Thread 76738933

Did women start treating you differently after you got fit?

>>76738933 (OP)
Veronika didn't deserve that man :(

>>76738933 (OP)
yeah rape became easier they were more compliant

>>76738933 (OP)
Getting fit does not mean getting big
I don't look like I lift when I wear clothes so no

>>76738933 (OP)
No. I always had a above average body, even before lifting

>>76738955
What does fit mean then?

>>76738963
not many people would agree, and men don’t benefit from being butterfaces

>>76738933 (OP)
who is this mädchen

>>76738933 (OP)
Yes, it was subtle though. I think part of it comes from my increased confidence.
>>76738955
Not true, if you have well developed shoulders, chest, and arms it will be apparent even with a shirt on.

>>76738933 (OP)
>Attention from women dried up age 20 when I stopped being a fun scrawny teenager
>Ceased to exist to them until age 30 when I started to lift
>Got eye fucked in an elevator after a few months training
>Get down to 12% bodyfat and big definition in chest and shoulders, arms
>Mired by teenagers, felt like the only shredded guy in my city during covid
>Spam back, get Bruce Lee wide like a slice of pizza by 33
>Mid 30s hags are a bit nervous around me
>Promoted at work to manager class
>Suddenly every 30-something woman in my life flies at me like my dick is a fridge magnet
>Everything I say is hilarious and charming
>Everything I do is totally understandable, anyone who disagrees is treated with disgust like a manchild wearing a Marvel-branded colostomy bag

I'm gonna be controversial and say that unthinking, unilateral adoration of women teetering on the edge of permanent expiry, feels way better to me than fleeting acceptance from 19 year old snizz, much as I want the latter on my face

>>76738933 (OP)
yes

>>76739330
attracting 30 something year old women is crazy hard

>>76738973
Disagree. I would much rather have my body and my face, than a chad face and a regular chad body.

My face looks jewy like Adam Driver, but from the jaw downward I'm a priceless concept supercar, and I would not give that up for anything.

>>76739338
30 year old women are attracted to masculine looking men so it doesn’t benefit pretty boys

>>76739036
>if you have well developed shoulders, chest, and arms it will be apparent even with a shirt on.

This. Studies show that chicks can tell you lift through a rain jacket if it's the appropriate size for you, and you have a good frame. If people genuinely can't tell, it's because your frame is slim (work your back, the zerolats look that chicks like is fine but you're fucked in winter when nobody can tell)

>>76739338
Be more masculine/rugged looking, and have a job with an important title

They will come crawling from every direction it’s insane

>>76739845
Agreed, I'm
>>76739330
And should have made it more clear, being 10% year round is fine but nobody cares how ripped you are until you put on the manager title.
Once you accept a job like that and are in it long enough to act grown up and responsible, they go wild.
You have to be important to the tribe and capable of squeezing the life out of them, just one or the other doesn't get results.

>>76738933 (OP)
Yes, now the call me a faggot and ask me where my boyfriend's at

>>76738952
based rapechad

Everyone always talks about the night and day difference from women when they lose weight, but what about guys who go from average/thin to /fit/?

If I just have a normal, healthy physique (not too fat, not too muscular, not too skinny), will I get treated any better once I get /fit/?

>>76739338
It's counter intuitive, and I never thought it'd be the case, but it's true as a 31yr oldfag
>18-22 year olds are feminine, receptive to approaches, have a high chance at giving their digits
>get BTFO from girls my own age

>>76738933 (OP)
YES THE ANSWER IS ALWAYS YES WHY KEEP MAKING THIS THREAD WE NEVER TELL YOU NO YOU FUCKING RETARDED FAGGOT

>>76738933 (OP)
yeah
and after being fat and/or skinny for years it was disgusting how I went from bug to person in their eyes after just six months of heavy barbell training and eating
but I'm 6'2 and normal looking so ymmv

>>76740016
Been skinny and small is treated with contempt, almost as much as being fat. Ive seen women straight diss even 6’5 guys for being rail thin.

>>76740032
>>76739845
exactly. i lack the masculine look so i don’t benefit from dating women my age

>>76738955
what's the point then

>>76740016
Depends on your idea of fit? Being fit is generally well above average. Once u get out of skinny fat / lanklet territory, the mires come quick.

All you really need are solid shoulders and traps with no noodle arms or chicken legs.

>>76738933 (OP)
I was a victim weight scrawny ass little nigga with zero confidence and arms reminiscent of twigs until the age 20.
I'm now 21.and after a few months of training:
>My body looks like that of the average guy
>I'm stronger than the average untrained man (thus more confident)
>I'm no longer invisible to women, though I don't feel desirable either
Basically I transformed from "that guy" to "a guy"

>>76740146
Look dude, I'm sorry you're so upset, but if you don't want people to call out you just blatantly making stuff up out of literally nowhere, then don't just blatantly make stuff up out of literally nowhere.

>>76739338
>>76740032
So how do you actually attract them?

>>76738973
I don't get your point?

>>76740182
working out doesn’t suddenly change your face

>>76740185
I know. Still don't get the point?

>>76738933 (OP)
>before
>ignored
>after
>still ignored
It's rough being a manlet gymcel

>>76738933 (OP)
yes
unexpectedly it made me despise them for being so shallow

>>76738933 (OP)
those rge/lupus videos were some of the canings ever.

>>76740267
is that why you’re still a virgin?

>>76740267
Tell us how you treat fat ugly women as opposed to hot babes?
Oh wait you never interacted with either so nevermind

>>76740267
Based. Ignore the retards replying to you.

>>76740309
I’m nicer to ugly women since I felt their pain. It’s called empathy

>>76738933 (OP)
Can't tell because I don't interact with any women in my daily life, or anybody at all really. I might as well quit my job sell everything and go work on an Alaskan fishing boat. I will still be an isolated autistic freak but at least I will make decent money.

>>76740322
and those fugly cows have a dozen men lined up to fuck them.
None of them were you.

>>76740328
You would be surprised, a lot just les out instead

>>76740328
That sounds more like a compliment when you put it that way

>>76738933 (OP)
dont settle

>>76740347
You're gay for me and I'm gay for you.

>>76740351
not necessarily the case, i would only consider top tier fembois and even then its an iffy if the relationship will last. im in it to win it for a hot petite asian cis woman sry gay man

>>76740368
Like pic related?

>>76740399
>File: veronika54.gif (3.55 MB, 380x300)
no more americanized alt goth trendy edgy type

>>76740016
i haven't lost all of the weight yet, but i have some muscle showing through clothing now. even as fat + beefy, I get noticeably better treatment than just fat.

>>76740285
what the FUCK is this post even saying

>>76738933 (OP)
yeah
>18-23 hardly any dates, i didn't exist in the eyes of women
>24 started lifting weights/more conscious about diet
>get more dates/hookups
>have a couple relationships
>realize most women are not wife material and stop chasing
>mainly just lift for myself now

>>76740530
should’ve tried going for hotter women

it's a night/day difference, but mostly two things did it
>getting lean (sub 15% at least)
>training decent arms/shoulders
i guess it makes sense since arms and face are the parts mostly always uncovered

>>76740153
>transformed from "that guy" to "a guy"
well good, women consider you human being now, that's a huge fucking step

>>76740693
can you relate to him?

>>76740701
yes, i went from no pussy to banging chubby chicks

>>76740701
no, i just find plapjak funny as fuck
effortlessly brings a smile to my face whenever i see one posted

>>76740135
Live a better life because you arent an out of shape unathletic faggot. Less pain slower aging feeling better generally.

>>76738966
Running a mile in under 6 minutes and being able to bench 225lbs

>>76739330
>bruce lee wide
so like a cute boy? you dont need to lift for that

In my experience no.
They start treating you different after you get rich though.

Random women now smile at me.

>>76738933 (OP)
Yeah, young ones and fat ones. The ones my age are still all cunts, though.

is being jacked/shredded sort of like having huge tits as a woman?

as in it makes you more sexually desirable in the short term and will probably get you more hookups, but doesn't make much of a difference if you want a genuine committed relationship based on love?

maybe this just sounds like cope but I can't imagine a woman honestly thinking
>this man should father my children and be my life partner because he has a six pack

>>76740087
Women it makes sense dudes is just crazy. Like were talking straight disrespect to now youve earned we can be friends.

>>76742374
Attraction is a major part of a successful relationship. No one, man or woman, will be truly happy with a partner they're not physically attracted to.
Looking good and fit for your wife will definitely help in making your relationship more successful.

>>76742402
Hoeflation is at an all time high they expect you to be able to compete with roiders in highschool/college like theyre an nfl scout.

>>76738933 (OP)
I started karate and steroids about a year ago life is great

>>76741334
Lee mogs you, fatty

>>76740324
Kino

>>76742357
>still all cunts
I think it's birth control pills that do this. It makes girls' bodies think they're pregnant, so they go from regular woman crazy to SUPER crazy.

>>76740701
The plapjak meme has prevented me from harpooning a whale who constantly asks me to hang out. I'm on a dry spell and she's the only one who shows any interest, so it's actually crazy how this art on the internet has stopped me from pulling the trigger from the dread it awakens within me.

>>76738933 (OP)
I was more popular when I was a skinny twink. Nobody gaf when I was in peak bear mode. Now I'm like 15% bf but big, and a bunch of guys want to be my friend, and tell me I'm handsome. Girls no longer gaf though.

>>76743670
I suspect this will change as I drop more bf

>>76738933 (OP)
Easier to make friends with men who ask for fitness advice, compare routines, etc... Women don't really give a shit.

You can't out-lift your autism, and I'm telling you this from experience.

>>76738933 (OP)
No idea I don't pay any attention to them.

>>76743670
>>76743671
I feel you. I get instant moonface above 15%bf and become invisible to women.

>>76743635
man this kind of makes me want to shave all my hair.... real life wojak looks cool

>>76740178
You plant your feet in front of them and ask if they wanna grab a few drinks

>>76740267
This is me. The rage within me was built over the fact that I'm still the same person I was while skinny-fat, but due to superficial changes, I'm suddenly good enough. Lifting for girls really is a monkey-paw, because you find yourself in a dissatisfied place when you finally attain what you aimed for.

>>76738933 (OP)
she cute

>>76740267
>>76744269
You're both such little babies. Of course people who work on themselves get treated better.

>>76739845
>Be more masculine/rugged lookin
i'm 29 and I can't grow facial hair and have zero wrinkles. is it over?

I went from being actively bullied by them to being completely ignored by them, but I guess I got fit around the time I finished high school so that could be part of it as well. Then again, I went from chubby to looking like a twink, but I don't have the prettyboy face to match.
There's no gym for your face or for being a socially awkward retard after all.

>>76739338
>attracting 30 something year old women is crazy hard
Theres this 27 year old bulgarian woman who looks like a high test latina who wants sex all the time and she is into me, i met her last week. Wtf should i do? She owns her own business and she is very ambitious. Help now, im 33 and the thought im 28.

>>76739036
You cant train height and frame dumbass

i havent been near a woman since december 2nd 2019

>>76740032
If you don't attract women in their 30's that means they smell the loser man child on you
Young women haven't figured out yet that the guys in their 30's chasing them are incapable of attracting women their own age for a reason

>>76746355
Not quite, I got the number of a 35 year old who cat called me (I'm 25) and she was talking about marriage in a week. She was a runner so by no means ugly or fat. She's just desperate, women in their 30's are bizarre in the they have high standards because they've fucked alot of different (hot) guys AND they are desperate to get a nest going.

I think it's only till their 40s that they realize they can't get what they want and give up ie lower their standards. Which again, I see not work because they aren't attracted sexually to the man they snag who's typically fat but stable, so they cheat on him and blow the whole thing up.

>>76746355
>If you don't attract women in their 30's
What's the point of fucking hags tho? Prime 20 year old pussy is miles better. Give me examples where 30 is better than 20 and i'll start fucking 30's tommorow

>>76746441
Older women are better at fucking and sucking. period
Older women are funnier and more knowledgeable about really anything in life.

>>76744269
bullshit. I've been on both sides of this before but it doesn't offend me in the slightest; and why should it? I am not attracted to fat girls, but if they get in shape I could be. I treat attractive strangers better than fat/ugly strangers not out of any malice to unattractive people. It's more that attractive people have or seem to have something to offer, whereas unattractive people don't, so we don't take any interest in them.

>>76738933 (OP)
Sauce

>>76739338
90% of my Tinder matches are 30-38yos with kids.
so no.

>>76746623
Eh, i kinda understand his point. I was taught to treat everyone well, and that means the 500lb fat cashier too. Being bitter that people treat you better isnt going to helping helping your present self tho.

No but I am an autistic turbomanlet so that’s probably the problem

>did women notice you becoming more attractive
You really this fucking retarded, OP?

>>76746355
I don't give a fuck what the reason is. Younger women are simply superior in looks, behavior, elegance, femininity, and style. Women my age can call me a loser, hitler, satan, demonic, whatever the fuck they want, while they buy a few new dogs, cats, and wine bottles to drown their existential dread out. They should've secured a mate when they had their youthful gifts, so should pipe down

>>76739330
how tall are you?

>>76746529
Now show me some older women who aren't whores and we might come together on this, Anon. If she's better at fucking and sucking, its because she's got practice, not because she's a prodigy.

I have noticed more reaction due to wearing a suit than I have to becoming fit. I became a healthy weight 17 years ago, no one said much. I got into the got into the gym hard and the most I ever heard was that I looked "dense" and "like you are in the military". Then I started wearing suits, due to working in a suit store, and all of a sudden everyone has a comment. Surprisingly few comments are "you look great", most are "Do you have a wedding after?" Or "this is just a phase" and even "it doesn't matter what you wear". Haters going to hate. I do notice more women's eyes running up and down me though. But that doesn't matter because I don't and won't approach... Ever. If a woman wants me, she better use her little legs and come tell me, I'm done reaching for it. Now more than ever having been divorced recently.

>>76746888
In short, yes, all women do treat me "differently". They didn't talk to me before and they don't talk to me now, but they look at me a whole lot more. I assume I'm the most gorgeous man to ever cross their path because it doesn't matter. Is it true? Almost certainly not, but since I don't talk to them and they don't talk to me, why not assume the best? I don't approach.

>>76746529
>older women are experienced whores
Brilliant observation. They’re worse looking, and have had terrible experiences that they dump unto you.

>>76746909
Same thing here, what are we to do?

>>76738933 (OP)
No, and that's fine, I do it for my health

>>76746909
>>76747395
Hahaha me too. Delusionmaxxing keeps the brain sane in an insane world.

>>76746909
>>76747395
>>76747435
Basically what you're saying is you're a coward and what you also don't understand is that 99.999% of women are 300% more of a coward than you are, the universal word used across all languages to describe a coward is "WOMAN"; and you expect them to approach you with your resting bitch face. Hilarious, you're self selecting yourself out of the gene pool because you can't talk to a fucking girl. You can probably imagine yourself going off to die in some horrible war, but can't talk to weak manlet with tits. You lose by not playing, there is no 4d chess manuever.

>>76747542
You're not wrong, but the part you're omitting is the one where you need to sift through like 10 rejections for every 1 date you score. I agree that the man has to make the moves, but its best not to give guys bad impressions when cold approaching is a bit more rough than most people expect.
>daygame will be easy because 95% of men dont have the balls to do it
I remember thinking this, but reality will humble men who think it's fishing in a barrel

>>76747597
Nowhere did I say it easy; but there's this idea that floats around that chad effortlessly has a harem tap dancing around him with him making no moves whatsoever. It's like people permanently live online and pay attention to movie stars; every guy I know that slays puts effort in by talking to alot of girls AND making the first move. The better looking you are, the easier it is and the more options, even here you see cope where "muh muscles don't do shit". It's all cope, I get treated WAAAAAAAAY better not just by girls but everyone, stores give me extra food, I get catcalled in parking lots and when i'm in the city; people respect tf outta you.

It makes me seeing guys here post the same dumb coward shit because I did the same thing. I got in WAAAY better shape, and I thought that would be enough. I fucked up so many chances with a girl cus I thought they'd put some modicum of effort; and SOME did and I still was too pussy to do anything. Regret is so much worse than being told no.

>>76744269
Putting in years of work is not a superficial change

Honestly? Worse. They always do that weird to good for me walk by thing now, before they'd at least be friendly on occasion.

>>76746355
Guys in their 30s are chasing younger women because... they are more attractive.

>>76746355
nobody is attractive (at least on paper) to 30 year old women, least of all 30 year old single mothers. woman are bizarro world when it comes to this, in that their standards are often inversely proportional to their dating market desirability.

>>76747792
you poor socially retarded anon. that means they find you intimidatingly attractive, whereas when they were openly friendly with you it was because you were a completely nonsexual being to them.

>>76738933 (OP)
Yeah I got offered coke and got laid a couple times but that was about it.

>>76742402
>No one, man or woman, will be truly happy with a partner they're not physically attracted to.
>Looking good and fit for your wife will definitely help in making your relationship more successful.
lol, this sound like a text from one those scammy instagram gym course

>>76747701
Thanks for the moto anon. In a similar boat to how you were with blowing chances right now and watching opportunities slip by. Used to have lots of balls approaching, and my kill count is high enough above average to the point where my ego could die happy, but a facemelting breakup stripped me of that vim and vigour I once had.

I've gone full circle back to my highschool pussy days and it's a tough nut to crack out of. I guess like with many things, lifting and getting shredded is the cure

>>76748109
>facemelting breakup stripped me of that vim and vigour I once had.
Have you tried not being a faggot? Get out there now.

>>76738933 (OP)
Muscle dancing with the bitches hey turn it up yo turn on something sweet

>>76747395
What are we to do? Whatever the heck I feel like.

>>76747542
>equates having a woman with winning
You really have no idea how hopeless you are.

would a woman rather date...
a fit but eternally broke guy, or a rich but eternally fat guy?

>>76748233
She'll marry the rich guy, then bounce on chad in the back of his rusted 1991 Honda civic while his finished suspension makes bolts start flying out

>>76739338
It really isn't and never has been. They're the easiest of the bunch.