Thread 76714311

I went to my college gym today and a guy I know from one of my classes was there, when he saw me he walked over to me, said “hey man,” and started a conversation about class before he went back to working out, then when he finished his workout before me he walked back over to me and gave me a fist bump before leaving.

Another time a few days ago when I was there a girl from my class saw me in the gym and waved at me and started a conversation about what I was going to do over break before we went back to our workouts.

Is this just considered common courtesy at the gym? Where if you see someone you know you have to walk over and talk to them or else you’re being rude? Or do you think these people might consider me their friends even though we haven’t really talked much? What should I do if I see someone I know in the gym?

>>76714311 (OP)
It's called normal social interaction.

>>76714318
>>76714318
>normals
gtfo my board

>>76714318
How does it sound like I did?

And how do I act when I’m working out next to someone I know? For example the guy worked out on the bench right next to mine after we talked, do I have to keep looking at him and like nod when we make eye contact, or was our interaction done and it would be weird if I treated him like any other person at the gym after that?

>>76714334
>How does it sound like I did?
you did well op
>For example the guy worked out on the bench right next to mine after we talked, do I have to keep looking at him and like nod when we make eye contact, or was our interaction done and it would be weird if I treated him like any other person at the gym after that?
lmao

>>76714334
>he didn't keep constant eye contact
It's over

>>76714311 (OP)
Hello fellow autistic, yes these are normal interactions and normoids look forward to these stupid moments. A few thing to note
>they will find it weird if you ignore them
>these small interactions can lead to getting laid
>you should smile when you see them now

>>76714382
Ignore them how? Like I should be the one to take the initiative to greet them in the future? Or do you just mean I shouldn’t brush them off if they try to greet me in the future?

And how does casual conversation about class and working out and break plans stack to me getting laid?

>>76714382
>>these small interactions can lead to getting laid
How? Most normoloids have their own friends groups and keep most other people at an arm’s length, and bitches are rarely talkative.

What makes me sad about /fit/ is that there's no joy when people want to connect with them.
They just see it as hostile.
That makes me really sad because I've lived that way my whole life, just getting scared when people talk to me bc I was abused growing up. But since I've done some personal growth and self work I've started feeling better when talking to people, and it's amazing, it opens a whole new world.
I hope my fellow anons can open their eyes to the beauty and infinite universes of life there are on the daily. I'm romanticizing it a little, but, damn, the feelings you get from talking to a girl and she's smiling at you... it's heaven, guys. It's a gorgeous feeling. I want you all to experience it. I want you all to be healed.
BE HEALED

>>76714562
How do you think normaloids make those friends anon?

>>76714776
They’re on the same npc wavelength so just magically insert themselves in a random convo and become friends overnight. At least from what I’ve observed.

>>76714311 (OP)
you now have more than one shared space/activity so you are familiar with those people
the fact that they wanted to strike up a conversation means they automatically like you and would like to see if their instinct bears some truth
they are seeing if you are kind/interesting/valuable etc.
this is very normal human behavior and shouldn't be analyzed like this, just let it happen

>>76714584
Me personally I was bullied a lot growing up, so it’s a natural instinct. Blame society

>>76714883
>I was bullied a lot growing up
stop being a whiny little bitch

>>76714497
make eye contact, smile, wave, ask how they're doing, ask what they're training that day, maybe recall a memory from class and offer a judgment or observation if you think it to be humorous, entertaining or relevant
if you ever feel awkward just say "woops, my rest periods done gotta hit this set"
and don't try to seek eye contact constantly but if it randomly happens just give a little nod or something
if you see them doing a good lift you can compliment them on their effort, they will like this
if you ask questions about them they will like that, ask them what their routine is or if they track calories or anything like that
be casual about it and if they don't know what they're talking about you can just brush it off and laugh and say you're a bit obsessive or autistic about that stuff

>>76714584
Nigga we're autistic not terminally ill

>>76714311 (OP)
I hate virgins so much it's unreal

>>76715690
wtf what did we ever do to you?

>>76714896
Shut up cunt

>>76714898
So how does all this monkey performance help him get laid?

>>76716312
This

>>76714311 (OP)
>oh hey i remember you from class
>if i act weird during this interaction, im a little autistic and dont have many friends
>if you need a spotter or you ever wanna work out together let me know
>im usually listening to music and not paying attention around me, sorry for not saying hello earlier i wasn't being rude on purpose

put this on index cards and pull them out if you forget next time this happens. be careful i accidentally got married this way and i have children and a mortgage now.

>>76717003
>i accidentally got married this way and i have children and a mortgage now.
You’re a normie npc. Stop acting like you’re autistic for attention.

>>76717034
How do I stop being a playable character and become an NPC too?

>>76717141
You can’t. You were born with the slave genome, but at least that makes you more relatable to holes so you get a wife easy.

>>76716312
>>76716993
I never said anything about getting laid, I'm just talking about having normal interactions and not being considered a social freak by your peers
But also getting laid is a matter of the girl feeling comfortable, trusting and attracted enough; all which result from her seeing how you interact with her, others and the world, so it's all related, it's just the first step
if you can't even have a normal interaction with a guy from class how can you have the special kind of interactions with a girl that will eventually lead to her letting you put your pp in her vv??

>>76717196
Here >>76714382
>>these small interactions can lead to getting laid

>>76717217
Owned that fraud

>>76717217
I didn't make that post
but if you are too autistic to figure out how small interactions can lead to getting laid then you should just give up right now and get the idea out of your head
sex is not for you, never was, never will be, forget about it, a chaste life can be just as rewarding
sex and love creates complications and negative emotions as well
the ultimate state is to be perfectly content however you are, as you are
rejoice in the simplicity of being alone

>>76717767
Kill yourself retard

>>76714311 (OP)
Ya just flow with it bro. A good rule is that if someone reaches out to you they like you (as like a friend or acquaintance), and just be the easy to talk to guy. If she wants more she'll let u know. Just talk to the guy about lifting or quick bantz joke here and there . Maybe u'll se ehim at a party and have a quick convo as i talk about girls. They have no idea how weird u are until they spend alot of time with you, they are normies after all

>>76717794
did i hit a sore spot? sorry about that, was trying to be pragmatic and offer workable solutions

>>76714318
>This kills the /fit/

>>76714311 (OP)
you're not friends yet but there's potential. they're being friendly because they've noticed you and you guys have a shared hobby. talk to them x failure, friends are what make life worth it

>>76714318
fpbp

>>76716312
gotta talk to people to get laid. even if the girls aren't interested themselves they've got friends. getting in good with a woman platonically opens more doors than you can imagine. all of my best gfs were friends of friends and it was entirely because their friend talked me up to them

>>76717217
99% of life is small interactions, anon. it's just people walking into rooms and saying things

>>76717867
it also takes a courage to reach out to a new person and one should respect that with a proper response. they took the time to reach out when it was entirely optional and it's kind of rude to brush them off

I always go in with an oversized hoodie, a cap and over ear headphones not even playing any music, literally just wear them so no one ever talks to me. Strategically go to the gym only when I know I can do all my sets without anyone in the way. Always either staring at the ground or thousand yard autism stare in the distance never making eye contact with a single soul.

8 years in the gym never spoke a single word with anyone

>>76718627
what exercise is that?

the "roid" one?

>>76714311 (OP)
I get these, but with men exclusively. One of my newer friends was like "you're a handsome dude, how come you don't have a gf?". It's probably just in my head, but I feel like women don't want to be my friend. Am I supposed to initiate? I don't really want to initiate.

>>76714311 (OP)
No you don't have to go over. You could give a nod or little wave same as if you see them anywhere. Sometimes it might not be cool to go over, for example if someone never approaches you that is obviously a hint the other way.

Jesus christ we really are in kindergarten levels of social interaction here.

>>76718400
Stop acting like a smartass if you can’t even argue your points, retard
>>76718422
Is there any alternative to this shit as an autist who hates social interaction and only engages with it as a necessary evil? Without paying ofc
>>76718425
Yet everytime I did that I never got laid. Normies live on tutorial mode

>>76714311 (OP)
I think people assume im a drug dealer because i smell like weed and liquor and hang out there all day because my gaming pc is broke.

>>76719472
You sound like a loser anon, ngl

Take a shower

>>76719440
>my life is like a video game
lmao, your poor father

>>76714584
fuck you, this is terrible advice
normies will spit you out the second they find out you aren't like them once you fail their shit-test
if they keep you around it's to make fun of you and treat you like a joke

>>76720782
Imaging scenarios in your head again, anon?

>>76720944
im talking from experience dipshit

>>76721052
Past mental illness episodes maybe

>>76714898
I am grateful that you explained that so clearly and with pertinent real world examples. the world is better because of people like you.

>>76714311 (OP)
I missed the train. I turned 21 and I'm a virgin with no friends. There's really no point for me to even bother trying at this point. I'm working full time in a factory, I regularly have days in a row I don't even see a single girl.
Seriously considering going into underwater welding or alaskan fishing. Just something I can occupy all my time with and hopefully die "accidentally".

>>76722333
You have a few years before it gets way worse, don't waste them.

>>76719472
You sound like a based schizo dude, dont shower

>>76714584
you talk like a fag

>>76719440
>Stop acting like a smartass if you can’t even argue your points, retard
what is the argument against some seething autist telling me to kill myself?
I didn't even know there were any points to argue, I'm laying out my experiences and observations, having had sex with over 20 women as an adhd mild-spectrum neet

>>76721605
thank you, the other guy told me to kill myself
I am trying to be helpful because I know it isn't easy even having small social interactions and it's best to be prepared and to know what to expect and to know what others expect as well

>>76719440
>Is there any alternative to this shit as an autist who hates social interaction and only engages with it as a necessary evil? Without paying ofc
Sex is a social interaction with one person on the most intimate and exposed level, stripped of words and culture, just two humans having the most basic and primal social interaction, just as our ancestors did. If you "hate social interactions" then do not seek out sex. If you wish to just masturbate inside a woman without a connection then pay for it. If you want to have a genuine sexual connection then you must be willing to first have surface level and basic interactions with the girl and then chemistry can be created and privacy can be found and perhaps nature will take over, clothes will come off, bodies will press against etc. Social interactions with guys are 10x easier than with girls, so think of that as experience points to help you level up to get to the point where you can be comfortable having a social interaction with a girl that gradually deepens in intimacy and vulnerability until she feels she can trust you enough to give herself to you. But first stop being so hateful and judgmental, no girl wants to give herself to a hateful prick.

>>76722333
21 is nothing, i lost my virginity at 24 and finally manned-up and got my shit togheter after 26.

>>76724059 yeah I saw that lol. Man youre golden. The other dude reminds me of that quote, "There's something about that guy that I don't like about me." giving examples of what others expect is where you really helped me out. I appreciate it.

>>76714311 (OP)
sounds very American to me. I would acknowledge someone I know but we're talking for 60 seconds max

>hows it going?
>yeah not bad
>what you doin today?
>back. you?
>chest
>yeah looks like you need it
>haha
>right talk to you later
>*puts earphones back in*

>>76724059
I second the appreciation. Play-by-plays of expectations in situations are so helpful.

>>76724424
True. I visited Europe once and if you smile at a europoor or hold the door open for them they look at you like you asked if you could blend their first born. I imagine the smiling is such a shock because my teeth aren’t rotting out of my mouth like all of yours are. Very weird continent but it’s fun to visit

>>76714562
>tells a story about a "bitch" waving and talking to him at the gym
>goes on to say "bitches are rarely talkative" in the exact same thread

>>76724424
>yeah looks like you need it

Dont care about your shitty banter, would bash you in the face if you insulted me like this.

>>76714311 (OP)
Do people actually approach others in the gym?
I guess guys would compliment other guys if they lift a lot more than what they look like they could.

>>76724960
some of the nice body builders at my gym will compliment you as encouragement when you're new. they dont offer or say anything else so it's not a high stakes interaction. it does give a positive feeling even to the grumpiest introvert

>>76714311 (OP)
What's up with these frogs with shit on their head images?

To any college students ITT, rush a frat

>>76714311 (OP)
it's common if it's the first time they see you in the gym outside of class.
otherwise if you see them on a consistent basis the small talk will eventually just turn to simple gestures of acknowledgement.

>>76716312
I want to have sex with women. I want to twist their nipples, touch their tits, suck on them, put fingers in their mouths, slap their asses, slap their face, pull their hair, tease them with penis touching vagina but not entering, enter their pussies and fuck them, cum inside their pussies, cum on their pussies, cum on their faces and tummies and asses. Lick their thighs, lick their pussies, lick their faces, suck their toes, suck their fingers, make them suck my cock, kiss my cock, put my fingers in their pussies and fuck them, make them walk like pets and I am their owner, cum on their tits, sniff their hair, sniff their pussies and asses and feet, tie them and fuck them, impregnate them, tell how beautiful they are, how I love them, call them a whore, slut, bitch, comfort them, hug them, kiss them everywhere, talk to them, hold hands with them, kiss with them, make them submit, make them open up, protect them, fuck them everywhere, give them orgasms, do whatever I want with them and so much more.
This is why I will become strong. I will have sex with women.

>>76714311 (OP)
Why is it that its only guys that want to talk to me more now this is weird. I would even prefer a weiner girl to this bullshit.

>>76725722
This is you anon? Post your routine

>>76720676
How to successmax then? I wanna start being the life of the party at the gym hey whats up johnson lovely day, lookin good jeff you out on some weight hell yeah, hey mike we still playin pool tonight, etc.

All friends would do is syphon my small supply of drugs which is already not anywhere near enough. If anything i should start a diet and become more approachable so i can make some real money because im just not good enough at anything to sustain my lifestyle.

>>76723854
I am 100% sure people look at me to see if im looking to sell them drugs. Go learn to use a computer its called the dark web im not about to be a 5000 dollar boost to your salary because you supposedly wanna party.

>>76725643
My school doesn't have frats

>>76725775
Old townies and underage kids go to parties, stem students are way cooler. You dont want a felony before you graduate.

>>76725775
Like for real try getting hired by benedict cumberpatch once youre jacked and didnt get kod by thadulous at a party.

>>76725775
then join a sports team