some cities like berlin, barcelona and bologna if you get the chance, and see if that might be for you. Language is difficult but many young people speak english fluently these days, especially in places germany or northern europe

>>76337038
>pretending you can tell the difference between 5 different shades of blue
I've heard this stuff from every male friend I've ever had and I don't understand if I'm special or everyone else is retarded or blind.
How can you look at picrel and don't recognize the differences?
I'm not autistic, but when I'm choosing a color for something (say, a shirt) and they ask me why am I looking at shirts of the same color and I explain that one is lemon and the other straw and the other is saffron and the other is canary etc and they "bro it's all the same yellow" I don't get it

>tfw went to countless parties back in high school and college, not just parties but also music festivals, concerts, bars, clubs everything and I STILL never even managed to experience a single kiss in my life, let alone anything more
I'm the quintessential failed normalfag

>>76337039
>How difficult would it be to move to Italy and learn Italian?
Italian here.
Learning the language in order to live here isn't that hard even if Italian has a milion small fucked up grammatical and syntax rules 'cause nobody knows how to talk "proper Italian", as long as you can communicate basic shit with the worst accent ever you're good enough, there's no "ESL pointing" like the kind you read around here, nobody gives a shit, I've seen niggers being able to communicate decently enough two weeks after their arrival
Moving here and legally stay for an extended period is highly dependant on personal legal factors and financial situation, and varies from zone to zone

>>76337071
> literally never been an issue, no one has ever judge me for dating a younger girl.
I’m just coming back to the game, like where do you hang out with the 19 year olds? Do you take them for brunch and shit?

>>76337056
I would've immediately so I wouldn't forget to. lol.

>>76336163 (OP)
i'm no nofap fuck you

>>76337078
yea. your friends have no game. I would've just told you to go with the saffron.

>>76336163 (OP)
But at least your employer is happy!

>>76336170
That's probably from the 00s or early 10s, when white slim women actually existed.

>>76336244
>Sex with a woman who loves you is way better than some vapid one time thing
Not really.

>>76336163 (OP)
There is the silicone pill

>>76337071
>They praised the nature and beauty of the country but yeah, they picture the people there as very shut in and reserved, which i can respect
Yes this is very accurate, when I've traveled I the thing I miss the most here is the nature.
Thanks for the input I'll start looking more into European cities, I've always thought about trying someplace different and if that was my problem this whole time.
>>76337089
ok thanks that's good to know, I've been to a couple of other European countries where the language barrier seemed higher.

>>76337106
You meme, but if you are currently fucking a slim, young, white woman, you are in the top 10% of sexual success for young males.

>>76336955
4 more years for me, brother.

>>76337092
i usually ask them if they want to go out for a drink when they are free, then take them out somewhere nice for a beer and some chit chat

>>76336163 (OP)
>I do these things that waste my life
>I won't change it though
You deserve to rot.

>>76337181
Damn i don't drink, also i met her today and i'm gonna leave for the weekend, should i arrange from now or dm her on Monday?

>>76336163 (OP)
Yeah op I did the same thing. Now I’m in my 30s and never been more depressed, more miserable, more suicidal. I’m a complete loser and have never experienced anything in my life. Nothing fun, no life experiences, nothing. The only thing keeping me going every day is my own cowardice of suicide.

>>76336163 (OP)
>probably not even 30
>life is over
With this attitute your garunteed to have a really shit rest of your life for the next 40 years.

Its simply depression.

Lets say you were mentally well adjusted ages 16-20. You met some girls, you flirted with some girls, you had sex with some girls. A lot of the time you will break up with the girl you had a relationship with and then what, youre in the situation you are bit with a bit more dopamine activities sprinkled throughout

Depressed people like yourself use your past as an excuse to not have to try. You are terrified of failure which makes up a part of your condition. You are so scared of trying new things that you seek out past failures to use as justification for never having to try.

You need to get some hobbies, some goals, some friends and a social life my man.

>>76337225
i feel like im going to vomit and shit myself and start sweating when im nervous.

>>76337225
based brother WAGMI

>>76337009
>girl in gym doing hip thrusts in late 2023
>asks me to give her a hand unracking her weights cause she has a hand injury
>1-2 other guys there iirc
>do so
>friends having words giving me shit saying NOOOOO SHE WAS TRYING TO COME ONTO YOU YOU WERE MEANT TO ESCALATE
I thought they were being total brainrotted retards but I wonder what you /fit/zens think

>>76337258
I also used to have panic attacks just talking to girls

A lot of it in my case was down to dopamine abuse. Porn, drugs, alcohol, gaming. Once I stopped abusing my dopamine system I was more relaxed in every scenario

>>76337284
she wanted you retard

>>76337296
>havnt been sober in 12 years
Working on it. I have a gf who i met when she messaged me on a dating site and she is still the only pretty girl i can talk to. I think i just have an inferiority complex with pretty women.

>>76337225
>You need to get some hobbies, some goals, some friends and a social life my man.
What if I already have some hobbies some goals some friends and a social life, but still a passive kissless virgin loser?

>>76337299
>hand injury
>asks for help in a nearly empty gym
>comply
Why the fuck does it have to be any more complicated than that? I've never been fat but I wasn't super lean back then (my veins on arms etc have been way more prominent) and I was doing Yates rows at a sad 195lbs lol

>>76337305
Use a datiing app

>one chance at life
>unlucky enough to be born a zoomer who had his university experience ruined by covid

it's fucking crazy to think if i had just been born a few years earlier, i'd be fine. if i had been born a few years later, i'd be fine. But nope, i just had to be born in the early 2000s

>I'll never go to a frat party
>I'll never hang out and stay over at a girl's dorm

I hope reincarnation is role for the sole reason I want to experience a normal university life

>>76337313
If you see university as the one chance to become cool and successful then you are more likely the person that would sit in their dorm room crying about not living the university life you expected to be living

Theres no reason you cant go to parties now, make friends and go clubbing now, and meet girls now

>>76337313
Ypu cpukd go out and socialize right now. In 10 years you will regret sitting sround crying instead of making memories.

>>76337307
I worked in bars between college terms and it was low tech in terms of how you clocked in/out and the rotas were done via a facebook group so our profiles got shared with each other and she sent friend request and got to us chatting a lot online, sometimes shit like when she saw a character from a skit on Family Guy that shared my first name and sent me photo of that to make fun of me, etc. and I still wonder two years on if I was supposed to escalate but then despite getting on and having fun in person I didn't necessarily detect sexual interest, like one time the supervisor on duty tells me to go with her to the stock room closet to get stuff and she's like 'no it's fine I've got this', so shutting down an opportunity to be alone in a room with me. I like to think it was simply me sex and relationship starved brain trying to see things that weren't there.

>>76337313
Since corona, only elite trust fund babbies are really doing the traditional residential university student thing- no one gains any return on their investment in college, but only kids of millionaires take on the 100K in debt cause it won't be but a small dent in their finances later.

>>76337316
>Theres no reason you cant go to parties now, make friends and go clubbing now, and meet girls now
NTA but I'm making a move to LONDON later this year and wonder what my strategy for meeting should be, best stuff I can think of is the hobbies I like (combat sport, a cook thing, improv, etc.) or going to one of those wild and publicised pub crawl things for holidays that happen during the year. Like if I lived in that city right now, I'd be going for a 4th July pub crawl after work

>>76337316
>>76337317
>Theres no reason you cant go to parties now,
Which parties? With who?

>>76337338
Go to cool hipster places that have small DJ nights and such. They're intimate spots that generally rely on friends and word of mouth to populate them. As such you can 'join the scene' and make friends with all the locals who will be happy youre turning up .

Theres probably loads of ones you can go to in the evening, then once youre friends with those people you can meet up with them

Thats what id do anyway, only works if youre into drinking (and drugs) though.

>>76337344
I was in my late 20s living near campus and i would just walk into house parties and sell weed.
Idk though, if you dont have any friends who have parties now you wouldnt have had friends who throw parties then. Going to college isnt a magical thing where thats the only way you get invited to parties

>>76337225
everyone who uses "my man" seems to be plain retarded

>>76337316
the reason why university is a life-defining experience is because it's sort of the best of both adolescence and adulthood. you have the freedom of being an adult without any of its responsibilities.

also, it's arguably the last time in your life where people are open to making friends and socializing. once you pass 25, people don't have the time, energy, or desire to meet new people

>>76337351
I assume that was many years ago, right?

the problem is nowadays zoomers are basically brainwashed to hate anyone even slightly older than them.

If you tried to do that nowadays, you would probably get the cops called on you

>>76337361
They actually hate them? Lol I thought it was simply them being neurotic as all fuck about aging past 25

>>76337361
Idc what generation, there will always be oldheads hanging around certain parts of any decent sized college.

>>76337361
I was a TA until last year so I hung out with zoomers. I was in my early 30s. Not exactly at large parties though

>>76337219
I didn't party at all in my 20s, because I didn't want to. I never liked that shit. I still got laid and had friends though, you're just a retard. Now I'm almost 33 and life is great. Have you tried trying? The fuck is wrong with you, you're still young in your 30s there's loads of shit you can do.

>>76337443
>Now I'm almost 33 and life is great
What age is your current gf?

>>76337443
>you're still young in your 30s

>>76337464
The average 30 year old has 40-50 more years.

>>76337479
The average 30 year old also shouldnt be hanging out and partying with teens
Go home to your family lol pay off your mortgage and start prepping your retirement

>>76337491
Otherwise?

>>76337491
Im not hanging around parties or desiri g to do so. It's you who is crying about never having been to a party. Just tryi g to let you know you can go to parties, but you arent for the sane reason you never did. Cowardice.

>>76337494
Otherwise you’re the weird old guy by himself hanging out with kids
If that’s what you wanna do then be the best you can be at it

>>76337448
30, met her when she was 28

>>76336655
they look 14.
>there are no 12 year olds that look like thi-
ok i dont know what shithole country you're from but yes, a lot of girls look like this in california at 12 when i was growing up there. only the one on the far right with the face makes her look mid 20's but her body, no

>>76337491
lol, I love hearing zoomies say shit like this, you're all gonna commit suicide when you hit 30 and I'm looking forward to it, brain-rot retard.

>>76337508
>30

>>76337519
I don't want to have kids anyway, for a bunch of incel faggots you guys are all weirdly obsessed with having kids, none of you should be having children anyway. You're all mentally ill

>>76337519
My brothers wife gave him two beautiful daughters in their late 30s.

>>76337522
Hehe we got another one, Moshe! Praise be to Adonai!

>>76337507
Thanks
Will do
I've chosen heady freedom and the chilling weight of independence
I'd rather be hated being myself than loved being something else

>>76337522
>I don't want to have kids anyway
SNOY
Ancestor cry, you are the last branch of the family tree
>>76337526
>two beautiful daughters
Ancestor cry, family name dies
Cucked bloodline

>>76337535
You have no kids, gf, friends. Probably no prospects in life. I doubt your ancestors are proud.

>>76337535
>a servant of the Demiurge appears, trying to appease his master
vade retro, feorhgeniðla
I won't separate souls from Sophia

>>76337313
University is such a small sliver of your life that you shouldn't get hung up over it.

>>76337539
Projection
Mad lol
Your family name is no more
>>76337544
Meds

>>76337560
Cry harder incel

>>76337554
>posts a panel from a story whose main character suffers from lifelong trauma due to shit that happened in an even smaller sliver of his life
Why doesn't Guts just stop giving a fuck about his fear of attachment and ceases having an avoidant, fearful personality and starts accepting other people? Is he stupid?

>>76337527
>>76337535
I don't give a shit about my ancestors or my bloodline. All I care about is puss, and I get a lot more of it than you do

>>76337491

median property purchaser in US is 56 you are retard bugman

>>76337554
It's actually not, though. It's the most important years of your life.

Think about it
>university determines your degree, which determines your job, which ultimately decides what financial situation you will be in until you die
So yeah, those 4 years from 18 - 22 (or longer if you do grad school) basically determine the rest of your life.

>>76337573
Oh yeah? And what if I go to uni at 30? Wouldn't that make 30-34 the years that determine the rest of my life?

>>76337491
lmao get a load of this faggot

>>76337573
that is not life and you wouldnt convince me otherwise shlomo

>>76337009

You're way too old for her. Leave her alone for the young dudes.

I am 31 years old and I never even kissed a girl

>>76337590
I was about to ghost her but I’m gonna fuck her just because you typed that

>>76337573
The only thing college did for me was show that I was going to be a complete loser for the rest of my life. That’s literally all it did for me. When I failed socially there, and didn’t do well academically in a pretty useless degree, I knew life was over.

>>76337573
>university determines your degree, which determines your job,
theres no chance you're at college level age. you're literally delusional for saying this when ppl hop degrees non stop. they dont determine it, YOU determine it and YOU determine how long it takes. even people who chose right the first time and never switched understand this from seeing all their friends go through it. you must be 18 to post here.

>>76337379

They saw you as an oldhead unc.

>>76337607
NTA i went back to college from 29-33, the kids thought i was their age and kept asking for my insta. not everyone looks old or is ugly when they lift

>>76337595

She'll probably ghost you since your age gave her the ick. Can't you find a 29 year old woman to date?

Go look at the dating profiles of most 19 year olds most don't set their range above 23 and put it as a dealbreaker they are NOT trying to fuck unc unless you're a millionaire.

>>76337573
>It's the most important years of your life.
Only because you make it so in your head, nigger. You literally define yourself by what job you can possibly get, I can't think of a more loser mentality than tying my self-worth to a job. Hopefully you'll figure that out when you grow up.

t. former intelligence analyst who was fluent in Mandarin, in case you think I'm a janitor or something.

>>76337630
She seemed to be into me, but you never know I’ll guess we’ll find out soon

>>76337590
>>76337595
>>76337630
Zoomie mad he can't get girls, seethes over young teenagers being with a real man since zoomie boys barely act like they're older than 12. I took an 18 year old cuties virginity as a 34 year old man, she was a stupid fuck but on the pill so I could creampie her as much as I wanted to.

>>76337338
when I lived there everyone was depressed. so everyone is really approachable because they're just so happy someone is actually talking to them. which is you.
also because of their depression. the women love houseplants are gardening. so cursory knowledge of botany will go far in conversations.

>>76337109
You have the same problem as women who rode the cock carousel, you can't pair-bond. Maybe you're a dark triad type and genuinely never could, but the conclusion is the same: you're not really human.

>>76337685
>you're not really human.
Anything a human does is humane; the inhuman doesn't exists within the human, it's the rejection of oneself
No human act is neither divine nor devilish, and no human can act but in a human way
To deny this is to make idols out of shadows

ITT: kissless virgins and failed normalfags

>>76337703
This is a load of bullshit philosophy speak for sociopaths that were abused by their parents.

Yes you are mentally damaged, yes you are incompatible with the human experience, yes you will fuck over other people should you get the opportunity and then play the victim in the situation, yes its unfair, yes you are mentally fucked

>>76336163 (OP)
Fag.
36 and I'm the strongest I've ever been, I have intelligent and good looking kids who share similar interests with me, but still like their own things, too. Their mom did died, but I've been dating a 28yo autismo recovered chubster with low self esteem for 3 years now who was a literal virgin until we met and is now hyperfixated on the gym, biking, cooking, baking, gardening, and vidya. Can't take her anywhere without getting jealous looks from DYEL fags. Life isn't perfect, there is bad shit, but it feels like I won the lottery with these things in particular.

Stop being a faggot. Reject the false reality your ego creates and make your own as you see fit.

>>76337712
Your understanding of humanity is reductive, you're blind and proud of the darkness you inhabit.
>He who does not want evil will have no chance to save his soul from Hell. So long as he remains in the light of the upper world, he will become a shadow of himself

>>76337736
I appreciate your joker-esque statements about letting the darkness envelop you but simply put, you dont have a choice in the matter since you are mentally fucked already

People that are not mentally damaged by abusive parents need not welcome sociopathic behaviour into their lives.

>>76337739
>sociopathic behaviour
You want this to exists as a rejection of what you don't want to recognize within you: the OTHER is sick and I'm not, this is your idol
>Whoever wants to be a doctor of the soul sees people as being sick. He offends human dignity. It is presumptuous to say that man is sick
But you don't want to accept the human that is hidden within you, for you kiss the feet of the inhuman-as-real

>>76337720
please tell me this isnt a larp

>>76336170
out of 10

>>76336184
Based. I did at 32 when I lost my v-card. It's fun but expensive, I'm at 21 different girls

The summer after I turned 30 (last year) was one of the best of my life. At the start of the year I was a bit bored, all I'd been doing was work, gym and meeting some people at a pub on saturdays. Then I spontaneously booked a trip for a week to go surfing (never surfed before) and stayed in a hostel. It remains one of the best weeks of my life. Within a day of arriving I had met everyone in the hostel and was talking to them like I'd known them for years. I have stayed at some other good hostels and had other good social experiences since but nothing has hit the same peak so far. That experience totally changed my outlook, I was on a high for weeks and I still feel more socially relaxed and confident to this day.

>>76336163 (OP)
Zoomers turn 23 years old and be like "I'm too heckin old to experience things - I'm a epic boomer now"

>>76336163 (OP)
Jesus fuck these bitches are flat and have huge foreheads. Are they all incestually related? Like damn lol

>>76337806
i'm a millenial and my generation did the same shit, this isnt new. and i noticed it heavily as i'm a shut in that only goes outside to go to the gym and never been to a party.
>i'm too old to party at 26 i'm so old i just wana stay in and not go to clubs
bitch you're 26 life isnt over

>>76337792
Surfing where? I imagine location is crucial

>>76337325
Anyone got insight into this? I still gives me headaches occassionally.

>>76337823
I still go to clubs with my wife and I'm 34.

>>76337838
i'm 36. i dont dance, so what would you even do there? just drink and try to socialize over the loud music? i genuinely dont know what you do there or the appeal. again i'm a shut in and have been since the 90s, and i'm married

>>76337829
Surfin USA

>>76337849
Learn to dance, it's fun.

>>76336211
yea you either win at life by 30 and get to enjoy fatherhood and being a husband...or stay in the muck dooming that it's over

>>76337849
how the fuck are you a shut in since the 90s but married

>>76337871
I married my sister, she's a shut in too

>>76337868
feels too akward, i try too dance with my daughter and i still feel weird but im' encouraging her
>>76337878
i joined the marines, and yes i was a shut in every second i wasn't required to be doing something outside, and it's how i got my gym habit

>>76337871
>fatherhood
>marriage
>winning at life
Anon sees picrel and thinks "that's righ kid!"

>>76337565
I accept your concession
>>76337569
>im perfectly fine owning nothing and doing nothing and leaving nothing behind!!
>were all heckin space dust and nothing matters!!!
>I just wanna do drugs and have sex with busted prostitutes!!!
>>76337570
Maybe if you’re shitty with money and live in a hellhole city
>>76337583
I did and said nothing wrong

>>76337889
guess i'm still being vague, it was at the airport going home for the holidays is when i met her

>>76337823
>i'm a millenial and my generation did the same shit, this isnt new. and i noticed it heavily as i'm a shut in that only goes outside to go to the gym and never been to a party.
millennial as well, and never noticed/experienced that, just the opposite.

probably moreso because we re the last generation to really go out to bars and clubs and music festivals etc whereas zoomers mostly just sit at home filming tik toks or gooning on discord and all that modern internet shit.

not that we didn't have internet shut-ins in our days, but they were the exception rather than the rule.

>>76337895
>Diogenes must be crazy and sorrowful, for he's unmarried, has no property, lives like a dog and follows no law but what he trusts

>>76337566

It's healthier and smarter to wield an absurdly large sword than accept other people.

>>76337897
i'll concede on a lot of points, but i swear that's all i heard in my mid 20's from my peers, maybe it's just the people i was around who were like me

>>76337907
Interesting therapeutic approach, you could be founder of a new branch of mental self-help

>>76337806
>>76337823
>>76337897
I was born in very early 1992 and every day of my life it pains me to think about how I've been a shut in for my entire life. I was born in the last timeframe (well it went through the mid 90s really, but the late millennial period) when people didn't just do everything inside, and I never experienced any of it. High school house parties in the mid-late 2000s before smartphones really exploded, college parties in the early-mid 2010s, dating in those years before dating apps, and I just never experienced any of it. Never been to bars, never been to a nightclub in my life, never been to a festival.

Every day of my life I just think about everything I've missed out on, and it isn't even like I did anything else good, it isn't like I became some millionaire in the time I spent not doing anything, or became a professional athlete or was a top wow player or something. Sitting here just having done nothing, having accomplished nothing.

>>76336163 (OP)
>here's nothing to look forward to in life after your mid 20s
Literally the first thread that shows up on FIT when i returned here.

You all are so fucking gay. Just kill yourselves if youre so depressed. Fuckoff with shittying up this board with your mental illness.

Honestly, literally just go die? Fucking loser.

>>76337927
bro i waas born in 97 i still go to clubs and fuck 18 year old women lol i even had a 4 year dry spell between 20-24.

we got muscular deranged chick fuck strange china dick we go do good gym

>>76336246
nice tummy :3

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ugqI2bP-n8s

>>76337905
>Diogenes must be crazy and sorrowful
He was, yes
He was a hermit that jerked off in public and didn’t believe in anything besides making scenes

>>76337927
I’m 1992 Chad and wasted most of my 20’s aswell and today I got the instagram of a 19 year old girl, just start lifting and talk to people

>>76337754
Definitely not, anon.
Don't get me wrong. I've been through some shit, and the death of the kids' mom was horrible on all of us, especially my son, but goddammit I'm so tired of seeing blackpilled fuckheads give up before their trials even begin.

My son was 11 years old when his mom died. He openly contemplated suicide, believed nothing mattered, got in a ton of trouble at school, and gave me the only panic attack I've ever experienced. But one day, I got tired of hearing that defeatist bullshit, smacked him across the face, and essentially told him he was a bitch for giving up.

I explained to him that he was taking on all these adult problems and emotions, but forgot to be a fucking kid. I told him it wasn't his job to be a man yet, and to let me do my job, shoulder this for the family and that I would teach him how to be a man when he was ready. Almost immediately, he stopped getting in trouble, and started getting back into little boy interests like cars, guitar, and Legos. We just finished a 10 mile bike ride together yesterday, and he's helping his grandad change a power steering pump later today.

Life isn't fucking easy. If it was, it wouldn't be worth it.

>>76337909
sure, population samples and all that. Like I said there were less internet shut-ins back in the day but the ones that were of course were extremely online. I had some friends who only went out at arcades as teenagers and then a few times at like pool halls as young adults but quickly became extremely online.

>>76336246
just poppoing in this thread to say thouraeu is a hack who had his mommy stop by to give him his food. walden is an og american grift about an upper crust NEET lmao. don't ever take advice from it or people who reference it in a positive light.

>>76337983
black pill ideology has been worse for men than actual women and feminism

>>76337999
Blackpill has set me free and i'm now living my best life

>>76337927
>Never been to bars, never been to a nightclub in my life, never been to a festival.
Those things still exist.

and honestly 99.99999999% of high school/college parties are n o t h i n g like what you imagine and see in like american tv shows and parties. It was mostly just girls dancing around with other girls after having exactly one (1) drink and being all "haha christy is SO crazy" because she walked around the living room with the chip bowl on her head. The guys would just be sitting in a corner drinking playing some meme party game like beer pong or something.

I was le weed stoner guy as my main personality for a few years especially since weed was still illegal back then and whenever I pulled out a joint people acted like I was pulling out 10 kilos of cocaine. When I was with normies I'd be lucky to find two people willing to get high because everyone was like "oh no oh jeez I have work in 36 hours I can't get high sorry!" and then we'd have to like smoke behind the toolshed or something. Then all the normies would be like "haha anon omg you're so high ahah your eyes are so red haha how many fingers am I holding up haha do they look like hot dogs haha don't eat me haha do you need some water do you have to sit down are you okay haha omg"

but then the parties where everyone was smoking weed and people would be pulling out cocaine were just introvert central with no one dancing because the only music playing was shitty metal or something, sometimes people would be playing cards and there would be a movie playing without the sound on, but mostly everyone would get too fucked up to socialize. It would be like 3 or 4 groups of friends sitting separately from the other groups of friends not really socializing outside of their immediate circle.

Bars, clubs, pool halls, music festivals, raves and tiny music venues were always much more fun than house parties.

>>76337952
And yet Alexandros envied him
Surely you're greater then the Great?

>>76338049
>>76337927
Oh but one thing I do miss is how back then you could like have sex in public without it ending up on porn sites or having your career and life ruined, you could also piss your pants or cry and throw up without it also ending all over social media as a funny meme. Cell phones were still just cell phones and most people didn't make it a habit of carrying digital or film cameras with them at all times.

I especially feel for girls who would flash their tits or get naked at concerts. That was just a special moment for you and everyone else in the room or open air crowd. It happened and luckily you saw it and then it stopped existing as soon as the girl but her shirt or clothes back on. It made it all the more special.

>>76338073
>a story written in a story about a guy that has numerous different variations
>he totally met him bro and totally envied him

>>76336184
>>76336192
>>76336645
Yeah, you pay either way. Also if you're into any fetish it's probably a lot easier to satisfy with a hooker than through some one night stand or even a gf.

>>76338084
Reality is whatever narrative I accept as true, and whatever narrative I write is true
So yes, they met and Alexandros wept, for he was not Diogenes

>>76338102
>Yeah, you pay either way.
This is the copiest of copes that hooker coomers come up with

>I mean really, what does the average date with a femoid cost? 500$? and no guaranteed sex?

>>76337927
>Never been to bars, never been to a nightclub in my life, never been to a festival.
don't know if it helps, but I've done all of the above countless times and I'm still a kissless virgin loser solving Captchas so there's that

>>76338049
this. house parties are just girls and guys separated. couples making out. seemingly no amount of alcohol can get single girls or guys to leave the safety of their group. once in a while you get a miracle though. i have seen exactly 1 guy confirmed to get laid "naturally" in my 4 years of college house parties. (confirmed because nearly every frat guy will claim to have gotten ass from a girl at a party. none do.)

>>76338123
well in my case there would be groups of guys and girls mixed together, but in one specific group who say knew the party hostess from work, and then the next group over would also be a few other girls + guys who knew the party hostess from high school, and then the next mixed group were all childhood friends or something or other.

Women were more likely to socialize across different friend groups, but guys just around with whoever they already knew.

>>76338049
>>76338123
Huge ass house parties with many different friend groups coming in are shitty and boring, but a small gathering of a group where everybody are friends where everyone all gets drunk is good fun.

>>76336184
Ends up being a lot of money for what it is

>>76338106
Schizophrenia

>>76338181
It's called confidence

Enjoy your time at the gym.

>>76338113
if you're poor and don't value your time and have no kinks and can easily attract attractive girls, then yeah just stick to dates. I don't care.

>>76338123

It happens more at frat parties because girls are more loose there and women are more willing to grind with guys.

>>76338165
it would have been even more money for what it could have been

>>76338297
why does it make a difference whether it's a frat party? Are guys in frats more likely to be athletes or attractive? Is it because they have trust funds and throw money around without a care?

>>76336244
>Sex with a woman who loves you is way better than some vapid one time thing--paid or not.
sure but it's not the same as slamming tf out of some 20 year old sloot while she says "fuck me i'm your whore" when you know your new neighbors (a qt and her dad) can hear you blowing her back out through the walls after you volunteered to help them move couch they got stuck in their door a few days prior a la the friends "pivot" scene

>>76336163 (OP)
>t. 20 20s
lmao what a retard
t. only read the thread title

after 30 is about preserving your body and mogging others financially

>>76338409
90% of men fall apart hard by age 24 (4 years of uni wrecks them) and fall apart even more by age 30(about 5 years into full time work). By age 32, it is over for 90% of males.

For girls, it is totally over by 25.

>>76338417
it always flabbergasts me when i see endlessly posted on here how women are done by age 25 or something usually under 30. so basically youre all saying that any girlfriend you have for a number of years, your wife, mother of your children, etc. are all just garbage

>>76338347
>i'm your whore
sounds cringe to me

>>76338425
Yes, objectively unattractive and walled. What is your problem? Probably your culture, white, is simpy. People would tell me, “your mom USED to be pretty.”
Western and white culture is just very simp. White girls wall the hardest too and white men are natural cucks.
This is why a legal marriage really doesn’t benefit men. Its just good for a girl so she doesn’t hit the wall alone and spend the rest of her life alone

>>76338347
Lol no, the shit doesn't change with age and you can do it with someone you loved

>>76338425
People like you and posts like yours are the ones that dont like these comments because it means your wife and gf are objectively unattractive no matter what you think

>WAAAAAH WAAAAH WAAAAAAAAHHHHHH
thrilling thread

>>76336184
im almost there

>>76338425
Thanks for making your posts. It confirms to me why so many men get defensive because agreeing would mean ltr gf and wife is objectively walled and not worthy for hor single men or men.
> flabbergasts me
Imagine honestly being flabbergasted lol

>>76338293
What does he have???

>>76338455
>>76338483
what im saying is that you guys all say women fall apart and are disgusting hags after 25 or 30. so even if you marry one whos younger, yours just happens to not be the ones who become disgusting and fall apart? what about when youre stuck with some women in her 30s and 40s and the rest of your life and you watch her get fatter, uglier, more disgusting

>>76338417
Also, white men age the worse so by age 35, it is definitely over.

>>76338493
Thats life and men just do it. I guess most men fall apart by age 24 due to lifestyle and girls get desperate for ltr and marriage once they hit 21. In a world where girls never hit the wall, 90% of men would never get any female attention. Remember that.

>>76338493
legal marriage is what cucks you. idk, marrcels will cope with “shes the mother of my kids” but in reality, their own wives wouldn’t have married them if they didnt see the wall. 90% of men are invisible to girls outside of marriage betamale provider bucks.

>>76338493
Also you HAVE to understand that literally the majority of men have no value in life except to be the betamale husband to post wall females.

>>76338499
>>76338509
>>76338519
but not all men are just being seen as the beta bucks provider to women, right? all the guys here on fit who are in their mid 30s or older marrying 22 year old women, the women actually love them because theyre so handsome and cool and based right?

>>76338123
correct take
95% of hookups happen between people who are already acquainted or with friends of friends. Going to a party and picking up a complete stranger is incredibly rare and usually hinges on the chick being a turbo whore. Which is also rarer than incels want to believe

>>76338529
Only 10% of /fit/ chads or w.e you want to call it. The 10% rule applies to everything. 10% of millionaires are chads. 10% of billionaires are chads.
10% of men are chads.
10% of poor people are chads.

>>76338533
> Going to a party and picking up a complete stranger is incredibly rare and usually hinges on the chick being a turbo whore. Which is also rarer than incels want to believe
You’re just unattractive
>>76338529
10% of /fit/ are chads. 10% of /ck/ are chads.

>>76338165
>Pay the one-time fee for sex
vs
>Pay constantly, listen to her woman nonsense, no sex

Your choice

>>76338533

It happens more in college where you might know a friend of a friend or you're already part of the same community. It's pretty rare IRL yet it still happens and most guys it happens at least once.

>>76336962
That's where I'm at but as a zogbot. How did you get into Entertainment? I've banged so many escorts I feel like I should sign up for porn

>>76338485
He is two meters tall. Compare his height with the door.

>>76338562
Being a porn star is wild

>>76338580
Story time?

>>76338639
My opinion is it is not good to be a pornstar and okay if you cover your face I guess, so only the girl is a whore.

>>76338687
You're not a star if you don't show your face. Nobody would recognize you.

>>76338485
>>76338570

>Tall
>all his hair
>good face
>white

Yeah the reality is women will go to a man if they actually desire him. Women just don't like most men