Ok, so I have lifted for a couple of years. Found great success, results, and it has become a recurring habit out of enjoyment. Going to the gym and getting stronger, more fit, is not a chore, but an activity I always look forward to.

How do I achieve the same enjoyment and success in other areas of life? Financial, social, etc.

Financially I don't need much besides the necessary for comfortable living, yet I am afraid of growing old and not having a house of my own or missing out on having a family and ending up alone. I could make more money to start a family, but, I don't even have a good woman to be with in the first place.

Socially, I am and have always been pretty introverted so I don't even know what to work here. Most of my childhood and college friends have gone abroad or to other places, so I only talk to them by text and I don't really fit in with the average normie, who is obsessed with status or banal shit.

I wish everything in life could be like the gym. That is, put in effort, get results. A simple, linear relationship with no bullshit, no mind games, no favors required.

the gym is not linear though, its literally like everything else in life, you get 80% of the results from 20% of the effort