Thread 76464880

How much do you need to lift to get a mid girlfriend?

>>76464880 (OP)
anything between zero and 3 hours a day

>>76464880 (OP)
Depends on how ugly she is OP.
Someone like your picrel? You'd better be in the gym 2 hours a day and blasting tren with a 9 inch cock or she'll immediately think youre a sub5

>>76464880 (OP)
The only part of your body you need to grow to get a gf is your balls, loser.

>>76464931
What exercise

>>76464933
Ween jorks to failure

>>76464880 (OP)
why doe they always make the
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face

>>76464944
In reality they're ashamed of their bodies

>>76464880 (OP)
Doesn't matter

>>76464880 (OP)
as much as it takes to lift their mood

15% body fat and a bit of muscle, thats it

>>76465006
this, it's so much easier than you think

love my wife bros, been married 14 years. hope you find you a good woman too anons

>>76464880 (OP)
that chick has 100 beta orbiters in her DMs bro.

>>76464880 (OP)
0. You need confidence, experience, height and tight hyoid skin. Lifting won't give you sex. Lifting in a gym just helps you meet girls.
>>76464944
SSRIs

>>76464944
too much Office

>>76464880 (OP)
You can't lift retardation and autism away bro.

>>76465128
>tight hyoid skin
what?

>>76465128
>SSRIs
Is this possible? I went on a date with this 22 year old and she has that dead inside face and that face expression especially in her IG pics, is she on SSRI? She can hold good convos and she doesn't sound like an npc although she is vaxxed and pro lgbt

>>76464880 (OP)
If by mid you mean skinny with no other remarkable features, you need to be lean (at least a hint of abs) plus built shoulders/arms. 2 years of lifting with a good routine (something with 2+ a week frequency for all arm muscles) should do it.

>>76465174
>2 years to get a 5/10 girl
what about 8+/10?

>>76465170
Ask her.

>>76465176
Lean, built arms and shoulders, but you get one more /10 for every other muscle group you bring up. Sorry, it's settled science.

aaAAUURRGHHH my ex had a body like this, 5'9", pretty face, 2 master's degrees, funny, career prospects, smart as fuck, extroverted, well liked, always up for new things but still down to earth

unfortunately she was also an insecure lying emotionally abusive attention whore who gave me herpes. all in all 10/10, would do it again

>>76465113
and wants approximately none of them my nigga. they can straight up feel completely alone, insecure, and ugly with options at their fingertips because they want those men so little that they don't factor into their self-perception

>>76464880 (OP)
You don't need to lift at all.

>>76465203
In 2025 you do.

>>76465187
In a woman's mind if Chad isn't talking to her she is ugly and lonely. Other men don't even count.

>>76465205
>t. repellent personality

>>76465241
this is an untrue binary and also inaccurate regarding how population variation and attraction works.

the more accurate version is that women usually have a lot attention they don't want and only sometimes have attention they want. people who orbit women are not doomed, they just are barking up the wrong tree. and the men that women are interested in are not always chad. as a matter of fact, in the real world, they usually are not.

>>76465254
>t. Future betabuxx

>>76465260
i've got 18 bodies, several of them pretty, and never provided for any of them, nor have i been chad

>>76464880 (OP)
Chris Bumstead's wife is mid as you can go, and it took him the whole life of training and 10/10 genetics to get there.
So, do the maths.

Kekke spam

>>76465282
tennison's mid wife looks better

>>76465282
>>76465288
To be honest, both of them could have easily landed 10/10 women, but a man instinctively knows that mid wife is better in the long run than a hot wife.

>>76464880 (OP)
bruh...women like this get married lol. Imagine that shit.

>>76465288
>>76465282
they probably both have incredible personalities (at least by the appraisal of their partner) and a good bond. as long as there's enough sexual attraction, a good personality and bond turns a woman into someone who makes 10/10s by societal aesthetic standards look ehh. that's literally how the human brain works

>>76465301
>To be honest, both of them could have easily landed 10/10 women, but a man instinctively knows that mid wife is better in the long run than a hot wife.
yeah, you answered it yourself. Those girls may be mid, but they share the same passion and are probably good girls, that's better than a 10 in looks.

I don’t get it, she looks pretty good to me, nice wide hips, pretty slim. Agree with the poster that said 15% with a bit of muscle

>>76465170
>she doesn't sound like an npc although she is vaxxed and pro lgbt

>>76464930
spbp

>>76465128
But if you're average looking (sub5) you're worthless to her and just looking at her will piss her off and make her go like "this ugly guy keeps looking at me". The hard truth if that you're not looksmaxxed out and over 6.2 with the baby face (with hunters eyes) and a faggy haircut only men with zero receding hairline can pull then it's over.

Girls really don't give a fuck if you have a huge cock, or sickcunt physique/strength amd can physically dominate and mog the local "so called chad".

>>76465288
Looksmatched.

>>76464880 (OP)
you need to be a roided 300lb olympian body builder

>>76465170
>doesn't sound like an npc although she is vaxxed and pro lgbt
99% of women are pozzed normies dude. She is malleable and can be saved if you are chad enough but at 22 it's prob too late

>have basically no irl friends (hang out with my high school friends once a month if I'm lucky)
>refuse to use dating apps and don't use social media
>don't really go anywhere aside from work, the gym, and the supermarket

how is someone in my position supposed to get a gf?
I'm not ugly but I just feel like I'm stuck in this sort of limbo where the days just bleed into the next, I never have new experiences and I literally never meet new people.
And please don't give trite bluepill advice like "just go to a bar and talk to people bro"

>>76465941
22 might not be too late, but it's getting there. In my experience, 25 is the real cut off. Before that, if you can properly fuck her, you can make her be whatever you want her to be and get her to do anything. It's not terribly hard, but many guys are either afraid of using this power or unable to harness it.

>>76465012
Pathetic beta.

>>76465959
I used a dating app. Im funny looking at best.

Demoralised OP huh? Get 10% bodyfat, some abs and decent 6 pack with good lighting and you'll get hook ups on tinder. International tinder will x50 your success

>>76465012
based

>>76465959
focus on getting a social circle first anon

>>76465959
Either ask girls out at work (if you don't care about your job or you're not a pussy) or you need to find something where you'll meet people. Either start going to church or volunteer somewhere (likely a church program, since that's the only volunteering in many areas).
>But I don't believe in God/don't want to go to church/don't want to put in any effort
Then the truth is you're NGMI. You're going to have to change your circumstances and/or make yourself uncomfortable to get what you want. If you refuse to use dating apps, you're very limited in what you can accomplish and you're going to have to suffer a bit.

>>76465959
>>76465978
Start doing a group activity; volleyball, soccer, rock climbing, take a dance class, whatever makes you socialize

>>76465985
>volleyball, soccer, rock climbing, take a dance class
don't fall for these meme activities though, go to a book club or something like that, your only competition will be lanky nerds or overweight slobs

>>76464880 (OP)
nothing

>>76466008
It can be anything, anon has failed so he must try new things and see what happens

>>76465012
I hate my wife, don’t listen to him anons it’s a trap

>>76466017
Your fault for choosing your wife, just because you make mistake others can still have good marriage

>>76465012
>>76466017
Im engaged and while i love my fiancee, i catch myself looking and desiring other women regularly. Im bored of our sex. Its over before it even began

>>76466014
yeah, true, but if anon is entirely focused on the idea that a gf will magically fix him, then book clubs or foreign language studies work the best
back in my college days I was forced to go to a English club meeting (bro your English is so good please we need someone to fill), and it was just girls, a couple of introverted dyels and one autist who lifted, the autist had girls try and talk to him the entire time and he just shut them off and focused on learning, cool guy, talked to him a couple of times after, wonder how he's doing nowadays...
the point is uh, if you're desperate for a gf and your only redeeming quality is you lift, go to a place where guys don't lift

>>76466037
>Im bored of our sex
So make it more fun, retard. Get her a tubovibrator and nuke her clit, get her large dildo, and eat her ass.

>>76465959
When it comes to both improving your social circle and meeting girls, you need to put yourself out there.
In today's society it's not an easy thing; it's really incredibly hard. People do not talk to strangers or meet new people anymore.

>>76466046
Im not into that degenerate shit

>>76466062
Sounds like sex was always boring for you. Enjoy your missionary sex for the sole purpose of procreation, queer.

>>76465347
>>76465288
Will's wife seem super super goofy from his videos.

>>76465288
His videos made me think he's gay. This post hasn't fully convinced me otherwise.

>>76466046
>Get her a tubovibrator and nuke her clit, get her large dildo, and eat her ass.
t. never had sexual contact with a woman.

>>76465895
yeah but tennison is rich and famous

>>76465962
>22 might not be too late
Mate i've been there a lot of times but with millenial girls. Are gen z bitches differente or AWALT?

Because this girl is kinda bossy and she grew up without a father but she is certainly young. But i'm kinda not bothered trying because i'm burned out lately from women. How do i regain my drive?

Do what I did guys, set your tinder to a non capital city in South-east Asia. about 20-30% success if you add a filter. It feels good mentally to know each day there are matches coming in. Of course most lead nowhere cause of the thousands mile distance, besides the point

>>76466222
>22
>222 Trips
Jesus Christ is this it?

>>76466226
That is, 20-30% per person swiped, of course

>>76466226
>non capital city in South-east Asia
You are genius, anon.

>>76464880 (OP)
You don't need to worry about impressing them. They honestly don't give a fuck at all. What matters to them is that their friends are impressed with you. As long as her friends stay jealous of her, she'll never leave you. If her friends are constantly trying to bang you, you know you've hit the mark.

>>76464880 (OP)
Depends on how abnormal you are. If you’re Normcunt McNormington then not at all. The closer you are to Terry Richardson and Ullillia the fitter you gotta be.

>>76465365
I'm pretty good looking. I'm a sperg though, not social and spend most of my time in my garage.
I dated a 9/10. Really beautiful ex-model, never wore makeup and still had this beautiful fresh face. Big titties, perfect plump ass. Perfect pussy lips.

Now I date a 5/10. 2 years so far. I'd never go back. I miss my ex's looks but holy fuck was it exhausting. All she wanted to do was socialise and do cute things together. Now I just mostly do what I want and I bang my mid gf all the time. Life is good.

>>76465959
I'm in the same situation but I don't really care about being with a girl and prefer solitude over company at 21, I'm guessing this isn't normal right? Like sometimes I want bodily warmth of another but I think going to a hooker can be an okay option

>>76466260
I miss dumping my ex mid gf, was fucked 24/7 and she was Head over heels with me. FFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK

>>76466033
I didn’t choose her, I got her pregnant.

>>76466037
It’s crazy how you put a ring in the finger and all the sexual exploration and blowjobs vanish into thin air