Thread 76538560

>gf turned 26 recently
>spent her 20s rotting in bed
>i pressured her into getting a gym membership
>rarely, if ever, goes
>pissed off whenever I bring it up

how did you guys get your gfs/wives/whatevers to work out? is there a way to get through their thick hormone ridden skulls that "just don't eat sis" works in their teens and early 20s, but once they march towards 30 they gotta stop bedrotting and start working out? i can already see her deteriorating and getting "flabby" in places even though she has a really low bodyfat percentage. i don't even wanna imagine how she'll look after two or three kids, let alone in her 40s or 50s. i want a milf later in life but i also really don't wanna break up with her because the dating scene is so rotten to the core

My waifu doesn't have this problem

>26
Too old. Should already have kids by now. You're wasting your time. Can't change her. If she's not even trying then her attraction for you is already long gone along with her respect. Having kids with at this point will be a disaster, with you either letting her turn them all into fat retards, or you doing 99% of the work.

>>76538570
having kids in your early 20s isn't really feasible in my country unless you're a borderline retarded farmguy. it certainly didn't help we both chose to study law and we're still in our degrees

for now I just want her to move her ass a bit, she is sensible in literally every other regard. does everything i tell her to (literally the most outlandish shit), not a golddigger, desperately wants kids as soon as we're finally done with our degrees (little over 1 year from now). she's literally just aversed to physical exercise, this is why I'm posting here and not some gay relationship advice subreddit. this post is exclusively about getting her in the gym

>>76538585
The problem is the gym. She obviously doesn't like that environment, which is normal for most women.
Get some adjustable dumbbells or some other home equipment you could both use and work out together, with you guiding, encouraging and pushing her.
Don't be a militant asshole and think of ways to make it more fun and rewarding for her.
Go do fun stuff outside. Hiking, swimming, climbing, cycling. Get her to enjoy being physically active first.
Fresh air activities with the gf followed by sweaty sex is pretty much the biological pinnacle, so work towards that sort of stuff instead of forcing her to go to a pre-workout smelling, converted warehouse full of gymcels. Women don't have that kind of grindset, and you're gonna repulse her out of being more physical for good if you keep this up.

>>76538560 (OP)
i dumped her fat ass, she took 35lbs in the first year of relationship, i stopped fucking her altogether, she kept being a landwhale and sending me tlktok astrology BS
weemen are retarded children in current year you cannot force them at all just dump her fat ass

>>76538560 (OP)
the mistake is thinking that the gym is the right thing for your gf when there are so many other options for exercise. being physically fit and getting /fit/ are two different things. The most effective workout is the one she likes and keeps on doing, if its fucking reformer pilates or beach volleyball or jazz dance doesnt fucking matter. If she doesnt want to pump iron then that doesnt mean she hates physical exercise. that is like having someone play a round of CoD and saying they hate video games in general. watch the olympics and see what she likes or look through all the sport clubs in your area. I play volleyball next to lifting not for some big goal but because i like the people there and because its great fun. Get her to have fun and sell the start well to her. go with her if she is insecure about starting a yoga class or some shit like that, its a fun experience for the both of you and maybe you can accompany her every now and then.

and when she exercised properly tell her that a higher test level will make her look better easier and then fuck her throat.

>>76538560 (OP)
She didnt want to be fat anymore and I ordered some UGL semaglutide for her. She lost like 50lbs and now is off the semaglutide and going to the gym regularly because she doesn't ever want to be fat again.

>>76538560 (OP)
Get a (decent) bike, go for rides together. The gym isn't very appealing for the vast majority of people, and are some other anons said, it is not the sole place to be active and workout.

>>76538585
Just buy her a good walkpad. The best activity and easy to incorporate in your daily life. Also get into dancing cources. All dancing girls look great and it's a fun thing to do. Or just ask her what she wants to do.

>>76538624
This. I never rexommend girls going to the gym. Always explain how they coupd train their abs and do some bulgarian split squads. It takes like 15 min 3 tokes per week and no need to go anywhere. You just have to explain them what a progressive overload is, what is failure and the difference between abs and hip flexors.

>>76538624
This Anon gets it

incel here
you fell for ((their)) propaganda of wanting skinny auschwitz camp bitches
our ancestors and grand-grand-grand fathers knew better: if you can wrap your arms around her waist then you are doing it wrong
look how simps will (You) me while seething for saying the truth

>>76538830
fertility figurines are likely the ancient equivalent of some porn-addled guy making fetishistic flash animations on newgrounds.
if you think this is what most men liked back then you're a dunce.

>>76538566
fpbp

>>76538830
most men of the past loved fit and slim women. Art proves it.

>>76538560 (OP)
easiest answer? Leave her. You can´t really change her. My gf loves hiking, swimming, running, but no gym. She is fit and I bought some elastic bands for her back and leg training. She is fit, but just hate gyms because of all the people. She doesn´t like humans

>>76538720
Honestly wish I had taken dancing lessons while I lived somewhere that offered it. You see people who can dance well, and it looks like so much fun.

>>76538560 (OP)
She'll ditch you as soon as she gets in shape

>>76538830
I'm not Pyrocynical bro

>>76538850
>>76538830
Its a supernormal stimulus
Basically an ancient coomer made this

>>76538560 (OP)
The problem is you, not her

>>76538560 (OP)
i learned arabic first and then bombed this guy's wife and kids.

>>76538560 (OP)
fuck off and die normie
this place is not for you

>>76538560 (OP)
Leave her and tell her she's not driven enough for you

>>76539772
This isn't R9K people are allowed to get pussy here nerd

>>76539673
>wanting your significant other to be healthy is actually a bad thing

>>76540145
t. virgin

>>76538560 (OP)
It's over, obesity is her destiny.

Honestly you got to just focus on yourself, better yourself and hope that you either inspire them to get into better shape because they see you looking and feeling good or you look so good that they become insecure and want to better themselves because they're scared of losing you or they know that she looks so disgusting next to you in public that people are wondering why you're with her.

If she ever asks "are you gonna leave me if I get too fat?" or "are you going to dump me for a hot girl one day?" just tell her you love her but whats most important is you have a partner that you can grow old with. Hopefully, that sends a message to her to better herself if she wants to keep you.

At the end of the day you can't rescue someone who doesn't wanna be rescued. Some girls think being fat and unhealthy still makes them beautiful because that's what their algorithm on TikTok is telling them and reinforcing in their heads, and they're so disconnected from the real world that nothing will ever change their mind until they get a reality check like getting dumped.

Stop worrying about her and focus on yourself.