>>76475240
Most marriages don't start that way.
The beginning is usually good enough. It's the general inclination towards the fall, the general down trend of humanity that degrades everything, everything is bound to degrade and die/disappear/etc. The stress, costs, fatigue, lethargy, addictions big or small, inconsequential pet peeves, little annoyances. These things take a toll on you over a long enough period of time, it's like mental cancer. Over a long enough period of time, every living tissue is bound to develop cancerous cells, accumulate inflammation, etc.
4chan literal, actual unironical incels pretend every guy willfully walked into a hellish cold frigid marriage as if that's something that anyone would want out of their marriage.