Thread 76530013

The day I dreaded has finally came in, /fit/, gonna start working at a hospital tomorrow with 12hr shifts 1 day on 1 day off, no I'm not a doctor, but the NEET life has gotten way too boring so I needed this.
Waking up at 11-12am and going to the gym in the evening then lifting for 3-4 hours while chatting gymbros is over, how do I make sure this job doesn't syphon my gains entirely?
Working from 6am to 6pm so I'll just hit the gym at 6pm but the good thing is that I have the next day off and the pay isn't that bad.

>>76530013 (OP)
I havent worked in years and it is not boring at all.

>>76530037
I've been a NEET for way too long also not having an income fucking sucks but if you're rich then being a NEET probably feels better

>>76530013 (OP)
>how do I make sure this job doesn't syphon my gains entirely?
Don't give a shit about it. Obviously do your work the best you can but don't do anything extra. Just do what you have to and the clock out as soon as you can. Don't think about any little mistakes or your coworkers or whatever when you're at home. The worst stress is mental stress so avoid it.

t. tradie who lifts after working 10 hours

>>76530063
Omfg. Not another tradie ffs.

>>76530013 (OP)
What are yo doing in the hospital anon

>>76530067
he's gonna do the hot nurses obviously

>>76530067
Probably folding and running linen

>>76530013 (OP)
Happy for you, anon. They aren't hiring at my area yet, so I must soldier on for another month or two.

>>76530059
You shouldnt neet if you cant afford it. Wth is it with people?

>>76530067
Picking up clothes the nurses put on big sacks to the washroom pretty much, there's a big cart thing with wheels that you throw it in, surely that's less work than my last job where I had to go upstairs with a shit load of weight in my hands
>>76530063
That was the biggest issue my last job, the mental fatigue of all the drama and normies gossip, it made me quit when my female manager wouldn't shut up

>>76530111
>doesn’t like female drama and gossip
>goes to work in a hospital
Lel

>>76530122
Good god, anon, I can just feel all the drama between the nurses, female doctors, the male gay nurses, the freakin administration girls and the ones who work at pharmacy, good lord.
How fucked am I? Kek. Well I'll just ignore it all and do my job.

>>76530087
Hopefully you get a job soon, anon. The NEET life isn't all glimmers

>>76530147
Okay…?

I've pretty much lived a NEET life since the start of August when I had my mental breakdown, so about three weeks now. Stopped going into my horrible job just taking time off, and then my family had a medical emergency last Friday so I'll get a doctor's note to be a caregiver until the end of the month.

I thought I was depressed and miserable for my entire life up to this point. But being a NEET has made the depression completely unconscionable. It isn't like I went NEET mode and suddenly started waking up happy every day not having to do anything or go anywhere, being extremely productive or anything like that. I've pretty much been the complete definition of rotting and wasting away. I don't think I've done a single solitary thing in almost three weeks. Wasting my life commuting to and doing nothing at my horrible job was terrible, but this has been even worse. Barely leaving the house, not watching anything, not learning anything, not even applying for better jobs or anything like that because I know I'm a useless person that no one will want for anything anyway. At least the job and commuting was able to somewhat distract me and soak up hours of my day. Having nothing planned and nothing to do has been suicide-inducing.

>>76530189
> Having nothing planned and nothing to do has been suicide-inducing.
This part makes no sense. What do you think retired people do.

>>76530189
Get out of NEETdom as soon as you can, I was a NEET for 6-7 years and that shit has destroyed my life, my only interaction with the world was the gym, I just love socializing now because I was for many years craving those human interactions, our mind wasn't made for the NEET life

>>76530235
Wtf do you think retired people do?

>>76530247
Retired people are different, they have gov income and already ended their cycle of life, being a NEET in ur 20s sucks

>>76530252
Neets are the same as retired people.
lol. Are you poor?

>>76530111
>the mental fatigue of all the drama and normies gossip, it made me quit when my female manager wouldn't shut up
You have to turn it out like a radio playing in the background. The more you take what a normie says seriously and try to analyze it, the more depressed you will become at the existential dread of what humanity is. Literally, just think of them as NPCs in a video game where you interact only when necessary and their gossip as set lines.

>>76530252
I have never held down a job while in my 20 dude. You need to have some hobbies outside of work lol.

>>76530233
>>76530247
I sort of witness firsthand retired NEET life with my father. What I mean is, he has no friends and no hobbies. So when he retired, he spent maybe a month living life like a 4chan NEET loser. Just doing nothing all day. And when I say nothing I mean nothing. Not typical retired guy "nothing" like outside reading, fishing, golfing, hanging out with his other retired friends, volunteering, etc. I mean just sitting at home alone all day pissing around on the TV or youtube.

By the end of that month he was making his own company to be a self-contractor doing literally the exact same work he spent 30 years of a career doing. Still going to job sites leaving early and getting home late on commutes, still going on flights and business trips and writing reports, etc. The only difference is that now he isn't 100% forced to do the work so he can take off for the occasional vacation or day off without needing to get it cleared. But otherwise he more or less lives exactly like he did wageslaving because if he wasn't, he would have absolutely nothing.

>>76530284
My dad has been retired over 20 years and has done nothing lol. Sounds like a you issue. I have never held down a job in my life and I am 30.

>>76530284
Meh, maybe you two are not spiritually evolved yet. Still slaves on a spiritual level.

>>76530013 (OP)
if you're off every other day, it sounds like you can still go for 3-4 hours 3 to 4 times per week. it sounds like you're dicking around in there, though. do you really like chatting with random niggas that much?

i'll never understand healthcare
like yeah we'll pay you good money but only if you do back breaking shifts every other day

Sketchy overnight hospital job sounds great for a neet like me but I never see them listed anywhere. My friend was a ward or whatever at a mental hospital and just beat up patients a few times a night. Made good money all through college

>>76530189
so this is the mental processes of an NPC...
>not learning anything
you could literally start learning french or evolutionary biology right now with just a few clicks

>>76530065
Your cubicle contains your seethe, allowing me to easily avoid any unpleasant mental taxation from your monumental white collar cope session

>>76533300
*sigh
Blue collar cope

Been a neet since mid July and it’s really life draining and the worse part is that you know you have a problem and you are absolutely doing nothing about, even lifting doesn’t help because it’s a small chunk of the day

>>76530013 (OP)
So anon how was your week? Hope you did well. Monday was my first say back from a month long vacation first few days were fucking brutal.

My current job requires interaction with people all day. Every time I get back to my apartment I have a desire to shoot myself in the head. Working with women is absolute torture.If I had a lot of money would go pitcairn Island and I wouldn't interact with a humans ever again

I’m legitimately scared to even try applying for jobs. I’m 32 and have had the same useless job for a decade. I’m scared of making a resume because I wouldn’t know how to express myself on it, o don’t know what jobs to apply for, I know I would get rejected especially in this apparently terrible job market, and it would just be more failure to add on to my complete and utter failure of a life. I had a mental breakdown a few weeks back about this because this job has completely sapped the life from me and driven me to the point of suicide honestly, but I’m afraid to leave it because of the above. I know how pathetic it is but I can’t help it, I can’t stop. I’ve done literally nothing for almost three weeks because I said I was having a mental breakdown and can’t come in. Literally nothing. Every day for almost three weeks has been a complete and utter waste. I have never felt more worthless as a person than I do right now.

OP here, I'm fucking tired as shit, being on ur feet all day while organizing freaking hospital clothes is a nightmare, had some lower back pain and my gym strength didn't help me much, I'm fucking broken right now with how little functional strength and just mental, mobility I have.
Not sure I can survive this, bros, does it get better? Going to the gym at 7pm kinda sucked aswell

>>76534417
Yeah the first will be bad, but after that it will be easy, just hold out

>>76534417
its a brutal life, wigga.

>>76534621
>>76534624
I'm gonna make it

>>76534417
Bro, I hear you. That kind of work kills in a way the barbell never really prepares you for. Gym strength helps in bursts, but being on your feet all day, bending, twisting, carrying awkward loads that’s “work strength” plus mobility and endurance, not just raw lifts.

A few things that might help:

Breaks & posture resets: If you can sneak in 30 seconds here and there, just hang off something, stretch your hip flexors, or do cat-cow/child’s pose. Those micro-breaks add up and unload your spine.

Core & mobility focus: Heavy squats and deads build brute strength, but training anti-rotation (planks, carries, Pallof presses) and mobility (hips, thoracic spine, hamstrings) makes being on your feet way more sustainable.

Work capacity training: Farmer carries, sled pushes, long walks with weight — that stuff mimics long shifts way better than a 5x5 squat. It conditions you for the grind.

Gym timing: After a brutal day, 7pm lifts can feel like hell. Maybe on work days, do shorter, mobility-heavy sessions or conditioning instead of max effort strength. Save the heavy sessions for off-days.

Mental side: That feeling of being “broken” is real, but your body does adapt. The first few weeks are the worst. It’s basically GPP training whether you wanted it or not.

So yes it gets better, especially if you adjust your training so you’re not doubling down on fatigue. You’ll find a groove where the job feels less crippling, and you’ll actually notice your gym numbers carry over once your body catches up.

>>76530065
At least he's not another wfhaggot who works 3 hours a month answering a mail per week for 8x the average salary

>>76534417
yeah it does get easier, the first few weeks you back feels like shit but you adjust over time
t. went neet for a year+ then started a full time warehouse nigger job

>>76535032
>t. went neet for a year+ then started a full time warehouse nigger job
Do you miss being neet or are you more content now?

>>76530013 (OP)
Now you can use that NEET fit body to cash in on all the nurses. Good move, anon.
(Just be careful of HR rules and you know, sexual harassment laws.)

>>76530013 (OP)
>but the NEET life has gotten way too boring so I needed this
then why would go you got for
>12hr shifts 1 day on 1 day off
???

I work 30h/week, sometimes 4 day, but usually just 6h/day for 5 days
which is the perfect amount of work
to be fair, I have a masters degree in electrical engineer (which took ~10y because I'm lazy), so it was very easy to get a job
and I've only been a NEET for ~2y before studying and 1y between bachelor and master
so it's not super bad

but now it's /comfy/
especially because I can afford a large enough apartment for a home gym
only more vacation would be nice, 30days are only ~7weeks if combined with public holidays

The NEET life isn't for anyone. And it's not just the lack of money.
You have so much free time that you have to come to peace with your inner demons

Been a NEET for a year and a half now.
Id say good progress was made in the gym during that period. But parents are pushing me to get a job now. Thought of getting one makes me feel anxious for some fucking reason even though I know i have the personality to get any job

If you can be a NEET and a productive member of society, have ambition to improve, have ambition to contribute things, help people, etc., then NEET life isn’t terrible. The problem is that I feel the vast majority of NEETs are completely worthless destitute losers who just have their parents allowing their lifestyle.

I posted a few times above, but right now I’m ending my third week of being a functional NEET at 33 years old. I technically have a job, a terrible one, but I took off the first two weeks and now I’m on medical leave to help a family member. I have done literally nothing for three weeks now. Like, literally nothing. And everything else in my life is NEET-like as well, with not having relationships and living with my parents. I’ve always felt worthless, but never moreso than I have these three weeks, where the only thing I do is bicycling around town for a few hours in the middle of a weekday. I’m just so despondent sitting here doing nothing, but I don’t have any confidence or self esteem to go out and do things. Even thinking of trying to apply for a better job terrifies me, both with the apparently terrible job market but also with my lack of skills and personality. At least when I was going to my terrible job every day it was able to distract me from my brain thinking about miserable and suicidal I am

I dont even blame NEETs. Its mostly their enabler parents and in europe the goverment handing out neet bux. They are the symptom not the cause. Used to be a neet for 6 or so years and it was the most horrible experience ever. Living with constant existential angst isnt as fun as people make it out to be. You basically always depend on others in order to survive, you have no actual freedom over your life. Sitting all day in your room isnt really what you what can call life anyway.

>>76530013 (OP)
I was clocking 200km a month when I was a neet and shortly after I stopped running and my gains went out of the window, depressing as fuck.
Having a job is a kike trick to make someone else richer and to keep the system functioning.
Unfortunately they fucked us up so bad with these house prices that you're forced to work even if you don't want to.
In Australia in the 60s you could buy a home with a years wage of a tradesman, all while having a stay at home wife and 5 kids, nowadays you need to get a 40 year mortgage to have your own place but retards will still say they're better off because they can get goyslop delivered to their rental at 3am.

>>76536958
its all around the world like that. blue collar workers here in germany were able to afford apartments, houses, a big mercedes etc. all on with their blue collar salary just not only 20-30 years ago. I hear similiar stories from all around the world. its not unusual that children "inherit" their parents mortgage because they dont live long enough to pay it off lol

>>76534152
What do you do anon? 32 isn't that old and you can definitely change careers.

>>76534417
Kek I love how us neets are all the same. Every time I get a new job I immediately start thinking about quitting, been at my current job for 5 months and every day still feels like I'm not cut to this, not exactly because I can't handle it physically because I can, but because my coworkers are minorities and we're nothing alike personality wise.

Guys i'm not gonna have job for the next month and i'm already depressed. How the fuck do you faggots do this? And i'm also stressing because i'm 33 and i have only 30k in the bank

>>76536973
More than shitty wages what enrages me the most is banks and investment funds buying tons of housing then artificially increasing prices. After 08 crisis and occupy wall street I though we would get those fuckers on a leash instead we shifted attention towards fags and culture wars and got fucked big time by the kikes running things behind close doors.

>>76537032
save harder, live with your parents if you must, learn about investing (not trading or option bullshit and stay away from crypto).

>>76530111
you got a big stack on trips nigger

>>76537032
>how do you do this
Anyone who deliberately is a NEET and claims to enjoy it is mentally ill, that’s how they do it. And I I’m not some capitalist Jew boot licker or whatever else you’ll call me for saying that. But when you have someone who’s a NEET in their 20s or 30s not doing anything with no purpose in life, enjoying that is not normal

>>76537084
Niggger. I was a neet from 24 to 30 and it was kino, I had my severance money and my days were spent going to the beach and hiking and it was incredibly comfy life since there were almost no people on those places other than some retirees and trust fund kids, unfortunately the money ran out and I had to go back to the cage.

Just because you're domesticated cattle goyim that can't be alone with his own thoughts for more than a few hours and has to wake up at 5 am to go grind so you can afford some stupid boomermobile or chink made goyphone doesn't mean there's anything wrong with neeting.

>>76537167
You sat on a beach and hiked every day for 6 years?

>>76537067
>save harder
Nta but
>32
>only had 5 gf's
>parents force me to pay 400 euros rent cause they own a loan of the house
>50k only in the bank
>make like 800 euros per month on average
>groceries are like 400 a month
>200 euros left for fun

Its over isn't it?

>>76530037
How do you pay rent/bills/food

>>76537184
That was my life from march to late September, yes. And I didn't just sat on the beach, I would take a towel with me and just lay there and swim in the ocean.
During colder months I spent more time hiking and sleeping. Would also go on backpacking trips abroad.

>>76537203
>only 5 gf
Where do you think you are, ol chap?

>>76530037
How?
I'm a neet and I'm bored to tears
I think about applying for jobs just so I have something to do

>>76537229
Sound depressing af, you literally wasted time. Which is the worse thing a man can do.

>>76537242
>I'm a neet and I'm bored to tears
Because you know deep inside a man needs purpose and right now you have none

>>76537184
Maybe he did. I sat in my room and learned a language, read the full works of Goethe, Nietzsche, Kant, and did a huge dive into WWII’s European theatre and political lead up.
I did this from 19 to 25 and it was fantastic.
I also wrote. I created and produced.
Then I ran out of money and it’s back to the slave life. I like living in the city. I could live in the countryside here for cheap. But I don’t like it. I prefer city nights. I am in the U.S. south west now and there are way fewer blacks here than in day New York.

>>76537248
>Wasted time
Kek get a load of this conditioned faggot. I'm sure that time would have been better spent listening to some HR rostie or dealing with retard coworkers and clients producing or selling useless garbage that serves no actual purpose.

>>76537203
>800 "euros"/month
>rent 400, food 400
>200 left over

assuming your 200 fun bucks coming from your savings you have enough to do that for over 20 years! congrats you are a high level IQ forward thinker

>>76530013 (OP)
Currently 28 with 150k. Want to go NEET for 1 year just so I can backpack around Europe and Asia for 6 months but the job market is so shit right now I know I wont be able to jump back in easily and I'll end up losing a good chunk of my money in the process.
Guess I'm stuck in the golden cage until my rich aunt dies

Fuck
I should just join the military
Anything is better than this
Problem is they rejected my application because I'm "disabled"

>>76537268
You could have built an empire with all that time wasted, I hope that at least your big

>>76537272
What can you even do with 200 fun bucks?

>>76537281
My best friends dad just died and he inherited a million and I’m here waging for dust. Also before than he was neet since 2016 but for some reason now he said that he will get a job. Any reasoning behind this?

>>76537268
> dealing with retard coworkers and clients producing or selling useless garbage that serves no actual purpose.
This is my biggest thing about the modern working world. Now look I’m not a NEET, or think that being one is good. But I do lament about how useless the vast majority of jobs seem to be for the exact reasons you mention, selling or producing bullshit that really serves no real purpose. There’s really only a handful of fields where you can say the work is meaningful. Things in healthcare (and even that, nowadays it’s a lot of propping up obese people, and the scam insurance industry), helping nature/animals, and trade type work. Everything else, all the corporate, finance, tech, all that is just complete bullshit. Selling, producing meaningless bullshit to enrich the company further. It’s like, who gives a shit

>>76537393
>helping nature/animals
I should do something like this
I want to help nature
Note to self: When you wake up look for jobs to help nature

>>76537393
What do you mean, anon? No, no, no, we need to exploit all the earth resources and destroy every bit of nature because the wheel has to keep turning. For what purpose god knows but that doesn't matter, m'kay? Don't think about it, order goyfeed instead and consooome.

>>76537410
>tomorrow it is
Neets really be like this lol

>>76537437
I'm too drunk and depressed

>>76537432
No anon, if you want to work in a industry that actually matters, work in finance or tech. Help make banks and rich people even richer, help create apps and computer programs that totally improve society! Those are the best fields to work in, as you can tell from them making the most money

>>76534417
get forklift certified, OP

>>76530111
Bro just wear headphones at all times and if anyone asks tell them you're autistic and you don't want to get overwhelmed, life is easy for those who dream and dare bro

>>76536645
>Thought of getting one makes me feel anxious for some fucking reason even though I know i have the personality to get any job
It's always like this, a fear of unknown. But once you go there it all goes away. I'm personally very introverted person, who'd only stay home, watch shit, read, play and lift, but at the job I just impersonate as an extremely confident and extroverted guy who talks to anyone. It somehow works. It would be really weird for my family to see how outgoing and talkative I'm at my job.

>>76537611
Maybe bro hit the griddy on them. People like dances.

>>76537262
Posts like these remind me that around half of 4chan are LARPing Indian/Filipino/Mexican teenagers and I shouldn’t take any post I read here that seriously. Thank you, seriously, your post was just so fucking retarded in a thread of retardation that it overflowed and snapped me back to reality

>>76537012
I feel the same, I can fake in a way to be subtle but I just can't stand normie work talk and just gossip, drama

OP here, I don't think I'll make it, today I had to deal with the old lady that works there for 36yrs and arranges the clothes, it's me and a 50yo dude who's been there for 12yrs he's cool and taught me everything, shit load of work and having to deliver hospital clothes to 3 big hospitals, it's so big all 3 are connected to each other so ur inside elevators with the cart full of clothes all day, old lady took photos of the clothes and sent it to my manager (woman) and said the clothes aren't "well" arranged, she wants us to make it perfectly while we have to deliver 2000kg of clothes a day, yes the 50yo dude gotta measure it, this job is a physically and mental gulag

>>76530013 (OP)
I worked ER night shift 3x12's and was able to make it work, and my schedule was just 3 random days a week every week. If you have a constant EoD schedule, it'll be way more manageable. I mean, if I had that schedule, I'd just go every off day in the middle of the day when my energy is the highest, and the gym is the least busy. But if you wanna swing trying to do it after a 12, and then also during one of the busier times in the gym, go for it.

>>76538081
damn wish i was smart enough to work in an emergency room, with 3 12s

>>76538048
Don't be a retard. Every hospital I've ever worked at has pretty amazing education benefits. Just eat the shit, and use that benefit to get an associates in nursing, radiology, lab, or paramedic and then move to the much better paying, and less shit eating job.

>>76530013 (OP)
Try doing secret mini workouts while doing daily tasks. For example, you can do tiny calf raises imperceptible to the human eye. I call these, "Hummingbirds."

>>76538087
It was one of those freestanding ER's too. It was such a cake fucking job, even though nights suck big ass. 3.5-4.5 RN's a night and generally only 20-40 patients all shift.

>>76537614
I had a duel life like that at my previous work as well. Maybe that's what made me quit idk. The very thought of putting on an affable persona makes me tired

>>76530013 (OP)
I work 20 hours a week at a decent paying and easy that I genuinely like. I unironically told my boss that I can't work more because I am going to the gym at certain times. I dont really spend a ton of money in the first place so I still have the budget and expenses of a low income wagie, but with a fun job and more free time.

>>76537337
>built an empire
it's called a business lil bro. you ain't alexander the great lmfao.

>>76538081
How would you do gym + uni working a job like

>>76538088
My job has no such education benefits

>>76530013 (OP)
unironically great for gains
benching fatties out of bed everyday will shred you to the fucking bone

>>76538299
It's doable in different configurations. You gotta balance rest, school, work, gym, and social life. At my hardest, I was working 45-50 hours a week and taking 19 credit hours. I stopped going to the gym, averaged 6 hours sleep, and only saw my gf once a week for most of that semester.

>>76538306
What dogshit hospital system are you working for?

>>76538340
It's a public hospital where I live and the company I work for is a 3rd party aka they get paid by the gov, I don't get any of the hospital benefits, people that work cleaning shit there or just doing security are also from 3rd party companies, only the actual hospital people (doctors, nurses, administration) get to reap those benefits I'm pretty sure

>>76538355
Bummer. Everywhere I've worked, the cleaners (environmental service technicians to make them feel good) work as hospital employees and get pretty much all the same bennies as anyone else. Doctors and Admin, of course, get extra perks, and the profit sharing bonuses were at a percentage of pay, so making diddly squat meant you got a quarterly bonus that was also diddly squat. But same insurance, tuition, etc across the board.

>>76538340
i forget that turbo normies post here too

>>76530189
Go to a Bible teaching church. Really lean into it. God is the way Anon. I was to the point of suicide and now I am free.

>>76538371
It's both chilling and telling that you think that people that work their ass off to do well in life are some kind of outgroup.

>>76538398
you literally are a turbo normie. people like you cannot fathom that anyone with different life experiences could exist. everyone who is unlike you just needs to "work harder."

>>76538546
No. We know that you exist. We just hate you. Most people hate you. That's why right wing politics are taking off all over the globe. We swallow the shit sandwich of other bad policies because we want them to rid the world of people like you. Most don't want to admit it, and we'll be happy when they're just shuffling people like you around and making it seem like they're trying to rehabilitate you, but we will turn a blind eye when they exterminate you like the parasites you are.

>>76538702
Every western country is overrun with subhuman shitskin murderrapists and you're seething about neets? Lmao normgroids are so cooked

>>76538752
The US is already mass deporting Hispanics and, other than liberal autistic screeching, no one really gives a shit. Only a matter of time before they move on to the NEET question. People are going to give even less of a fuck about that. Given the choice, most Americans would pick a beaner that at least does landscaping over some white basement dweller.

>>76538768
You sound like a kike.