>>105934997I'm leaving so here it is in a nutshell.
>FedoraYou want enhanced security, leading edge features, and an up to date desktop.
>DebianYou want a minimally changing OS, and a democratic organization and development process.
>ArchYou want a simple system, an active enthusiast community, and the very latest software.
>>105935338>>105935344It sounds like you want Arch. You just need to read ArchWiki carefully and ask any questions on its forums.