How do you respond?

>>76339045 (OP)
Turn 360 degrees...

>>76339045 (OP)
>weebum won’t load
It’s a woman anyway I’m not going to brother

>>76339045 (OP)
"Get out of my house or I'm calling the police."

>>76339045 (OP)
to what

>>76339143
The rule that men shouldn't approach women.

>>76339045 (OP)
i smoke crack.

hit the gym get swole deranged chick fuck strange china dick get muscles lol

>>76339045 (OP)
i raise an eyebrow to show my curiosity before raising my upper lift to show my disgust. then i quickly leave the machine i was one, and move elsewhere

I wouldn't even notice because I restrain from looking at women in the gym unless its from behind.

it's funny how women hate autistic men due to their poor communication skills when most women put autistic men to shame with how poorly they communicate

>I made eye contact with him for 2 seconds, why isn't he approaching me??

>>76339045 (OP)
Men think its us that makes the first move. But really, it is the woman.. and she does it with her eye contact. Then we make the second move and continue the dance.

>>76339441
You realize this is a joke right? You have spoken to women before, right?

who makes eye contact with random women

>>76339045 (OP)
I fuckin hate it it's so creepy haha

>>76339453
it's not a joke though. women do genuinely do shit like make eye contact or stand in your vicinity and consider that "dropping a hint"

>>76339045 (OP)
>grimace and look away

love from kazakhstan

>>76339045 (OP)
I don't unless she's catholic

the highlight of my gym career was when i caught two women watching me ohp (i am still a virgin 2 years later)

>>76339045 (OP)
Was doing overhead tricep extensions yesterday and some hot little thick blonde slut was infront of me on the pullup bar/leg raise machine thing
>blatantly looked at me when i was mid set, saw in peripherals but im too beta to look right at her
>positioned herself perfectly to bend over and show me her big ass when i was mid set
Why do they do this?? Especially the exaggerated bending over. Happened a few times where some bitch comes right infront of me and does this mating ritual

>>76339441
>>76339484
if you go to the gym long enough you know this to be 100% true and you'll pick up on it because it rarely happens
But yes they literally just stare at you when they think you're going to look at them

>>76339045 (OP)
Stare back more intensely until she looks away then make a stupid face for when whe dares to look back. Repeat this cycle until she cracks up or does it back.

I have witnessed a few approaches at the gym over my 8 years of being at a chain gym regularly
It is very cringe and everyone hears it, and obviously hears the rejection which every case has resulted in
The worst was a pajeet who approached a really hot white girl and of course he got the "ohh, no thanks haha"

>>76339566
In my experience they don't stare, they just quickly glance at you and then act like they're doing something else before checking again.

The ultimate gigachad power move is to just stare right at them until you lock eyes.
Then keep staring until they look away.
Often times they aren't prepared for such an intense look and they get all weirded out and uncomfortable.
It's insanely autistic of me but a weird incely part of me gets of on it cause im like;
>"Heheh that bitch totally couldn't handle my piercing stare! I'm so fucking baller!"
And then I smirk and go back to my set

>>76339045 (OP)
I didn't get a single look until I recently started intentionally dressing like the fuckboy athletic style
>compression/tight shirt a size too small for me
>short shorts
>grew hair out and stubble
>flat white shoes and longish socks
>being jacked already
Felt cringe at the beginning but makes me feel amazing mogging all the little asian and indian boys in the gym and getting mires

>>76339563
I don't think it's that deep man, she just wanted to feel hot in front of someone.

Same reason why you stand up straight and fix your hair before entering a crowded place.

>>76339045 (OP)
>>76339441
>>76339484
>>76339566
I've made "eye contact" with plenty of girls at the gym. Is this really a sign?
What do you even say to that?
>"hey we made eye contact so I wanted to talk to you"

>>76339591
I do this as well, but i got 1 bitch one time who just wouldn't break the eye contact for like 5s+, so i sperged out and broke it first, left home early and broke down in the shower

>>76339045 (OP)
I ignore because she's a whore

>>76339045 (OP)
I was doing calisthenics in the park the other day and a cute Asian girl came right up next to me and tried to do pull ups while constantly giving me the side glance. It was like 90 degrees and I was hot and tired and annoyed she was in my space. It wasn't till I got home I realized why she came right up next to me. I was brushing my teeth and realized my failure to notice like a retard.

>>76339563
>Why do they do this?? Especially the exaggerated bending over.
we're in hell

Shoot her for breaking into my house.

>>76339833
are you an aspergian?

>>76339745
This has been my expereince as well (not the guy you're replying to tho). I have no idea what the fuck it is but girls DO NOT BREAK EYE CONACT.

Fuck that, im not risking me too styled accusation over quick glance.

>>76339741
I went up to a girl and said “you made eye contact with me too long, that was your first mistake. What’s your name?” She smiled told me her name and I spilled my spaghetti then walked away in shame. The next day one of the staff told me not to bother people and just ask nicely if they’re done using a machine.

If I had rizz maybe I could have made something but instead my autism got me in trouble (again).

>>76339451
trvke

>>76339045 (OP)
not attractive enough to risk approaching

>>76340049
I feel you my man. had this happen at a grocery store. girl talked to me and i started stuttering. She wasn't even my type. just not used to talking to women anymore, its been so many years since i've been social.

>>76339045 (OP)
She's looking around like a wild animal searching for an escape route

>>76339045 (OP)
>sorry luv, Christian lasses ONLY

luv me Jesus
luv me bible
simple as

>>76339045 (OP)
I would just continue to ignore her because the gym is for gains not fucking whores. The grocery store is for fucking whores.

>>76339193
Based, such a simple thing and yet it would absolutely crush her self esteem for a week or two.

>>76339045 (OP)
I got my homegym equipment and cancelled my gym membership because women would rape stare at me or flex their assholes directly in front of me
>inb4 incel, virgin or autistic
If they wanna talk, have a coffee, get fisted, fuck, or whatever the hell, just come and say hi. I go to the gym to exercise, not to play some fucking smut based bullshit female fantasy. They dont speak directly to me i assume they dont want to, after all, thats whats women have been bitching about nonstop for the last 20 years.

>>76339931
That's a sign of attraction retard, go talk to her.

>>76339045 (OP)
Sorry sluts, you have to approach now.

>>76339045 (OP)
I wouldn't even look at this repulsive pug nosed bitch

>>76339045 (OP)
Holy shit he's a jew. Slanted ears below eye line, sloped forehead, jutting mid face and jaw. God damn they're everywhere.

>>76339045 (OP)
Smile at her. If she smiles back it is open game. If not, she just might be shy and it is still open game. If she rolls her eyes or has a bitchy face then it is game over.
Assuming it is open game, If the machine she is using is the only one of its kind in the gym, walk right up to her and ask if you could use it after her. Yes, even if it is a "feminine" machine. Check how she responds. If she sounds friendly or receptive then ask her how to use it or change the weight. You have now exchanged words with her. In the next encounter it is not weird to ask her name. If you feel like having a laugh, offer to do sets with her on the same machine.
Most likely, you will fail in one of these steps. Most women are scum and will reject you even if they feel attracted to you. The looks and smiles you exchanged might have been real but she can chicken out and lock up when you actually approach her. Women always change their minds and are extremely irrational.

>>76340362
>Women always change their minds and are extremely irrational.

Had one bail out mid-sex. that shit hurt me for years.

>>76339591
>The ultimate gigachad power move
I don't even notice other people.

>>76340423
before or after she saw your penis?

>>76340049
why even talk to a girl in the gym. that just sets you up for shit.

if it goes bad you end up having to see her there or be a creep

if it goes good you end up having to do workouts together and having all the other dudes mindfucking her.

>>76339563
>saw in peripherals
It's very easy for it to feel like someone is looking right at you in your peripherals when they're only looking in your general direction.

>>76339741
>I've made "eye contact" with plenty of girls at the gym. Is this really a sign?
>What do you even say to that?
Bro you hiss at her like a snake trust me you want to appeal to her reptile brain just a little hsssss!

>>76339741
i can't believe some of you can be this socially retarded

>>76341251
This. Talking to women at the gym is high risk low reward

>>76341251
>>76341390
wdym retards there's zero risk and potential reward
you've got nothing to lose and can find a girl with a nice fuckable ass

>>76341251
lmao no wonder you guys never get girlfriends if you're too pussy to risk something

>>76341398
most of those have butterfaces, that's why they train so much.

>>76341411
had plenty of gf just not picking them up at the gym. but if it happens in the gym it happens.

>>76339171
>The rule that men shouldn't approach women
Where is that rule written and who enforces it?

>>76339045 (OP)
>tfw no in the gym at 8 pm on a Saturday night autistic powerlifting battlepawg gf

>>76339931
When they don't break eye contact, you have to death stare them until she breaks. Not even to fuck her, but to crush her spirit. If she calls you weird or anything like that, ask her why the fuck she's staring like a creep. Embrace the autism

>>76341398
>there's zero risk
Getting slammed on social media and having the staff believe her instantly (because women are always right) so you get kicked out of the gym for “harassing other members”
Approaching women and trying to ask them out is a losing game, for the past decade all they have said over and over again is to not approach them anywhere
Don’t approach them at school, don’t approach them at the gym, don’t approach them at a coffee place or restaurant, don’t approach them at work, don’t approach them at a library, don’t approach them at a music store, don’t approach them at bars or clubs, etc etc etc
To try and engage with the modern woman is suicide

>>76341494
Largely depends on who them man is. Some women are extremely desperate to be approached by men they're attracted to. I imagine even in the OP webm the guy this video was about is at least above average in height/looks

>>76341494
>don't approach them
why would you let your actions be controlled by the ephemeral opinions of a woman? once she finds out you are rich she will demand that you approach her.

>>76339510
I don't unless she's Orthodox (Catholic can be the exception i guess)

>>76339045 (OP)
kek

If I caught a girl doing this I would talk to her. This one is pretty obvious.

>>76341510
>>76340242
kek there was some confident anon that would approach every woman that did this and they’d just give him the cold shoulder and reject him. who’s to say you’re simply misjudging women’s signals

>>76339045 (OP)
Just fucking say hello so I get it HOLY SHIT I HATE WOMEN!!!

>>76340203
basado

>>76342167
I had a weird friend who would approach girls at the gym. He said they were checking him out but they always rejected him. They were just there to work out was the line they parroted to him. I always thought chicks at the gym just want to look with no meaning behind it.

no hymen no diamond

>>76340049
>ou made eye contact with me too long, that was your first mistake
Bruh thinks he is a jojo character

>>76339208
You are a coward, but you are also me. I memorized all the optimal mirror angles in my gym.
(JJK was trash, but I'm a sucker for the ripped, god tier bro character archetype.)

i usually cold open with a comment about the bronze age of air travel

>>76339045 (OP)
time spent obsessing over women can be spent gaining gains instead.
>>76339171
rules are gay
>>76339453
you are a joke
>>76339563
either get in or get out. stop letting yourself be impacted negatively
>>76339591
based fear inspirer

>>76339745
that was a beautiful story thank you for sharing

>>76341494
Literally go outside, you're too online. I've approached dozens of girls at my gym and I've never had gotten shit for it.

>>76340049
>“you made eye contact with me too long, that was your first mistake. What’s your name?”

>>76342451
but you didn’t get a gf out of it so what’s the point

>>76342515
Back to your containment board, defeatist faggot.

>>76342529
hey man you’re the one bothering women at the gym and not getting pussy out of it weirdo

>>76342535
>you never dated any of the girls you've asked out because I made it up in my head just for the sake of arguing on 4chan, okay?
Take your schizophrenia pills on your way out, buddy.

>if you approach women in public you'll be humiliated/get hit with a rape charge
Just stop being unattractive, bro. Women love that shit.

>>76339833
>cute
I bet she was a 3/10 without makeup. You did good

>>76342548
get a load of this seething virgin lol don’t get mad at me for being undesirable

>>76342556
Kek imagine reminiscing about a missed encounter with an Asian

>>76339045 (OP)
I can never tell when women send me signals.I know for a fact that many men, not just autistics experience this. Am I just daft or I do not have necessary experience?

>>76342698
it’s a stereotype that men are oblivious to women’s signals whether it’s not noticing them or misbelieving they’re into them, so you’re not alone

>>76339045 (OP)
I do part of my workout with my glasses off.
Someone said hi to me.
I just looked in the direction, didn't recognize the blurry shape so I didn't say anything.

>>76342698
I feel like I have a pretty good radar, usually my senses are far better tuned if I haven't spanked my shit in like 2 weeks.

Anyway, if you ever feel like "why is that bitch looking at me so much" then she's probably trying to flirt with you.

I don't think I've ever approached a girl where it was totally random. I always wait for them to notice me, and if they don't, I don't engage.

Does not mean guaranteed victory, just that she will entertain.

>>76342706
You'd think women would take the hint already

>>76340049
maybe don't use autistic anime pick up lines and actually talk to her like she's a human being...?

I don't know, maybe something like - hey do you go to "insert local college" ?

and if you think she enjoys it, at the end, hey can I grab your phone number?

jesus christ.

Protip: if women are into you, you WILL know. You won't second guess yourself. It'll just click into your head.

>>76342986
but all these anons second guess themselves. are you saying women aren’t into them?

>>76343000
>but all these anons second guess themselves. are you saying women aren’t into them?
When a woman is into a guy it's like they're trying to claw his fucking pants off. They're handsy and they're always chatty and down for whatever. How the fuck do you misinterpret that? If anything, it puts it into perspective, and I realized that every female friend I've ever had has merely only been an acquaintance

Source: my friend/roommate is a 6'3 gigachad half-Brazilian

>>76343083
realest post on the site lmao

Just fart rape her to establish dominance.

>>76343083
This. I had a gigachad friend back in the day and women would fall over themselves just to talk to him. They would even buy him drinks. That winky stare bullshit is saved for average chuds to jestermaxx

>>76339599
Anon, if somebody showed up in the gym with full clown makeup, you'd give them a glance but I can tell you it's not a mire.

Peak woman "logic".

"guess I'll just show off slightly more"
You'd have to stare at her the entire time in order to notice her cues and if you were a guy staring at her the entire time you'd automictically be a "gym creep".

These woman literally are brain damaged by SRI's, Boxed wine and party drugs.

>>76343083
Can confirm.
I'm close to the 6ft mark and am fit, have been socially popular around college for a while. If they like you you will NOT need 3 dates, unless she's a traditional farming mormon or such she'll be offering herself up in some form by at minimum the second date.
Guys unfortunately fall for the simp / feminist bullshit "3 date minimum" the reality is most of them are just trying to get free money.

>>76341344
I’ve always found that activating the primal part of her female primal carnal essence works best. You activate it by whispering “I am going to rape you” while creeping up behind them.
Works everytime.

>>76341442
It’s written on social media and enforced by the police, boomers, simps, and Zoomers on social media.

>>76339045 (OP)
You have to be a complete autist to not recognize that with the stare like this she's practically screaming "c'mon, do something".

As other anon said, just smile when you catch her glancing at you. You don't need to approach her right away, as in most cases she'd be scared even if she already daydreaming about sliding on your cock. But move your next excercise to her area and approach her with a casual compliment of her style (never compliment her physical features) or a simple question in between your sets. Follow up on her answer. If you don't see annoyance or repulsion in her, introduce yourself and ask for her name. Ask what she's working on today, share a little about yourself. Keep the conversation light and smile. Wrap up within 1-2 minutes. Wish her a good work and say that you'll see her around.

Greet her next time you see her in the gym a few days later. If she's still friendly, expand the conversation to topics around her life outside of the gym, her interests and shit. Then it becomes a normal interaction where you can exchange your contacts and move further from there.

Never try to go 0-60 with girls, especially in places that not designed for dating. Men can get a boner from a single look. Girls need time (days, sometimes weeks and months) to develop attraction.

>>76343083
>If anything, it puts it into perspective, and I realized that every female friend I've ever had has merely only been an acquaintance
what does this mean

>>76343503
Sounds like you fell for that and are now learning about it kek

>>76343083
Having to use your friend as a source and not yourself.. bro..

>>76339045 (OP)
Yeah, I wouldn't have got that was her making a move at all, I would have thought she was angry at me for some reason and was staring daggers at me.

i think more often than not men are delusional about mires (who wouldn’t want to feel good about themselves?) but unless you can turn it into anything actionable i’m really not that interested in the stories

>>76342372
But there wasn't any air travel in the bronze age

>>76339171
Unattractive men shouldn't approach women*

>>76343951
women say 80% of men are ugly. think about that before approaching her

>>76339741
If you have to ask, no. Chad has been attractive and popular his entire life so he knows women better than themselves.

>>76340049
>If I had rizz
"rizz" just means being handsome or otherwise attractive. There are no unattractive behaviors, just unattractive men

>>76339741
>>76339441

>>76343955
yeah when you’re handsome all you have to do is not talk your way out of pussy. needing to become a cunning linguist to convince women to be interested in you is a cope

>>76341398
>you've got nothing to lose

>>76340423

>>76342187
This is retarded though. As a man you do the approaching, that's the simplest test to weed out weak men. Brave, confident men will approach a woman and those are the men she wants. If she has to ask you, she already won't respect you enough

>>76343953

>>76343959
>>76343955

>>76343955
>>76343959
>talk your way out
You wouldn’t believe how often this happens to otherwise chad mentalcels.

>>76343998
I don't think you understand the female mind

>>76341390
>>76341398

>>76343976
The distribution is favorable to males over females when you adjust for social circles. Women are more willing to overlook physical appearance than men WHEN THEY ARE IN THE SAME SOCIAL CIRCLE.
Female hatred of men is the direct result of alienation between the two of them.
This happens for multiple reasons.
1. Men and women together spend less as an economic unit than they do as separate units.
2. There is a concerted effort to dissolve social relations for sinister tikkun olamic motives.
3. Technology has lead to increased alienation by simplifying life through Hyper efficiency to make more social modes of life outdated (e.g. taking a horse to a market and bartering with everyone you meet as opposed to door dash).

We are living in hell.

>>76344001
You don’t understand the level of mentalcel some men are on. Unless a woman physically assaults a male she can not have sex with him and I know a few (three) gigachads who are virgins because of overbearing mothers who made them terrified of women.

>>76344008
>when you adjust for social circles
Why would you do that? Women want to date up, while men don't care. Women's hypergamy is the entire point I was making, yes

>>76344017
If they are gigachads, they would already have been popular in school and everywhere else, so they would have the social skills that some with it. You are overstating their attractiveness

>>76344008
>favorable to males over females when you adjust for social circles
I don't get it, are you saying rich men have more options? How is that a refutation, you're just agreeing with me then?

>>76343955
This lookism nonsense is just cope. You find it easier to accept "I'm ugly" and you can't accept "I'm a boring uncharismatic mong".

>>76344029
woe is me mentality. there’s so many ugly guys roaming the streets and yet every fitizen is attractive and gets mired but hot girls but can’t get a gf

>>76339045 (OP)

>>76344126
girls theses days just don't like 6'3 guys with 8" penises

>>76339943
this nigga thinks its 2018

>>76344590
Better safe then sued buddy

>>76344021
how is it that women go through 4+ years of liberal brainwashing university education yet are still scrooge mcduck tier ruthless capitalists when it comes to finances and dating?

>capitalism is oppressive and exploitative!!
>...but i still won't date a man who makes less than me

>>76344648
anon, girls wont sue you if you attempt to talk to them. that happened one time like 6 years ago. It's not an everyday occurrence. You don't have to be so afraid all the time.

>>76343708
It means a woman has never been into me, and I realized it when I saw a woman into my friend for the first, and then the second and third time. Pattern recognition.

>>76343737
Source remains an anecdote that demonstrates the behavioral gulf between women who are interested in a man and women who do not even see a man as male.

I've befriended, become very close with, and asked out four girls. I have repeated this cycle 4 times. It took about a year each time. Women are not interested in me.

>DUDE TALK TO GIRLS LOL
>HAVE YOU TRIED ACTUALLY TALKING TO GIRLS??

so as a man do I have to accept a life of celibacy and solitude if I simply don't initiate conversations with women? all I need to do to be a virgin forever is simply remain passive? it's that easy?

>>76344682
Their morality is performative. Nobody actually wants to contribute to a better world, other people should pay for that. Women are no different. Everybody will complain that white countries need to stop pollution yet they will all keep taking airplane holidays

it's the year of our lord 2026 and incels still think all women have a grudge against them unless they look like this specific male model. lmao
>girl makes eye contact with him
>he is already imagining how many years he'll spend in prison for harassment or whatever
if you could get jailed for being autistic anxious retards you'd already be there

>girl gets on the treadmill next to me when there's plenty open
>giving me looks
>catch a glance and she's old and tatted up
>ignore her
>finish work out and leave
>she leaves shortly after
I dodged a bullet lads. Virginity intact. Glad to see the cut is working though.

>>76344714
why though? you seem like a kind person

>>76344005
>guy getting jailed for groping a stranger on her way from college and then COMING BACK for more and groping her harder to the point of making her cry is actually the reason you should never approach women!
read past the headline retard

>>76344776
old and tattooed? yeah she’s pushing 100k miles

>>76344005
GRIFFISU!!

>>76344793
100 kilomiles?

>>76344682
Women are inherently bourgeoisie

>>76344682
Women are inherently bourgeoisie, they will fail with capitalism

>>76339045 (OP)
Shouldn’t date a gym slut. They’re usually more insecure and have girl boss attitudes.

>>76344029
cope with your fat girl any one of us would rather die than settle for fucking cuck

>>76343936
That's what (((they))) want you to believe

>>76339193
What is your upper lift and how high do you raise it, and in what way does it convey disgust??

>>76339484
If you make eye contact slot and exchange smiles, that a cue to go and approach. Some women will go out of their way, like a couple women at my work literally harassed me, put messages in my shoes etc I did fuck one and make out with the other, but didn't bang cos have a gf, but it's not always as deep as you think. Women though don't have to try as hard, and so what, do you really want a chick that is always chasing men and knows how easy it is to get laid?

>>76344024
>>76344021
no, not hypergamy or favoring social status. Its not status, I said Social Circles.
Women who KNOW men, as in they are familiar with them, rate them more highly than males who rate women they know.

There was a study that looked at how females rate males they knew on a personal level and they rated men way higher than men rated women.
If you are in a social circle with a woman, you have an advantage over her in SMV even if objectively shes above your looksmaxx potential.

>>76346190
way higher meaning slightly higher than men rated them. not rating a 5 as a 9, but rating a 5 as a 6 as opposed to women "normally" rating a 5 as a 1 or 2.

>>76346169
disgusting

>>76346209
Only because coworkers are never attractive

>>76339208
BASED

>>76339741
I made eyecontact with a woman i worked with and months later she dumps on me that she wants to leave her husband of 18 years and elope with me and get pregnant. I had barely even talked to her.

>>76339045 (OP)
Smell her ass then leave

Please do not ever hit on girls at a gym you go to regularly. I want to walk you through the possibilities.

BEST CASE:
>you succeed and all of the sudden you want to break it off for whatever reason but she keeps going and you have to dread going because she might be there

WORST CASE:
>you fail, she says no and feels uncomfortable around you and the gym and she literally stops going or switches gyms

WORSTEST WORST CASE:
>you fail and she's creeped out and tells the staff, and you have to get talked to by one of the owners / workers and they might even just ban you

DON'T BE STUPID, just go hit on women at grocery stores or whatever if you really must do the cold approach.

The only possible way for me to ever even just try to approach a girl is to hire a professional assassin and pay him tens of thousands of dollars to literally seek me out at random times putting a loaded gun on the back of my head where if I don't approach at least one girl he'll blow my brains out on the spot or something like that.

I have no clue how anyone is actually motivated enough to seek girls, try to win them over and then spend money, time and effort to try to keep them with you after that. All what happens in my brain when I see an attractive girl anywhere is just "damn, she's hot" and I keep walking, that's it

>>76344778
I said it in my post. There's a difference in the way women behave around men they're attracted to and men that they don't acknowledge as male in the first place. I worked my ass off in order to be rejected explicitly 4 times, when I could have just observed my surroundings and acknowledged the amount of implicit rejection I was faced with, and accepted my place in this life.

I am attracted to the kind of woman who is unique, agentic, opinionated, looks past physical faults anyway, but I simply did not possess the ephemera to win them over. Really, this is a true story --- one time I asked a woman like that out, and was rejected with a very heartfelt plea to not take it personally, that "it's not me" and "I just wasn't planning on dating at all in college." Next thing we know, it's one year later and she is very publicly walking around with someone else and showing it off on social media. That one was the one that hurt the most it was the fourth rejection and I was 22, and I was just tired and had enough, and I decided to just hang it up and focus on getting a career together and then maybe look for a wife at age 30.

The happy ending to this story is that I'm really healthy now since focusing on fitness, and I'm finally getting started as an accountant.

>>76346749
iktf well anon

it's almost like girls don't even see me as as a sexual being whatsoever. and no, I'm not fat/unkempt/wearing gamer shirts, more that I simply can't project myself as a sexual being to others no matter what

>>76346770
>it's almost like girls don't even see me as as a sexual being whatsoever. and no, I'm not fat/unkempt/wearing gamer shirts, more that I simply can't project myself as a sexual being to others no matter what
This was addressed by First Wave PUA's. I forget the guy's name (it wasn't my nigga Mystery) but one guy specialized in a sort of caveman game, just letting women know off the rip you want to fuck. Now of course we know this won't work if you're a typical pajeet janitor manlet... nothing will. But if you're not lying or delusional about being at least average, this really is the missing link. It still won't move the needle for 90% of women, but it really truly is the difference maker for another 10%. Unless you're a nigger or pajeet who will fuck again, imagine a woman who is in that grey area being attractive and unattractive. If she conveyed to you she's DTF, suddenly you'd 100% consider it. That's what caveman game does. It jolts a woman from treating you as an invisible eunuch to a possibility. She'll still reject you most of the time, but you're going for that minority who won't.

This unironically is also 80 IQ Negro Game who holla at absolutely every woman over 5/10. They have zero self-consciousness and just keep putting it out there.

>>76344714
>It took about a year each time.
what the fuck are you doing

>>76339143

>>76346431
I once hit on this dumb whore who was always kinda looking at me. I didn't get her number the first time. The second time I talked to her she was with her fat fucking friend and her fridge friend cock blocked the shit out of me, literally the only time I've gotten BTFO from approaching a girl.

Anyway. After that I was like fuck that girl. But I would see her pretty much every time I went to the gym. She would continue to look at me, play with her hair when I got close, etc. Obviously wasn't going to try again but she was definitely trying to get me to do that.

>you fail, she says no and feels uncomfortable around you and the gym and she literally stops going or switches gyms
who gives a shit? honestly. you are just a random guy, I am assuming. you don't torture cats or have women tied up in your basement. if she feels that way, it's her problem, not yours.

>you fail and she's creeped out and tells the staff, and you have to get talked to by one of the owners / workers and they might even just ban you
will literally never happen unless you use aggressive sexual language, don't back off, and have the social skills of someone who couldn't pass a job interview at McDonalds.

>move to machine
>Woman next to me stops mid set and goes to do something else
Wew

>>76346431
>she keeps going and you have to dread going because she might be there
doesn't happen if you're not an autistic anxious mess

>you fail, she says no and feels uncomfortable around you and the gym and she literally stops going or switches gyms
not my problem

>you fail and she's creeped out and tells the staff, and you have to get talked to by one of the owners / workers and they might even just ban you
doesn't happen if you're not creepy about it

>>76339045 (OP)
I don't, because I'll never notice or it'll be a week later before my brain is able to figure it out and I'll realize what I missed in the middle of the night. This is some kind of gay woman test to make sure a guy has strong social skills.

>>76346986
you've got to relax. maybe she was farting a lot that day and didn't want you laughing at her. maybe her vagina was filthy and she knew that the smell would carry and she was doing you a favor. it could have been a heavy flow day. have you ever had to clean a woman's restroom? sometimes those little brown bags in the metal tampon collectors are just overflowing with bloody cotton. the smell hits you when you walk through the door. and the showers, sometimes there's a blood trail to the trashcan and splatter on the walls. a heavy flow day is no laughing matter. it slops around everywhere. free-bleeding is one of the reasons that some women hate other women.

>>76346925
Working, studying, and socializing in a reasonable time split, and when you do this, it takes roughly a year to warm up to someone enough for them to be a regular guest at your house, a regular to hold conversations with, someone you've exchanged favors with, et cetera. I'd like to get to know my future wife before I marry her, obviously. However, since no woman so far sees me in this way and it's not up to me, there is no point in discussing this.

>>76344714
>>76347093
In a perfect world, people would actually date men that bother to form meaningful, long-term relationships with them based on something other than speedrunning romantic and sexual gratification. We don't live in one. I prefer to just shoot my shot the second I sense I have chemistry with someone. Every time I've actually developed a friendship with a woman first, they simply see me as a friend and not as a potential partner.

I don't really get it, even after all this time. I've run the gamut: girls asking me to the school dance rejecting me, girls asking to be my Valentine rejecting me, girls who I hit it off with immediately and then had 2-3 months of friendship with rejecting me, and so on and so forth. I can only laugh thinking about the stereotype that men are the ones afraid of commitment, when women are the ones who are terrified of committing to turning a good friendship into a good relationship.
>but sexual attraction / compatibility
I know.

>>76347129
>Every time I've actually developed a friendship with a woman first, they simply see me as a friend and not as a potential partner.
You need to get hotter, no homo

>>76339453
You obviously have not.

>>76347134
Look, I'm working on it, okay. I get a lot of "cute", a lot of "handsome", but never "hot". But that's what cutting is for.

Since you people actually have sex, what does this mean.

>shoot shot with girl at gym
>we've blatantly stared at each other multiple times before I shot my shot
>i have bf
>oh ok
>immediately move on and I guess ghost her as I don't really care to look at her anymore
>she constantly stares me doing from across the gym
>if she passes me or we are within vicinity of each other she makes it a point to not make eye contact as hard as she possibly can
>probably in my head but noticed her point in my direction while looking at me to other people (guys and girls)
Shit's weird. I don't really care as I don't pay attention to her as I use to but it'd be nice to learn from this experience for the future.

>>76347134
It's more likely he is this way because it was either rewarded in the past or single mother. Men who sexually disarm themselves can get close to women easier but it comes with the cost of them not seeing you as a man. It's not an entirely bad strategy and can easily work but it is often defeated by a manly man showing her any attention. It's basically the best tactic to get to the women who aren't playing the game but yeah it's garbage for general social stuff because most men and women prefer you act more in line with your sex.

>>76347166
If this isn't a LARP, it sounds like she doesn't understand that you're not going to rape her in the parking lot for rejecting your advance. She may have interpreted the initial stares not as a casual, mutual social interaction, but as you "creeping on her". She feels unsafe, and since she's a woman she's opting for the woman-ly way of conflict management, which is to say:
>avoiding direct conflict
>cautiously observing you from a safe distance
>manipulating other people against you by "warning" them or saying you were "weird" (some of whom will believe her because she's a woman)
If I were you, I wouldn't confront her, at least not at first. I'd remember one of the people she pointed me out to and then ask them
>Hey, what was that about? Why was I being pointed at?
Either you'll get a straight answer or a response like
>Oh... no reason.
which is obviously suspicious.

Ultimately I'd just ignore it. She's a sperg and you won't really get anything out of confronting her.

>>76346986

Probably nothing bro.

I've noticed a lot of chicks will just do one set on a machine and move on. Unless it's barbell thrusts on the purple Smith machine at Planet Fitness, then they do 10 sets of 15 reps because they think it's gonna turn their bony white ass into that of a Puerto Rican.

Or this:
>>76347086

>>76347191
Hmm didn't think of it that way. I don't care enough about her to 'confront,' her about it as again I moved on already. I just was ignorant to the whole
>I rejected him but constantly look at him still
deal from girls. I also don't think she's 'scared,' of me as she's fine walking past me in the gym and in the parking lot but ehh whatever. Thanks brother.

>>76347167
>single mother
That and gradually getting castrated by increasingly absurd rejections, to the point that I psychologically shut down at the idea of showing romantic interest in a woman. It's great. It's only when I don't care that I feel free.

>>76347086
This mothefucker has seen hell.

>>76347211
Maybe I'm a schizo, but that's just my perspective. I'm just saying that the pointing is weird since she's also avoiding eye contact.

>>76347166
she's keeping you on the line in case she decides to leave her bf. she thinks you might be a step up from him but she's not sure so she's trying to keep you interested and wants to learn more about you.

you can probably become friends with her and maybe more. but if you become intimate with her, and she later starts to think that her bf is the better option, then she might suddenly become very cold to you and blame you for everything. basically, women don't know what they want and will ruin multiple lives trying to figure it out while projecting all blame and accountability onto others.

if she tells you that she broke up with her bf, ask her out. if she says 'she's not ready' ask her again later. that's really the only way forward for an aspie like you or me.

>>76347226
the pointing is likely in his head. she's avoiding eye contact because it's awkward now. she didn't say 'fuck off creep' she say 'i have a bf XD'

>>76347155
If you get called and are handsome but still freindzoned you may be acting too soft. Tell them no, fuck with them a little, and always have an air or sexulatiy ie making innuendos. In a playfull manner dominate other men in front of them.

>>76347217
Just play your cards better and know who's receptive to it.
Your "audience" is mostly nerd girls and weirdos (personal favorite) they shut down with strong approaches and manly men aren't going to go for them anyway. But you are alway going to strike our with pretty girls who always have male gaze on them. Just go with what works and you'll have a good time. Ugly girls have their charms.

>>76347323
I appreciate the advice. That's my type anyway, and I met my previous girlfriend through a nerdy hobby.

>>76347191

Gonna sound like a back-in-my-day boomer, but I'm 34, only started seriously training again at 31. I had a good run when I was 22-24 though.

One of the biggest changes I've noticed in gyms between 2013-2014 and 2022-2025, besides the worse crowds and how you can't just pay for a full year membership with a couple hundred dollars in cash anymore, is the women. 10+ years ago, if you were a reasonably attractive woman in a gym full of sweaty guys jacked up on roids, old-school preworkout, creatine, or just plain natural testosterone from lifting, it was pretty much a given that guys were gonna check you out, and some dudes were gonna shamelessly eye-fuck you. Some of those guys were gonna be ugly, a cost of doing business.

At most, the women would get a real bitchy look on their face and audibly huff. A lot of them clearly thrived on the attention.

Now, everyone is terrified of being seen as a "gym creep."

Some of it is that there are just more women in regular gyms now. In the 2010s, a lot of the bitchy, "omfg a man just totally looked at me" type women went to places like Bally, but I think those all closed. Gyms require a lot of commercial space, and solely catering women and gays is probably not enough to make rent, payroll, and keep the lights on. I mostly blame the whole Instagram trend of "gym-creep-shaming" though. Even though most people hate that shit and see it for what it is, enough women and simps still feed into it to keep it alive. And even if most people hate that kind of content... well now it makes for excellent ragebait. Because of that shit, gym thots can still seek male attention by working out practically half-naked, but now they have a means to lash out when they get attention from the "wrong men."

>>76347306
>dominate other men in front of them.
I don't feel like putting down fellow men just for a chance of a whiff of a pussy

>>76347306
>In a playful manner dominate other men in front of them
This shit just comes across as insecurity unless you're an actual Chad

>>76347364
Honestly its fun and you probably do it anyways. You don't fuck around with your bros?
>>76347380
I should have said people instead of men because you do it to women as well. Again in a fun playful manner. Like if they are doing something for you play it up like they are doing it because you told them to, they make a mistake say its embarrassing they are messing up and you would never do that etc. Cheeky.

>>76347392
I think you just worded it poorly

>>76343954
YOUR TWO OPTIONS
ABUSER OR REDDIT

>>76346169
kill yourself whore

>>76339045 (OP)
DON'T YOU FUCKING LOOK AT ME!!

FUCKER!!

>>76347129
>I can only laugh thinking about the stereotype that men are the ones afraid of commitment, when women are the ones who are terrified of committing to turning a good friendship into a good relationship.
Men are scared of committing to a hoe, of course, and the subject is brought up perpetually since hoes never stop yapping. The entire human sense of purpose and self-worth is in commitment. Wasting yourself away for another. That's what love sort of is anyway. Any girl worth committing to obviously isn't being brought up as a talking point within our culture's stupid fucking relationship gossip zeitgeist.

I was just tired and so I quit. I'm going to die someday. I just wasted the last five years stressing out in college over useless psychic torture like a fucking retarded faggot. I went on a run today, had a lot of fruit. I feel good. I should cherish the fact more that I'm not missing my feet.

>>76339045 (OP)
dumb bitch thinks she's gonna get hit on while wearing earbuds

>>76339045 (OP)
>How do you respond?
go complain to the gym staff about the weird woman staring at me with crazed eyes

>>76347534
You are a loser. Just so you know.

>>76339045 (OP)
Wanna hit reps together?

me interacting with women in the gym

>>76343961
lol, that's not the same thing. It's unfortunate what happened to that guy but it's not the same as asking a woman out when you have reason to believe she's into you. Crazy shit happens sometimes. It's not typical.

>>76339060
fpbp

>>76346158
proper etiquette to show disgust towards someone is to do a 1 rep OHP while staring directly at them

>>76344771
This. This thread is filled with /r9k/ incels with zero confidence. WTF?
I'm balding and 40 lbs overweight and I can still date. I'm also realistic and not holding out for women far out of my league. Super hot babes are usually really shallow and boring anyway and I'm not a simpleton. I wouldn't date anyone I wasn't attracted to, and luckily I'm not attracted to 10/10 beachbody blondes.

>>76344776
Good for you. Keep your dick out of pussies hopefully forever. Tattooed pussy is tainted by ink or something. With any luck you'll die a virgin and completely 'unsullied' by icky girl cooties. Maybe in another lifetime you'll find the virgin tradwife you wanted in this one.

LOL

>>76347708

>>76347708

Just lift.

>>76339745
>i got 1 bitch one time who just wouldn't break the eye contact for like 5s+, so i sperged out and broke it first
Kek, gigachad LARP completely broken.

>>76341494
you are hilariously out of touch

>>76339045 (OP)
>subtly
>stares at the guy like a psycho

>>76343973
even chads get taken down socially for harassment.
chads don't approach directly either they'll find an excuse to talk and suss out the vibes.

>>76347789
>I'm not attracted to 10/10 beachbody blondes.
fucking LMAO this thread is both embarrassing and hilarious

bunch of kissless virgins and coping failed normalfags

>>76342880
>Hey, I know youre autistic just don't be autistic ok
Wow holy fucking shit how did I never think of this before wow thanks

>>76343619
You "slow burn"
I get my dick sucked in the disabled bathrooms
We are not the same

>>76347888
In this age of equality I take the stares as body language signs to violence and competition. I return the stare with a blank stare of my own and they often stop.
Quit being a fucking retarded whore and say something if you wanna get fucked or fight bitch what the fuck

>>76339045 (OP)
What'cha staring at? Looking for trouble?
I think it sounds better in German tho.
>Was glotzt'n so? Auf's Maul?

>>76339441
Women are always extremely autistic, from their mannerisms to their food, hobbies and intereests. I wonder every day how I could deal with them in the past.

>>76339591
In Germany, women always make a stare duel out of it.

>>76340242
>That's a sign of attraction retard
Lol no, it's a sign of dominance. Which womena re absolutely obsessed about. Everything they do and say is about trying to find a weakness and attack vector. That is hat happens when you are the only people protected by the law, I guess, you start looking for a fight 24/7.

>>76340714
>before or after she saw your penis?
No him, but what about "mid sex" didn't you understand?

I had a gf once who after months of screaming orgasm sex decided she was trans and wouldn't have sex ever again. Welcome to women, though I admit, that was weird even by women standards.

>>76341524
>why would you let your actions be controlled by the ephemeral opinions of a woman?
A weird way to spell "the cops", but ok.

Look man, women suck, okay. The juice ain't worth the squeeze, which is why fertility is crashing all over the world. It's now starting in Africa too, fertility already halved in 5 years.

Women are shit. It is like it is.

>>76342698
>>76342706
Women are autistic, please remember that. It explains everything almost 100%. The differences between autistic men and women are marginal, one will cosplay Star Trek personnel at a con, the other will dress up and do a tea party with her plush toys.

>>76340242
>That's a sign of attraction
lol
no

>>76343083
>When a woman is into a guy it's like they're trying to claw his fucking pants off.
Lol.

Also, all the virges falling for this, just lmao. I had a girl leaving herr bf for me and her only signal for breeding was insulting me a few times. "Claw my pants off". LMAO. You zoomers are so fucking lost.

>>76339563
They want e-cred with the girlsphere on tiktok so they try to get you into a metoo situation.

>>76339045 (OP)

>>76348080
what’s Wong with what he said? then again I wouldn’t take advice from the same guy that’s given up on women >:/

>>76348078
kek

>>76342698
Nobody understands women cues.
Because women give ambiguous signals in the first place - since her opinion can change at the drop of a hat, she won't hit on you in an obvious way, but in a way where she can always pull back and call the cops on you.

>>76348099
She's taunting you, knowing full well that all of society is on her side.

When you like someone, you're nice to them. You don't test them, stare at them or insult them. Why would you think women are the only creatures in the universe where this norm doesn't apply?

>>76347888

Thatsthejoke.jpg

>>76348062
She isn't asserting her dominance, she is TESTING YOURS.
The entire female limbic system is about dominance detection in men.

>>76348103
>When you like someone, you're nice to them... Why would you think women are the only creatures in the universe where this norm doesn't apply?
Being nice is a way to show affection to someone, not to decide whether or not you like them in the first place.
Testing men to gage dominance cues is woven into female evolutionary psychology.

Women are far more selective than men in departments other than pure looks (although that too), and the limbic system subconsciously compels women to gage for dominance cues through little tests like staring and teasing.
Often women project their own ideal fantasies of how men react in those situations onto them, and they get the 'ick' if the guy doesn't act accordingly.

>>76348102
Exactly. They don't do this because they like you, they do this because they aren't SURE if they like you or not, and want to be able to change their mind if you don't match their ideal fantasy they have in their heads

>>76343955
Partially disagree, since it doesn't apply both ways. An ugly man won't be able to "personalitymax" his way into making women attracted to him. But on the other hand, there absolutely are instances where you can be a good-looking guy and the woman is initially attracted to you, and then you say or do something to fuck it up

>>76348251
Pic related

>>76339171
rules literally don't exist if you're not a mindless, dirty slave

>>76339453
>You realize this is a joke right?
He just admitted to being autistic anon...

>>76343619
>Girls need time (days, sometimes weeks and months) to develop attraction.
Nope.

>>76348316
Hot Girls don't approach you, you approach them. Hot Girls have options. They make demands. It is your honour and privilege to be granted a whiff of her anus.

>>76348333
No, this isn't true at all. I had had gfs before, but I never had more success with girls than when I was on tren. At that point 9/10 girls were approaching me or DMing me first.

>>76339045 (OP)
I kinda had the opposite happen to me yesterday in the gym. Was alone in a room on a leg press machine and a girl with the typical gym girl outfit (short, tight shorts and a top that was little more than a sports bra) walks in to the squat machine next to me. Took a look at me, routates 360° and walks away. A few minutes later comes back with a hoody on that covers everything and starts on the squat machine. I barely even looked at her. I know I shouldn't care, but that stung a little

>>76348379
You have literally no idea why she did that or if she actually even noticed you other than just projecting your insecurity.

>>76348403
I know you’re being sweet, Anon, but I need tough love in order to grow.

>>76339045 (OP)
Now imagine an Indian man doing this. Are women the jeets of genders?

>>76348379
Sounds like a made up bullshit story. If she really did a full 360 rotation she would end up facing the same direction to begin with.

>>76347129
100% my experience too, every time I didn't straight up try to escalate to a date, I'd get friendzoned, if it takes you longer than 1-2 times talking to a woman before you ask her out, forget about her and move onto another one

>>76348116
I ain't laffin

>>76348561
She moonwalked out

>>76346986
>late at night
>take last bus home
>all aisles empty
>next stop super hot woman gets on
>sits down DIRECTLY in front of me
>short skirt showing off panties
>look directly at her
>stand up
>move to adjacent aisle
>she gets visible mad
>gets off next stop in the middle of fucking nowhere

>>76339453
I've worked in a mostly female workplace for the last 6 years of my life. No, it's not a loke - yes, women are that retarded and bad at communication.

>>76348927
damn they wanted your dick

>>76347086
kek

I thought flirting in the gym was a big no no?

>>76349542
stop being an ugly timmy

>>76339045 (OP)
a girl once sat next to me on a train and asked me if i thought the sunrise was beautiful. still not sure if she was flirting with me im too autistic and just kept reading my book

>>76347636
In order to be a loser, you have to be in the race to begin with. I think you mean to say an invalid or a nonentity.

>>76347789
>and luckily I'm not attracted to 10/10 beachbody blondes.
unless theres some kinda personal ick you need to get your shit checked by a doctor dude
>Super hot babes are usually really shallow and boring anyway
that is cope, there's usually so much more to a hot guy/girl but most people only focus on the "hot" part since the sex drive towards the person is so intense

>>76350782
>you need to get your shit checked by a doctor dude
His problem is medical. He said he is 40, overweight and balding and he is posting on /fit/. He is basically a menopausal feminist and probably a porn consumer

Every really attractive woman I’ve met has also been super cool. usually because they’ve had a lot of boyfriends that get them interested in cool things. Most women with cool hobbies or interests picked it up from an ex or their dad.

>>76350926
how would you know they’ve had a lot of boyfriends

>>76350958
people communicate, retard

>>76350978
you’re not even him. what are you black? speak only when spoken to, retard

>>76339103
Basically,
>woman pretends to lift for tiktok
>guys who aproach/stare are creepy
>unless you are chad

>>76339060
Thats the same direction fuckin idiot

>>76347166
Kek this is why approaching girls at the gym is such high risk low reward, that girl is probably telling all her friends at the gym that you asked her out, now you're stuck with seeing her everyday unless you change gyms or go a diff time I guess, I'd rather just cold approach girls at the grocery store because there's a high chance I'll never see them after

>>76348343
>>76348343
What was ur stack, anon

>>76351106
It's a meme, you dip

>>76348379
Based anon, putting the fear of God into these whores.

>>76344714
Bro you have to stop being retarded with your approach to women
This is how you succeed:
Make yourself as attractive as possible
Chase success in whatever is your passion
Live life
When a girl gives you signals pick the one you want

Thats it, picking a girl who gave you no signals and trying to win them over never works, they either like u sexually or not, so wait for signals and pick what you want

This its easy for me because if a girl doesnt like me I automatically view them as a retard

>>76351268
if all guys just waited for girls giving signals first then most guys would die as kissless virgins

>>76351268
Most girls who liked me were terrified to talk to me. They told me they couldn't even look at me; so that ain't it chief. If you like a girl, talk to her.
>This its easy for me because if a girl doesnt like me I automatically view them as a retard
based

>>76351279
dude signals can be as simple as: the girl looked at me and clearly acknowledged my existence (we are the same age, I'm not disgusting af)

if you just walk up to a girl who hasn't even noticed you, you're making it needlessly difficult on yourself. you can always blackguymaxx tho. they'll hit on a blind woman, you just have to get tough skin and be persistent.

>>76351314
Most girls who liked me were terrified to talk to me. They told me they couldn't even look at me;

stop dating ugly asian girls and find someone in your league. this has literally never happened to me.

>match with chick on Hinge
>send her a message
>she doesn't respond and immediately unmatches me
>whatever, move on
>2 months later join an open art class/studio thing
>she's in it too
>always sits next to me, but won't engage in conversation, every time I try to talk to her she just gives disinterested 1-word replies
>talks to everyone else normally, but actively avoids communication or even eye contact with me
>she is very obviously a socially normal person and not at all autistic or anything, just avoids interacting with me like the plague
>she constantly mentions that she's still single, but that she's going on lots of dates
>one day even brings a guy with her to the class for a date
>will wait after to leave at the same time as me, then when I get up to leave she turns around and fucking books it out the back door
>eventually she stops sitting next to me
>find out months later from other woman in the class that she thought she was "dropping major hints" for me to ask her out
Women are fucking insane and pull the most baffling mental gymnastics when it comes to dating and attraction

>>76351446
My dad used to say these kind of problems solve themselves. She's batshit insane? You dodged not one bullet but an entire magazine. Those are the kind of women who crash your car on purpose in order to start a fight when they're bored.

>>76351380
>stop dating ugly asian girls and find someone in your league. this has literally never happened to me
Probably because you’re not as attractive as me. Why should I listen to anything you say? We’re not even batting in the same league. Stick to picking from the mid girls that give you signals and I’ll continue approaching the hot ones I like

How can you tell the difference between a woman who is just being nice and physical, and a woman who is attracted to you? There seems to be some overlap between the two.

>>76346431
>seeing a girl from the gym
>she likes me so much that we go to the gym together, get lunch together during work breaks and see each other almost every night
>then spend entire weekends together
>she also wants to have sex 3 or 4 times every night or 6 or 7 times on a weekend
This really feels like that tragedy about getting exactly what you want. I feel both smothered and exhausted, my dick is in genuine pain from overuse and I struggle most days to even get hard anymore. I think I'm just overused now or something, it's a nightmare.

>>76351508
bitch ain’t got no friends or something

>>76351461
Here's another one
>have surprisingly down-to-earth non-crazy female friend in college whose word I trust
>one day tells me her friend (who I've known in passing for a few years and I suspect might be crazy) has a crush on me
>ok, can I have her number?
>"No anon, she specifically told me not to give you her number"
>what
>"Yeah I know she's being weird about it"
>ask our mutual friends to invite her to some parties
>she doesn't show
>find out she started a rumor that I fucked another one of our mutual friends on someone's couch at a party (I didn't)
>at this point still have not been able to actually make any contact with her
>give up and move on
>people ask why I never asked her out
>she literally made sure I couldn't
I think she attempted suicide like 6 months later

>>76351504
you can't because she's both and neither at the same time. it's up to you to decide if she's attracted to you or not.

>>76351531
She's got a lot of friends that she sees after work for a little bit, then she sees me for the remainder of the night. My only rest is when I'm at work or in that 2 or 3 hour window after work where she's out with friends.

>>76351508
>have sex 3 or 4 times every night
would that take like 3 or 4 hours?

>>76351568
Sometimes longer, depends on how I'm going. I cum within the first 30 or so mins the first time but every time after that gets longer and longer to get there and is a little painful on the 3rd.

>>76339045 (OP)
btich wanna get raped

>>76351380
Yea, you're full of shit; women are cowards. Asians are disgusting bug people, white girls only.

>>76339045 (OP)
Complain to the manager that she's staring at me

>>76351564
that’s crazy. i hardly want to text my gf once a day

>>76351602
It's pretty overwhelming but it feels like what a lot of dudes dream of. The sex is really fun but it feels like I'm having too much of a good thing and want some rest from it but she's really eager for more all the time.

>>76339045 (OP)
I don't.
If she doesn't take the initiative, she isn't THAT interested to begin with.
>b-b-but muh double standards
>u-u-ur not a man enough if you dont make the first move
Do not care. I have already endured 30 years of being an incel.
I will not take part in this humiliation ritual when I am not even attractive enough to go casually approaching girls.
If no one ever approaches me, I will just accept I am destined to rot alone.

>>76351609
you should be weary if it never slows down like it typically does after the honeymoon phase in most relationships. i’ve seen another anon post about his similar situation. he went on a little vacation and she couldn’t wait so she was banging someone else. a nymphomaniac is going to get it by any means

>>76351649
She's managed a week without me before since she just plays with herself a lot and sends me videos, but even then I just feel like I want a break. I can hardly believe I'm genuinely tired of sex but it's managed to happen.

>>76351635
You're literally going to fall for the first whore that comes your way. Seriously, all of the girls that flat out approach you are RAN through.

Either that or self select yourself out of the gene pool.

>>76351106
>i cant draw a circle

The entitlement of these girls baffles me

>>76339453
>You realize this is a joke right? You have spoken to women before, right?
ah shit you got me

>>76339045 (OP)
I hate this stuff. Any time anyone makes a vertical video with words on it explaining the thing while they act out the thing.

What's that called? It's cancer. It's poison. Why do people choose to do this? When will it end??

>>76347991
Nope. No failure or coping. Just realistic. I'm not a virgin. You can like 10/10 generic models you'll never have a shot with if you like. You probably can't even help it. I'm more evolved than you apparently. Sexual experience matures you in ways you'll quite literally never understand or have the opportunity to.

>>76348062
lol, you're crazy.

>>76348071
you got pilled hard, incel
condolences, but it's for the best
more pussy for me

>Had another awkward encounter with gym crush where we both just stared silently into each others eyes before leaving

I have been going to college since January of this year and I have been rejected 5 times that I have tried (3 ghosted, 1 had a boyfriend, one not flat out said no) and now I'm pretty worried and exhausted with rejection so even when I get girls that smile at me like this at the gym I get so afraid to stop them from whatever they are doing and rizz them up because I don't wanna get ghosted/rejected again. WHY CANT GIRLS JUST COME UP TO ME AND MAKE THE FIRST MOVE?!?

>>76351919
5 is nothing, keep going.

>>76351919
>despondent after 5 times
give up zoom zoom.. you type like a fag and you're probably brown.

>>76341494
This

>>76351919
>>76351924
>5 is nothing
seriously. do 5 a day.

>>76351934
>>76351931
>>76351924
I haven't even brought up the nightmare that is the fucking dating apps. Or the soft rejections when the woman obviously isn't interested

>>76351553
Women are very confusing.

>>76351268
>words words words
>This is how you succeed:
>words words words
>words words
>words words words just pick a girl you want,

>That's it, words words words, they either like you or they don't, words words words

>words words words

And so when they don't, consistently?

>>76351588
>that pic
Reddit aznmasculinity faggots need to be deported to Asia for their mental health

>>76351473
Calm your tits Adonis. I'm sure hot blonde sorority girls are terrified to talk to you.

>>76351588
I've been approached by women before. It's rare but it happens.

>>76339060
Only /fit/izens could be this mathematically illiterate.

>>76340049
>She smiled told me her name and I spilled my spaghetti then walked away in shame
been there many times, brother

>>76340049
I did this years ago with a girl that was way beyond my league and I still hate myself even now. She even spilled spgahetti herself by saying she didn't have a boyfriend and somehow I still fucked up.

>>76351677
Well, maybe he isn't brown, Jewish or Mohammedan? Ever thought about that? Other peopl don't have these weird neurotic hangups about purity.

>>76344714
>I've befriended, become very close with, and asked out four girls. I have repeated this cycle 4 times. It took about a year each time.
Americans are so fucking lost lmao. 16 girls is what I hit on per night.

The problem with guys shooting their shot in the gym is the fact that most of these guys don't have the social baggage to pull it off, even tho it's a very delicate situation. and because they don't have this baggage they rush it and make it a all or nothing now or never attempt, while they are oozing needyness. This makes it way more uncomfortable for both parties involved than it needs to be.

>>76352321
you’re the local creep

>>76352105
>It's rare but it happens.
Kek, thanks for confirming you’re not as attractive as me. I bet they were all fat or mid too

>>76351888
It's called POv stich incoming sweaty

>>76343083
The TRVKE that destroyed "bro shes so into me we made eye contact for 0.2 microseconds as she walked by"-cels

>>76351163
hello newfriend

>>76347792
Why are you so mad that this guy didn't fuck an old, tagged hag? Does it remind you of your own mistakes and how the type of partner you want, wouldn't want you due to those mistakes?

>>76339045 (OP)
Flex a 'cep

>>76348080
>>76348096
I'm sure it's not literally clawing their pants off.
I'd imagine they're just more hands on or laugh at everything, you say, like a waitress or a stripper trying to get a bigger tip.