>>76418140 (OP)Hey anon, here are the two important variables to be able to get your foot through the door:
- Looks
- Status
Since the bottom 80% of men are automatically discarded when only the former is evaluated, you'll have to look into status. Unless you're already at the top 30%, lifting won't make you attractive enough to attract women with looks only.
What is status? Anything that puts you above your peers: Physical strength, money, competence, ambition, humor, social connections...
You have to amass status, and then project that status onto potential partners. Godspeed.