> be me
> awkward scrawny virgin in high school
> start lifting, grow a beard, hit 1/2/3/4, now bigger than most guys
> start going on dates with girls
> realize they all have double digit body counts by the time they are done with college
How do u stop being insecure about a girls body count? I want to have a normal romantic dating life but I’m so insecure most girls have been w so many other guys before me.

>>76386430 (OP)
Why does a high body count bother you? The only explanation that I can think of is insecurity
>she'll compare me to other guys who are better in bed
So what? She's still fucking you
>she has low standards which devalues me as a partner
So what? She's still fucking you

>>76386430 (OP)
Since you are capable of fucking women now, just speedrun building up your body count so you feel superior

>>76386452
or because its a huge red flag? she will either dump you or you will see soon why other guys ran away

A woman with a high body count clearly doesn't care about the intimacy either though?

>>76386452
higher number of sexual partners correlates with higher rate of divorce
this is true for both men and women BTW,

>>76386452
retard cuck kys

>>76386430 (OP)
You don't get over it unless you're a degenerate cuck. It's not normal.

>>76386430 (OP)
>I want to have a normal romantic dating life but I’m so insecure most girls have been w so many other guys before me.
she's not WITH those other people for a reason, anon. think about the other way around. imagine you had a few ex girlfriends you fucked the shit out of, but didn't work out for one reason or another. how is she supposed to feel about that knowledge? you constantly comparing her to those that came before?

she chose you. if you're not also choosing her in that situation, coming to this conclusion equally, and instead just clamoring at the chance to fuck her for the sake of it, you're not romantic, you're a fucking coward faggot. if you are choosing just as equally as she is to share in that, that's romance, ex partners be damned. that shit no longer matters. all that matters is you two.

>>76386514
>she chose you
just like she had previously chosen all those other guys and then left them to ride different cocks

>>76386528
haha checkmate. i will now proceed to kms

>>76386479
unironically the only true answer, or stop going for these types

>>76386514
she chose you the same way she chose a hundred before you and the same way she will choose a hundred after you, fucking retard

>>76386430 (OP)
You won't
Hold out for the right one. Thots begone. This also doesn't mean you shouldn't take advantage of that as well and do what you want but at the same time, is sex worth an std or baby?

>>76386528
>>76386548
just like you would have done if given the opportunity to fuck people you found attractive. i've met more women who were insecure about me having had good sex with previous women than i have ever been insecure about their previous partners. being insecure about previous partners is true cuck mentality. the fact that you couldn't move forward because of your imagination running wild picturing the girl you like getting dicked by other people.
>b-b-b-b-BUH WHAT ABOUT ALL THE OTHER GUYS, WHAT ABOUT THE GUYS THAT WILL COME INEVITABLY AFTER ME BECAUSE I'M ALREADY NOT GOOD ENOUGH IN MY OWN MIND
you are literally being a cuck inside your own head. that's some doug funnie shit.

>>76386565
>just like you would have done if given the opportunity to fuck people you found attractive
Nope, i don't like the idea of randomly having sex with someone whom i'm not committed to. If you have a body count into the double digits either you don't actually care to get to know your partner and just want random sex with strangers or you've some other personality flaw such that you've been wrong more than ten times in as many years, either way you're not worth the investment.

>>76386565
Nta but
>I get so much pussy bro ur just a cuck

>>76386584
and this perspective i'm sure is coming from a wealth of age, knowledge, and experience being on this planet. i'm sure.

give it like 3-5 more years of holding out, realizing you're literally mentally holding yourself back from being happy because of how someone else learned their way through their own life. let the lifetime of "what if's" finally build up to a point where you whiplash in the opposite direction and slowly transform into the exact person you never saw yourself being, and then develop a whole other personality disorder from the self guilt of not holding up to your childish life standards.

guaranteed you don't even lift either. lmao

>>76386628
Shit nigger that's a lot of ad hominem, comes off like projection
I'd rather not sacrifice the potential happiness of my future children so i can have a quick hit of the ephemeral that turns out to be a time bomb.

>>76386452
Because it is proof she is a low impulse whore, anon.
Guys with super high body counts are disgusting too, you sad coping degenerate.

>>76386514
We all know that the majority of the time a relathionship ends because of problems that stem from the woman.

>>76386565
>just like you would have done if given the opportunity to fuck people you found attractive.
This projection proves that you are an insecure piece of shit and desperately trying to justify having to settle for a whore.

>>76386646
you know this from personal experience?
>>76386653
i've been in a relationship for 15 years and happily married, kek.

>>76386628
You have a genuinely disgusting personality, anon. You are immoral and low self control, and when presented with an opinion that differs from yours you resent to cheap ad hominems and implying you are superior on a fundemental character level when to everyone here it is obvious that you are emotionally insecure.

>>76386658
Yes, I do.
And so you settled with a whore and have to reassure yourself by arguing with strangers in 4chan?

>>76386666
>he typed out on the fitness board on 4chan, from the mighty and high moral ground he sits on in his mothers house
sure man

>>76386670
Cut you deep, huh? Also;
Suck my digits, cuck bitch.

>>76386673
yeah man i'm bleeding out right now, i need to go make a therapist appointment because of how mentally deep you cut me bro i'm dying

please help me ammend my ways of giving the opposite sex equal respect to myself and not judge them on past mistakes (if they can even be considered mistakes) because i'm worried about being compared and considered inferiors to people i've never even met

fuck man i'm literally shaking right now i can't handle the mental burden

>>76386430 (OP)
Nothing to do with fitness.

The average woman does not have a double digit bodycount. This is increasingly true for younger people who are having less sex on average than ever regardless of gender.
Most young women today are quite nice if you actually talk to them and unlikely to be promiscuous if you meet them outside a slutty context like a club or on Tinder. Yes they’ll be kinda dumb but keep in mind they’re young and they’re women.
Threads like this are made by faggots and jews who want you to suffer.

>>76386685
first day on /fit/?

>>76386658
I know three guys who had serious relationships (some married with kids), from late 30's to 60's, where the woman one day decided to up and leave. I had a literal perfect girl one day randomly decide she felt guilty she couldn't see me often enough, and call it quits (after 3 years). I know a young guy (tall, good looking, real sweet) who constantly gets stood up.
Yes, it is typically the womans fault.