If you're a man in the West, and this really makes you insecure, then you just become a passport bro. Every other guy in the West who isn't an insecure weirdo or a socially dysfunctional man child will simply man up and deal with the fact that women are women. Nothing has fundamentally changed. Women have always been this way. If you're a mature man with gainful employment, basic social skills, a circle of respectable friends, hobbies, and an interesting personality, then you really have nothing to worry about. Hoeflation is a meme. Hypergamy is no big deal, and it's grossly over exaggerated by toxic shitheads in the manosphere