Thread 76528200

With almost every young guy on the self-improvement bandwagon, being muscular does not cut it. Every guy 16-40 is hitting the gym and getting jacked. If you want to stand out you need to do even more and get a second hobby that you can practice daily.
So what is an attractive hobby that will make you stand out in the sea of guys who are all improving themselves?

>>76528200 (OP)
Just learn to play wonderwall on guitar.

irl far right activism

>>76528200 (OP)
>crypto trading
>nfts
>anime
>gaming
there you go anon

>>76528200 (OP)
drums

>>76528200 (OP)
>attractive hobby
traveling. all whores are obsessed with muh traveling and moneyspending

>>76528200 (OP)
anything that doesnt involve staying indoors for hours on end

Making social media videos gets you pussy like nothing else

Collecting pictures of flabby butts is seen as a really attractive hobby.

>>76528200 (OP)
I just make lots of money. I'm very fat and don't work out.

If I offer them weed they will all fuck me

>>76528200 (OP)
>bowhunting
>shooting
>Muay Thai
>playing string instrument
>learning foreign languages
>reading classic literature
>cycling
>woodworking
>autowork

>>76528200 (OP)
Learn an instrument, you can also get really good at bar games like darts or pool if you plan on picking up at bars. If you want to make yourself stand out maybe something uncommon like archery. To do something with the strength you get in the gym perhaps martial arts or climbing?

>>76528200 (OP)
my unique hobby which is basically just getting drunk, jerking off and crying attracts no women, not yet anyway

>>76528200 (OP)
>Every guy 16-40 is hitting the gym and getting jacked
myth

> So what is an attractive hobby

Go and play pickleball

>>76528267
>>76528272
Gay. Just make lots of money and offer them weed they'll ride your dick

hobbies are for cucks

>>76528272
I have been playing piano for 2 years but it has made zero difference in my dating life. Should I mention that I play piano to girls? I usually never tell because it's very intimate/special to me and I also only play classical music, no pop or jazz.
Is any instrument other than guitar a meme for dating maybe?

>>76528302
you need to be in a band or perform in some way

maybe since you already know piano you can pick up a synth and be a producer

but the bottom line is get on stage where people can see you

>>76528302
>>76528318
shut the fuck up faggots

just make lots of money and offer the girls weed.

you think you're mozart bitch?

Women apparently think reading is an attractive hobby but unless you get some English/Philosophy major art ho type I have a feeling they’ll get offended when it turns out I don’t read YA fantasy romance novels

>>76528318
I hate performing, I have to attent recital 4x a year. Why can't I just play something when a girl is over at my place? Wouldn't that have an effect?

>>76528302
If you want to use hobbies for girls then you need to find social functions that apply to that hobby, perform music or go to shows where others play classical. If you get another hobby find groups that engage in that hobby, there will be women there.

>watching porn
>playing video games
>playing porn video games
>drinking
>being racist online

>>76528213
I used to be into this until I realized that "my" people deserve it. At this point I'd sooner convert to Judaism than doing anything for those ungrateful retarded TV zombies. I never wanted children, so it's not like I really have to care how society looks like in a few generations.

>>76528333
>>76528334
Just get a lot of money and then give her some weed.

Nobody cares about your "skills" and "hobbies" gay bitch. Make moeny fuck bitches what are you a fag

>>76528334
Classical music concerts would be a place but they are only old people. I talk to girls regularly at a run club I joined but they are only interested in the tall handsome jacked guys that also attend. I thought playing an instrument could get you a leg up on them.

>>76528200 (OP)
Paint 40k miniatures. Girls love creative guys.

>>76528200 (OP)
>Almsot every young guy is sexless as per your picture
>With almost every young guy on the self-improvement bandwagon, being muscular does not cut it. Every guy 16-40 is hitting the gym and getting jacked.
It's funny that you don't realize what you're saying

>>76528200 (OP)
I draw and it usually impresses people

>>76528282
>>76528366
Maybe this is just a trend in Europe but most guys consume self-improvement content online. Vast majority of guys here is getting a good university degree, works out, does tons of sports, plays an instrument, learns a third or even fourth language, meditates daily, journals, cardio, improves fashion, skin-care, grooming routine, you name it.
Everyone knows with online dating girls have more options than ever. Even ugly girls don't settle for less than at least average + athletic + smart. Every guy knows this and so competition is absolutely insane. Why do you think so many men are on gear?

>>76528404
I'll help you:
>Everyone does X
>Everyones doesn't have sex
>Conclusion: Doing X is not good for having sex
Why would you imitate the loser virgins instead of the player chads? Obviously women don'r care about your self improvement so if you want to impress women, why go that route?

>>76528419
It's just cope I guess. All you need to get s girlfriend is to be tall and attractive. If you are not you die alone but you need to distract yourself from that or keep up some delusion of hope.
>if I just work on myself enough I am going to land a girlfriend

>all the losers ITT getting hobbies just to impress women

lmao. Just get money and be handsome you autistic fucking retards

>>76528546
How do I become handsome?

>>76528200 (OP)
>gaming
>being racist and exposing the jews
>crypto
>being disrespectful to women
>birdwatching

>>76528200 (OP)
I think the way to go about this is to get a hobby that has you going outside and meeting different kinds of people. Think rock climbing, hiking, martial arts. Make some friends, have a life outside of lifting and work. It should be something you enjoy though, so maybe try a bunch of things and see what you like.

>>76528546
To slightly lessen the blackpill here, all three of the women depicted are fat and below average

>>76528355
hope to never get this blackpilled

>>76528374
those are some cool bones anon

>>76528241
Unironically, yes

>>76528329
It's not reading itself or the ideas acquired from reading. It's that reading "projects" being cultures and "higher status", even if all you read are romance novel slop or other tripe

>>76528200 (OP)
You could just go to a bar and get drunk instead of all this bullshit

>>76528355
Why do anglos feel the need to victimize themsleves worse than jews

>2018
This graph is a beaten dead horse
Bitches don’t deserve my semen anyway

>>76528200 (OP)
I swim and do community work. Women seem to like it way more than lifting and chugging protein drinks. Also I like going out and exploring or just hanging around the city. Lots of things to do.

>>76529130
What about manga?

>>76528200 (OP)

I make my own wine from wild grapes I harvest off the side of the highway and I own a (shitty) fishing boat. Anytime I mention either of these normies sperg out and want to know everything about it. Especially the wine, I've sold at least a dozen bottles at $15/ea. Food for thought.

>>76528200 (OP)
I play classical guitar, electric guitar and piano very well. It is an excellent ice breaker and while its not a guarantee it definitely helps. When I get done playing a show or something theres usually a couple ladies willing and wanting to talk to me.

>>76528200 (OP)
These are the hobbies that women find attractive:
>being tall
>having a robust jaw
>having an 8 inch dick
>having broad shoulders
>having piercing eyes with a positive canthal tilt
>having a Norwood 1 hairline

>>76528200 (OP)
If the point is for others to see your hobbies while in public, reading is probably the best one.

>>76528302
>>76528318
>>76528326
>>76528334
You need to put videos of you playing on social media.

>>76528200 (OP)
>reading while being 6ft+
>dancing while being 6ft+
>any physical sport from tennis to kickboxing to football while being 6ft+
>just standing around while being 6ft+
>clown school volunteer while being 6ft+

>>76528374
> he fell for the bridgeman meme

Hiking!

>spending time outdoors is healthy
>will keep you in good shape
>hiking together will help ensure she isn't completely weak and out of shape
>probably the cheapest hobby one can do outside of their house
>girls seem to like it

>>76530615
>Implying 6 feet is tall

>>76530582
put videos on you playing. Pay some indian scum $50 to bot your videos.

>>76528255
what even is a social media video game?

>>76528261
But weed is cheap

>>76528200 (OP)
>since they turned 18
Why? Why are they ignoring potential sex that happened before 18? Is it problemetic to even talk about it in a study now?.Is it illegal to ask someone if they had sex before 18?

>>76532238
>weed is cheap
so is dinner.

Women are fickle creatures. They'll value an expensive meal as much as an expensive car even though the latter takes 1000x more effort to get and maintain

>>76532312
They'd be impressed if you can cook them a decent meal, right?
No to find a place to cook for them.

>>76532312
They'd be impressed if you can cook them a decent meal, right?
Now to find a place to cook for them.

>>76530308
>I make my own wine from wild grapes I harvest off the side of the highway
Chicks dig heavy metal poisoning.

>>76532790
Knowing how to cook is good for keeping a woman's interest in a relationship, but it's less useful for starting one.

listen to me young buck. If you are adopting a hobby to appeal to women you are fucked.

I understand that "be yourself" is the worst advice to a virgin trying to fuck but you do need to at least be TRUE to yourself. Dont be a gay ass cringe fucking poser. Women will detect your incongruence anyway. Do a hobby that YOU want to have.

Me? My hobby is mountain biking. I have never met a single girl doing it. But girls think its cool because they can detect I genuinely love it. And it allows me to have more patience with women and not be so snappy and reactive to their shit.

>>76528356
>Don't be interesting be a nigger
Im good bro

>>76532790
You should learn "how to cook" (meaning buy quality meats and apply heat cheaply and efficiently to make it edible) for yourself to escape the cycle of goyslop ingestion.

>>76533860
But dude... WEED!!!

>>76528213
oh my god

a bag full of papers

>>76528212
>Anyways, here's Wonderwall
>*starts jacking off behind guitar while only playing with one hand*

>>76528712
why is that guy cooking his dynamite-looking penis?

>>76528722
3 of these things are the same thing.

>>76528374
those are cool af

>>76528200 (OP)
Drawing. Every woman i ever dated absolutely loved the fact that i draw and am into arts and shit. However i also only go for alt- and goth girls and they usually are much more interested in this kind of stuff than normoids are

>>76535098
good shit,nigga

The person who i know fuck the most has as hobbies alchool, weed and coke.
The person who fucks the least that i know (me) has as hobbies : guitar(played in band when i was young too), music production, traveling, gardening, ornamental fishes and turtles, butterflies and moths, gym, calisthenics, hiking and swimming and trading. I also like drawing but i’m legit disable so i pay some artist to do my album cover. Dunno if it count as hobby or not but i too love art.

Autism is a hell of a curse. Just do a hobby that lowers your inhibitions

>>76528200 (OP)
>What is an attractive hobby in addition to /fit/ness
https://datepsychology.com/the-most-and-least-attractive-male-hobbies/

tldr
>reading
>foreign languages
>playing instrument
>cooking
>woodworking
>painting
>writing
>gardening
>(swimming)
>photography
>astronomy
>(hiking)
>archery
>blacksmithing
>traveling

from personal experience
cooking is great, because easy to invite her to home

astronomy puts you into the "nerd" category but in a positive way, she'll thinks its harmless (just don't tell her anything about equipment cost) and women love if explain a few constellations
also makes for awesome intimate night time dates
one of the best dates I ever had (with my now wife) was just a picknick blanket, a pizza to go, 2 cooled bottles sparkling wine I brought from home, a pair of binoculars and watching the stars with her

>get hobby, interesting job or interest
>have interesting/funny/crazy stories to tell about your thing
>girls invite themselves to your hobby
>?????
>profit

>>76528200 (OP)
foids don't care about hobbies jfl. like literally at all. just have good face man.

>>76528200 (OP)
An extreme sport.
Or something artistic that also isn't autistic.

>>76528200 (OP)
I got into finance a year ago. Not as a hobby but out of necessity. Dunno and dont care what others think about it. I believe most people I talked with are scared or uncomfortable about the subject. Also the question is gay as fuck my man, do whatever you enjoy. No one cares about you, how you look or what you do. They all ahve their own lifes to worry about.

>>76528200 (OP)
> So what is an attractive hobby that will make you stand out in the sea of guys who are all improving themselves?

Being 6’2. Gymcelling is a red ocean cut-throat activity. Every fucking retard can lift but not every body can be tall. Being tall is blue ocean

>>76528200 (OP)
>With almost every young guy on the self-improvement bandwagon, being muscular does not cut it. Every guy 16-40 is hitting the gym and getting jacked. If you want to stand out you need to do even more and get a second hobby that you can practice daily.
>So what is an attractive hobby that will make you stand out in the sea of guys who are all improving themselves?
Easy, do an actual sport. And ofc the guitar if you're white or latino.

>>76528329
>Women apparently think reading is an attractive hobby but
Are you high?

>>76528404
>most guys consume self-improvement content online.
No. Just most of the virgins.

>Vast majority of guys here is getting a good university degree, works out, does tons of sports, plays an instrument, learns a third or even fourth language, meditates daily, journals, cardio, improves fashion, skin-care, grooming routine, you name it.
Lol.

>>76528404
>most guys consume self-improvement content online
there's a giant difference between "consooooming" and actually improving

also that's what some guys tell you
what they actually do is something completely different

my flatmate also "learns" a 4th language, which just means keeping his duolingo streak with minimal effort, not actually speaking
he also meditates "daily", which for him means scrolling tiktok on speaker while taking is 10min morning shit

people at University are generally more sporty
but not everyone goes there
that's just your bubble
typically ~30-40% uni attendance in the EU and majority are women

>>76528318
I played the guitar in 3 (THREE) different performing bands. Played from small clubs to big open air festivals and everything in between.

Never even kissed, let alone got laid

>>76535307
That's a pretty good art, is it yours? Also, you going to MF?

>>76528200 (OP)
I joined a badminton club. It’s a pretty agility based sports, so won’t help if you’re a powershitter goblin. But a lot of upper class women play and the guys are pretty geeky. So easy to stand out if you’re a lean/built type.

>>76535307
You have so many hobbies that you don't have time for girls lol.

>>76528200 (OP)
>With almost every young guy on the self-improvement bandwagon
No they aren’t. Get outside of your gay internet bubble and touch grass
>Every guy 16-40 is hitting the gym and getting jacked.
Less than 10% of Americans exercise

Everyone's always like "just join a sport bro" but what if I have no interest in anything that's really inherently social?

I go to the gym, but most of my other hobbies are more cerebral and done entirely solitarily in my home.

I read books, watch movies, play video games, and study languages. How am I supposed to meet people when almost all my hobbies are usually done alone?

>>76535838
clearly you will not meet people if you are alone and doing things alone. want to meet other people? start doing things with other people, simple as

>>76535855
so my options are either
>be alone
or
>be around people I have nothing in common with
?

>>76535733
I wish! I’m europoor and have to work sadly. But i’ve been to soo many galacons and epona.
Half and half. I gave the instructions to an artist with the pose, background and palette. I invested 1k hours in learning to draw in the past but had so little improvement that i gave up
>>76535813
Lol probably. But it will be nice to find a girl to cuddle to someday. I don’t wanna reach 40s still like this

>>76535838
>Everyone's always like "just join a sport bro" but what if I have no interest in anything that's really inherently social?
Then you are probably schizoid (which is not schizophrenia, Mr. American education) and should seek therapy.

>>76535902
>MLP otaku
Bro...

>>76535858
books, movies, video games and language studying can all be done regularly with other people through various groups communities, meetups and events

and I'm sure you already know this, but you still choose to do it strictly by yourself which is also ok, just don't cry about being alone then

>>76528200 (OP)
Hobbies are gay
>just be tall
You think chicks care about tall chads hobbies? No
Things that attract girls
>puppies
>money
>fame, even small time
>coed sports
>homosexual concerts (taylor swift)

>>76535983
The blind leading the blind. Kek

>>76535916
I unironically started working out and learned fl studio inspired by them.
Nice fandom, great music and humor. Unironically went to work with mlp shirts and tank tops.
For hobbies is full of basically every creative activity! You can learn a lot from some of their workshops and video tutorials on yt

>>76535902
>>76536063
Die out

>>76536063
What not having asylums or public shaming anymore does to a mfer….

Holocaust denial
Laxative consumption
Shouting
Trains
Wall punching
Racism
Dog fighting
Bonfires
High voltage transmission lines
Home electronics
Underground structures like wells, tunnels and caverns
Eating extremely hot food

>>76536063
>glimmernigger
>mogs me
It was a bad week to quit drinking

>>76528200 (OP)
Feeding jeets like (You) into the wood chipper feet first

>31
>Top 5% paying job
>Go to gym
>Into cycling and running
>6-7/10 looks
>Enough saved for 50-60% of down payment for a house
I have never even hugged a girl.
I think ultimately I have some undiagnosed autism or something like that.
I see plenty of girls that make me go
>Damn she's hot
But I am just not interested in getting to know people. Needless to say I also have 0 friends.

hating women is not only my hobby, its my passion

>>76536388
Wow, top 5% paying job and have enough for a house down payment and women aren’t falling over themselves for you? But that’s so important.

>>76536406
It is an attractor to used up single moms exclusively

>>76536406
>>76536408
So what would attract girls if I was not autistic and actually put in effort?
Newest iphone? Gold chains? Fancy car?
Actually this would only attracted vapid and shallow people.
What would you have to do to get smart girls?

>>76536420
>be fit and have good hygiene
>learn non-autistic social skills
>behave like a guy with high testosterone and lots of options with women
>basically be self centered but in a fun way. Focus on entertaining yourself

>>76528365
>just some good ole boyz. . .

>>76536420
Who cares, go for a vapid slut to get your pener wet. Or just save yourself and die a virgin for muh intellectual

>>76538368
What if you just fuck a prostitute

>>76528223
>hustlers university subscription
>gooning
you forgot these king

>>76536441
>Focus on entertaining yourself
I had this exact notion when I was trying to figure out how to be more social. I realized that, normies will be put off by me no matter what I do, so I might as well have fun with it instead of agonizing over my own autism.

>>76528333
I feel like the piano playing will be more powerful if you never talk about it at all then one day like 4 months in just bust out some skillful piano when you see one in the wild.
The issue of course will be that you cannot wield piano in the opening salvo, but I think this could really work for you anon.
Piano and even gym are just +p to your stats. Learn that old time rock n roll song.

>>76528200 (OP)
be tall and fit
that's it

>>76538494
I mean, I have a piano at home so if a girl ever comes over after a date then she will see it anyway.

>>76528200 (OP)
Forget about "unique" hobbies. Those'll make for great conversation, but won't give you people to talk to. What you need is a hobby that'll get you into conversations in the first place.
t. late 20s self-substistence farmer making wine and craft beer, building electronics, keeping multiple oldtimers running and breeding chickens that lay dark green eggs... Still KHV...

>>76528200 (OP)
the fact this chart is still posted proved to me that cuckolding is White wing and that White rightoids in particular ENJOY TYRANNY, DEMORALIZATION, and LOSING

>>76538575
actually... I forgot most of these "incels" are jeets and chinks sorry anons

>>76528200 (OP)
>Every guy 16-40 is hitting the gym
[Citation needed]
Everyone is either skinny fat, fat fuck or hungry skeleton

>>76528200 (OP)

Being naturally attractive in the face, and dressing/carrying yourself in a way that implies criminality while not actually doing shit that will get you sent to prison.

>"So Anon, do you like, have any hobbies?"
>"Sheeit, ch'yu know, I jus' like chillin' an' shit."

A load of bullshit in this thread avoiding the main point of importance which is how women view "hobbies" in the first place.

Unlike guys, women don't understand the concept of doing something for the sake of itself or for yourself. To them, ALL hobbies are 100% about doing social flexes and projecting status.

The hobby itself doesn't really matter as long as you are able to get good shots of yourself looking good doing it to post on instagram.

Take two guys that engage with warhammer for example:
One spends hours taking photos and making edited posts with dim studio lighting, themselves fresh from a barber and in stylish clothing and some mysterious artsy bullshit quote while trying to attract comissions. If they play the game, they don't make it the focal point.
The other nerds out over the lore, spends hours analyzing the game rules and building competitive lists and spends weekends at the local game club, maybe makes a post about "boardgaming with da boyz" over a game table sometimes.

The former gets girls' pussies wet because it looks like they are an artist and gets their friends jealous
The latter is probably an incel and no woman will give them the time of day

The same goes for all other hobbies. It's not the hobby itself, it's what you project about yourself to the public while doing it.
Doesn't matter if you read if it's some stoic philosophy incel shit
Doesn't matter if you play an insturment if it's something "lame" like a theramin
Doesn't matter if you lift if it's some powersharting in a basement and never taking glamour shots

>>76529216
if we don't, then our grandparents fought against the Nazis for nothing.

>>76528355
Sure thing, kike.

>>76535342
>Reading
Meaning "Guy that can read".
If you ever decide to read a book over giving woman attention she's 100% getting the ick. l If you like sci-fi or fantasy then lmao.
>ForeignLanguages
Most women at some point fantasize about fucking a sexually agressive foreigner they can barely communicate with. A random guy taking language classes is going to be an ick. Doubly so if's not a "sexy" language like spanish or french.
>Playing Instrument
They occasionally masturbate to the memory of a guy they had a crush on in high school playing wonderwall and then fingerbanging their friend at a party. Some random instrument like a theramin or a violin is an instant ick.
>Cooking
They want YOU to cook for THEM and only the dishes that they like. Cook for the love of the game, or worse yet, something that you like but hey don't? yep, instant ick.
>Woodworking
Dreamed about fucking a lumberjack at some point
Want you to do the housework that their dad usually handles
If you spend your evenings handcarving some figurines or souvenir's then lmao
>Painting
They watched the Titanic and thought DiCaprio was hot.
If you paint something like warhammer minis then lmao
>Writing
They like porn (90% of what women "read").
>Gardening
They like the idea of owning a house with a big yard where they can sit on the patio while you do all the backbreaking chores.
>Swimming
Dreamed about fucking a lifeguard at some point
>Photography
Got wet watching Sweeney get fucked by that photographer twink in Euphoria or have another similar fantasy. Also porn.
>Astronomy
Astrology
>Hiking
They want a guy that takes them on free vacations around the world. Idea of "hiking" is walking from the parking lot to the tourist trap and back.
>Archery
Dreamed about fucking Barton or another pop-culture idea of an "archer"
>Blacksmithing
Dreamed about fucking a sweaty musclebound metalworker at some point
>Traveling
They want a guy that takes them on free vacations around the world.

>>76528546
Kek these really are gold

>>76534381
it's blacksmithing, you should take up blacksmithing to impress the ladies, anon

>>76538918
Based

>>76538864
>t. will never make it
I gave you objective evidence of what hobbies to pick up if you want something women will like
yet
you found a reason to keep rotting away in your basement and complain about it anyway
...
profit???

half of your reasons are positive anyway, if she projects the hot lifeguard fantasy onto you, that's great for you
and the other half are literal incel /r9k/tard level bullshit, that you fantasies to justify your gay dreams

attractive hobbies:
being tall
being handsome
being rich

>>76539653
>A anonymous random poll of w o m e n
>Objective evidence
lmao

Either way, good job on missing the point entirely
Another anon posted pretty much the same idea in picture form earlier >>76538521
Maybe that's more your speed
Hint: swimming isn't swimming

>>76539810
same cope
completely resistant to advice
enjoy your wizardry

it's amazing how (You), >>76538864 and others willfully ignore advice that obviously worked (at least once)
I'm not conventionally attractive (maybe 6/10 since I've got /fit/) and still married to a amazing, beautiful, /fit/ wife
and a major factor why it worked for me were some of these hobbies (like Astronomy)

>>76535902
>>76536063
kys

Honestly the fact that it was already 8% in 1989 is kinda crazy.

I thought NO one except the wildest shut in turboautists were virgins in the 80s

>>76528200 (OP)
> What is an attractive hobby in addition
literally doesn't matter
I've seen chads whos only hobby was watching netflix and playing f2p slop games on their iphone

>>76539661
this

/thead

>>76534007
Kek

PLZ HALP
Im finally starting to make it by getting a gf. I got a cute girl hitting me up on tinder but I dont know how to take things beyond the initial small talk and the convo is petering out.

>>76541554
Say just that. That you enjoy talking to her and that you want to move things further. No need to overcomplicate it.

>>76541024
Post body

>>76541554
>but I dont know how to take things beyond the initial small talk
that's the point where you make plans for a first date
ideally you talked a little bit about stuff she likes
if so you can invite her something she would enjoy
but a coffee date is typically just fine as well

also, set the date already when you invite her
be a little assertive
if she has other plans for this day, she'll tell you an alternative or then you can ask
basically do this with all decisions (of course accommodate her as much as possible if you have prior information)

>>76541554
You have to understand something really important: talking too much will fuck it up for you. You're probably a little autistic judging by the place we're talking now, little autism can be considered cute if it happens in person, but it will dry her pussy if it happens through text.
The point is: plan a 1st date with her and don't have prolonged talks through text until then.

>>76528200 (OP)
>start a hobby specifically trying to be a more interesting/complex person
>"i actually fucking hate this hobby but some virgins on a mongolian basket-weaving forum said this would get me laid, i don't even like playing the accordion"

>>76528200 (OP)

If you're pursuing a hobby to be attractive to women, you're doing it wrong.

>>76528200 (OP)
Start a grindcore band.

>>76528200 (OP)
I do mountaineering women dig that even though i dont do it for women

>>76528355
kys, shlomo

>>76528200 (OP)
csgo and eating ass. simple as

>>76528213
Unironically this. Most women, even most normie women, thirst for dominant, active right-wing men, even if they won't publicly admit it.

Look how the reporter chick lusts after him.

>>76536420
Just get some tattoos and a motorcycle

>>76543019
he's literally me

>>76535307
the guy I know who fucks the most is my fattest and most racist friend

>>76543363
imagine how many bitches he would get if he was lean and racist

>>76528200 (OP)
Any hobby you pick up in order to impress chick's will never impress chick's. They'll smell the incensarity a mile a way. Picking up a hobby for its own sake can get you laid, provided its something you're genuinely passionate about. If you have a hobby you enjoy, it'll be sponge up all that energy you dedicated towards girls and make you seem less desperate. Women can smell if you care.
The other good way to get laid is to have lots of casual sex, for the same reason. It puts you in a mindset where you dont care about sex. If you're a turbo virgin fuck someone dog ugly, or pay a prostitute, then work your way up.

>>76544078
>They'll smell the incensarity a mile a way
they unironically wont, personality detectors are dumb af.

>>76544078
>>76544153
desu only hobby to get girls would be one that gets u around plenty of them, othe than that their vag will decide.

>>76528213
Doing gods work

>>76544078
>The other good way to get laid is to have lots of casual sex

>>76535902
>>76536063
kys

>>76528200 (OP)
literally anything as long as you know a lot about it, bonus if you can speak about it with enthusiasm

I've spoken to girls about crawler cranes for over an hour before. pic related (Liebherr LR 13000)

>>76547276
what does a crawler crane do?

>>76528200 (OP)
>what is an attractive hobby
Very nearly anything, as long as you're genuinely into it. Unironically, just be yourself; being inauthentic will, at best, attract women who like the mask you put on to attract them, and that mask WILL eventually slip, but in the meantime it'll be a lot of pointless stress trying to maintain it. If you're genuine and you go out and engage, you'll eventually attract someone who actually likes you, unless you're a genuinely, objectively repulsive person.

>>76547310
that crane can lift 3,000 metric tonnes, or 3 MILLION kilograms (6.6 million pounds). it's on tracks so it can "lift and move" pretty much any heavy object in existence

here's a person standing next to the tracks of the crane for scale

>>76547343
Crane pic for you sir

>>76528200 (OP)
Anything physically productive or containing artistic talent.
>gardening
>woodwork
>writing
>cooking

You of course also have to be fit. Get 16% bf and some achievable natural muscle but never talk about the gym, your diet, or have any of this be perceived as effort. Also work on being funny, and kind because you can be, not to be confused with “nice” because you have to be.

>>76547317
>Unironically, just be yourself
What if you are fucking weird and autistic? My whole personality is basically gym, running, piano and classical music and my humor is extremely low IQ because I am low IQ. Being yourself only seems to work if you are normal.
>>76547343
My dad got this crane in lego and it's sick. You know what mogs even more? This machine from Germany that mines coal. Not a crane but still.

>>76547362
>You know what mogs even more? This machine from Germany that mines coal
The Baggers? Yeah they're really cool too, but like you said, they're not cranes, their job isn't to just lift very very heavy shit. They look so ridiculous they look photoshopped in every single picture you can find of one

>>76547362
>What if you are fucking weird and autistic
Then you'll attract women who like fucking weird autists. She may even be an autist herself. I'm also a sperg, and I've learned over the years that I'm far more attractive when I'm not masking, because confidence is hot.

>>76538575
Fail bait

>>76528712
You can set up your own forge for less then 100 bucks

Whenever i show girls my oil paintings they go crazy. If you are fit youre already ahead, if you can make at least mediocre art/music too you are ahead of like 99% of guys

>>76547433
Does this also work if you play a girl classical music on the piano?

Bonsai parallels body building in so many ways. Been doing it for years and still finding similarities.

>Living visual art, ever changing, ever improving
>Every tree, like human bodies is different
>Requires consistency over years, even decades
>Can see where someone's tree is lacking, or where they were complacent
>Bulk and cut, there's times to let a tree grow then cut back to see new definition
>Over work can have the opposite effect
>Vascularity is fucking sick
>Best methods often simple and time tested
>Many more

>>76528200 (OP)
If you want a partner you should make a hobby of talking to girls. Being jacked and rich and playing three instruments and speaking five languages isn't worth anything if you are afraid to talk to members of the other sex for courtship. It's not that you aren't good enough for them. It's that you don't take the lead and romance them like they expect.

imo any hobby you're genuinely doing for yourself and not to get grills is fine. I do magic and mentalism and though it could seem corny, it works super well but that's mainly because I'm not autistic

>>76541554
The longer you talk with a woman, the more she considers you a friend, not a date material. You have to bluntly propose a date after talking for a bit, and either get rejected and move on or go out, the more you talk without taking her out, the closer you're to ending up in her friendzone. If this has been going for more than 2 weeks, and she's still on Tinder, then she more than likely already went on sex-dates with other dudes that weren't hesitating while crawling back to you for emotional support/attention.

>>76545136
If by God you mean Satan

>>76528200 (OP)
I do archery and if you actually go to events there are young women there, usually a 3 way split between slutty alt girls, slutty cottagecore/ren fair girls and shut ins who only come out of their rooms for achery practice and events and usually they are there woth their parents.

>>76547654
What do you mean slutty? Like they dress slutty or do you mean it's easy to fuck them?

>>76547668
Yes.
Tatted alt girls in croptops who are desperate because 90% of the men there are borderline geriatric or children.
Cottagecore girls who mostly dress more modest or larp dressed as elves and stuff who are pretty easy if you're a not super ugly young guy also dressed for the event.
I'm a big hairy fat fuck but I get some compliments on my shoulders looking wide of my tunic and belt being cool.

>>76528200 (OP)
Free tip from me to you: Do not ever start a hobby to attract someone. It is pure cancer. Start a hobby, ANY hobby you genuinely have an interest in, and start doing shit in your life without the intention of having it make you more attractive. You'll be less miserable, and if you DO meet someone, you'll have a genuine connection, instead of: "Well I started this because the nazi incel website told me femoids would find it attractive".

>>76547654
>archery
I wonder if the same applies at HEMA events. My club is a bit of a sausage fest; that's okay, I came to play swordfight, but the chance of finding a woman as autistic as myself to fuck would be a nice bonus.

>>76528200 (OP)
Dancing is the only attractive hobby, but you have to be competent.

I do kayaking and primitive camping but it scares women

>>76548477
Maybe not at specifically HEMA competitions, but if it's a ren faire that happens to have a HEMA comp or demonstration then 100% there are gonna be cottagecore and D&D girls for sure.
Sometimes my club holds events that have archery formation demonstrations and there are routinely 100+ people even at smaller gigs and there are younger women there.

>>76548529
I see a lot of women at LARP stuff, too. I end up at the LARP demo at my local nerd con every year, as a joke. It usually takes the guys running it to realize I'm actually a fencer.

>>76548646
Yeah well I'm part of a historical archery club so it's kinda educational cosplay but it does tend to be a lot of overlap between reenactors and larpers, I'm not complaining.

>>76548514
that actually sounds kinda based, you just gotta find the right woman for that

>>76528355

>West Yorkshire

Probably got fed up of his town being overrun by sandniggers

Welcome to the UK

>>76535902
>>76536063
kys

>>76547454
yup it works, it can be hard to find an opportunity to play for her, but if you can get her back to your place then shred a classical piece youre golden. You dont even need to do one thats too complex, if she's not musically inclined a little Canon in D will do the trick

>>76528200 (OP)
I’ve had sex with 8 women over the past 10 years since I turn 18. Most of that was during college. Do I have hope?

>>76550250
Hope for what? Sounds like it's too late to start a successful pro MMA fighter career for you sorry anon.

>>76550250
i've boinked 19 women, 18 of which within the past 3 years, and i can tell you that life fucking sucks and i lost real love in that time and that's the only thing that matters

captcha: AR2TRT

>>76550250
I'm 33 and have never had sex, so

>>76528200 (OP)
One of my friends taught himself to play the piano, learned some Italian and French, practiced magic tricks, and claims to be interested in astrology. He also tells women that he is studying medicine (in reality, he is only a nurse). The thing is that none of these hobbies have made him more attractive to women. He is good-looking, very confident, and extroverted, and these are simply things he can bring up and talk about, and women are usually curious enough to listen to him, and in the end, they just like him because they have a good conversation and he makes them laugh. They are gimmicks, conversation starters.

>>76528213
Based. Same bro

>>76528712
Kek came here to post this

Bros in 2022 I was posting a lot on social media doing talking head vids and got the attention of some women but now I watch back and cringe at myself and can’t go online again, did I get brainwashed?

>>76528213
hey me too bro

>>76528213
Yo me too

>>76548477
HEMA (the american posers by that name, not "historice european martial arts" as a whole) is a bunch of faggots, as far as I can tell. Much to focused on spreading their specific brand of bullshit and badly "translated" sources to appeal to outsiders.
Swordfighting in general attracts some hot women, though. Go to a larp or a medieval market (or whatever those are called wherever you are) and show off a little, and you'll have young women all over you. Only downside is that 99% of them are there because their 5 year old kids want to see knights kek. But if you're in your late 20s or early 30s and not chronically autistic, you could probably pivot into having one of them introduce you to her single friends or something.
Or just let a bunch of little kids hold your sword with absolutely nothing to show for it, as I usually do.

>>76534374
Funnily enough governments fear people actually doing stuff irl.

Not having autism. You will scare off women if you're autistic.

>>76528374
>tfw too shit to draw people outside
At most I can draw still life and that's boring af

>>76532851
Anons are looking at hobbies as ways to meet women in first place.
The fact you actually get to talk to chicks jeans you're in far better position already.

>>76547589
>talk to some younger chick working on cafe
>think she likes me, but not sure
>she still says "sir", after all
>she doesn't chat me up
>probably took way too long or I was being delusional in first place
>tfw friendzoned

>>76548477
>I wonder if the same applies at HEMA events

>implying women want to do contact sports
Bruh, it's a miracle they apparently go to archery events

>>76552256
Well a lot of women fence but that's very light contact.
Archery competitions that are strictly competitions are mostly older men and parents with their kids, but if there's a dress up component or it happens to be a historical reenactment/demonstration or it's a part of a renaissance fair then there tend to be a lot more women there.

>>76536388
>I have never even hugged a girl.
what is your special spell, wizard?

>>76528200 (OP)
Hobbies I have that I tell women:
>reading
>photography
>guitar/keyboard
>swimming
>mountain biking/hiking
>visiting museums/gallery's

Hobbies I have I will never tell women until a year into a relationship:
>cinephilia
>comics/manga
>weightlifting
>retro gaming
>TTRPG's

>>76528200 (OP)
>an attractive hobby that will make you stand out in the sea of guys who are all improving themselves?
talking to women

>>76528200 (OP)
Shooting and outdoorsing

>>76528326
Kys potboy

>>76528200 (OP)
Electric rollerblades

>>76553059
i never tell normies i'm a /co/fag, they start asking me about the gay retarded movies with juicing actors that don't even know the actual source material

>>76528200 (OP)
> still fucking
> still upholding white population numbers

Just HOW does xe do it? You guys should LISTEN and LEARN from xis example

>>76552256
>implying I want an average femoid
Yeah, most women don't do contact sports, especially not without sex-separated competition, but most women wouldn't be into me anyway. Like I said, I need an autist of a wife. Being able to fucking fight me is a huge bonus, too.

>>76535902
>>76536063
kys

>>76536388
Every ugly sub 5 calls themselves a 7 bro buy a mirror and take a good look at it. The only people that rate you accurately is women if you never even hugged a woman you are below average stop coping.

>>76555443
True. Somehow, everyone also thinks they are above average in intelligence.

>>76536420
>not autistic and actually put in effort
brother you said it yourself.

>>76528200 (OP)
>So what is an attractive hobby that will make you stand out in the sea of guys who are all improving themselves?
Money and social status.

my current gf dmed me on instagram years ago because she liked my photography

>>76528200 (OP)
Anything, as long as others are involved, or even get to enjoy the stuff you do.
Being a recluse with your hobby is simply chuuni behavior. You are self-conscious and you need to grow out of it.

>>76528293
>offer them weed
give them my weed? no

>>76528355
>"Love your nation"
OOYY VEYYY THIS VILE HATE SPEECH CANNOT GO ON!!!

>>76528200 (OP)
anything that involves going outside and not having autism

>>76528282
Pickleball? Pffft. Padel is where the hotties are at

>>76528200 (OP)
having sex

>>76528365
>Excuse me, there's no place in this nihilistic murder simulation for *hate* symbols!
>now we've cleared that up, I'm off to paint more blood flecks on the human skulls adorning my army of xenophobic, intolerant, religious fanatics (they're the good guys!)

Does anyone else remember when Games Workshop sold Ork transfer sheets with literal, unaltered swastikas on? Those were the days!

>>76532215
I am now picturing anon playing classical piano while a pajeet attempts to robot dance in time to the music

>>76535098
Not bad but your rendering makes me cry. Shading follows form.

>>76528302
you have to be able to play all 4 note arpeggios in all 12 keys fluently and then they come. Major, minor, augmented, major 7, dominant 7, minor 7, half diminished, minor major 7. Then work on your sharp 11s and flat 5s and you will have a gf issued

>>76528200 (OP)
>languages
>reading
>trading
>party tricks
Ive learned how to juggle and catch up to 4 coins with my palm facing downward so far this year.
Thanks Anton

I took up cutting stone recently. Making stone sinks and shit like that. All you need is an angle grinder. Its smooth as shit when you finish polishing. The dust part sucks, but doing it outdoors is kinda ok.

There's nothing hotter than a man talking about his special interest.