What is the right distro for me

>will do html/css/js
>lua
>python
>mysql
>c
>will use spyder, VScode, and jetbrains ide
>NOT fedora
>not Mint
>NOT guh-nome
>debian based preferred
>something that just werks
>gaming isn't important, but would be nice to have

Should I just take the Ubuntu pill?

>>105834793 (OP)
https://elementary.io/

Why do people avoid Debian itself? It's the closest to just working that I've used.