Thread 76418140

how the FUCK are fat beta low tier normies able to get sex but I can’t get laid to save my life despite being an in shape decent looking college guy? Tell me right fucking now!

Financially stable and emotionally resigned

>>76418140 (OP)
shes a whale dude

>>76418140 (OP)
you gotta actually talk to girls anon. start with 5's and 6's and work your way up.

>>76418140 (OP)
The fat beta low tier normies weren't afraid of speaking with women
Just talk to them till you find one that shows interest and you like
Also remember that sex outside of long term committed relationships is bad for your soul

>>76418140 (OP)
Because you have a shitty personality and are likely racist.

>>76418140 (OP)
How is your relationship with your father?

>>76418164
talk about what?

>>76418181
You don't talk. You listen.

>>76418140 (OP)
> beta low tier normies
Heres's the thing, these classifications only exist in your mentally ill terminally online brain
Sure people might look down on a fatass or meek dude, still puts him above your autistic ass. Your worldview isnt the same as the average person's

>>76418184
Settle down, Marylin

You're a pussy

>>76418173
remember long term committed relationships don’t grow on trees. A long term relationship takes a long time. It’s in the name. And you will likely not find it in your first relationship especially with the state of modern women. You’re essentially saying be a virgin, or at least celibate, until marriage. But what if you get married and find she doesn’t like having sex with you, or you don’t like it with her? Or your libidos are incompatible? Then what? Then you’re screwed cause you put a ring on a hand that can’t even jerk you off with some enthusiasm.

>>76418178
ask them that or you’re asking me?

>>76418177
I don’t get it women fuck racist guys with shitty personalities all the time?

>>76418203
I'm asking (You), but you just told me

>>76418140 (OP)
Guys like this get an angry handjob once a month, if they're lucky.

>>76418218
no i didn’t. my dad is chill. old though. he plays golf. decently /fit/ for his age. doesn’t shut up about his football days like uncle rico. he loves me mom. married 28 years.

>>76418225
>angry handjob
That's extremely hot

>>76418225
even if she’s a 5 i’d kill for an angry handjob it beats the ones I give myself no pun intended

>>76418140 (OP)
>Tell me right fucking now!

Well, your personality seems sparkling so I have no idea what your issue could be.

But the actual problem is probably that you're putting effort in the wrong places. I'm a fucking piece of a shit with a flabby body and I could get dates on apps. Just keep trying and go on dates even if they're a little below what you'd expect. Not uggos and ham planets. Just if you're shopping for a 7/10, don't be afraid of a 6. You don't have to marry these girls you just need to get experience dealing with women's bullshit.

Also with women presentation is *everything*. Your pictures have to look good. Your hair has to look good. Not pristinely groomed, but good. You can't half ass stuff for your first impression.

But here is the real blackpill [spoiler]You probably will enjoy your free time more than your gf.[/spoiler] But it's ok. Companionship it still worth it when it all shakes out.

>>76418240
>[spoiler]

>>76418178
NTA. Terrible. Last time we talked was on my birthday over a month ago, he sent me 250 bucks to get myself something, dreading having to visit my grandma (his mom) this Sunday just in case he actually decides to show up. Currently on a 5 year committed relationship with the best girl I've ever been with. I don't see how one thing affects the other

>>76418181
talk to them about boning. ask them what positions the like to get boned in.

>>76418194
I don't disagree that social media has warped a lot of Men and Women. But there's still more than enough women who would prefer simply waiting awhile to actually be in a real relationship first.
It doesn't even have to be "go find women at church" tier girls, although that does work.
Just join an online bookclub through your university and you'll be swimming in girls that think about tinder and hooking up with disdain the same way we do.

Some girls don't like sex, but it's not a common as people fear. They're biologically programmed to want a partner and intimacy same as we are. And you'll know within the first weeks if she's interested that way. It's amazing how naturally we pick up on those signs once you pair off and start paying attention to one another.

>>76418240
Thanks for the actual advice but I’m going to be a contradictory asshole anyways so bear with me.
I don’t want to use apps. They are demotivating. I downloaded an app 3 years ago and found that the few attractive women are mostly money hungry party sluts just looking for “Chad” to fuck them and use them for sex. and the rest are 3s or 4s which I refuse to talk to. I’d give myself an 8 (it’s customary to not use 7 as a cop-out). I am face-handsome and in shape. Only problem is my height. 5’7. No I will not post a pic of myself you’ll have to take my word for it. I actually have had sex with 7s and 8s but I have been on a dry spell for approaching a year and I don’t know why. The incel lingo in the OP was half-real half-clickbait to have this discussion as to what the fuck I can be doing better. I guess I am a little autistic (who isn’t here). But I my autists and assholes peers getting action all the time. I also have been doing no-fap since Febuary so the sexual frustration is real.

>>76418265
LMAO

>>76418271
I don’t get it why was that funny?

>>76418263
cap

>>76418140 (OP)
Talk to women, make advances. Also women like to see guys with women so it won't hurt to make women friends. I met a girl at a bar, went to a club with her and got other women interested in me. Ended up fucking the bar chick and another in the same night. Women are highly competitive and will want a man other women have.

>>76418154
and sucked 500 cocks before she got fat

>>76418283
I thought women are like oh he came with a girl must be his gf

>>76418283
>another in the same night
Your LARP fell through way too hard

>>76418291
lol

>>76418294
Why would I lie? Trust me they were both mid whores.

>>76418265
men overrate themselves and the women they’re involved with also. i mean, you’re self admittedly autistic. you have no understanding of social cues let alone what people find attractive

>>76418301
perfect match for you

>>76418283
>Talk to women
noted, btw you probably meant to say "talk to dumb retarded whores" because thats what theyre all really are

>>76418309
>men overrate themselves and the women they’re involved with also
Women don't do this

>>76418140 (OP)
Hey anon, here are the two important variables to be able to get your foot through the door:
- Looks
- Status
Since the bottom 80% of men are automatically discarded when only the former is evaluated, you'll have to look into status. Unless you're already at the top 30%, lifting won't make you attractive enough to attract women with looks only.
What is status? Anything that puts you above your peers: Physical strength, money, competence, ambition, humor, social connections...
You have to amass status, and then project that status onto potential partners. Godspeed.

>>76418291
Women aren't men, the modern woman doesn't care as long as you choose them

.>>76418301
You are not me, stop it

>>76418315
>You have to amass status
How to do this as a manlet nofapper obessed with anime?

>>76418322
KEK

>>76418322
Why are you pretending like you and those women aren’t subhuman looking degenerate fucks

>>76418324
Are you currently in education or employment? If the latter, what's your job?

>>76418265
I’ll answer I guess cause I was just like you a few years ago.

I read all the pickup books and watched the guru videos on YouTube. Wondering why I wasn’t getting laid despite being a good looking guy. Then one day I asked myself when the last time I met a new girl actually was. I was so focused on the girls already in my life who wouldn’t fuck me, and learning pickup shit, that it didn’t even occur to me to meet a new girl. Once I did I started getting laid.

So go outside. That’s literally it. Don’t just go outside and not talk to anyone. Or go places you usually go. Meet new girls. When you meet them don’t be a pussy so she friendzones you instantly. Be confident. Be fun. Act like she’s already itching to fuck you the same way you are. I get that you are autistic and in a dry spell. It applies to a lot of us here. But for fuck sake go outside instead of falling into the world of online incel shit. Being online doesn’t get you any closer to pussy.

>>76418337
>in shape decent looking college guy
idk you tell me

>>76418140 (OP)
Because you're abnormal.
You're not even beta level.
You're so far down the totem pole you don't even register.

>>76418236
>i’d kill for an angry handjob
Girls are terrible at handjobs. Angry or otherwise.

>>76418338
and now the question is: go outside to meet women ok, but where?

>>76418337
cmon dude the post was like 2 sentences

>>76418338
Who are you to give me advice? I’m better looking than you. I don’t care to hear about the mid / fat chicks you met outside when I’m used to banging 7’s and 8’s. You just started getting pussy. Don’t reply to me again.

>>76418177
Hey now, I'm racist too and girls love me

>>76418354
>but where?
any

>>76418358
Gay troll

>>76418343
I didn't realize you were OP. In that case, you still have tons of opportunities. Get good in some skill (competence, a form of status) and join some clubs in your school. Talk to normies, get humiliated, keep talking anyways, it'll get easier (social proof and connections, also a form of status). Follow where the river takes you from there.

>>76418366
you think so?

>>76418366
>B-bros I listened to every Andrew Tate podcast and couldn’t get pussy until I started cold approaching mid women IRL! I’m super good looking but couldn’t get laid!

>>76418370
>Don’t reply to me again.

>>76418338
OP here. Thanks for the advice but I ask the same as >>76418354 where? I have heard “go outside” before but nobody ever seems to specify where the fuck to go? Gym? Cancelled. Library? She’s just trying to read bro. Church? She’s with her whole family.
I don’t disagree that I should go outside but where the fuck do I go? Remember I’m an autistic retard and need specifics.

>>76418378
I'm genuinely curious to hear why you think my advice is garbage.

>>76418371
>>76418376
chill out

>>76418379
>need specifics
Do you have a gun?

>>76418389
Yeah but what does that have to do with anything?

>>76418379
Dude you're in college. You have classes with tons of peers in them. There must also be tons of clubs in your school. See >>76418370

>>76418178
Never knew him. Instead I got physically, intellectually and spiritually mutilated by my single mother.
I got a good feeling about my chances with girls, anon!

>>76418280
He's being 100 brah

>>76418140 (OP)
I rent them. I couldn't imagine living with one or being with one.
To be fair all the chill women are married so I do know they exist

>>76418405
nah tell that to that 3 feet indian

>>76418333
I am actually handsome and posted myself before. Getting lean makes it easy

.>>76418379
Literally anywhere, who gives a shit if she is reading or with her family? Remember it is only harassment if you are ugly or they are mentally ill. Go ask the woman what she is reading, then follow it up with more questions such as what does she like to read or who her favorite writer is.

>>76418393
What kind?

>>76418338
>Be confident
You can't just fake that shit. Shyness is a direct manifestation of low status in cases where it isn't pathological (social anxiety disorder). To be confident you must have some sort of status.

>>76418412
then repost it goofy

>>76418410
>To be fair all the chill women are married so I do know they exist
Wise

>>76418412
OP here before someone trolls pretending to be me thanks for the advice I guess its just the fear of rejection holding me back and forming excuses cause you’re right.
>>76418414
Not entertaining your troll shit anymore kys. You can use my gun.

>>76418420
then why do they cheat and why do married men complain so much?

>>76418225
>angry handjob
that's hot, especially if she looks at her phone

>>76418425
Only listen to that guy if you want to bang whores and you have a low sense of self worth

>>76418425
>decides to take the worst advice in the thread
Never mind OP. Stay a virgin.

>>76418322
this bitch sounds like you’re texting an Asian masseuse that gives happy endings

>>76418430
they don't

>>76418232
>>76418438
>>76418236
are you guys seriously that touch starved this is pathetic. cuck tier shit

>>76418425
If rejection happens then it wasn't meant to be. Now if it happens with someone you actually love that is a different experience and actually hurts. So don't get invested too soon, be detached and let them pursue you.

>>76418422
This is not me. Pic related

>>76418441
>>76418443
What’s wrong with my advice?

>>76418425
>You can use my gun
babyyyy i need youu gun
that gun buldge
im so relieved you messaged me to use your gun
i want youuuur gun so bad
i want your gun inside me daddy

>>76418447
Cope harder virgin.

this thread is just like 5 dudes pretending to be each other

>>76418465
not me. i’m actually an 8/10 with a hot gf

>>76418462
>>76418471
got his bitch ass

>>76418140 (OP)
Are you short?
>be me
>be fat
>be ugly
>be poor
>half the time nit even have a car
>social skills of a fucking rock, can't approach women
>have banged 2 dozen hotties(all but 2 when I was desperate, they were fatties)
>married to a 7.5/10 who's about to get braces and be 8-8.5 easy
But I'm 6'3

>>76418177
Black and jew women love it if you're unironically WP

>>76418379
We do not know where you are or what your life is you dumb nigger. YOU live in your environment, not us. Ask that question to yourself instead of us, survey your surroundings, and take action already.

>>76418465
Wrong, they are all pretending to be me and I am driving

>>76418471
You are ugly bro, and you look feeble-minded. You look 45, which is the age I think you said you are, and your "wife" looks about 50 - though Asian women still look fairly young at 50 that's what she looks like. Your hair looks to me like its dyed black, that doesn't look like a natural black, could be wrong about that.

You failed at life and couldn't get an American woman so you got a woman from another country. Why are you posting this shit here? Is it a humiliation thing?

Now fuck off, noone here wants to see you.

>>76418412
Great advice if you want to be ostracized and develop even worse avoidance. Some fear of rejection is rational. Unfortunately most people can't think beyond black-and-white and fail to recognize that both "OH MY GOD DON'T FLIRT WITH WOMEN EVER" and "ANYWHERE IS GOOD" approaches are retarded and fail to strike the balance.

>>76418481
Why are you posting this larp shit here? Is it a humiliation thing?

Now fuck off, noone here wants to see you.

>>76418502
ok let’s see what you look like then. and your girlfriend.

>>76418489
no im not

>>76418518
I already posted myself ITT.

>>76418471
I am here and I want to see you.

>>76418140 (OP)
They go outside.
>>76418154
And this.

>>76418518
eh? Who said I was attractive or had a girlfriend? I'm not trying to talk myself up and you down, I'm just talking objectively. You seem to misunderstand what this place is, it's not somewhere that we post pictures of each other on. People do that on Facebook, I think there's a board here as well that does it - /soc/ - go post your picture there. Do you realize that it is trolling to post it here? And no you're definitely not attractive, you're maybe 5/10 being generous, about the same as that lady who I assume you're posting without her permission.

>>76418481
I am here and I want to see you.

>>76418534
No, I'm fat and ugly, as stated

>>76418533
post fizeek on this image board

>>76418533
Autism.

>>76418533
But then how do you explain how everybody on here is self proclaimed good looking and bangs 8/10s? are you saying they’re liars?

>>76418533
>Who said I was attractive or had a girlfriend?
we know

great thread you guys, really doing a good job of hiding all that seething and resentment

>>76418602
what do you mean?

>>76418546
Men often feel a strong need to see themselves as impressive, so they’ll find ways to boost their ego, like exaggerating their own attractiveness or that of the women they’re with, when in reality, they’re just delusional and have low standards.

>>76418508
So the ultimate answer for incels is:

go outside and meet new women. be confident and flirt with them only if the enviornment and situation is acceptable.

this solves every incels problem

>>76418140 (OP)
>normies
You already said it. You can't outlift autism.

>>76418608
you’re either a cynic or projecting. In any case, it would be wise to work on your mental health.

>>76418610
and make it overtly obvious you're only talking to them or around them so you can stab their pussy with your penis

>>76418615
he did.

>>76418610
>this solves every incels problem
No because most incels don't have the necessary social proof to make it work.

>>76418616
post proof then retard

>>76418646
you don’t need social proof

>>76418610
I think it’s universally understood most men struggle with women. The ones that brag about them are getting the lowest tier pussy just to claim to be above incels

>>76418616
He’s right and you’re mad for being called out about it

>>76418140 (OP)
Talk to women
You literally can not get a gf without talking to women, you can't spend all day doing solitary activities and then complain that no woman ever talks to you. There's a reason most people got laid in high school/college, it's because men and women get shoved together into one environment and talk to each other. Join a run club, go rock climbing, make casual conversation with a neighbor in an elevator, do whatever but do something. This is like going
>I never lift heavy, why are all these other guys stronger than me

>>76418610
lies

>>76418690
social media ruined women. They get all their social needs met on social media and dating apps. They do not want to talk to the average guy. Incels have a point about “chad”. Women want to talk if you are tall and good looking. That’s why lifting is good because you will at least be good looking by lifting. But if you aren’t attractive enough, a woman would rather talk to her dog.

>>76418140 (OP)
When I was in the Marines, I knew a lot of guys that lived by the mantra "lower your standards, raise your average."
That's how "fat beta low tier normies" get sex. Vast majority of them end up with women that are about their equivalent. You will too.