Thread 76579555

how can we stop this from happening?

find more than one girl to be interested in at a time

>>76579555 (OP)
>how can we stop this from happening?
why?

you don't magically get more interesting as person and partner just because you're /fit/
going to the gym should encourage you to change other aspects of your life as well

being jacked is not even every womens type
it only gives you a slight advantage in some scenarios over the avg guy

>>76579555 (OP)
don't lift for women like some kind of faggot
lift for men

>>76579555 (OP)
this is how you know it's fake. nobody who goes to the gym demeans someone elses strength. It's only normal in todays climate and lack of exercise that their strength is plummeted. The majority of gym goers were not born strong.

Game and dating skills win over looks every time.

Looks just get your foot in the door. They don't really help if you're a pussy that can't talk to women and is afraid of socializing.
For 99% of people this holds true. The exceptions to this are peak 1% looks, literal male model tier.
And even then, those male models a lot of them are anorexic homosexuals. Blackpillers worship literal dick-sucking faggots.

If you spent even a third of the time you've invested in gymcelling into socializing you'd have plenty of options.

>>76579575
This. Lifting is not a replacement for a personality.

>>76579555 (OP)
>"In love" with someone who clearly does not give a shit about him
>Whining about it on social media
What an insecure faggot. Absolutely nailed on to kill himself whenever he's forced to come off the tranny juice

>>76579555 (OP)
You can't and it's the ULTIMATE black-redpill for many /fit/ dwellers, quintessential and undeniable truth. It helps sure, but essentially it's about your brain and spirit that can understand and care for people, and ability to amass power through it not your muscle mass. It is surely a good accessory and performing capacity, but it is not their prime concern. Doing it for women has been proven to be a fool's errand a long time ago; there are already many memes on this too.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=LvGgYcpSi8U

>>76579555 (OP)
easy, use more and stronger steroids. that way you'll spend 2 instead 14 years of bodybuilding to look like this and you won't be as devastated your love interest doesn't like homosex.

>men STILL think wifey material is actually into buff dudes
kek

>>76579591
You're more annoying than him, I hope people start reporting you instead.

>>76579555 (OP)
-be attracted to people who actually care about the stuff you like or are interested in
-don't lift for women
-do other shit other than lifting
-don't be a faggot

women do things for attention. stop feeding the troll

>>76579589
it should be we all know being fat is a state of mind that doesnt exist in people who are in shape

>>76579555 (OP)
by being realistic and accepting an obvious fact that religious physical exercise and food choice is not a universal predictor of general success in life which is what sexual selection is really about. exercise for yourself, not for the hoes. I don't really blame the guy 100%, after all he was told at least a million times it would work, and he believed.

>>76579676
Yeah. Any woman who's worthwhile should desire high aptitude and want her husband to be as proficient as possible in every regard.

>>76579555 (OP)
It’s clearly a roidtranny

>>76579575
>>76579589
It's not about "personality" or being "interesting".
The guy on the left stays home all day, lives with his mom, unemployed, showers once a week, dropout, smokes weed, plays video games, thinks about suicide constantly, refers to women as bitches, uses ebonics even though he's white, doesn't have a car, thinks reading is gay, never won a fight in his life but talks mad shit, has a 4 inch dick, has erectile dysfunction due to drugs, has fucked up fetishes like rape/foot/stepmom/teen, would run away if he got a girl pregnant, only cares about his pleasure not the woman's, has no idea how female orgasms even work yet claims he makes girls cum 20 times in a row, and has no real hobbies besides playing Call of duty and smoking pot, everything he doesn't like is "gay".
The guy on the right graduated from college, has a 6 figure income, lifts weights 5 times a week, plays sports, showers 2 times a day, uses proper English when he texts, knows MMA and Brazilian jiu-jitsu but doesn't brag about it, doesn't refer to women as bitches, owns a car, has an 8 inch dick, has his own house, knows how to perform cunnilingus and make females orgasm, is open to having kids, doesn't use drugs (he might moderately drink alcohol at social events).
Who do you think girls are gonna choose? Who do you think normies would say looks more trustworthy, honest, hard working, and moral? The guy on the left every single time because face is everything. Even the MILFs would choose him. If the guy on the right manages to find a girlfriend she's cheating on him with the guy on the left and she's only with him for his money. Women don't choose men based on their actions and lifestyles. Face is all that matters. Nothing is "earned" in this life. "Free will" is a lie. "Meritocracy" is a lie. It's all fake and rigged.

>>76580675
sooo...work your ass off until you earn enough for a plastic surgery?

>>76579555 (OP)
Be tall and have a handsome face and a Norwood 0 hairline.

>>76579555 (OP)
When are you ever going to need to bench press over 100 pounds outside the gymnasium? Are you going to be pushed to the ground by an architect woman who wants snu snu and you have to bench press her off you to avoid death by snu snu? Guy in OP pic would probably pull a hammie just doing a 100M sprint.

I lift for the boys

WHY DO YOU NIGGERS NOT REALIZE THAT IF YOU'RE PAST THE AGE OF 19-20 IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU'RE DOING BETTER IN TERMS OF SELF IMPROVEMENT AS A DUDE, IT DOESN'T GET BETTER
EITHER FIND A GIRL IN HIGH SCHOOL WHERE NOTHING MATTERS OR GET RICH AFTER HIGH SCHOOL WHERE ONLY MONEY MATTERS

>sterilize himself
>takes MANY years off his lifespan
>lowers iq(yes, test does do that)


I wonder why she doesnt like him

>>76580802
>this is what r9k posters actually believe

>>76579563
i thought all guys did this innately. then i find out some of them are out there doting on only one who they don't even attempt to talk to. christ

>>76579555 (OP)
Women don't want to put up with the mood swings, leaking gyno nipples, impotency and all the other high maintenance crap that comes with being a roid troon

>>76579563
bro i cant even talk to one woman

>>76579555 (OP)
He's a bitch

>>76580675
You created an imaginary scenario to justify why you're a 0 pussy getta.
And you whole a whole bunch so you definitely care.
Go outside and talk to a woman who is as ugly as you. They are just people bro.

>>76580802
>GET RICH AFTER HIGH SCHOOL WHERE ONLY MONEY MATTERS
So she can leave me if I go broke or don't buy her enough shit

>>76580856
>Theyre calling it autism. Me? I call it what it is. Being a faggot.

>>76580856
ever heard of falling in love? sadly men can , women cant

>>76579555 (OP)
I kind of see health and lifting as the bottom of the pyramid of success. It's not even a footstool, it's a single foundational brick.

>>76580901
>just go for your looksmatch bro

>>76579555 (OP)
You don't. Muscles are just a slight enhancement. It alone won't make you a pussy-magnet regardless of what people might tell you to make you feel better.

>>76579555 (OP)

By not simping, being confident and sociable, and having. He could probably be going to bodybuilding/ networking events and getting modelling contracts too, that is a great way to meet people.

>>76580617
Just look at the dude in the OP and tell me that this line of thinking is wrong, kek. Mine is psychologically broken because everything is centered around getting a girl.

>>76579555 (OP)
It's one of these threads

>>76580675
making up a fake strory in your head to get mad at

something tells me youre a conservative

>>76579586
Socializing is learned and optimized by the age of 3. Miss that window and no amount of pickup tricks will save you.

>>76579555 (OP)
Never roidtroon. Only a mentally ill girl is attracted to a mentally ill body dysmorphic man.

>>76579555 (OP)
he's enhanced so he probably has something else wrong with him that caused the relationship to fail.

>>76579650
What if i'm attracted only to muscle mummies?

>>76581683
>on 1 mode
>not satisfied with my body

>>76579555 (OP)
Imagine a bodybuilder of all people saying someone isn’t rich, you participate in the worst possible lifestyle to make any money. Past a certain point, extra muscle is a meme. Why would a woman want a junkie with bigger body insecurities than herself? Gamers get more pussy, you can get more pussy playing D & D than bodybuilding. Muscle fetishists are almost exclusively homos and weird hoes.

>>76581711
closet homo

>>76579555 (OP)
Getting huge for women who aren't personally into fitness doesn't work like with any hobby, from personal experience women are way more likely to notice you simply having abs over your arm size, it's the same with say music as an example, if you find a girl who plays an instrument sure she can appreciate an intricate solo or why a song using a different time signature is cool, but to the average person you being able to strum a simple 3 chord song and maybe sing while playing it is all they need to be impressed

>>76581266
>>76580675

>>76581794
Don't care. I know i can't be satisfied with a non buff women and i will sculp my body (not like a roid monkey) to attract people who care about their physique.

The subtext of being that jacked is that you're massively insecure. Even if you put on the whole performance and swagger around convincingly, most people immediately associate you with crippling insecurity and self esteem issues because of course that's the motivation to become so ridiculously huge.
It's not attractive at all but to a very slim minority of similarly fucked up women.
Muscle and strength are very attractive qualities but when it's apparent that it is an unhealthy obsession it subtracts from your sexual appeal it doesn't enhance it.
For the purposes of being attractive you never need steroids. All you need to do is cultivate as much natty mass as you can, in proportion and maintain a healthy level of bodyfat 12-15%.
Give special attention to your neck, forearms, traps and shoulders. Nice arms also look very good in a well fitted t-shirt.
If your physique looks like you spend all day working out and/or inject exogenous hormones into your ass cheeks then you've gone too far.
Honestly, in my experience, the dadbod is more or less it for being most attractive to the most women. A build that signifies strength and vitality but also that you have resources aplenty hits the sweet spot. Broad shoulders, muscled arms and a thick/yoked back... Being a bit leaner is a personal preference and having abs is nice.